# The Goldie Hour - I Like Who Likes Me - Broken down

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PEzAB3mjC1k

[00:00] All I'm saying is this.
[00:03] How about you wipe that paint off your face and then see if you still got that same confidence when you talk to me.
[00:08] 99% of you women won't.
[00:10] Y'all be chasing a woman that's running from you.
[00:11] Come on.
[00:12] You supposed to be picking the one that's looking at you.
[00:13] Come on.
[00:14] When you do that, you don't even need gang cuz she going to do everything you need.
[00:19] My uncle told me, "Stop looking at that you want and start looking at that little funny looking in the corner just looking at you cuz that woman going to do everything for you."
[00:25] The value that a woman brings to the table makes her bad to me.
[00:27] So the looks ain't even going to be the first thing.
[00:30] Y'all put that before everything.
[00:31] I'm putting what a woman's doing for me before everything.
[00:33] I hate to say it, but I'mma say it.
[00:35] You got to get you a new broad cuz the old broad you got is always going to try to treat you how you used to be.
[00:40] And dudes always choosing some bum broad to [ __ ] with.
[00:43] What do that make you?
[00:45] A woman don't respect but what she's forced to respect.
[00:50] Y'all know who it is.
[00:53] Y'all know what it is.
[00:57] Game Guy Goldie, the one and only on another late night live, the Goldie.
[01:01] Hour.
[01:01] Hey, I know y'all miss me.
[01:04] I know y'all missed this game, 'cause where can where else can you get it?
[01:09] Nowhere.
[01:09] It's one of a kind right here.
[01:11] I told y'all I'm going to start doing less lives, less and less and less.
[01:18] So, if you want to tune in and get the game that I drop daily, then you got to get in the Brotherhood, the players club, the school group.
[01:27] Um, we go live every Sunday.
[01:30] Uh, I drop game in there daily.
[01:30] Free courses.
[01:33] Uh, a whole lot of game.
[01:33] You know, that's where I'm going to be spending most of my time and my energy nowadays.
[01:37] But, you know, I said I'm going to have to come on here and bless y'all with something.
[01:42] Bless y'all with some game.
[01:42] You know, we going to do some questions.
[01:45] I'mma answer some questions.
[01:46] And I got a lot of things to talk about.
[01:48] We going back to the basics today, right?
[01:53] We going back to the basics, because I believe that most of you do not really understand what I like who likes me means.
[02:02] And because you violate the first law 101 game rule number one, you have all of these other questions and problems that you're trying to fix with some tactics.
[02:17] They're never going to work because you violated rule number one.
[02:21] I like who likes me.
[02:24] And most of you, I'm starting to understand, do not really understand what I like who likes me means.
[02:34] So, we going to break it down.
[02:35] We going to get into it.
[02:37] Because when you understand this, like I say, you don't even need game.
[02:42] You only need all of these things and game and words and tactics because you violated rule number one, right?
[02:49] But maybe you don't really understand what it actually means.
[02:55] So, I'm going to teach you and tell you exactly what it means and the philosophy and ideology behind it.
[03:02] But, let's get into it.
[03:03] I'mma do a couple questions.
[03:11] Somebody said, "Did you see the Chris Brown situation?"
[03:13] A couple of y'all talking about that.
[03:15] I did not see the Chris Brown situation.
[03:17] So, y'all got to fill me in.
[03:18] What is the Chris Brown situation?
[03:21] Somebody tell me what the Chris Brown situation is since everybody in here want to act like it's such a big deal.
[03:39] All right, man.
[03:43] Shout out to Gatewood for the super chat.
[03:44] He said, "Goldie, when's the merch going to be back up available to cop?"
[03:48] Nah, man.
[03:48] I'mma do it soon.
[03:51] You know, uh I actually got some merch right now.
[03:52] I just haven't put it up for sale.
[03:54] Y'all let me know that y'all want it.
[03:55] I'll put it up for sale and and you know, get the get the uh the newer stuff in.
[04:00] You know, I just like wearing my stuff.
[04:02] You know, I do it for the movement, not the money.
[04:03] So, if I get a big enough request, man, I'll drop it.
[04:07] You just got to let me know.
[04:09] And I still have some uh some some merch left.
[04:13] Hey, Heartbreak Cherry.
[04:15] Appreciate the super chat.
[04:19] Is somebody going to let me know?
[04:21] Okay, let me guess.
[04:22] Chris Brown in somebody.
[04:24] Somebody said, "Need some more.
[04:25] I like who like me merch."
[04:27] Okay.
[04:27] All right.
[04:27] All right.
[04:27] All right.
[04:27] I guess don't nobody want to tell me what the uh Chris Brown situation was.
[04:33] Somebody said, "My business increasing, my cash flow increasing, my life increasing.
[04:38] Wish the real players on here hustling and bustling through their own glass ceilings daily.
[04:43] All the success in the universe."
[04:51] Man, that Chris Beasy package is crazy.
[04:54] Why they really do that on stage?
[04:57] Where he at?
[05:00] All right, I guess ain't nobody going to uh uh break down the Chris Brown situation.
[05:02] Hey man, Rory, my
[05:04] Guy, shout out.
[05:04] He in a brotherhood.
[05:06] Appreciate the super chat.
[05:07] He's just tithing, showing his appreciation, man.
[05:09] Shout out to you.
[05:19] All right, I'mma wait for somebody to tell me what happened in the Chris Brown situation.
[05:24] Somebody said, "If someone offered to pay for college, would you go instead of doing something that really made you feel whole?
[05:26] Your passion, would you let the money get to you?
[05:30] Really need help?"
[05:36] Man, I don't understand your question.
[05:39] I don't know if your passion is, you know, uh, rock climbing, I would say, no, take your ass to college, you know.
[05:47] So, I mean, it's a situation on situation, uh, thing.
[05:49] So, you know, you got to get in the brotherhood and ask a question, but you need to get a one-on-one call and ask a question.
[06:00] Somebody said, "Game on top of game."
[06:01] Some say, "I keep on going to a fake page and watch her after she left me.
[06:04] Am
[06:07] I getting women tendencies.
[06:10] Would you ever do that for a woman you really like?
[06:12] No, I wouldn't.
[06:13] Yeah, you got women tendencies.
[06:15] No, you just tenderhearted, man.
[06:16] Listen, you only gonna prolong uh that feeling that you have missing her if you keep on watching her and you doing it from a fake page.
[06:24] You got to ask yourself, man, what type of man logs out of his real page to log into a fake page to watch somebody?
[06:31] If you gonna watch her, then you might as well let her see that you watching her.
[06:34] I'm not doing all that.
[06:36] And you know why I'm not doing all that?
[06:40] Because I understand how obsession works.
[06:43] I I understand how why you miss a woman that you no longer with.
[06:45] You just got to give it time.
[06:48] But you keep resetting that clock, it's like an addiction.
[06:52] Hey man, you want to stop smoking?
[06:54] It's going to be the hardest in the first two weeks.
[06:56] After that, it gets easier.
[06:58] But if at any time you smoke a cigarette, you're going to relapse and it's going to be harder again.
[07:01] Just like with that woman, it's an addiction.
[07:03] So therefore, if you want to get over it, you got to stop checking her pages.
[07:07] You got to stop looking at your old
[07:08] Pictures.
[07:09] You got to stop watching your old sex videos with her.
[07:12] You got to completely uh withdraw, go cold turkey on anything that has to do with her.
[07:21] You even have to cut thoughts in your mind when you start thinking about her.
[07:25] Immediately recognize it and start thinking about something else.
[07:27] You do that for a long enough period of time, it's going to get easier and easier and easier.
[07:31] So yeah, man.
[07:34] You tender.
[07:34] Your views getting bigger, Pete.
[07:36] When you trying to leave YouTube, oh man, you know, I'm just I'm I'mma dip off this YouTube real soon, man.
[07:43] You know, I don't know.
[07:45] I'm just going where the wind takes me.
[07:45] You know what I'm saying?
[07:46] Get in the brotherhood cuz I'mma stay there for everybody though, for sure.
[07:51] Been with my girl some years now.
[07:54] I want to have multiple women.
