# Why Women Do Not Respect You

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[00:00] Man, y'all know who it is.
[00:01] Y'all know what it is.
[00:03] Listen, I almost didn't get on here tonight, but I'm on Game Got Goldie, the one and only on another late night, the Goldie Hour.
[00:10] Listen, uh, we going to see what y'all talking about tonight.
[00:13] You know, I'm really only uh getting on because uh I was supposed to get on last night.
[00:17] End up having some things to do and uh, you know, I got a little thing, a trip I'm going on tomorrow.
[00:23] So, you know, I still might do my lives on my trip.
[00:24] You know, definitely watch my story.
[00:25] I'm going to show you how I get down when I go out the country.
[00:28] But uh, man, let's see what y'all talking about tonight.
[00:29] You know, it's late night.
[00:31] Who we got in here right now?
[00:32] Let's see.
[00:32] Somebody said, "It's chopping season."
[00:33] Somebody said, "Almost at 100K subs."
[00:35] Hey, man.
[00:35] You know, I don't really look at numbers, man.
[00:38] You know, cuz when you look at numbers, man, you get discouraged.
[00:41] Of course, you know, what gets measured gets accomplished.
[00:43] So, you do want to have goals and things, but I'll set the goal and then I put my head down and work.
[00:48] I can remember when I had, you know, uh 100 subscribers, didn't bother me.
[00:51] I said, "I'm going just put my head down and work."
[00:54] I remember when I had 3,000 followers, I just put my head down and work.
[00:58] So, I don't really count those things.
[00:59] You know what I count?
[00:59] I count bread.
[00:59] I'm saying like they say in the
[01:01] Game, man, you don't count heads, you count bread.
[01:03] Some dudes is counting how many broads they got.
[01:05] I count how much money I got.
[01:06] I ain't counting how many subs I got, man.
[01:08] What my bank account look like because of what I'm doing.
[01:11] That's the only thing that really matter.
[01:13] You know, care if I got a million subs.
[01:14] If I ain't get no money, it don't make no difference.
[01:17] Am I getting paid every time I get a subscriber?
[01:19] Now, if I could do that, then it makes sense to me.
[01:21] But at the end of the day, man, all that matters is in my bank account, the impact I'm having.
[01:25] And every time I go outside, every message I get, every comment I get, you know, every message on Instagram, on Tik Tok, on Facebook, in my school group, they talking about, man, I'm changing lives with this game, man.
[01:35] That's that and the money keep me going.
[01:36] You know what I'm saying?
[01:38] So, but man, shout out to you.
[01:39] Yeah.
[01:39] You know, I ain't going to downplay.
[01:41] All right.
[01:41] We almost at 100.
[01:42] Should be at a million.
[01:42] But you know what?
[01:43] The world ain't ready for this game.
[01:45] You know, we got to keep it sacred to just us.
[01:47] If everybody had this game, everybody be acting the same.
[01:49] It make the world better.
[01:50] But you know what?
[01:52] It's better when everybody don't got this game.
[01:53] You know why?
[01:53] Cuz when a broad see me, when a broad see you, when a broad see a man like us with this type of information, we going to catch them every time.
[02:00] Why?
[02:00] Cuz we so different.
[02:00] We so stomped down.
[02:00] We so stand up.
[02:00] We so
[02:02] Righteous.
[02:04] We real men out here that they can't play with and they love it.
[02:06] So if everybody just had the game, what's going to be the difference between me and the last dude she was dealing with?
[02:12] You know why I hold these women so long?
[02:13] Because you know what they say compared to you?
[02:15] My last dude was a sucker.
[02:17] Every dude I mess with was a sucker.
[02:20] He let me do this.
[02:20] He let me do that.
[02:23] He lied.
[02:23] He cheated.
[02:23] He snuck around.
[02:25] He wasn't a standup man.
[02:25] He didn't require nothing.
[02:28] I'm only so great to these women because of the contrast of the fools and the suckers they dealt with.
[02:33] So, we can't give everybody the game.
[02:34] Even in the game, guess what?
[02:36] When squares came around, what they say?
[02:37] Stop talking.
[02:37] Shh.
[02:37] Don't tell them nothing.
[02:39] Otherwise, these squares going to be saying all our same [ __ ] and then the broad ain't going to know who is who.
[02:43] On another note, share, subscribe, like, so I could get bigger around here.
[02:46] You must get colder.
[02:48] That's what tonight is about.
[02:51] Oh, you think you cold.
[02:53] You ain't cold.
[02:53] You faking like you cold.
[02:55] Yeah.
[02:55] Yeah.
[02:55] Yeah.
[02:58] You ain't really cold.
[02:58] Cuz you care too much.
[03:00] You care about her over over how you feel.
[03:05] Steady arguing with the broad.
[03:07] You a fool.
[03:10] You're the damnest fool in the world.
[03:10] You're insane.
[03:12] Insanity.
[03:12] The definition of insanity.
[03:15] Doing the same thing over and over expecting a different result.
[03:19] You getting mad at the sun rising every day and you know this is true.
[03:23] Hey man, that broad did the same thing today that pissed you off that she did last week, that she did a month before that, that she did the week before that, that she did ever since she met you every other week and you still getting beside yourself as if that's not who you with.
[03:35] Insanity.
[03:37] You're not cold enough.
[03:39] And when I say cold, what does that mean?
[03:40] Getting cold as the icy Himalayas is the only thing that you could do to a woman is consequences.
[03:44] And I'm not saying anything physical.
[03:45] What I'm saying is your absence.
[03:47] You ain't willing to walk away.
[03:49] That's why you have no leverage.
[03:51] She done acted the part so long when she got with you.
[03:54] She was perfect, right?
[03:55] Did everything you like, nothing you didn't.
[03:57] Rubbed your back and called your daddy and did everything right because she knew she didn't have you hooked yet.
[04:04] Don't got you hooked, you can walk away at any time.
[04:07] So she got to be on her P's and Q's.
[04:10] 2 3 months go by, she's in your routine.
[04:13] You're used to her being there.
[04:14] You've integrated her into your life.
[04:16] You're used to talking to her on a regular basis.
[04:18] She like, "Gotcha."
[04:20] Then that mask come off, right?
[04:22] And then she start doing the things that you told her she can't do.
[04:23] And when she doesn't, what do you do?
[04:25] You don't walk away.
[04:27] And she knows that.
[04:29] And because you don't walk away, she continues.
[04:30] And because she could get an attitude and do this and do that, you give it a little bit of time and still have sex with her that night and, you know, still deal with her again.
[04:38] There's no incentive for her to change.
[04:40] She got you.
[04:42] You have to always be willing to walk away.
[04:44] And if you're not, she always got you when you have no leverage.
[04:46] And the reason the relationship ain't the way it used to be is cuz you're not willing to walk away.
[04:49] And she knows that.
[04:50] You got to get colder.
[04:52] You ain't as cold as you think you is.
[04:54] I'm going to Cosmoelle next week.
[04:55] Hey man, shout out to you, man.
[04:57] Live life.
[04:59] Hey, man.
[05:01] Life is about exploration.
[05:03] Life is about adventure.
[04:04] To me, you know, I don't care how much money you got.
[05:03] If you're staying in the same place and same city, my one of my
[05:05] Favorite quotes in life, it's a Jim R quote.
[05:07] He said, "I would rather live 10 years of adventure than a hundred years huddled in a corner."
[05:16] And so I took that to heart when I heard it as a young child.
[05:20] And I would rather live 10 years of adventure than a hundred years huddled in a corner.
[05:25] Y'all don't really know my life before I was even online.
[05:27] The things that you see me do, one, that's only half of the things I actually do.
[05:32] And I've been living like this for the past 10, 15, 20 years.
[05:37] Traveling the world, Vegas, Thailand, Dubai, uh, Mexico, DR, this, that, and the third with women doing this, doing that.
[05:46] I've been living a movie my whole life.
[05:48] I done live, and that's why people think I'm older than I am.
[05:50] I done live more life than most people 50 because I promise myself if this is the only life I get, I'm going to live it to the fullest.
[05:56] I'm going to experience.
[06:00] I'm going to have adventure.
[06:01] That's what life's about.
[06:03] Out here at the club spending $5, $6,000 in a weekend.
[06:07] can go out the country and see something new, see something different, meet some different women, have different experiences, take your family, your kids somewhere different.
[06:16] That's why I move up.
[06:16] I pack my bags.
[06:17] Hey, you know what?
[06:17] This city didn't did enough for me.
[06:19] I'm going to the next city.
[06:22] And there's some of y'all that done been in your same city for the past 10, 15, 20, 30 years.
[06:29] And I'm not judging you, but I could never and would never in this big old world that we got in this big old world that we got.
[06:36] And you've stayed in the same place most of your entire life.
[06:41] Could never be me.
[06:41] I ain't judging you.
