# Unlock Your Power: Why Saying 'No' Changes Everything

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bNk5bC7wl-Q

[00:01] What message?
[00:03] What message would I give to the woman who's watching this and still putting everyone else first?
[00:12] This is your season.
[00:12] This is your time.
[00:15] This is your season.
[00:15] This is your time.
[00:15] You are not late.
[00:18] You are right where you supposed to be.
[00:18] You are not behind.
[00:20] I felt all of that.
[00:20] You You didn't miss your chance.
[00:25] Um,
[00:27] if God put a vision in you and you accepted the vision that God gave you and the desires of your heart, then you you have to have faith that God is is working it out on my behalf.
[00:46] this comes from my my spiritual mother Eve.
[00:49] She said, "I believe that God is working it out on my behalf."
[00:54] And I believe that God is working it out on your behalf.
[00:56] It may not look like what you had in your mind.
[01:01] what you had in your mind.
[01:05] And and if and if you're spiritual or or religious or however you identify in any way, you know that when the Lord shows up, when God shows up, that it don't look like what you had in mind because that's your vision.
[01:17] and your view, but that's not the vision and the view that God got for you.
[01:24] It's different.
[01:26] And so, it's shaping you that it's really happening for you to get you where you were meant to be.
[01:31] But if you fixate on what the world has and how everyone else is doing it, first of all, you may not be showing up as who God called you to be.
[01:42] So, he can't bless you because you ain't doing what he told you to do.
[01:45] And you if I if I had a coin for the number of people that when they got their breakthrough it and they realized they already know what they're supposed to be doing and they're not doing it.
[02:03] Right.
[02:06] Right.
[02:09] I say that the message is you already know what God told you to do.
[02:11] You let other things quiet that voice and be louder than that voice.
[02:14] The voice that knows you, hears you, knows your wants and desires, and wants you to have them, and is saying to you that the way to them is this way, and you're allowing the world let you go left.
[02:35] So, I'm going to give you I'm going give you one assignment.
[02:39] If you accept this assignment, the assignment is to use your power and practice saying no.
[02:47] Period. That's it. Just know. Period.
[02:49] Because it's a complete sentence.
[02:53] Well, I need you to come help me um do this and that.
[02:58] If you don't want to, then the answer is no.
[03:03] And you don't have to explain. You don't
[03:05] And you don't have to explain.
[03:05] You don't have to do any of that.
[03:08] But I know you have to do any of that.
[03:08] But I know you might feel like you need to explain.
[03:11] So might feel like you need to explain.
[03:12] So after you start practicing it enough, after you start practicing it enough, you'll realize you'll you'll feel your power.
[03:14] You'll feel your power.
[03:16] It'll well up from it'll it'll well up from your core.
[03:19] You you you will feel like, "Oh man, I didn't know I could do that.
[03:25] If I had if I had if I had I would be loaded if if I got paid for every time the the women that that use this practice.
[03:32] Practice like cuz we laid it down.
[03:35] You didn't know that you had your power.
[03:39] It could be a number of reasons, right?
[03:40] You started disappearing for whatever reason.
[03:42] No shade, no shame, but you're here now.
[03:45] So, you can get and have everything that God told you you can have.
[03:48] You can get cuz that's who placed it there.
[03:51] Everything came after that.
[03:54] Probably ain't it.
[03:56] Probably ain't God.
[03:59] It's all I'm saying.
[04:06] I'm saying.
[04:09] And the more you free up your energy to be inward for you,
[04:13] you will hear that.
[04:15] You will recognize that.
[04:18] You will know that.
[04:20] You will feel that.
[04:23] Cuz those are the things that you want and desire.
[04:25] You got to quit letting the world tell you what that needs to be cuz they can't see it and hear it and know it.
[04:29] God placed that in your heart.
[04:31] It ain't for them.
[04:35] It's for you.
[04:37] But showing up and doing everything for everybody else is not what God called you to do.
[04:40] You know, that would be being busy.
[04:42] You know, people will say that.
[04:43] I ain't seen nowhere where God told me to be busy.
[04:47] Nohere.
[04:50] The world say that be productive and that that you know produces and all that.
[04:58] On the seventh day, the Lord rested and people can't even rest.
[05:01] You ain't resting.
[05:02] You ain't rested in a long time.
[05:05] Resting feels different.
[05:08] Time. Resting feels different.
[05:08] I went on a 25-day vacation to California and I didn't get no rest.
[05:14] None.
[05:14] So stay tuned for that series cuz it's it's called reflections and reckonings cuz it was it was both.
[05:25] It was both.
[05:25] It was something else.
[05:30] So that is the first part.
[05:30] So this is going to turn into a series.
[05:35] This is part one of the series and we just going to walk through getting to know me.
[05:41] I didn't know that that was going to happen, but this is how it's shaping out, right?
[05:45] You just go with the flow and what what is put on your heart at the time.
[05:52] As long as you know it's your spirit talking to you and not someone else, trust it.
[05:56] When when when you stop trusting yourself, the enemy is one.
[06:04] The enemy is one.
[06:04] And we ain't giving up.
[06:05] Not on my watch.
[06:05] You're not giving up.
[06:08] I'm not allowing you to give up on
[06:09] Up.
[06:09] I'm not allowing you to give up on yourself in that way.
[06:09] Okay.