[07:56] How can I break it down to her without backlash or hate?
[07:59] I used to say she will always be the only one.
[08:02] It's not going to happen.
[08:05] Man, you started wrong.
[08:07] You think you're going to go to your woman that you've
[08:09] Already been with, that you've already programmed and conditioned that she's the one and the only one, and then you're going to wake up one day and try to tell her, "No, you know what? I changed my mind.
[08:17] It's different now."
[08:19] It's not going to happen.
[08:22] Let me tell you this.
[08:24] The best thing you can do is if that's how you really want to live is to break up with that woman and go live your life how you want to cuz it ain't never going to work out the way you think.
[08:35] Now, it's possible, but you ain't me.
[08:37] I could do anything.
[08:37] You can't though.
[08:38] You understand what I'm saying?
[08:40] And how unfair is it to her that you told her something?
[08:42] She got into a relationship with you, a commitment with you, and committed to you based on what you told her.
[08:47] And now you want to switch it up.
[08:50] So therefore, you can't just switch it up under the guise of, "Oh, baby, I want to do this now."
[08:54] You have to let her know that you were wrong in telling her something and changing.
[09:00] And you are going to allow her to walk out that door because you are no longer the man that you said you were when you met.
[09:07] And you understand you wronged her for that.
[09:10] But you are a man and in life you do change.
[09:12] She didn't agree to the change and she doesn't have to.
[09:17] But you have to let her know that you understand if she's willing to walk out that door because she doesn't want to get with this new thing that you want to do.
[09:24] And that's the only way you going to have respect doing it.
[09:26] You know what I'm saying?
[09:29] Uh trying to get her to do it.
[09:29] No, no, no.
[09:31] You have to make she has to see you.
[09:36] She has to see not being with you bigger than her dealing with you and other women.
[09:40] That's the only way it's going to work.
[09:42] So you can't present it like, "Hey, baby, I want to do this."
[09:43] You can't present it like that.
[09:44] That's not game.
[09:46] You don't have game if you do it like that.
[09:48] You got to do reverse psychology.
[09:50] Listen, baby.
[09:50] I know I told you this.
[09:53] You was going to be the only one.
[09:56] I know that's what I told you.
[09:56] But in my growth, in my evolution, you know, I want to explore something different.
[10:00] And I know that's unfair to you.
[10:02] And because I know that's unfair to you, I'm sorry to you.
[10:05] And and and I'm going to just have to let you go.
[10:07] And I'm going to let you walk out that door.
[10:08] And I'm going to make sure you good when you walk out that door because I know that
[10:11] Ain't something that you want to get with really.
[10:12] And she should stop you and say, "Whoa, whoa, whoa.
[10:15] Well, maybe maybe I will get with that."
[10:16] You know what I'm saying?
[10:19] So, I mean, at the end of the day, bro, just just drop her and get another one.
[10:23] Cuz even because you've been together so long, you're never going to have a whole household of multiple women the way you want because you already started wrong with this one.
[10:30] The only way you're going to have a multiple household with multiple women like that in the way you want is when you start it like that.
[10:34] Cuz she's always going to have a bigger hold on every other woman.
[10:37] She's It's going to take so much time for her to get over how she feeling.
[10:39] It's it's not as easy as you think.
[10:43] Even when you have multiple women, you still have issues.
[10:45] Let alone you coming in with a square into that lifestyle.
[10:47] It's never going to work.
[10:49] And it's just going to make you look goofy.
[10:50] The the program going to look goofy.
[10:52] And when the next woman come on, she going to be looking like, damn.
[10:53] So, you was with this girl by yourself for all of this time.
[10:56] No, it it's just not going to work, man.
[11:00] I'm not even going to lie to you.
[11:01] Just Just don't even try it, man.
[11:07] Shout out to Parker for the $100 super chat.
[11:09] He said, "Thank you for the
[11:11] game, brother.
[11:12] Hey, man.
[11:12] Shout out to you, man.
[11:14] If you got a question, put it in there.
[11:16] Shout out to the Soul Trucking Channel.
[11:19] Appreciate the Super.
[11:20] He said, "I'm not in a brotherhood yet, but you're definitely convincing.
[11:22] I love the game, Big Dog.
[11:24] We'll be getting your book this week, though."
[11:26] Hey, man.
[11:26] Get in the Brotherhood, man.
[11:28] Way more game than you could ever devour in a lifetime in there and stuff we don't talk about on YouTube at all.
[11:36] Man, y'all got to come with some more better questions right now, y'all.
[11:39] Y'all not coming.
[11:42] Somebody said smoking mirrors are powerful agents to the uninitiated.
[11:47] Before there was your name game Godie using GGG aka 777.
[11:51] The letter G is the number seven in numerology done intentionally using the rule of three.
[12:04] Goldie, if you see your ex that you were with for two years at an event and she was in pocket in the relationship until
[12:11] She walked away, do you look at her and maintain eye contact or ignore completely?
[12:16] Man, come on.
[12:17] I ain't worried about no broad I ain't with and I ain't worried about no broad that ain't worried about me.
[12:21] Do you know what I'm saying?
[12:23] That's it.
[12:23] But I'll be honest, like if if I'm out and I see a woman that I was with for a couple years, um it just depend on how I'm feeling about her.
[12:29] Every woman that I'm not with, I don't feel the same way about.
[12:33] There some women that I see, if I see them out, I'm going to say what's up.
[12:35] And they going to say what's up back.
[12:36] They going to come.
[12:37] They might give me a hug even if they with their man.
[12:41] And some women that I see out, I'm like, man, I hope that [ __ ] don't see me.
[12:42] You know what I'm saying?
[12:45] So, it just all depend on the woman, man.
[12:46] I I don't even understand the question.
[12:49] And at the end of the day, you talking about uh uh maintaining eye contact, man.
[12:52] I ain't worried about no woman that ain't worried about me.
[12:53] Even if it's a past woman, if I was with a woman before, nine times out of 10, if she see me out, she gonna be trying to give me eye contact.
[13:02] Because almost every woman I've ever had, I got action back at if I wanted.
[13:04] So, man, I ain't I You thinking about it too much, man.
[13:07] I ain't even thinking about that [ __ ] too that that much.
[13:09] You know what I'm saying?
[13:15] We going to have to break break this.
[13:17] I like who like me down cuz I see y'all.
[13:19] I see y'all y'all asking about it.
[13:25] But let me tell y'all something though, right?
[13:29] So, I was at at this mansion event this past weekend, right?
[13:37] And uh great time, you know, a lot of women there.
[13:39] And it just showed me most of the women, they was cool, but it was a few women in there.
[13:43] And it just showed me the nerve of women.
[13:48] And it just let me know how some women are just too far gone.
[14:00] And and and and you know when they're too far gone like this, don't even engage.
[14:04] It's like the nerve of these women, the indecency of these women, and the blatant disrespect.
[14:15] How dare you order 1942 shots on my dime when you got a $13 bottle of tequila sitting at home that you was just okay drinking?
[14:31] How dare you order a class Aul shot after I just ordered Patron Silver for my shot?
[14:43] And how dare you order a drink, take a sip, and say, "Nah, I don't like it." And push it away and not drink the rest.
[14:57] I bet if it was your money, you'd have finished what you paid for.
[15:00] You understand me?
[15:04] And how dare you order the most expensive thing on the menu?
[15:11] See, nobody taught these women when you don't pay, you either allow the man to
[15:18] Choose what you order, or you ask the man what he's ordering and make sure what you order is cheaper than that.
[15:26] These women have no home training.
[15:30] You understand me?
[15:33] You understand?
[15:40] So I mean these things have not necessarily happened to me uh recently but in all my years I can point out instances where this has happened or something similar or somebody close to me this has happened to.
[15:55] Now I say that to say we were at the mansion and uh you know the bottles were gone.
[16:00] I was like oh yeah they're ordering more bottles.
[16:03] Woman came up to me and said, "Do you think somebody could order some more class AO?"
[16:09] I said, "They just ordered more bottles."
[16:12] She said, "Yeah, but like I don't want to get sick and class Aul is like the only drink that I can drink where I don't feel hung over in the"
[16:19] Morning.