[06:43] Live how you want to live.
[06:45] It's the universe.
[06:45] God put something different inside of me.
[06:46] I can't do it though.
[06:47] Somebody said, "I notice she's on program, but I be having to check a little more than I would like to, but she corrects it immediately.
[06:54] I'm conflicted."
[06:56] It's cuz it's a lie.
[06:58] Look at that broad for exactly who she is.
[07:00] Hey man, so all right, let me let me give you an example.
[07:01] Uh your boss, let's say you have a mentor.
[07:03] Let's say you have a big brother.
[07:05] Let's say you have a father or a father figure or somebody you really
[07:09] Respected, right?
[07:11] If they tell you, "Don't talk to me like that. I I don't really feel that."
[07:15] Not no disrespect way, but say you out of pocket.
[07:16] You say something out of pocket and they like, "Hey man, you know, I don't play like that."
[07:20] You know, like some people like, "Hey, some dudes call other dudes."
[07:23] It's just different culture for me.
[07:25] It ain't never been like, "Bro, we don't we don't play like that, you know. Don't nah."
[07:28] Hey, bro.
[07:30] And maybe that's how your lingo where you come from, but that's disrespectful.
[07:33] Well, don't don't don't talk to me like that, right?
[07:35] You ain't going to have to tell that man again if he respects you.
[07:38] So, if you got to repeatedly tell your woman something to stop doing that you don't like, what is it?
[07:43] She don't respect you.
[07:45] It's really that simple.
[07:46] And you have to look at things as they are, not as you want them to be.
[07:48] And you're trying to justify it.
[07:50] Why?
[07:52] Cuz what I say, you're not cold enough.
[07:55] If you tell a woman, "Don't do this. This is disrespectful to me. I don't like it."
[07:59] It makes me uncomfortable.
[08:01] And you have to regularly remind and check that same thing.
[08:03] The only thing it is is she does not respect you.
[08:08] Do you think if Chris Brown, Drake, or somebody that she hold held in high
[08:09] Esteem, do you think if the president, whether it's Obama, whether it's Trump, whether it's her boss, whether it's somebody she held or saw in high esteem, told her not to do something?
[08:21] Do you think they would have to check it again?
[08:23] No, they wouldn't.
[08:26] She don't respect you for whatever reason.
[08:28] The dynamic is off.
[08:30] So instead of saying, "Ah, well, I'm dealing with this.
[08:32] Just understand and feel so disrespected.
[08:34] Damn, this broad really don't respect me."
[08:36] That's all it is.
[08:38] And it's nothing to knock you.
[08:39] I'm not trying to knock you.
[08:41] What I'm saying is you need to feel that disrespected about it and say if it was somebody else, she wouldn't do that.
[08:45] She doing it to me.
[08:47] Why?
[08:49] Cuz she don't respect me.
[08:51] And so if somebody doesn't respect you, you have to respect yourself enough to leave the situation.
[08:52] And that's why she don't respect you.
[08:55] Cuz she disrespects you on a regular basis and you don't respect yourself enough to leave.
[08:59] And if you don't respect yourself enough to leave, why the should she respect you?
[09:02] She shouldn't.
[09:04] You don't even respect your
[09:06] She doing everything that you tell her not to do.
[09:08] Oh, and she correct it every time.
[09:08] She don't need to correct it.
[09:09] cuz she already know what not to do.
[09:11] She just doing that's the act.
[09:12] All right, I'm going just tell this sorry and he going he going, "All right, sorry."
[09:17] That's what it is.
[09:18] She know exactly what she doing.
[09:20] She don't respect you enough not to do it.
[09:22] And she don't respect you enough not to do it cuz you don't respect yourself to walk out that door when she do it.
[09:27] It's what I said, babe.
[09:29] Man, you got to get colder.
[09:29] And you have to feel the disrespect from when they do those little things.
[09:33] It's not a little thing.
[09:33] It's it's a big thing.
[09:35] I told you I don't like when you do this and you continue to do it.
[09:40] So in your mind, you're essentially saying, "I don't give a damn what he don't like.
[09:41] I'mma do it anyway cuz all I got to say is sorry to him and he going to let it go and I'mma do it again tomorrow cuz he ain't going to go nowhere cuz he don't even respect himself enough to walk out that door."
[09:54] This is how they think.
[09:58] You should start to feel highly disrespected when these things happen and make it a bigger deal than it is.
[10:02] I got something I want you to react to.
[10:04] DJ Academics getting broke by Daffhne Joy.
[10:07] Would love your reaction.
[10:09] I think I seen it.
[10:09] Ain't no reaction.
[10:11] to that.
[10:13] I mean, I know a lot of dudes whose tricks, man.
[10:15] You know, hey man, he got the bag.
[10:16] He want spin it on her.
[10:18] Hey, man.
[10:18] Do what you do.
[10:19] I don't, I don't, I don't care what another man do.
[10:21] You know what I'm saying?
[10:25] The only thing I would say is uh this tricking culture by a lot of these streamers is going to influence a lot of younger dudes down the wrong path.
[10:32] That's never going to be beneficial for him.
[10:35] So, but if that's what he want to do, man, he a grown man.
[10:38] You want to trick your money off on a broad cuz she says some nice words to you.
[10:41] Damn.
[10:41] Just, just let everybody know they can send a at you because you going for whatever.
[10:45] And maybe he ain't tripping.
[10:46] Some got the bag.
[10:48] Like, man, yeah, that's what I do.
[10:50] I mean, I ain't got nothing wrong to say about it, bro.
[10:51] At the end of the day, it's, it's tricks in this world and there's players in this world.
[10:54] Everybody got their space in the world and you got to have both.
[10:58] You know, you got to have both.
[11:00] That's how you living.
[11:01] It ain't got nothing to do with me.
[11:02] That ain't how I'm living.
[11:02] You know what I'm saying?
[11:05] Do what you does.
[11:05] Hey, man.
[11:07] It's tricks, players, hoes, pimps, his maxes.
[11:09] Everybody got a position to play in life.
[11:11] And I ain't mad what you, what you choose.
[11:11] You know,
[11:13] I know how I'm living though.
[11:14] And see that be the difference.
[11:16] Some of you, man, mad when another person don't live like you.
[11:22] It's some tricks mad at the player.
[11:23] You know what I'm saying?
[11:23] It's some players don't like the trick.
[11:25] I don't feel like none of that's right.
[11:26] What I feel like is, hey man, you a man in your own sphere.
[11:28] Live however you feel like you want to live.
[11:31] How you live don't affect me.
[11:36] I ain't mad at the trick.
[11:36] I ain't mad at you for doing what you want to do.
[11:39] Just don't be mad at me for doing what I want to do.
[11:41] You feel what I'm saying?
[11:43] A lot of people mad at me for living how I want to live.
[11:44] How you mad at me?
[11:44] I ain't mad at you.
[11:46] I'm happy with how I'm living and everybody around here accept it.
[11:48] So why you mad at me?
[11:52] That's all I'm saying.
[11:52] Hey, more for me.
[11:54] Hey, this how I feel like the more you trick off, the bigger I seem to the right woman.
[11:58] Cuz the contrast I look way greater in a woman's eyes when she done dealt with a trick.
[12:03] Why?
[12:03] Cuz now the contrast between me and them.
[12:06] I'm now I'm special when everybody in the club trying to trick off on you and call you beautiful and chase you down and and and cat call you and I'm
[12:13] Just sitting back chilling waiting to get cho.
[12:15] Now the bro look at me like, damn, who is this?
[12:17] What?
[12:19] Why?
[12:19] You know, so I like to feed off everybody else doing what they do.
[12:23] And I like to be one of the few ones doing how I'm doing.
[12:25] You get what I'm saying?
[12:27] So, like I said earlier, man, if everybody was like me, then it wouldn't be special.
[12:30] It's only special when a broad meet cuz she ain't never met nobody like me.
[12:33] And it's intriguing.
[12:35] So, the more you [ __ ] trick off, don't make no difference to me.
[12:37] I'mma still catch who I'm supposed to catch.
[12:39] Somebody said, "Put my hands on my girl.
[12:42] She filed a report.
[12:42] Now, what would you do to bounce back?
[12:44] She ain't dealing with me now."
[12:47] Uh well, you know, hindsight is 2020.
[12:50] Uh uh what they say, a ounce of prevention is worth more than a pound of cure.
[12:54] And a pound of cures, if you ever watch my video, you never put your hands on a woman.
[12:58] Unless you absolutely have, you know what I'm saying?
[13:01] Unless you absolutely have to trying to really And you got to you know what I'm saying?
[13:05] You got to let me stop cancel me.
[13:07] But unless you have to.
[13:09] But that's why I say all the time, right?
[13:09] You know how to make sure you never put your hands on a woman is you cut a woman.
[13:14] Off the first time she ever raises your temperature.
[13:16] The first time she ever raises her voice at you.
[13:17] The first time she ever gets an attitude in a way that got you feeling that feeling in your spine when you know when you getting hot.
[13:25] The first time you ever feel that with a woman, you stop dealing with her.
[13:28] If you keep dealing with a woman, you know where it's going to continue to go.
[13:31] And that's what I know.
[13:33] Told you I had an uncle one time.
[13:34] He used to say, "Bring a woman in your house when you first meet her.
[13:35] Tell her to cook something.
[13:36] If she suck her teeth, tell her to get out.
[13:38] Don't never come back.
[13:39] Because he understood what I only now understand is everything gets worse with in due time.
[13:44] It don't get better.
[13:46] Oh, it don't never get better.
[13:48] Oh, that situation with your you.
[13:51] It only get worse.
[13:53] So, you have to extrapolate her sucking her teeth to one day her calling the police on you.
[13:57] You know what I'm saying?
[13:59] So, when you dealing with a woman and she's out of pocket in any type of minor way, understand it's going to get to that.
[14:03] So if she start getting an attitude, if she start sucking her teeth, if she start saying little things, you know, in due time, it might get to some domestic stuff.
[14:13] And because I ain't never going to put myself in that trick.
[14:14] Trick bag, guess what?
[14:16] The moment you start doing that stuff, you got to go, cuz I already know where it's going to get to in due time.
[14:20] And you ain't going to put me in that trick bag, cuz you the damnedest fool in the world if you going to jail for putting your hand on a woman.
[14:26] When everybody in jail telling they jail war stories, you know how stupid you feel when you got to make up a lie, cuz you don't want to tell nobody you in there cuz you beat your broad up.
[14:33] It's foolish.
[14:35] You know, it's foolish and you should be embarrassed about yourself.
[14:37] But, you know, guess what?
[14:39] Everybody ain't get this game.
[14:40] You know what I'm saying?
[14:42] Uh, you got to go through it to get to it.
[14:44] So, it's like she's got to move on.
[14:45] If any woman is raising your temperature like that, that's a woman you don't want to be around.
[14:48] I my baby mama raised my temperature like that.
[14:50] And that's why I don't be around her, cuz she raised my temperature like that sometimes.
[14:52] Just know yourself.
[14:56] You know what I'm saying?
[14:57] Get you a die woman who ain't going to raise your temperature like that.
[14:58] My girl says she's keeping a kid, even though she got rid of one when she was with her ex.
[15:03] Why am I so different?
[15:05] Can I do anything legally?
[15:07] No, man.
[15:09] You cook, man.
[15:10] Only thing you could have did was put your thing in her with some protection, and you didn't.
[15:12] So, man, you liable to the consequences of your actions.
[15:14] Hey, guess what?
[15:15] Everybody is liable for the consequences of their actions.
[15:17] Whether you know, whether you don't know, whether you're young, whether you're old, whether you're ignorant, whether you're smart, the universe don't care.
[15:23] You are liable for the consequences of your actions.
[15:25] And you going to be, you know what I'm saying?
[15:27] And it is what it is.
[15:29] I would love to tell you something better, but I can't.
[15:32] As a man, do you want your girl to reassure you?
[15:34] How does that dynamic work in your household?
[15:35] I don't know what you mean.
[15:37] Reassure me about what?
[15:39] I don't understand the question.
[15:40] Goldie, if you had to choose, would you rather have another bad rotten baby mama or suffer seeing your son choose the wrong one?
[15:47] Would I rather have a rotten b another?
[15:50] Listen, there's nothing that could ever make me want to have another rotten baby mother.
[15:54] We can't.
[15:55] It doesn't matter what you say.
[15:57] There's almost nothing in life, you know, worse than that.
[15:59] Are you telling me that your son chose the wrong one?
[16:01] That's why you got to give your son the game.
[16:03] That's why you got to go get the game guy uh book, you know, give it to him.
[16:08] Maybe he'll, you know, turn them on to my videos or something because if he don't, then they going to choose the wrong one and they going to have to go through that.
[16:17] Process and ain't going to be nothing.
[16:18] You can tell them cuz you didn't lace them right in the first place.
[16:21] During arguments with your woman, how do you understand her more and make her feel like she has a voice and her feelings matter in a romantic way?
[16:28] Or when she tells you she doesn't feel heard, don't take my advice on this cuz it ain't going to go the same as you, [ __ ] I don't.
[16:33] Shut the up.
[16:34] I don't give a what you're talking about.
[16:37] I don't like all that whining you're doing.
[16:39] I don't give a about them tears.
[16:40] Knock it off.
[16:41] You're irritating me.
[16:42] That's how I get down.
[16:43] But don't do that because you'll probably lose your cuz you don't have your way.
[16:47] I got my my my women that I own.
[16:49] I ain't hearing that [ __ ] I'm I'm I'm not entertaining.
[16:52] Like I'm I don't give a I don't give a We'll leave.
[16:53] That's what I said.
[16:55] We'll leave then.
[16:56] I I ain't going to talk about this [ __ ] We'll just leave then.
[16:58] Oh, it's that bad then leave then.
[16:59] No, I don't want to hear a bunch of that you in your feelings about that you ain't going to care about tomorrow.
[17:05] This minute minuscule issue that we're not even going to remember in two days.
[17:09] So why the is we wasting time and energy on it?
[17:11] I'm not even going down that.
[17:12] I don't want to hear what the is we talking about.
[17:15] But guess what?
[17:15] The more understanding you are, the more understanding you going to have to be.
[17:17] You heard me?
[17:19] The more understanding you are, the more understanding she's going to expect you to be.
[17:23] So, keep on trying to what's wrong and you want to be heard and but if you told her, you know what, listen, I don't want to talk about if it's that bad, leave.
[17:30] If it's that bad, then then just leave.
[17:32] Two things going to happen.
[17:33] She either going to leave and now you in peace or she going to shut the up and realize, damn, he ain't going for it.
[17:38] I guess it ain't that big a deal cuz it ain't.
[17:40] We talking about don't talk to me about nothing that's that's not no big.
[17:44] We talking about some money.
[17:46] We talking about where we going.
[17:47] Did something terrible happen in your family and you need me to console you about?
[17:49] Okay.
[17:51] So, what the is we talk?
[17:52] We ain't talking about nothing.
[17:54] And I don't waste my time talking about that's not productive.
[17:56] I ain't get to where I'm at by talking by taking time and energy and emotion talking about that don't even matter that we ain't going to think about in a week from now.
[18:03] No, I don't do that.
[18:05] And you want to do that?
[18:07] Go get you a small little do like that.
[18:10] I'm not.
[18:12] So, either leave or shut the up pick one.
[18:13] You can pick either.
[18:14] It don't make no difference to me cuz either thing you pick is going to be the same to me and I'm going to be at peace in 10 minutes.
[18:16] So pack your bags or shut the
[18:18] Up and let's watch this movie and order some food.
[18:21] Don't take my advice, 'cause your [ __ ] going to leave you, 'cause you would already you don't already train her that she can get an attitude and be in her feelings and you going to console it.
[18:29] 32-year-old law enforcement, 200k income, wife, son on the way and closing on my house.
[18:34] Want an extra 5 to 15k a month within 5 years without hurting my family, health or career?
[18:41] What business model skills should you pursue first?
[18:42] Man, listen.
[18:44] I appreciate the super chat, but if I tried to give you some advice that fast, uh, I would be leading you down a wrong path, 'cause I ain't give you enough information.
[18:51] What I would say is, man, book a private call with me, get on my mentorship, or at the very least, if you come into the brotherhood where we do calls every Sunday, you can ask me a personal question like that and I'll try to dig in deeper.
[19:02] Not as deep as I could if you had a one-on-one call.
[19:03] Not as deep as I could if you was on a mentorship.
[19:06] But I would be able to answer way deeper than trying to give it to you on a on a YouTube live.
[19:10] Inevitably would lead you down the wrong path, 'cause I'm shooting from the hip.
[19:14] And I don't want to shoot from the hip if you going to take some life advice.
[19:17] I'd rather get your full situation than to
[19:19] Just tell you some off the hip.
[19:21] Cuz a lot of people listen to what I say and they they take that advice as straight value, which it is.
[19:27] But at the same time, something specific like that, you need to really tap in.
[19:31] You know, and I tell people all the time like that's actually a good segue real quick.
[19:34] Um, what was me and my me and my me and McQueen was talking about something today and he and we was talking about the reason this don't really work for you like it work for me all the time.
[19:43] One, cuz you ain't a brotherhood.
[19:44] One, cuz you ain't got all the game, but two, it be half truths on the internet.
[19:48] I know dudes, and I ain't going to say no names.
[19:49] I know big time guys.
[19:52] Big time guys in the space in the game.
[19:54] It's a halftruth.