[16:23] And I thought to myself, the gall of this woman,
[16:26] You already didn't pay for the mansion.
[16:30] You didn't pay for the five-star chef that came in here cooking shrimp and [snorts] lobster.
[16:37] You didn't pay for the original bottles.
[16:40] You didn't pay for the yacht that were going on after this.
[16:45] But you feel so entitled after you already had some of the first class AO bottle to say and stop the whole show and feel good enough to ask,
[16:58] I know you guys just bought more bottles of Patron or of of of Don Julio,
[17:04] But do you think somebody could order some more class AU?
[17:07] Oh my goodness.
[17:11] You know what I'm saying?
[17:13] So that's all I'm saying.
[17:14] I've seen it.
[17:14] I've seen it before.
[17:17] You know, I've seen dudes I know bring a woman to the club
[17:19] And the woman says, "No, I don't drink nothing but class A."
[17:24] And he'll end up getting two bottles of Class A.
[17:26] Mind you, the Patron is I mean the the the Don Julio is 1,500 a bottle.
[17:32] The Class A is like 3,000 a bottle.
[17:35] You feel what I'm saying?
[17:38] I've seen women turn down drinks because it wasn't reposidal knowing damn well they pallet they taste buds couldn't even taste the difference.
[17:47] Don't even drink that unless it's on somebody else's dime.
[17:49] Be okay with that $9 bottle of tequila off brand and tequila when they at home but now they want to act like their their their taste buds are just so high level.
[18:04] You know what I'm saying?
[18:06] And you know, and these are the women who live in this fantasy in their head like they're going to get married one day.
[18:13] These women are going to get older, humble themselves, and die alone and have to settle.
[18:19] Uh uh somebody in the brotherhood said when I was telling this story, he said, "Uh the broad ate Wendy's yesterday.
[18:31] Now all of a sudden today she want me to door dash her some food and talk about she want some lobster and some pasta.
[18:38] So you was okay eating Wendy's yesterday, but then when to ask me for something that you don't even eat on a regular basis.
[18:43] You see?
[18:44] You see what I'm saying?
[18:46] It's a little tidbit though.
[18:55] Somebody said P love from Houston, Texas, fam.
[18:57] Hey man, shout out to Houston, Texas.
[19:01] Appreciate the super chat.
[19:03] Let me go up to these super chats right here.
[19:09] Do you get one-on-one calls in the gold mentorship?
[19:10] Yes, you do.
[19:13] Multiple calls.
[19:16] Somebody said, "Why is it
[19:21] When I don't want anything to do with women, they want me, but soon as I actually want to be with them, they don't want to be with me.
[19:30] Man, I don't know.
[19:31] Sounds like a personal problem to me.
[19:34] I could give you some esoteric uh answer, but I'm not.
[19:36] Man, listen.
[19:36] Sound like a personal problem.
[19:38] Uh, you know what I'm saying?
[19:40] I get women when I want them, when I don't want them.
[19:43] So, you really want to understand why why women don't want you when you want them?
[19:47] Uh, I got to know who you are.
[19:48] I got to know how you talk.
[19:48] I got to know how you dress.
[19:50] I got to know who you are as a person.
[19:51] Hey, get in the brotherhood and I'll tell you.
[19:52] Otherwise, I'm just talking.
[20:07] I'm I'm I'mma talk about this and then I'm going to get on to the I like who like me breakdown.
[20:12] Somebody said, "Goldie, how can I repurpose a trick I've been with for a long time and I'm grown so much since then as a man, I'm bored with her a little?"
[20:18] I love this.
[20:22] question. Amen. Dropped abroad. Why? Why
[20:24] is it only a man
[20:28] Why is it that only a man will outgrow
[20:32] the woman?
[20:35] Only a man will outgrow a woman and
[20:39] still find ways to want to stay with
[20:43] her. When a woman outgrows a man, what
[20:46] do they do? They leave.
[20:49] When a woman outgrows a man
[20:52] thinks she can get better, thinks he's
[20:55] not on his job enough, thinks he hasn't
[20:58] grown enough, hasn't matured enough, and
[21:00] she feels like she's getting better and
[21:02] elevated. What does she do? She leaves.
[21:05] When his money slow up, she leaves. When
[21:08] she doesn't feel like he's grown to
[21:09] where she wants him to be, she leaves.
[21:12] Why are men so righteous
[21:15] when you've grown past a woman? You see
[21:18] she's not bringing any value. You see
[21:21] you're just wasting time. You say you
[21:24] ask a question to me and say, "How can I
[21:26] repurpose this?" Bro, look at you. You
[21:28] trying to fix her. Just leave. Leave her
[21:32] like she would leave you if the if the
[21:34] shoe was on the other foot.
[21:37] That's the problem. Men have been taught
[21:40] to be too righteous. These women ain't
[21:41] that righteous to you. Hey man, you
[21:43] about wrong in the situation. Don't stay
[21:45] in a situation. Don't Don't overstay in
[21:47] a situation that you shouldn't be in.
[21:49] Leave.
[21:51] Hey man, it it's like that.
[21:54] Do you know where I would be if I stayed
[21:55] with every single person that I outgrew?
[21:58] I'd be like most of you in miserable
[21:59] relationships resenting the person that
[22:01] you with deep down inside. and you don't
[22:03] really understand why you talk to them
[22:05] cuz you deep down inside resent them
[22:06] because you know you can outgrew them
[22:07] but you want to be a good person and
[22:09] stay with them because you think that's
[22:10] what you're supposed to do. You're not
[22:14] you know so that's all I can say to that
[22:16] you know and and and people do that on a
[22:18] regular basis like oh people need to get
[22:20] okay with leaving people.
[22:23] You're born alone, you die alone. And as
[22:26] long as you trying to hold on to
[22:28] something that's no longer conducive to
[22:29] your growth, you're gonna start dying
[22:31] and going backwards.
[22:33] You know what I'm saying? That's all I
[22:34] can say. You know, and it seems harsh,
[22:38] but in in in reality, man, at the end of
[22:40] the day, bro, she she wouldn't stay with
[22:41] you if she felt the same way. So why you
[22:44] staying with her?
[23:03] Goldie, if a dude locks eyes with you at
[23:05] the club, do you look back until he
[23:07] looks away or you look away first? How
[23:11] can a [ __ ] lock eyes with me if I don't
[23:12] lock eyes with him? I don't lock eyes,
[23:13] but like what these weird ass questions.
[23:15] If a if a if a guy locks eyes with you
[23:17] at the club, do you lock eyes with him
[23:19] or you look away? Bro, let me tell you
[23:21] something. Something is wrong with your
[23:22] brain.
[23:24] Something is wrong with your brain. See,
[23:26] some people don't know something wrong
[23:27] something wrong with your brain that
[23:29] you're even thinking like that. I've
[23:30] never had this question in my life. I
[23:33] can't even think of a time that I've
[23:34] ever even locked eyes with a man at the
[23:36] club. So, whatever your whatever you're
[23:39] thinking is, you're creating your
[23:40] reality cuz it's probably not even going
[23:42] the way you think it's going. I don't
[23:44] even know. And I don't even know where
[23:45] you're going with this. I don't even
[23:47] know where you're going with this right
[23:48] now. There's never been a time in my
[23:51] life where I can say I've been in a club
[23:52] and locked eyes with another man. Like,
[23:54] what do we I don't know what we're
[23:55] talking about right now. Really, I'm I'm
[23:57] being serious. Some people don't know
[23:59] how in their head they are and how weird
[24:01] they are. And so, me telling you this, I
[24:05] hope you recognize it and say, you know
[24:06] what? I am being weird. Let me knock off
[24:08] whatever weird whatever train of thought
[24:10] you was about to go down. I don't even
[24:11] know what train of thought you were
[24:12] about to go down. Whatever trainer
[24:14] thought you were about to go down,
[24:15] understand it's not normal and you
[24:17] should just knock it off. I tell people
[24:19] this all the time, like you can stop
[24:21] being weird anytime you want. Really,
[24:24] like everybody has some weird times and
[24:26] be weird in their mind. Sometimes you
[24:27] need to stop be like, you know what,
[24:28] that's weird. Let me knock it off. I
[24:30] don't even know what what what what
[24:32] train of thought you was about to go
[24:33] down right now. But I go to the club all
[24:35] the time. I I can't remember ever
[24:38] locking eyes with a man at the club.