[19:56] Like [ __ ] take my game and then try to reverse it on me and my comments like well no because you supposed to be righteous.
[20:01] Hey check this the out.
[20:04] You have no game.
[20:04] Do you know how vulnerable you are in any situation when a know what you going to do and a know what you going to do when you're always righteous?
[20:13] I'm a real man.
[20:13] I would never do this.
[20:15] No matter how low she goes, I'm not going to go that low.
[20:19] So you hear me on sometimes say, man, you got to be righteous.
[20:19] You can't stoop.
[20:22] to the woman's level when she go low.
[20:24] Yeah. And that's the flip side of it.
[20:26] But everything in life is a is a paradox
[20:28] and dichotomy. It's two two ends of the
[20:29] same thing. If you ever let your woman
[20:31] know that you're too much of a real man
[20:33] to do certain things and guess what? She
[20:35] got you she got you pigeon hole. It's
[20:37] like bringing a knife to a gunfight.
[20:39] She's going to bring a gun cuz she know
[20:41] you're a real man and all you got is a
[20:42] knife or you got nothing at all. And
[20:44] you're always going to lose. You get
[20:45] what I'm saying? That's what So what I'm
[20:47] saying is it's a lot of that I say, but
[20:49] like I say, I give you hundreds of
[20:51] thousands of crumbs of game, and it
[20:52] takes millions of crumbs of game just to
[20:54] make up one slice of cake in this game.
[20:56] I can say one thing and I can say the
[20:58] opposite. But in a real situational uh
[21:01] uh perspective, I can tell you how they
[21:03] both work in different perspectives. On
[21:04] the one hand, yeah, I'm a real man. On
[21:06] one hand, I got principles. On one hand,
[21:09] I'm not going to stoop to the woman
[21:10] level. But on the other hand, you're
[21:12] going to lose every time if your know
[21:14] that you're going to lose every time if
[21:15] the know she can slap you in your face
[21:17] and you're too much of a real man to to
[21:19] to hit her back. So like one of my
[21:21] mentors said, "Hey man, if she willing
[21:22] to piss in a chair, you got to be
[21:24] willing to on the floor. And if you're
[21:25] not and she knows you're not, she's
[21:27] going to piss in the chair every night."
[21:29] So I'm using this as an example of why I
[21:32] don't want to give you the advice
[21:33] because a lot of things that I say is
[21:35] it's very one-sided and situational, but
[21:38] game is not that simplistic. Game is not
[21:40] that simplistic. And if you just hear
[21:42] certain things and you go try to use it,
[21:44] you wonder, "Well, this ain't really
[21:45] working." Because game ain't that black
[21:47] and white. Yeah, I'm righteous. Yeah,
[21:49] I'm a real man. Yeah, I got principles.
[21:51] Yeah, I'm a real man. If she can trust
[21:52] me to be everything I said I was when we
[21:54] met. And at the same time, if you piss
[21:56] in a chair, I'm a on floor.
[22:00] If if if you go low, I'm not going high,
[22:03] I'm going lower than you ever thought.
[22:05] We'll meet in hell. And that's the only
[22:07] way to act right. You feel me? And
[22:09] that's why they want a nice guy cuz he
[22:11] too nice to go as low as I'mma go. And
[22:13] that's what they want. Now I let the
[22:14] [ __ ] know I'mma go lower than you could
[22:16] ever go and you going to wish you never
[22:17] went no where. And sometimes you got to
[22:19] let a [ __ ] know that. But I'm still a
[22:21] gentleman. I'm still a righteous man. I
[22:23] still have principles. But at the end of
[22:25] the day, you are not a righteous man if
[22:28] you are righteous to people who are not
[22:29] righteous to you. You're a sucker. You
[22:31] feel me? You are not a righteous man if
[22:34] you are righteous to people who are not
[22:36] righteous to you. You are a sucker. And
[22:38] that's what they call nice guy. And
[22:39] that's why they don't like nice guys.
[22:41] I'm not a nice guy. I'm a good guy. I'm
[22:43] good to people who are good to me. But
[22:44] I'm not going to be nice to you if
[22:45] you're not nice to me. You feel what I'm
[22:46] saying? See, I'm taking this so in so
[22:49] many different levels. Y'all really
[22:50] don't understand. You can't be righteous
[22:52] to people who not righteous to you cuz
[22:54] that makes you a fool. You bringing a
[22:56] knife to a gunfight. And I will never.
[22:58] Let me see what you on. Oh, if we on
[23:00] that, I'mma show you. You feel? I'mma
[23:02] show you. Your fastest move is too slow
[23:03] for me. But if you want to be good and
[23:05] righteous with me, baby, I'mma be good
[23:06] and righteous with you. But if you want
[23:08] to take it somewhere else, I'mma take it
[23:10] to a place that you could never and you
[23:11] gonna wish we never did. And she has to
[23:13] know that. And the only reason she don't
[23:15] take it there with me is cuz she knows
[23:17] that about me. You keep telling that you
[23:19] too nice. You keep telling that [ __ ]
[23:20] you too righteous. I would I don't care.
[23:23] I turn the other cheek. I'm not. And
[23:24] when the [ __ ] know I ain't going to
[23:26] turn the other cheek. Yeah. She She know
[23:27] better. You know what I'm saying? Like
[23:29] Selena, what I say? I wish you would.
[23:33] And when she knew it, what she do?
[23:34] Nothing. But you Well, I'm I'm nah,
[23:37] [ __ ] I I guess I get cancelceled
[23:39] around this. What's gonna go down in
[23:41] here? And because you seen it in my eyes
[23:43] that I'll take it there. It's like,
[23:44] well, what I'm going to do soon as a
[23:46] know you're not going to take it there.
[23:48] She going to take it there every time.
[23:50] Know with me, I will take it wherever
[23:52] you want to take it. We'll take this to
[23:54] hell. Why did I barely found out you was
[23:56] on the Nick Cannon episode? I never
[23:58] heard you talk about that. It's pretty
[24:00] big figure, though. Uh yeah, I was on
[24:02] that Nick Cannon. Uh I was on that Nick
[24:03] Cannon uh Cannon class. I should
[24:06] probably repost that, too. I'll be
[24:07] forgetting. I done did a lot of stuff. I
[24:09] done did a lot of stuff. Y'all go check
[24:10] out Nick Cannon Cannon class. I was on
[24:13] Canon class. You know, I done done a lot
[24:15] of big things, but I ain't did nothing
[24:17] yet, though. Just wait. If she's young
[24:19] and invested in you, but is sensitive.
[24:20] Should I drop her? She gets emotional
[24:22] during arguments, etc., can you handle
[24:24] this type of woman? Man, it depend on
[24:25] you. Everybody got different
[24:26] temperaments. Everybody get different
[24:27] temperaments. Everybody got different
[24:28] programs, man. It's up to you. Can you
[24:30] handle a a sensitive woman? And when you
[24:33] say sensitive, you got to tell me what
[24:34] she's sensitive about. Man, we can't
[24:36] just use these labels and understand
[24:37] like everybody's saying you say
[24:38] sensitive, I know what you're talking
[24:40] about. What do you mean when you say
[24:41] sensitive? What do you do that you feel
[24:43] like is so lighthearted that she gets an
[24:46] attitude about? Then I can tell you,
[24:48] damn, no, she she way she doing way too
[24:50] much. And then you also what you got to
[24:51] tell me is you say she invested in you.
[24:53] How much she investing in? What is she
[24:54] really doing for you? You got to weigh
[24:56] the pros and cons of everything. her
[24:58] negatives qualities versus her positive
[25:00] qualities. Do they outweigh? That's why
[25:03] you watch other people talk about this
[25:05] probably be like, "Be you a you don't
[25:07] live in reality cuz they giving you
[25:08] blanket black and white statements."
[25:10] Nothing is black and white. Everybody's
[25:12] situation is different cuz it it's a out
[25:14] here right now who going to say, "Oh, my
[25:15] bro, she's sensitive. Should I keep
[25:17] dealing with her and she invested in
[25:18] me?" And when you say she's sensitive,
[25:20] man, you could raise your voice barely a
[25:22] little bit and she start crying. And
[25:24] when he say she investing, what he mean
[25:25] is uh she she pay for dinner sometimes.
[25:28] Then it's another dude saying his bra
[25:30] sensitive and you know sometimes when he
[25:33] cuss at her she cry. What he she
[25:35] investing in is $10,000 a month. Like my
[25:37] homie who was just over here right now
[25:39] talking about his bra who investing
[25:40] $10,000 a month in clipping clipping for
[25:42] him. It's a different way and it it's a
[25:45] different scale. So I can't tell you
[25:47] what you should and shouldn't do if you
[25:48] don't give me the details of your
[25:50] situation. That's why I tell people you
[25:51] got to get on the Brotherhood link in
[25:52] the description. the brotherhood school
[25:54] group. You got to book a call. You got
[25:55] to get on a mentorship because if you're
[25:57] trying to take advice from things that
[25:59] are not tailored to you and everybody
[26:01] and everybody's situation is different.
[26:02] That's why you off everything in your
[26:04] life cuz you're t trying to take general
[26:06] information and apply it to your
[26:08] specific situation. Don't work like
[26:10] that. Can you explain this? What's the
[26:11] psychology of a woman that's attracted
[26:12] to a man, but she low-key tries to get
[26:14] that man into trouble behind his back?
[26:16] It don't matter, bro. Like, come on,
[26:18] man. Come on. I don't give a what her
[26:21] psychology is, man. The you trying to
[26:23] get me in trouble you. You don't like
[26:24] me. You want to see me down bad. You
[26:27] trying to get me into some. I don't give
[26:29] a what her psych. Who gives a what her
[26:31] psychology is, man? That rotten ass is
[26:34] going to get you locked up one day. What
[26:36] are you talking about right now? What's
[26:37] the psych? What you What's wrong with
[26:39] you dudes? What's the psychology behind
[26:41] a woman? I don't give a what her
[26:43] psychology is, man. And get the away
[26:46] from me as fast as possible. The need to
[26:48] understand a [ __ ] I shouldn't be
[26:49] around. I know I shouldn't be around
[26:51] her. That's all I know. So her give a
[26:53] with her psychology. A weird ass. That's
[26:55] what I call her. Weird ass. You know
[26:57] what that mean? I'm not even going to
[26:59] waste my time trying to get into her
[27:01] weird ass psychology. She a weird ass.
[27:02] That's what we call her. Weird ass punk
[27:04] ass. And you not need to not be around
[27:06] no weird ass punk ass. If she's common
[27:08] sense slow, but she's book smart. Is she
[27:11] worth keeping? She be acting slow as
[27:13] hell. And it angers me, but that's
[27:15] mostly everyone. Man, this is a this is
[27:17] a good topic, man. You don't understand,
[27:19] bro. These bras be slow. Book smart, not
[27:22] books smart. Most of these bras be slow,
[27:24] man. And it's very frustrating. It is
[27:26] very frustrating, man. I I I you just
[27:29] got to hope that they they're good
[27:31] qualities outweigh the bad qualities.
[27:34] But these bras be slow, man. There's
[27:36] nothing I can I can say to But but
[27:38] listen, this is why they slow. It's not
[27:40] that they're incapable. It's the fact
[27:43] that How do women grow up? Like a
[27:45] spoiled child. Nobody ever tells you
[27:47] about yourself. you. Nobody's ever
[27:49] critiqued you. Nobody, you know, you
[27:52] could be dumb, stupid, slow, not have
[27:54] funny jokes, not say the right things,
[27:57] talk too much. Like, it doesn't matter
[28:00] because dudes want to have sex with you
[28:02] and in society, your father's not going
[28:03] to say nothing to you cuz you're you're
[28:05] his princess. And it's and women are
[28:07] fake as hell to their friends. So, it's
[28:09] like they've never gotten accurate
[28:11] feedback in their entire life. So,
[28:12] therefore, they're just slow. It is what
[28:14] it is. Most of them are like that. Some
[28:16] more than others. So, it's like you just
[28:18] like I said before, you got to weigh the
[28:20] pros and cons, but I understand, bro.
[28:21] That [ __ ] is irritating as hell. Just I
[28:23] don't know, man. You just hopefully her
[28:26] better qualities can outweigh that, but
[28:29] it's like some of these sleep sheep. And
[28:31] sometimes you just got to know you you
[28:33] going to have her for a time, but not a
[28:34] long time. And and and it is what it is.
[28:37] Somebody said, "Would you ever block a
[28:38] woman if she was extremely out of
[28:40] pocket?" I don't know. No. I always like
[28:43] to not block a woman because just in
[28:46] case she get to talking some crazy like
[28:48] she fa to come to my house or she whoopy
[28:50] woo woo I'm gonna burn your car go to
[28:52] police. I want to be I want to have a
[28:54] heads up cuz it don't bother me. It
[28:55] don't move me. [ __ ] could text me the
[28:57] most. I've never really had a [ __ ] text
[28:59] me like super crazy before. So maybe I
[29:01] don't understand where you coming from.
[29:02] But uh yeah, you know it's like I like
[29:05] to have a heads up getting too crazy. I
[29:07] need to know so I can prepare to get to
[29:10] talking to me too crazy. get to talking
[29:11] to two out of pocket. I got money and
[29:14] resources. I'll your life up for real.
[29:16] So, I need to know that you on that type
[29:18] of time with me. Oh, oh, oh, that's what
[29:19] type of time you on. Okay, bet. You feel
[29:21] me? Get you some money, some resources,
[29:23] and connection. I'll your life up. Don't
[29:25] play with me like that. I ain't going to
[29:27] do that off the dribble because I know
[29:28] sometimes you want to get off steam.
[29:30] Talk a little. Go ahead. But keep that
[29:32] cute though. Don't get too beside
[29:34] yourself cuz I'll spend the time and
[29:36] money and the resources to your life up
[29:38] if you keep playing with me. So, I ain't
[29:40] gonna block you because I want to know
[29:41] what type All right. What type of time
[29:43] we on, right? I give you some leeway.
[29:45] You You want You be mad. You want to But
[29:48] do too much. Do too much now. Do too
[29:51] much now. And I'mma show you what too
[29:53] much is like. And you going to wish you
[29:54] never did it. I don't recommend that
[29:56] though. I'm just a little crazy. Which
[29:57] black jeans ran style you usually wear?
[30:00] The pair you had on when you got at
[30:02] Seline was fire. I don't remember. Uh
[30:04] man, you know, at this point, like the
[30:06] the style is the style. I can't even
[30:08] wear the style of jeans that I used to
[30:10] wear because the new style, anytime I
[30:12] buy something, they like these bell
[30:13] bottom jeans and [ __ ] So, I just wear
[30:16] with whatever. And you know, my girl,
[30:17] she be buying me stuff and she she she a
[30:19] stylist. She she do fashion. So, she
[30:22] know what she like and she know what
[30:23] women like. So, I just let her buy me
[30:25] stuff. Yo, Goldie, this the past issue I
[30:27] had. I told you my ex that I didn't like
[30:29] her going out and she agreed to it. Only
[30:31] if I don't go out. Well, you in the
[30:33] wrong dynamics in relationship. Hey,
[30:34] [ __ ] You can't do what I do cuz we not
[30:36] the same. I'll do whatever I want to do.
[30:38] You do what I tell you you could do. And
[30:39] if that ain't the dynamic in this
[30:41] relationship, then we ain't got to have
[30:42] this relationship. It is what it is.
[30:44] Like, and and you know, you ain't got to
[30:46] do it like that. But that's how I do it.
[30:47] I don't care what I I don't care what I
[30:49] do. What I do and you do is two
[30:50] different things. I told I tell you what
[30:52] to do. You don't tell me what to do. I'm
[30:53] the head of this household. I'm the head
[30:55] of this household. Are you? So, you're
[30:56] not the head of this household. So, you
[30:57] do what I tell you to do and I do what I
[30:59] want. Say, "Oh, that's not fair." Well,
[31:01] it ain't got to be fair. This is my
[31:02] kingdom. This is my state. This is my
[31:03] country. And these are the doctrines
[31:05] here. you could get with her to get
[31:06] lost. And it is what it is, man. You
[31:07] started wrong. Cuz if you started right,
[31:09] guess what? A broad ain't even want to
[31:10] go out without you. Any broad that I've
[31:12] ever owned don't even care about going
[31:14] out without me. And if I told her not to
[31:15] go out, it wouldn't even be a question.
[31:17] Do you have any advice for women? I do,
[31:19] but I don't like to give it to y'all cuz
[31:21] y'all y'all not righteous with the game.
[31:23] Y'all going to go out here and thrash
[31:24] these dudes who who just trying to find
[31:26] a woman and all y'all going to do is
[31:28] play games with them. But I tell you
[31:30] like this, every everything that I give
[31:32] to a man, a woman could take. It's all
[31:34] about value. It's all about standing on
[31:36] your principles and your morals and your
[31:38] value and finding somebody who like you.