[24:44] [laughter]
[24:47] said McQueen just got 10K off the rip at
[24:50] Streamer University. The game going
[24:52] global, G. Hey man, shout out to
[24:54] McQueen, man. I'm proud of him. I'm
[24:56] happy for him. Hey, man. Hey, man. The
[24:58] game taking off.
[25:01] Goldie, I failed a test and I'm feeling
[25:03] a little down about it. How do you
[25:04] overcome failure and bounce back better,
[25:05] man? Give me an actual question. What
[25:07] was the test you failed?
[25:21] man. Listen,
[25:23] like I was saying before.
[25:27] Oh, somebody said he wants some he he he
[25:29] wants some esoteric game.
[25:31] He wants some esoteric game.
[25:34] Well, I'mma give you one of my one of my
[25:36] favorite stories that we was just
[25:37] talking about in the brotherhood.
[25:42] All right, so pay attention. You know,
[25:45] Think and Grow Rich, if if those who
[25:46] don't know who don't know my story, one
[25:48] of the first books I read when I went to
[25:49] prison or went went to jail, never been
[25:51] to prison. When I went to jail, never
[25:54] read, cheated, my entire way through
[25:56] school, damn near couldn't read. Even
[25:57] now, I be messing my words up even
[25:58] though I read a lot now just because I
[26:00] never got the foundation correct. So
[26:03] read my first book when I went to jail.
[26:06] It was Think and Grow Rich, right?
[26:09] Changed my life. Now it's plenty of
[26:12] books that are better than Think and
[26:13] Grow Rich, but that's what got me
[26:14] started on my journey of reading. And we
[26:18] were just talking about this in the
[26:19] Brotherhood, and it's a story in Think
[26:21] and Grow Rich. One of the first stories
[26:23] in Think and Grow Rich,
[26:26] one of the most powerful stories in
[26:28] Think and Grow Rich. And it's about a
[26:30] guy named Edrew Edwin Barnes.
[26:34] This man decided he was going to become
[26:38] Thomas Edison's business partner. Mind
[26:40] you, this book was written in early
[26:42] 1900s.
[26:44] He decided sitting at his house that he
[26:47] was going to become business partners
[26:50] with Thomas Edison,
[26:53] right? And the crazy part about that was
[26:56] he had no money. He had no connections.
[26:59] He had no opportunity waiting for him.
[27:02] He didn't even have enough money to get
[27:04] a train ticket. So he like rode the
[27:07] freight like you know back in the day
[27:08] they just jumped on the trains
[27:10] illegally, right? So he just jumped on
[27:12] the train.
[27:14] He got off the train looking like a bum.
[27:18] He was broke, unknown.
[27:21] Wasn't no job application. Wasn't no job
[27:24] position opening. and he jumped off the
[27:27] plane the the train looking like a bum
[27:30] but inside it said he felt like a king.
[27:34] Right.
[27:36] Anyway, [clears throat]
[27:39] he got there. He didn't ask for a job.
[27:43] When he saw Edison, he said, "I came to
[27:46] be your business partner."
[27:49] Now, think about that. Some regular kid,
[27:53] no experience,
[27:55] no money, a bum, walks up to Thomas
[27:58] Edison and says, "I came to come and be
[28:01] your business partner."
[28:03] Everybody else would have laughed at
[28:04] him. He looked broke. He had nothing.
[28:09] But Thomas Edison saw something
[28:12] different about him. He could see the
[28:14] determination in his eyes, that burning
[28:16] desire. And that's what the book is
[28:18] about. So anyway, long story short or
[28:21] long story long, he didn't become
[28:23] Edison's business partner overnight. He
[28:24] started with a small job. He got a job
[28:26] sweeping the floors doing whatever was
[28:28] available, you know, but you know, the
[28:30] goal never changed. You know, he didn't
[28:32] see himself as an employee. And this is
[28:34] a big part of the book is about his
[28:35] mindset. He even when he was sweeping
[28:37] the floors, he saw himself as his
[28:39] business partner, you know, and
[28:41] eventually years later, Edison end up uh
[28:44] coming up with some machine. Most people
[28:45] didn't believe in it. Barnes did. He
[28:48] sold it so successfully that Edison
[28:49] eventually made him his exclusive
[28:52] distributor and he got wealthy. Anyway,
[28:55] the lesson is about it ain't about your
[28:57] circumstances. Your circumstances don't
[29:00] determine your future. Your commitment
[29:01] does. People have wishes. Barnes made a
[29:04] decision. Uh he didn't have money, but
[29:06] he had confidence. And when you have
[29:08] that type of magnetism, uh when you have
[29:11] that type of determination, when you
[29:12] have that type of vision, you can do
[29:14] anything. So there's some esoteric game
[29:16] for you. Let me get back to these
[29:18] questions.
[29:27] If a girl from another somebody said
[29:29] everything is mental. Yeah, man. And
[29:30] that and that was the biggest thing
[29:31] about it. And and and the the book just
[29:33] goes through a bunch of different
[29:34] stories of people who started with
[29:35] nothing. It didn't matter what they had.
[29:37] They felt like they were something
[29:39] before they was something. And I
[29:40] resonated with that so much in my life
[29:42] because I felt like I was something
[29:43] before I had anything. And when I look
[29:45] back, I'm like, that was crazy. But
[29:47] that's what it took to feel like I was
[29:48] something before I was to act in that
[29:50] way and it ended up giving me the
[29:52] equivalent of everything that I thought
[29:53] that I was later.
[29:56] You know,
[30:01] somebody said,
[30:03] "I'mma pull up on Goldie at Tussies and
[30:05] say I came to be your apprentice."
[30:07] [laughter]
[30:08] Hey, listen. Nah, man. You better come
[30:10] with some money. Uh but you know people
[30:13] and I say that now people can see
[30:15] somebody's burning desire. Everybody
[30:17] wants to be around somebody who has a
[30:18] burning desire. I can see it in some
[30:19] people. I can see that spark. Why? Cuz
[30:22] most people are so void of life and mine
[30:25] is on this and entertainment and then
[30:27] then they're just drones looking at
[30:29] their phone. And so when you see
[30:31] somebody with a spark of life in them,
[30:34] with that magnetism, with that desire,
[30:36] with that burning desire, it kind of
[30:38] invigorates you. And so even a lot of my
[30:41] men mentors, you know, they saw that in
[30:43] me. I was so excited to get the game. I
[30:45] was so excited to I was so excited and
[30:47] they could feel it and they wanted to
[30:48] give me more. So having that type of
[30:51] energy just around people is is
[30:52] infectious.
[30:57] Bro, locking eyes with a brother shaking
[31:00] my head currently reading psycho
[31:01] cybernetics per your recommendation.
[31:04] Enjoying it so much. I enjoy the players
[31:05] club just now. fan of your work, Goldie,
[31:08] and man, shout out to you. We was
[31:09] talking about psychocybernetics in the
[31:11] last uh game call. Great book,
[31:13] phenomenal book, man. And it really just
[31:15] talks about your life and your
[31:18] accomplishments are based on your
[31:20] self-image, not on your capabilities.
[31:22] And most of us, all of us are way more
[31:24] capable than our self-image permits. But
[31:27] we will never supersede our self-image.
[31:31] It's like having a governor on a car.
[31:33] The car can go 100, 200. The car could
[31:36] go 200 miles an hour, but they code into
[31:38] the computer of the car to only let it
[31:40] go to 150. And that is most of us. And
[31:42] most of us are operating at 10% 20% 30%
[31:46] not understanding it's really our
[31:47] self-image. And so it's a man, he was a
[31:50] plastic surgeon and he started to
[31:53] realize that he can make somebody who
[31:56] was ugly and had deformities make them
[31:59] beautiful and they can still and they
[32:02] still saw themselves as ugly because it
[32:05] wasn't what was actually being seen is
[32:07] what they saw themselves as inside. And
[32:10] so if we don't think we're confident, if
[32:12] we don't think we're capable, if we
[32:13] don't think that woman is going to like
[32:14] us, if we don't think that we could
[32:15] perform, then we are not going to be
[32:17] able to because of our self-image. And
[32:20] so it talks about how to break that down
[32:21] and and selft talk and so many different
[32:23] things and, you know, goes very
[32:25] scientific about it, but it's just it's
[32:27] a book everybody needs to read.