[31:40] Because if somebody like you, you ain't
[31:41] got to play no games. If somebody like
[31:43] you, they not going to be trying to play
[31:44] all of these games. They going to want
[31:46] to do what you want to do. They going to
[31:47] be who you who who who you want them to
[31:50] be. You know, they going to acquies to
[31:51] things. They going to make things easy
[31:53] and effortless in your life. It's only
[31:55] when you finding people that don't
[31:56] really like you that you got to have all
[31:58] of these games and all of these defenses
[31:59] cuz they don't really like you like
[32:01] that. That's why I say like who likes
[32:02] you. If you really follow that rule, you
[32:04] don't have to have much game because
[32:05] they're not going to be playing games
[32:07] because they really want you. Somebody
[32:08] really want Drake, really want Chris
[32:10] Brown. It's whatever. Whatever he want,
[32:12] I'mma do. Whatever he don't like, I'mma
[32:14] stop doing. If we have a problem, guess
[32:17] what? I'mma figure it out. I'mma
[32:18] overlook it. That's what it's going to
[32:19] be when you really like somebody. So
[32:20] that's why I say, man, you ain't even
[32:22] need all these games. It's just the fact
[32:23] that dudes, no matter how much you say
[32:25] like who like you, they're still going
[32:26] to pick somebody who just kind of like
[32:28] them. And and you know what? When I say
[32:29] like who like you, it's very it's a
[32:32] simple saying, but it's way deeper than
[32:33] that. Cuz just liking you is not enough.
[32:35] It's got to be liking you on on a on a
[32:37] high high level. Yeah. Yeah. I said,
[32:39] don't take my advice. Just cuz how I do
[32:41] what I do, you going to blow your trying
[32:43] to do it how I do it. Only thing is I
[32:45] don't give a while about blowing. You
[32:46] care about it. You going to feel a type
[32:48] of way you blow that. So you can't you
[32:49] can't say what I say. What do you think
[32:51] about peptides? Do you take them? Well,
[32:52] there's so many different peptides.
[32:54] Peptides just mean different amino acid
[32:55] chains. It just depend on what peptide
[32:57] you talking about. I don't know. I'm not
[32:58] informed on all the peptides, you know,
[33:01] but I have used some and some of them
[33:03] are phenomenal, you know, especially
[33:05] when it comes to recovery from the gym,
[33:07] you know, especially when it comes to,
[33:08] you know, mental clarity, you know, like
[33:10] glutathione for the antioxidants and
[33:13] things like that. So, different peptides
[33:16] are great. You just have to do the
[33:17] research, get your blood drawn, and
[33:19] figure out what's best for you. Hey,
[33:21] man, everybody need to go right now in
[33:23] the link in the description, sign up for
[33:25] for the brotherhood where we really go
[33:27] in. You think I'm giving game here, man.
[33:28] It's a lot of things I will never say.
[33:30] And that's why a lot of you still going
[33:32] to be lost because you trying to use
[33:33] some of the things I'm talking about,
[33:34] but you ain't got the full picture. So,
[33:36] get a brotherhood cuz that's where we
[33:38] could really talk, right? Get the game
[33:41] guide bundle because that's really the
[33:42] foundation and the game guide bundle 2.0
[33:45] or you can go on goldio.com and you can
[33:47] pick out individual courses. But the
[33:49] best bang for your buck is to just get
[33:51] the bundle and the bundle 2.0 and you
[33:53] can get everything I've ever done in
[33:55] life. And you get interviews never seen
[33:58] before, never released because it was
[34:00] too much game. And guess what? Let me
[34:01] tell you this too. If you get in a
[34:03] brotherhood, you don't just get in the
[34:04] weekly calls. You get one free courses.
[34:07] You get me. I actively drop game in
[34:09] there every day on the wall and I
[34:11] interact with everybody in there. And
[34:13] you get the community of all of us
[34:14] players. And you get every last
[34:18] recording of the game God calls. hours
[34:22] and hours of all the past game god
[34:26] calls. That's why at this point I done
[34:28] did so many calls that it is almost
[34:31] unfair to keep it at the same price. You
[34:33] know, just that alone could be a course
[34:35] if I sold all of the game calls. So, at
[34:39] the, you know, price it's at right now,
[34:40] it's going up. So, get in there now.
[34:42] Link in the description. Any game on how
[34:44] to deal with a parent who lies about
[34:45] small stuff. I bought her a massage and
[34:48] she lied about going uh accept people
[34:50] for who they are. Oh, listen. Learn to
[34:53] say this. Like, listen. I'm I'mma be so
[34:55] real. Learn to say this. And I was
[34:57] telling one of my one of my homies this
[34:58] the other day. Hey, man. Don't make [ __ ]
[35:00] so heavy. Learn to say that's a weird
[35:03] ass. I say it often. I'm not trying to
[35:06] diagnose her. I'm not trying to see her
[35:09] trauma or why she acts in this weird
[35:11] way, why she lies for no reason, why she
[35:14] always do this thing that I don't like,
[35:16] why this and why that. Sometimes you
[35:18] just have to say that's a weird aspect
[35:21] and leave it alone. It's too heavy on
[35:24] you. It's too heavy on you. Why is she
[35:27] lying for no reason? Why do she do this?
[35:31] WHY DOES SHE ALWAYS HEY, you making that
[35:33] [ __ ] too heavy. You just have to say
[35:35] that's a weird ass and just move on.
[35:39] Otherwise, you going to carve yourself
[35:42] out a early death from high blood
[35:44] pressure and probably cancer because you
[35:47] know they say stress stress is the
[35:49] leading cause of everything and it just
[35:52] manifests in all of these ways and
[35:53] diseases and cancer and things. It's the
[35:55] stress. Just learn to say every man
[35:57] should learn to say, you know what,
[36:00] that's a weird ass and let it go. Stop
[36:04] trying to diagnose this hoe like you a
[36:06] psychiatrist. Stop trying to fix this
[36:08] broad deep rooted traumas that you could
[36:10] never get to the bottom of. Just say
[36:13] that's a weird ass and move the on or
[36:17] don't and accept it and be like, you
[36:18] know what, she weird, but she got other
[36:20] good qualities that outweigh her
[36:21] weirdness, so I'm with her. Hey man, I
[36:23] put my arm around her before. And I'll
[36:24] be like, you know, you're a weird ass,
[36:26] right? Yeah. You know I'm the only
[36:27] [ __ ] going to [ __ ] with you, so you
[36:29] might as well just accept that cuz
[36:30] you're a weird ass. You feel what I'm
[36:32] saying? Like sometimes you just got to
[36:33] be like, "Oh, you're a weird ass. You're
[36:35] a weird ass." It's a lot of weird ass.
[36:37] Stop trying to diagnose them. Stop
[36:39] trying to classify them. Stop trying to
[36:40] get to the root of they it's too heavy
[36:42] on your soul. It's too heavy on your
[36:45] soul and it take too much time and
[36:46] energy to do that type of just be like,
[36:49] "Bro, this a weird ass." Hey man, I had
[36:52] some weird ass before. Weird ass. Hey,
[36:54] you know how much lighter it is in your
[36:55] life when you be like, "You know what?
[36:57] She cuz she a weird ass. I ain't trying
[36:59] to diagnose her. I ain't trying to get
[37:01] to the bottom of it. I'm not trying to
[37:02] scratch my head. She's a weird ass. I
[37:05] can't understand weird cuz I'm not
[37:06] weird. She's weird. You think women act
[37:08] up so bad because of the expectation men
[37:11] can't put their hands on women? For
[37:13] sure. Cuz if she know you going to put
[37:14] your hands on her back, she ain't acting
[37:16] up. I'll get cancelled around just about
[37:20] what's going to go here.
[37:23] I'mma keep having problems with my race.
[37:25] I think I'm going to try another because
[37:26] I know I can't be, you know, I mean, I
[37:28] mean, I've never I've never understood
[37:31] that when I with black my whole life. I
[37:34] never was like, "Oh, black [ __ ] is like
[37:35] this." No, the [ __ ] who with me is
[37:37] going to be how she's supposed to be.
[37:38] And I've been able to find any race and
[37:41] plenty of black women who act how I need
[37:43] them to act. I just think when you think
[37:45] that most of the time I be like, "Well,
[37:47] you ain't been outside." And if you've
[37:48] been outside with I guess you with
[37:49] low-level women because it's not just
[37:51] black women. I I met Asian women. I met
[37:53] Spanish women. Lowlevel poor who live in
[37:56] a ghetto act a certain way. But you
[37:59] know, if you don't go outside and you
[38:01] only watch TV and Instagram, it would
[38:02] look like it's only black women like
[38:04] that. Please believe it's a lot of
[38:06] [ __ ] who act. It's a lowlevel
[38:08] poor ghetto behavior. And that comes in
[38:12] every shape, size, and and and
[38:14] ethnicity. You know what I'm saying?
[38:17] I've had plenty of black women who speak
[38:18] proper and do the right thing. It's who
[38:20] I am. I'm I'm only attracting and only
[38:23] dealing with women who are on my type of
[38:25] time. And I can find that in any race.
[38:27] And I found all the worst
[38:29] characteristics in every race as well.
[38:31] So I don't know. I don't get it. But I
[38:33] would I do get it. For those of you who
[38:36] don't go outside, for those of you who
[38:38] only live in the ghetto and don't go
[38:39] nowhere else, well then of course you
[38:40] find a ghetto black man cuz that's where
[38:42] the you live and that's what the you can
[38:44] catch. Hey man, there's plenty of black
[38:46] women who aren't like that though. But
[38:48] you can't catch those. But you can't
[38:50] catch those and you're not in the places
[38:51] to even catch those cuz you don't know
[38:53] where those are. So you just say cuz
[38:55] from your small limited point of view in
[38:57] the ghetto that you live in all black
[39:00] women are like this. It's not the case.
[39:02] It's not the case. But I mean whatever.
[39:04] I ain't even going to argue the fact cuz
[39:05] too many people like to argue that fact.
[39:07] I'm just saying. And race ain't got
[39:08] nothing to do with nothing. Culture has
[39:10] everything to do with everything.
[39:12] There's many different cultures in the
[39:14] black culture. Every black person isn't
[39:16] the same way regardless of what they
[39:17] want to put on the media like we are.
[39:19] But if you're not outside and you're
[39:20] only in your sphere of influence, then
[39:22] you're going to think, "Well, this is
[39:23] everything I've seen." No, it's many
[39:25] different black levels of black culture
[39:27] in the black culture. And there's many
[39:28] different cultures in other Hey man,
[39:30] it's white trash. Hey, man, it's Spanish
[39:32] trash. It's, you know, it's Asian tra.
[39:35] I've seen it all. So, you can't say
[39:37] that, man. I I can get any woman to be
[39:40] how I want them to be if they who they
[39:41] supposed to be. And the moment that you
[39:43] start to classify things in a certain
[39:45] way, you're going to X out an entire
[39:47] population of a demographic that you
[39:49] could have found something in. But
[39:50] because you got it in your mind that you
[39:52] can't find it, you going to miss out on
[39:53] something. I don't discriminate. If she
[39:55] acting the right way, if she like me
[39:57] enough, if she like me a lot, if she's
[39:59] docile, if she's submissive, if she
[40:02] doing all the right things, hey man, I
[40:03] don't care what race she is. And guess
[40:05] what? I found every race. I I found I
[40:07] found that in every race. You get what
[40:09] I'm saying? And I found the worst in
[40:10] every race, too. Y'all just don't be
[40:12] outside. Y'all ain't had enough. Y'all
[40:14] have not had enough interaction with
[40:15] women. I've had so many act interactions
[40:17] with so many women. I've had so many
[40:19] women in my life. I've seen it all. So,
[40:21] I'm qualified to talk about it. Y'all
[40:23] not. How do you feel about them high
[40:24] anxiety females that worry so much about
[40:26] everything? Man, get the get the away
[40:28] from me. Energy is contagious. You know,
[40:30] I had a mentor one time. He he told me,
[40:32] and this is real. He was like, I had a
[40:35] woman who had anxiety, panic attacks. He
[40:37] like he damn near 30 panic attacks. He
[40:40] was like, that's weird. He said one day
[40:41] he had a panic attack because energy is
[40:43] real. Get the away from me with that
[40:45] weird ass [ __ ] Period. Get the away
[40:47] from me with that weird ass for rub on.
[40:49] I had a mentor one time in the game. You
[40:50] know what he told me? He was like,
[40:51] "Nigga, I don't even like hanging around
[40:53] a [ __ ] who stutter too much cuz that
[40:54] might rub off on me." Energy is
[40:56] contagious. People's habits are
[40:58] contagious. It's so it's on a sub
[40:59] subconscious level. Get the away from
[41:02] who on weird ass time cuz you going to
[41:04] be a weird ass. You know what I'm
[41:06] saying? So that's all I can say about
[41:08] that. These weird ass they ain't never
[41:09] been through [ __ ] in their life. ain't
[41:10] never been through [ __ ] I don't respect
[41:12] it and I don't respect it. Ain't never
[41:14] been through nothing in their life.
[41:15] Y'all done been through some. You having
[41:17] anxiety cuz who the weird ass little
[41:19] ass. You having anxiety cuz you got a
[41:22] lot of phone calls today cuz some don't
[41:24] put that on me cuz I can't feel it. Go
[41:26] get you one of these suckers who going
[41:28] to sit up in the car with you and oh my
[41:29] goodness. I'm not going to do it. I'm
[41:31] not going to encourage that because I
[41:32] don't like weak. And if you want to be
[41:34] my you can't be weak. And if you weak
[41:35] and you my what that make me? How far
[41:38] can we go if you got anxiety over the
[41:40] littlest, most pettiest?
[41:42] We can't go far cuz I can't count on you
[41:44] for I don't like weakness in no woman of
[41:46] mine. I don't cuz I can't count on you
[41:48] for Can you speak on the uniform? I
[41:51] remember you spoke on wearing jumpsuits
[41:52] or something for less decision fatigue.
[41:55] Yeah. So, you know, I know you've heard
[41:57] like not Elon Musk, maybe him too. uh
[41:59] like Zuckerberg and like all of these
[42:02] highlevel billionaires understand the
[42:05] mental bandwidth that you have in a day.
[42:07] You only have a finite amount of mental
[42:09] energy. So they don't want to spend it
[42:10] on anything minuscule. That's why they
[42:13] may wear the same thing every day even
[42:14] though it's different. Somebody could be
[42:16] a different outfit but it's the same
[42:17] thing cuz they don't want to have to
[42:19] waste any mental bandwidth on something
[42:21] that doesn't move the needle in their
[42:23] life. So for me now I ain't going to
[42:25] wear the same thing every day. You know,
[42:28] that's cool for them. I ain't there yet.
[42:29] I still got to be fly. But what's easier
[42:31] for me is I'm going to wear jumpsuits.
[42:34] I'm not wearing the same thing every
[42:36] day, but I can still be fly. So, I'm
[42:37] going wear matching sets, jumpsuits, you
[42:40] know, fly jumpsuits. Why? So, I don't
[42:42] have to think about anything. I don't
[42:44] have to think about this shirt, these
[42:45] pants, or this shirt, and this
[42:47] undershirt. I'm going to just go grab a
[42:49] jumpsuit, throw it on, and I know I'm
[42:50] color coordinated. I know it's fly. I
[42:53] know it's decent. It may not be the best
[42:54] outfit in the world, but I know I can do
[42:56] that every day and I don't have to waste
[42:58] any mental bandwidth that I should be
[42:59] using moving forward in my life on
[43:01] trying to get dressed. Because if you
[43:03] only have a finite amount of mental
[43:06] bandwidth in a day, why would you want
[43:08] to use any of that on trying to get
[43:10] dressed when you should be using it on
[43:12] getting forward in your life? You know,
[43:14] now of course like special events or
[43:16] special things, of course. Yeah, I'mma
[43:18] put it on. I'mma I'mma put some
[43:19] together. But dayto day, no. I just need
[43:21] to go in my closet, grab some, throw it
[43:23] on. I know I'm fresh. I know I'm fly. I
[43:24] know I can talk to any woman. I can know
[43:26] I can talk to any business associate and
[43:28] I'm looking good and I'm looking fly.
[43:30] Matching sets, jumpsuits, things of that
[43:32] nature. Y'all see me, if y'all see me
[43:34] most of the time, go back on all of my
[43:36] stuff. You know, you you will literally
[43:39] always see me in a matching set. I do it
[43:41] for that reason cuz I don't want to have
[43:43] to think too long. Bro, you know how
[43:45] irritating it is when these bras be in
[43:46] that closet putting this on, putting
[43:48] that on and I just look at them and it's
[43:51] it exhausts me. Like how much waste of
[43:54] time doing that that you could be using
[43:57] for something else. Decision fatigue,
[44:00] man. I gave her $20 worth of something
[44:02] and she didn't pay me. She may have
[44:04] forgot. Should I bring it up or just
[44:06] notice and leave? You got to factor in a
[44:09] lot of other things about herself. A lot
[44:11] of times if a woman does that, you can
[44:13] look in your mind and be like, I see a
[44:16] whole bunch of character flaws that add
[44:18] up to show me this is her character. So
[44:20] you first thing you have to do is think.
[44:22] Cuz when a woman did that to me, it
[44:23] wasn't a surprise. I mean, it was, but
[44:25] it wasn't a surprise because I was like,
[44:26] "Oh, she been a selfish bra. She been
[44:29] it's been so many things that she's done
[44:31] showed me. Like that's who she is." So
[44:33] if that's who she is, then you got to
[44:34] ask yourself, do I want to deal with it
[44:35] or not? And if I do deal with it, put
[44:37] her in that category. She can't be
[44:38] nothing you could ever really deal with.