[32:40] My woman lied to me about going to a
[32:43] conference and used our finances to Oh
[32:45] my goodness. My woman lied to me about
[32:48] going to a conference and used our
[32:50] finances to go to that Chris Brown
[32:52] concert. When she came back, she told me
[32:54] it's not like you Chris Brown and lower
[32:58] my tone. She I'mma think I think you
[33:02] just trolling. I'm going just go to the
[33:03] next one.
[33:07] Chick lied to me about some dude, but I
[33:10] also got a chick pregnant. She didn't
[33:12] keep it. Should I forgive her for lying?
[33:15] I was honest. No, you don't forgive
[33:17] nobody for lying. She lied. Treated as
[33:19] such. What do you mean? I don't care
[33:21] what I did. You still did what you did.
[33:24] You get what I'm saying? I don't care
[33:27] what I did. We'll deal with what I did
[33:29] on its own terms.
[33:32] But you still did something.
[33:35] So, we're going to treat what you did
[33:36] like you did it cuz you did it, right?
[33:39] Don't matter what I did. What I did has
[33:41] no bearing on what you did. What you did
[33:44] needs to be addressed and we're going to
[33:46] address it.
[33:48] I don't understand the question.
[33:52] I don't understand the question.
[33:59] Appreciate the super chat.
[34:13] Somebody said, "I saw an old picture of
[34:15] you when you were in Cairo with that
[34:17] Rick Ross beard."
[34:19] Yeah, sure did. Sure did. No, I ain't
[34:21] bringing the beard back.
[34:24] I'm married and have a daughter at 23. I
[34:26] work crazy hours and have no time to
[34:28] work on myself. My wife is a duck. She
[34:30] has ups, downs all the times and doesn't
[34:32] respect me. What should I do?
[34:36] Man, you know, get on a call with me cuz
[34:38] I'm not going to go into that that
[34:40] depth. Um, man, you married a woman and
[34:46] have a daughter by 23. He's a duck. She
[34:50] has ups and downs and she doesn't
[34:52] respect me. What should I do?
[34:55] Leave.
[34:57] I mean, that's the only thing you can
[34:58] do. can't do nothing else, man. Leave.
[35:01] I'm be honest. Like,
[35:04] with the older you get,
[35:07] the older you get,
[35:10] the more you start to see things
[35:11] differently.
[35:13] When you were younger and somebody be
[35:16] like, "Oh, he's a deadbeat dad, or he
[35:18] ran away on his family and ran off on
[35:20] his family and had a family somewhere
[35:22] else."
[35:23] The older you get, you no longer look at
[35:27] these stories as, "Oh, he's such a
[35:30] horrible person." You start looking at
[35:32] these stories like,
[35:34] "I understand.
[35:37] Save yourself.
[35:39] What's the other side of the story?"
[35:42] True story. So my grandma
[35:46] on my father's side,
[35:49] her
[35:51] grandfather, so which are my great great
[35:52] great-grandfather, my her grandfather,
[35:55] which is my great great whatever, right?
[35:58] Full-blooded
[36:00] Native American, right?
[36:02] And she told me the reason we could
[36:05] never get um you know signed off and get
[36:08] the our paperwork you know how if you
[36:10] got can prove that you uh Native
[36:12] American you get some the reason we
[36:14] could never get that done is because her
[36:17] mother which is my great-g
[36:18] grandandmother
[36:20] hated her father
[36:22] and so they never spoke like that. So
[36:25] she never wanted to reach out and she
[36:26] hated her father because
[36:30] he
[36:32] walked out on her mother
[36:35] next and went next door and had a whole
[36:37] another family. True story. True story.
[36:39] So what would that be? My great So my
[36:41] great greatgrandfather was full Native
[36:44] American
[36:46] and he left my great great great
[36:49] grandmother
[36:51] went across the street and had a family
[36:54] with an entire another woman.
[36:57] True story. But anyway, I say that to
[36:59] say neither here nor there. I say that
[37:01] to say, "Oh, just leave. Just leave or
[37:06] live a quiet life of desperation.
[37:10] Choice is yours. I just leave. [ __ ] what
[37:12] people going to say about you. [ __ ] how
[37:14] people going to feel about it. Just
[37:17] leave
[37:19] or be miserable the rest of your life. I
[37:21] don't know.
[37:24] Afie King, appreciate the super chat.
[37:27] Salute. GG. Did you talk about the party
[37:30] already? How many of them ladies up the
[37:33] they body count by three? Y'all get in
[37:36] the brotherhood. We cook every Sunday,
[37:38] man. Shout out to Oppy. Now, I didn't
[37:39] talk about the party yet, man. I didn't
[37:41] talk about the party yet, but I
[37:43] definitely I definitely should if y'all
[37:44] got some questions about it. Matter of
[37:46] fact, we going to save that for the
[37:47] brotherhood. We going to save that for
[37:49] the brotherhood. So, we going to talk
[37:50] about that in there. Goldie, would you
[37:52] say the majority of people in the spaces
[37:55] you're in are in physically good shape
[37:57] or more out of shape? More more in good
[38:00] shape. Because you got to think, I'm in
[38:02] the space of of being seen. I'm in the
[38:04] space of attention. And then I'm in an
[38:06] environment where, you know, your
[38:08] environment uh becomes who you are. So
[38:11] it's a lot of people are in shape. A lot
[38:13] of people uh hold that in high esteem.
[38:15] So therefore, if you're in this space
[38:16] and you're in this influence, that's
[38:18] what people are doing. So you do it as
[38:19] well because that's a standard.
[38:24] Okay.
[38:27] Hey man, shout out to Mr. Chandler with
[38:30] the $100 super chat. He said, "I'mma go
[38:32] rent me a Hellcat next week. I'mma buy
[38:35] me a lot of clothes and some shoes.
[38:37] Hopefully some jewelry if you got some
[38:39] for me. Hey man, shout out to Chandler,
[38:40] man. He's in a He's in a brotherhood,
[38:42] man. We getting them all the way right
[38:43] from head to toe, top to bottom, bottom
[38:45] to top. You know what I'm saying? Um,
[38:47] man, shout out to you. Appreciate the
[38:49] super chat. Uh, you know, text me if you
[38:51] need me.
[38:56] Goldie, what is a trait you see most in
[38:58] people 35 and under that have achieved
[39:01] millionaire status?
[39:04] Well, I'mma say this, right? Oh, you got
[39:07] and I say it all the time. Like if I if
[39:09] there's one thing one thing you can say,
[39:11] okay, they're disciplined. Oh, they're
[39:13] dedicated to this. No,
[39:16] you have to have a burning desire, you
[39:19] have to want to get rich so bad. You
[39:21] have to want it so bad. You have to get
[39:24] butterflies in your stomach when you see
[39:26] uh nice things. Or not necessarily. Or
[39:29] you could just have it about money or
[39:30] the freedom that you going to have.
[39:31] Whatever it is, man. People only
[39:33] accomplish what they really really
[39:35] really really want, what you obsess
[39:38] about. Um, the greatest secret ever ever
[39:41] told. You become what you think about
[39:43] most of the time. Man, I was always
[39:44] thinking about having more riding this I
[39:48] would say something else, but I ain't
[39:49] going to say it. But when I was younger,
[39:51] all I thought about was trying to be a
[39:53] I'm going say player.
[39:55] That's all I That's I obsessed with it.
[39:57] I obsessed with the movies. I obsess
[39:59] with the people who were like that. I I
[40:02] obsessed with it, you know. And then
[40:04] later down the line, I started to obsess
[40:05] with growth and and and and money and
[40:07] and success and Rolls-Royces and
[40:10] Bentley's and pen houses and yachts and
[40:12] and I obsess with I obsess with that.
[40:15] You become what you think about most of
[40:16] the time. What are you obsessed with,
[40:19] man? It it was a 10 10 15 20 year
[40:21] period, man. When I think about it, like
[40:23] all I my entire focus was getting money.
[40:26] Every day I woke up, it was like how do
[40:28] how can I get rich? How can I move
[40:29] forward getting rich today? That and
[40:31] women. That was it. That was it. What
[40:33] are you obsessed with? You become what
[40:36] you think about most of the time. And
[40:37] your life is going to be what you think
[40:38] about most of the time. Are you
[40:39] constantly Do you want it that bad? Do
[40:41] you want it bad enough to where you're
[40:42] not going to go to sleep and and watch
[40:44] Netflix tonight? Do you want it bad
[40:45] enough to stop scrolling? Do you want it
[40:47] bad enough to turn off, you know,
[40:49] whatever you're watching that's not
[40:50] conducive to where you trying to go? Do
[40:52] you want it bad enough to where you
[40:53] going to sit for hours and hours and
[40:55] hours and and research that business?
[40:56] Are do you want it bad enough that you
[40:58] going to go to that other state with
[40:59] $1,500 in your pocket and and shower at
[41:01] the gym and sleep in your car? Do you
[41:03] want it bad enough? Do you have a
[41:05] burning desire?
[41:08] Just like we was just talking about in
[41:09] Think and Grow Rich, he had no money, no
[41:12] opportunity, no job. He just got on the
[41:16] train and went there and said, "I'mma
[41:18] figure it out." Because he had a burning
[41:20] desire to work for Thomas Edison. Do you
[41:24] have that? And if you don't, you need to
[41:26] cultivate it. And that's what I see in
[41:27] most people. They don't want it bad
[41:29] enough. You're too satisfied. You're too
[41:32] satisfied where you are. That's why
[41:34] sometimes hating where you at is such a
[41:36] great motivator. When you hate where you
[41:38] at so bad, you say, "You know what? All
[41:40] right, enough. I've had it. I'm better
[41:42] than this."
[41:44] You know, that's why smoking weed is
[41:46] bad. Because smoking weed will have you
[41:48] comfortable
[41:49] will have you comfortable with nothing.
[41:51] Hey, when I'm smoking, I'm cool. No, I
[41:53] don't want to be cool. So, I had to stop
[41:55] smoking. I don't want to be cool. I
[41:56] don't want to feel good. I want to feel
[41:58] bad cuz feeling bad is a motivator that
[42:00] I'm going to get up out of here and do
[42:01] something about my situation.
[42:04] So, that's what I'd say.
[42:22] Somebody said, "I know you say you
[42:24] didn't deliberately try to manifest what
[42:25] you're doing now, so you just have been
[42:29] more general with your desire. In
[42:30] hindsight, what intention were you
[42:31] putting out there?" The intention I was
[42:33] putting out there was luxury, freedom,
[42:36] notoriety.
[42:38] You know, that's all I wanted, man. I
[42:41] just wanted the money. That's all I ever
[42:43] wanted.
[42:46] That's all I ever wanted. And you could
[42:49] ask my mom right now. You could ask my
[42:51] uncles. You could ask my Well, rest in
[42:53] peace, but you could ask so many people
[42:55] in my family. When I was 6,7, I was that
[42:58] kid. Always trying to get some money.
[43:00] Infactuated with jewelry. Always any
[43:04] jewelry store, anything about money.
[43:09] You know, I've always wanted more. I
[43:12] always was in awe when we would ride by
[43:14] the mansions. I would always be in awe
[43:16] when I would see nice cars and things of
[43:18] that nature. I've always been like this.
[43:21] I've always had the intention to try to
[43:23] have more, try to be more, try to
[43:25] travel, try to I've always I had the the
[43:28] the had magazines of of mansions when I
[43:30] was when when they was still sending
[43:32] magazines to the house, you know.
[43:35] So my intention has always just been
[43:38] having money, be free, be rich, be
[43:40] famous, be that's always been my
[43:42] intention.
[43:45] That's all I would think about
[43:48] for days and months, weeks, and months
[43:50] and years on in how to how how I'm going
[43:53] to get rich. That was it.
[43:56] [clears throat and cough]
[43:58] Talk more on why you should quit
[44:00] smoking. I mean, do what you want to do,
[44:02] but uh I mean I mean everybody say
[44:04] smoking does different things to you,
[44:06] you know, but for me, smoking didn't
[44:07] make me sharper. It made me lazier. It
[44:09] made me complacent. It made me eat bad,
[44:13] you know, and it it had me in a
[44:14] perpetual fog state where I wasn't sharp
[44:16] and clear. How could And even if you can
[44:18] be successful, you could probably be way
[44:20] more successful if you're clearer,
[44:22] right? If you had more motivation,
[44:25] if you weren't spending time smoking on
[44:28] a regular basis. I mean, it just makes
[44:29] sense. Anything that's energy and
[44:33] clarity are two of the biggest keys to
[44:35] success. Energy, willpower, and clarity.
[44:38] If you have the energy, you have
[44:41] willpower and you have clarity, that
[44:43] those are what you need to be
[44:44] successful. And weed takes away most of
[44:46] that cuz you don't have clarity. It
[44:48] dampens your willpower,
[44:50] you know? So, I mean, it just makes
[44:52] everything harder to do. And just even
[44:55] those for those who say, "Oh, well, you
[44:56] can still be successful if you smoke."
[44:58] It's like, oh, well, you couldn't. How
[44:59] much more successful would you be if you
[45:00] didn't, though?
[45:03] You feel what I'm saying?
[45:13] Put some questions in the chat.
[45:23] What's the difference between
[45:26] a pimp and a max? Somebody say, "Ah,
[45:28] man. I don't really like them type of
[45:30] conversations,
[45:32] but uh this is what I was this is what I
[45:35] was told." So, somebody said, "What's
[45:37] the difference
[45:39] between a pimp and a Mac and who's
[45:43] superior?"
[45:46] I'm not a pimp, never have been one, so
[45:48] I can't really tell you, but this is
[45:49] what I heard. I'mma tell you what Jimmy
[45:51] Star told me.
[45:53] Jimmy Star said to me that a Mac is a
[45:58] polished pimp.
[46:01] He would say,
[46:03] "A pimp knows how to do one thing, pimp
[46:05] on holes. A Mac knows how to do a
[46:08] multitude of things. A Mac has
[46:10] businesses. A Mac has skills. A Mac has
[46:13] women. A Mac has women that don't just
[46:15] lay on their back. He has women who lay
[46:17] on their back. He has women who who may
[46:20] thieves. He may have women running big
[46:22] con. He may have women in a business
[46:24] doing different things.
[46:27] He would say
[46:30] the pimp has three, four hoes in the
[46:31] strip club. He said the Mac owns the
[46:34] strip club. Because the P says,
[46:39] oh no, I only do one thing. I get all my
[46:42] money out these bras. That's it. And if
[46:43] you do anything other than that, that
[46:45] ain't P.
[46:47] the Mac. He doesn't bound himself by
[46:51] those same principles.
[46:53] He might have some businesses.
[46:57] He might have a uh women doing things
[47:01] other than laying on their back or not
[47:02] having women lay on their back at all.
[47:04] He might have the sack, you know, he
[47:06] might do this. He might do that. So, if
[47:09] you asking who's more superior, it's for
[47:13] you. It's it's for you to to decide. Who
[47:15] would you rather be? put yourself in a
[47:17] box and say I only do one thing or put
[47:20] yourself global and say I do whatever as
[47:22] long as the outcome is income. You know,
[47:25] I don't limit myself to just what these
[47:28] broads do. I got my own things going on.
[47:30] I got this going on. I got skills. I got
[47:32] this. I got business. I got this. I got
[47:33] that. That's how I was taught to game.
[47:36] You know what I'm saying? So, do with
[47:38] that as you will.
[47:54] Oh man, we not even going to talk about
[47:56] that. I don't even know how you know
[47:58] that.
[48:03] Smoking weed is for the weak and needy.