[44:39] But you can bring it up to see what she
[44:41] do. Be like, "All right, I want to give
[44:43] this another chance even though I
[44:45] shouldn't." "All right, bet. I'mma bring
[44:46] it up. Hey, what's up? Uh, remember that
[44:48] little $20?" Mention it casually. Don't
[44:50] even mention it like you want her to pay
[44:51] you back. Just mention like, "Oh, oh,
[44:53] remember that little $20?" Don't say
[44:55] nothing else. See if she be like, "All
[44:56] right, I'm going to give it to you." But
[44:58] even still, if she only give it to you,
[45:00] if she only give it to you cuz you
[45:01] mentioned it, think about it like this.
[45:02] If you owe her $20, did you forget? You
[45:05] didn't forget. She didn't forget. She
[45:07] just didn't want to give it to you cuz
[45:09] you didn't bring it up. And that shows
[45:10] character. I would never do that. And
[45:12] that's the difference between me and the
[45:14] man. How do you deal with female family
[45:16] members that are birds? Limit your
[45:18] contact as much as possible and never
[45:20] talk about anything. Anytime the
[45:22] conversation get out of bounds about
[45:25] walk away from it or change the subject.
[45:27] Best places in cities to visit to
[45:29] sharpen game with women because I'm from
[45:30] Boston, Baton Rouge and thinking about
[45:32] moving to Texas. Yes. Get the out of
[45:35] Baton Rouge, man. Not even just for
[45:37] that, but just Yeah, you got to you got
[45:38] to move around and see women on higher
[45:40] levels because it raises your level.
[45:41] Seeing dudes who are on higher levels,
[45:43] which make you force your level up for
[45:45] sure. Get out of Baton Rouge 110%. It'd
[45:47] be the best thing you ever did. How does
[45:49] a man still have confidence to talk to
[45:51] women, but he got a small joint? I I
[45:54] don't know. I couldn't tell you. I don't
[45:56] know. That's a question I couldn't tell
[45:58] you, man. That's a good question. I want
[46:00] to I want to ask my girl like what would
[46:03] you say if I don't know. I don't know
[46:05] cuz I feel like a lot of the confidence
[46:07] you have does come with how you feel
[46:09] putting it down in the bedroom. But I
[46:10] mean I would say it's likened to being
[46:12] short, right? How does a man have
[46:14] confidence when he's short? Um you don't
[46:16] base your entire value off of this one
[46:20] quality when it's a million and one
[46:21] quality that you have in life. You know,
[46:23] some dudes they they they have such an
[46:24] insecurity about being short. And I'll
[46:26] be like, I've never even thought about
[46:28] it. Like I don't even think about it uh
[46:30] at all. And I don't feel like I've never
[46:32] caught what I wanted to catch because of
[46:34] it because I don't think about that's
[46:35] being the best the biggest attribute.
[46:37] But when you hang everything on your
[46:39] attributes like that on one attribute,
[46:41] then what you're saying is your other
[46:42] attributes aren't great. You know, how
[46:44] do you hold a woman's mind? You know,
[46:45] how do you how what's your swag like?
[46:47] What's your dress like? What's your if
[46:49] you if you whatever you insecure about,
[46:51] man, going to be so big to you, you
[46:53] know? So, I don't know. I think you
[46:55] maybe you got to build up your other
[46:56] attributes to not feel so bad. I don't
[46:58] know. I don't know, man. Um, it's like
[47:01] fat dudes in the game. They wasn't
[47:02] insecure that they was fat. Why? Cuz
[47:05] they was had confidence in themselves
[47:06] cuz they swag, cuz they game, cuz they
[47:08] mouthpiece, you know? Uh, and it didn't
[47:10] matter that they was fat. These bros
[47:12] with them anyway. You know what I'm
[47:13] saying? So, I think it's with anything
[47:15] in I don't know. That's I mean, that's a
[47:16] big one, though. That's a big one. But,
[47:19] I mean, I I think you just shouldn't
[47:21] think about it as much as you think
[47:24] about it because if a woman love you and
[47:26] like you, it really don't make no
[47:28] difference. It's only when a woman don't
[47:30] really love you and like you like that
[47:31] that things like that make a difference.
[47:33] But if you holding that woman by by her
[47:35] mind, if you holding that woman by her,
[47:37] you know, all of these other ways, then
[47:39] it ain't going to be that big of a deal,
[47:40] man. You know how many I've heard when
[47:42] they stop with [ __ ] be like, "Oh, that
[47:44] [ __ ] had a shrimp dick. That had a
[47:45] shrimp dick." And I be thinking in my
[47:47] mind like you talking [ __ ] but you was
[47:48] with that [ __ ] for three years. So
[47:50] obviously it really didn't matter. You
[47:51] get what I'm saying? So it don't matter
[47:53] if you holding her in all the other ways
[47:56] as much. I guess I don't know, man. When
[47:58] the women say it's in the Bible for a
[48:00] man to provide and pay for everything,
[48:02] how do I count this you in that Bible?
[48:04] No, I ain't gonna say that. Ain't gonna
[48:05] cancel me. Um, it's like this. Anybody
[48:08] could reach in the Bible and bring
[48:10] things. Hey, it's in the Bible that you
[48:12] some help mate. Ho is you that you feel
[48:15] me? Like if if you want to get in the
[48:17] Bible, you can go in the Bible and bring
[48:20] out anything to prove your point. That's
[48:23] why in the game use the Bible a lot in
[48:25] their household because they like may
[48:27] not listen to me. She gonna listen to
[48:28] the Bible and you could always find a
[48:29] passage in the Bible that go about what
[48:31] you talking about. You feel what I'm
[48:32] saying? So it's like [ __ ] I don't give
[48:34] a about none of that. Like at the end of
[48:36] the day there's a lot of Bible that you
[48:38] don't live by. So we not going to pick
[48:39] and pick and choose and cherry pick
[48:41] around this. You know what I'm saying? I
[48:43] don't know the Bible enough. But I'm
[48:44] sure you could find something in there
[48:46] that she's not doing. But [ __ ] we're
[48:48] not even going to get into those games.
[48:50] Hey, I'm not doing what I don't want to
[48:51] do. And if you don't want to be here,
[48:52] don't be here. I don't give a if it's in
[48:54] the Bible. And I really feel like,
[48:56] [ __ ] I don't give a what you talking
[48:57] about right now. [ __ ] the only Bible
[49:00] around this will come out my mouth cuz
[49:01] I'm the god of this household. So
[49:03] whatever the I say go. And if I say I'm
[49:05] doing it, I'm doing. If I say I'm not,
[49:07] then I'm not. And if you ain't getting,
[49:09] we didn't get the around from where I'm
[49:10] at. It's that simple, [ __ ] We're not
[49:13] going to play no I don't play games. I
[49:15] don't play I don't get it's whatever the
[49:17] I say and think and tell you it is is
[49:18] what it is. And if you ain't got to get
[49:20] with it, but you ain't going to be over
[49:21] here if you ain't with it. We're not
[49:22] going to go back and forth because in
[49:23] the Bible I I could give a [ __ ] You
[49:25] don't know half the in the Bible. You've
[49:27] never read the Bible. You feel me? Give
[49:30] you know that be that'd be the biggest.
[49:32] Everybody talking about the Bible. I
[49:34] guarantee you 99 people out of a hundred
[49:37] that be talking about that Bible ain't
[49:39] never read the Bible front to back. So
[49:41] shut the up talking to me about that
[49:42] type of don't got her liquor license.
[49:44] She always touchy touchy with her
[49:46] friends and hugs and holding hands. Am I
[49:48] in the wrong for being jealous of this?
[49:49] I'mma tell you like this. Well, you you
[49:52] didn't really explain the situation, but
[49:53] I'mma tell you like this. Uh, if you
[49:55] going to be with then we going to be
[49:58] together.
[50:00] Pause. You get what I'm saying? If
[50:02] you're going to be with
[50:05] the only way that is flying is if you
[50:07] bringing me into the situation with
[50:08] them.
[50:10] You feel me? If if if not you got me up
[50:15] we talking about right now. Oh, you like
[50:18] you like
[50:19] but you don't want to bring me in with
[50:21] these. Well, then you can't with no.
[50:24] It's that simple. You think who you
[50:27] think I am? Boooo the fool around this.
[50:29] You must think I'm a sucker. You think
[50:31] you going to go out here and with some
[50:33] and you like you but you're not going to
[50:35] bring no home and we're not going to
[50:37] around together. All right. All right.
[50:39] Bet bet. I'll go my own [ __ ] then.
[50:41] Either you bring them into the household
[50:43] or I'mma bring my own. But you ain't
[50:44] going to go out hoes no women and not
[50:47] invite me and bring them home and think
[50:50] I'm not going to do the same. I mean for
[50:52] me I'm going to do whatever regardless.
[50:53] But you know that's just what I'm
[50:55] saying. Like you boo the fool if you
[50:57] going to let your bro mess with other
[50:58] women and not bring them home. Like what
[51:00] we talking about right now? Yeah. How
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