[48:04] I mean, listen, everybody has different
[48:06] vices, man. Everybody has vices. So
[48:08] don't try to judge somebody else's vice
[48:10] because their vice may seem worse than
[48:13] yours, but you still have one. And yours
[48:15] is still worse than somebody who's purer
[48:16] than you. Somebody who's smoking weed.
[48:19] Hey man, somebody who's smoking crack,
[48:22] somebody doing hair, you know. So and
[48:25] and and there some people out here who
[48:27] got some really deep disturbing vices.
[48:31] So just be thankful if you ain't got no
[48:33] vice. And if you've never had a vice
[48:35] before,
[48:37] don't get any. You know what I'm saying?
[48:39] Like when when a vice got a hold on you,
[48:43] you know, sometimes you got to pray
[48:44] about it. You know what I'm saying? You
[48:47] know, and so you don't never want to get
[48:49] any more vices than you already have.
[48:50] You know, some of your vices is is is
[48:53] smoking. Some of your vices is uh sugar,
[48:55] man. You know, I I've been having a
[48:57] sugar tooth lately, man. And and
[48:58] normally I don't have any cravings for
[49:00] that, you know. But all I'm saying is,
[49:03] man, don't judge another man's vice.
[49:04] Just work on your own. You know, work on
[49:07] yourself getting better. Don't judge the
[49:08] next man for his.
[49:28] I used to tell the dudes when they ask
[49:30] should they do something I always reply
[49:32] it's going to leave you it ain't that
[49:34] serious
[49:35] talking about investment with the women
[49:38] my passion something that's going to
[49:45] yeah
[49:47] so
[49:51] this is something that I heard twice in
[49:53] the same day so I I I I made a note of
[49:58] So, this isn't a Bible analogy, right?
[50:01] And you know, say what you want about
[50:03] the Bible, there's there's good stories
[50:05] in anything. And this is an analogy that
[50:07] I really liked. You know, it's actually
[50:09] a story that I really love. Right? So,
[50:13] Job was one of God's best servants.
[50:18] He was a wealthy man with a lovely
[50:21] family and he had everything everyone
[50:25] wanted.
[50:27] And his entire life came to destruction
[50:30] because of what he said.
[50:34] And what he said was this.
[50:37] For what I have greatly feared has come
[50:40] upon me.
[50:42] It's just a story but the analogy is
[50:45] good. how dangerous fear is.
[50:49] And you will always manifest what you
[50:51] fear cuz fear is negative manifesting.
[50:55] When you fear, you're in the frequency
[50:57] to attract more circumstances that will
[50:59] give you more of that feeling of fear.
[51:02] You're always manifesting.
[51:05] And when you fear, you manifest what you
[51:07] fear. So be careful what you think, be
[51:11] careful what you say, and be careful
[51:13] what you watch.
[51:16] Has anybody understood that? Job 3:25,
[51:21] New King James Version. For the thing I
[51:25] greatly feared has come upon me, and
[51:28] what I dreaded has happened to me.
[51:32] You understand?
[51:35] Great passage right there. You know, and
[51:37] I tell this to people all the time and
[51:38] even people around me, man, don't talk
[51:39] about that negative stuff. My girl come
[51:41] up to me and she'll be coughing too much
[51:43] and she'll be like, "What's what's wrong
[51:44] with me?" I said, "Don't ever say that.
[51:47] Don't say what's wrong with me. Say
[51:48] what's right with me." You know, just
[51:49] just monitoring what you what you
[51:51] thinking is happening to you and always
[51:54] think the best, not the worst. You know,
[51:55] and I know that's that's very hard for a
[51:57] lot of people.
[52:00] Goldie, I have my eye on that eagle
[52:02] that's stern on her standards. How do I
[52:05] turn up to make her want to choose
[52:06] without sweating her? Oh, you got to
[52:09] become a catch.
[52:11] You got to become a catch, man. You
[52:13] can't you you can't make somebody want
[52:15] you. All you could do is present your
[52:17] best self and hopefully they recognize
[52:19] what they looking at. And if they don't,
[52:20] they lost. You just stay working on
[52:24] yourself, becoming better, becoming a
[52:27] choice. It's like this, right? So, I'm
[52:29] going to tell you like this. So, like
[52:30] say I go somewhere.
[52:32] If me and one of my bras go somewhere,
[52:36] let's say we go out the country to to
[52:37] like a resort,
[52:40] you know, I'm the top guy there every
[52:42] time. Not even almost every time.
[52:45] I am the top person there every time.
[52:48] Cuz in regular environments, I stand
[52:51] out. My me and my girl going to stand
[52:53] out like a sore phone. We got the best
[52:54] bodies. We the best looking. We the best
[52:57] groom with the best clothes, the best
[52:58] jewelry, the best designer, the best
[53:01] swag.
[53:02] the best teeth.
[53:05] You know, in a regular environment, we
[53:08] are the best choice. And so when we're
[53:11] there and it's women there, it's almost
[53:14] automatic. The best looking women there,
[53:16] it's almost unless they got a boyfriend
[53:19] or maybe here and there, almost every
[53:21] single time, we always end up connecting
[53:24] and and talking and you know, because
[53:27] the top recognize who else is the top
[53:29] and they equal and and you're going to
[53:31] attract because you're on the same
[53:32] level.
[53:34] You get what I'm saying? So when you
[53:36] really become that next level, guess
[53:39] what? people on that next level
[53:40] recognize it's only a few of you and you
[53:42] recognize like even when I go certain
[53:44] places like you go some places and then
[53:47] it's it be one other person in there
[53:49] with with with a chain on one other
[53:51] person that you just know is on your
[53:52] level. It's like everybody else in here
[53:54] is not on your level. It's like say like
[53:56] somebody's in really good shape and
[53:59] you're somewhere where it's a bunch of
[54:00] regular people. Like say you go to the
[54:02] airport, bunch of regular people, just
[54:05] sloppy whatever or train station,
[54:07] whatever, right? And it's somebody on
[54:10] there and and you worked out and it's
[54:13] obvious. If there's another person on
[54:16] the train worked out, y'all are going to
[54:18] catch eyes because y'all on the same
[54:20] level. And if it's a woman that's very
[54:21] worked out, y'all gonna catch eyes. Why?
[54:23] Because y'all the same. you're on the
[54:24] same level.
[54:26] So if you want to attract that woman
[54:27] who's on a top top top level, then you
[54:29] have to be her equal or better. And you
[54:31] got to be better when it's a woman. You
[54:34] understand what I'm saying?
[54:36] You have to be on that level cuz she's
[54:40] going to look around and this she's
[54:41] going to say, "He's the only person I
[54:44] can deal with here cuz he's the only one
[54:46] on my level or the very few on my
[54:47] level." Man, when you when you a top
[54:50] person and you in a room with top
[54:53] people, you realize there's not too many
[54:55] of you. And when it's a woman who's a
[54:58] top person or another dudes who is top,
[55:00] you naturally gravitate towards each
[55:01] other. It's just how it is. If you
[55:05] understand what I'm trying to say, let
[55:07] me know if you understand what I'm
[55:08] trying to say.
[55:23] Let me know if you understand what I'm
[55:24] trying to say. I'm I'm really and I've
[55:26] never really like it that was a good
[55:27] question because I've never really
[55:28] actually said this out loud, but this is
[55:30] real. When I go like places where it's
[55:32] regular people, I always stand out and
[55:35] whoever is the top woman in that space,
[55:37] nine times out of 10, I got them because
[55:39] I'm the best. I'm It's like I'm It's
[55:41] like I'm a a superstar around a bunch of
[55:44] common folk.
[55:46] You get what I'm saying? So when it's
[55:48] that, you're always going to get the the
[55:49] the the eagle. So if you're not getting
[55:52] the eagle, you know what you got to do?
[55:54] You just got to keep building yourself.
[55:56] Because guess what? When you are that,
[55:57] guess what? The same way you notice her,
[55:58] she going to notice you cuz you a catch.
[56:02] So that's why I say the number one thing
[56:03] is, man, just keep putting it back into
[56:04] yourself. Keep building yourself. Keep
[56:06] getting your tools right. Keep getting
[56:07] your confidence right. Keep working on
[56:08] this. Keep working on that. keep getting
[56:10] your money right cuz when you're that
[56:11] it's going to be so obvious
[56:13] she going to be thinking what you
[56:14] thinking she going to be thinking how am
[56:16] I going to get this man attention that's
[56:18] what it's going to be and when you get
[56:20] there you going to start to see that's
[56:21] how it is
[56:28] you think a month run on adavarol is
[56:30] worth it man I don't know I don't know
[56:33] man cuz you know aderall got
[56:34] amphetamines in it which is what they
[56:35] got in meth um so [ __ ] I don't know man
[56:38] I think I Aderon maybe a piece of it one
[56:41] time a long time ago like and I don't
[56:44] even remember.
[56:48] I mean my thing is this. I would
[56:51] optimize see everybody want they want a
[56:53] cheat code but it's really not a cheat
[56:54] code. Um you should optimize yourself
[57:00] all the way first naturally before you
[57:01] add anything else. Cuz a lot of times,
[57:03] like a lot of dudes, they want to they
[57:04] want to do the peptides, they want to do
[57:06] the TRT, they want to do the this, they
[57:08] want to do the GLP1, not understanding.
[57:10] Um, do you know if you just slept
[57:12] better, stopped drinking, uh, counted
[57:15] your macros, got the right protein
[57:16] intake, and really pushed in your
[57:19] workouts, you would transform your body
[57:21] in a way that looked like you that
[57:23] somebody would probably think you doing
[57:24] steroids,
[57:26] but you trying to do all these cheat
[57:28] codes, not knowing that that [ __ ] still
[57:29] probably ain't going to get you where
[57:30] you need to be. But if you optimize
[57:32] yourself first, any one of those extra
[57:35] things that you do will actually enhance
[57:37] you even further.
[57:39] So what I'm saying right now is you
[57:40] talking about you want to do aderall. Oh
[57:42] well, what do you not have focus? Do you
[57:43] not are you not able to uh stay up long
[57:47] enough? Guess what? Have the right
[57:49] proper nutrition. Cut out all of the
[57:52] junk food. Cut out all of the bad food.
[57:55] And have a a a scheduled going to sleep
[57:58] time and a wake up time. Right? And if
[58:01] you can't focus, guess what? Throw your
[58:03] phone out the window. Delete all the
[58:07] apps on it. Start meditating and start
[58:09] doing some some some concentration
[58:11] practices cuz you're trying to cover up
[58:13] a issue that you're having that's not
[58:16] that that you're trying to cover up an
[58:18] issue with a drug. Okay? But that's not
[58:21] going to relieve you of that issue
[58:22] that's going to be there probably get
[58:23] worse later. You need to learn to focus.
[58:26] You need to learn to concentrate. So
[58:28] what are you doing now? You're
[58:29] practicing distraction. If you want to
[58:31] if you want to learn to focus, you got
[58:33] to practice focusing because right now
[58:35] you're practicing distraction by
[58:37] scrolling on Instagram all day,
[58:38] scrolling on Tik Tok, by not having a a
[58:40] a a schedule, right? So then once you
[58:44] start practicing focus and you start
[58:46] doing uh exercises and meditation and
[58:49] and sleeping on time and not uh uh
[58:52] taking certain type of foods that that's
[58:54] going to mess you up and you eating
[58:55] cleaner and you sleeping on time, right?
[58:57] Then now you could practice your focus
[58:59] and then maybe you won't even need
[59:00] aderall.
[59:02] But I mean do what you want to do, man.
[59:04] Do what you want to do. Just know every
[59:06] action has a reaction and you that
[59:08] reaction you know better be worth what
[59:11] you getting.
[59:15] I'm going just put it like this. Hey
[59:16] man, if they let you get it prescribed
[59:19] easily, it ain't doing that much for
[59:21] you. Cuz if if it was such a super
[59:22] [ __ ] limitless pill, they wouldn't
[59:24] let people have it. Hey, listen. I'll be
[59:27] on them higher levels with people on the
[59:30] highest of the highest levels and they
[59:32] got some drugs you don't even know about
[59:33] that you couldn't get if you wanted to
[59:35] that they be taking that don't add
[59:37] amphetamines in it that'll have you stay
[59:39] up that'll have you stay sharp you know
[59:41] so they got some [ __ ] out here you can
[59:43] get it even if I told you the name of it
[59:44] and I ain't going to do that but if
[59:45] you're in the brotherhood y'all know it
[59:46] cuz I gave it to y'all please believe
[59:48] they got some cheat codes on these
[59:49] higher levels and all the little [ __ ]
[59:50] like aderall they give the common folk
[59:52] that's [ __ ] that's going to [ __ ] you up
[59:55] but do what you want to do
[01:00:00] Clinton Collins, my guy Clinton, what's
[01:00:01] good? He said, "I haven't meditated in a
[01:00:03] while. How do you find yourself getting
[01:00:05] back on track when you feel your feel
[01:00:08] off about it?" Man, because man, my mind
[01:00:10] is so my mind is so like this. I'd be
[01:00:14] insane if I didn't meditate. But me,
[01:00:16] just like everybody else, man, I get off
[01:00:18] I get off course sometimes, but when I
[01:00:20] get off course too long, I just get
[01:00:22] right back on. Just like with anything.
[01:00:24] And you know how I do it. So a lot of
[01:00:26] times you running from that meditation
[01:00:27] because you like cuz you can't stand to
[01:00:29] sit still for 10, 15, 20 minutes. So you
[01:00:31] run from it. So you know what you do?
[01:00:33] You ease yourself back into it. 5 minute
[01:00:36] meditation, 3 minute meditation. That's
[01:00:38] how you ease yourself back into it. And
[01:00:40] just that stillness for a moment makes
[01:00:43] it easier to get into it next time. Cuz
[01:00:44] once you get back into that meditation
[01:00:46] and you start to feel that stillness,
[01:00:48] that that tranquility and that peace,
[01:00:50] when you get that stillness, it's going
[01:00:51] to be easier want to get into it again.
[01:00:54] You know, sometimes I'll just be in in
[01:00:56] the house and I see my girl sitting and
[01:00:58] I sell it. I say, "Put that down. You're
[01:01:00] gonna do a fiveminute meditation to
[01:01:02] steal the mind,
[01:01:04] give you some clarity." A lot of people
[01:01:07] aren't where they want to be. Not
[01:01:08] because they can't get there, but
[01:01:10] because they can't see clearly where
[01:01:11] they going next, and their mind is just
[01:01:12] like this. So, I think it's very
[01:01:14] important.
[01:01:19] Somebody said, "I bought your book list
[01:01:22] a year ago, and the mindset section
[01:01:24] helped my bag grow. I drive a $100,000
[01:01:27] car. I can probably spend 5K ASAP to add
[01:01:30] to me. What do I need next? Jewelry,
[01:01:33] clothes, or just keep building till I
[01:01:35] can buy both." Well, man, shout out to
[01:01:36] you. Those books changed my life. I
[01:01:38] wouldn't be who I am without those
[01:01:39] books. And I've read way more books.
[01:01:43] Most of them were [ __ ]
[01:01:45] but you know, to read hundreds of books
[01:01:48] and and really be able to identify the
[01:01:50] ones that really changed my life. I'm
[01:01:52] telling you, books will change your
[01:01:53] life. Um, appreciate the super chat. You
[01:01:55] need to get in a brotherhood and you if
[01:01:57] you really serious, you need a
[01:01:59] one-on-one call because I can really
[01:02:02] tell you something that you won't know
[01:02:03] and can't see for yourself. Please
[01:02:06] believe you got 5K to spend. I know how
[01:02:09] to spend 5K in a way that'll make it
[01:02:11] look like I spent 20K. So you let me
[01:02:13] know if you want to get on a call or get
[01:02:14] in a brotherhood. Link in the
[01:02:16] description. He said, "I tried to like
[01:02:18] Who likes me, Goldie. She gave me the
[01:02:19] choosing signals. Went up to her and she
[01:02:21] told me spend some money on her, but I
[01:02:23] didn't. Her friends called me broke and
[01:02:24] told me I'm not who I think I am.
[01:02:29] I don't I don't really understand."
[01:02:30] Like, what are you saying? She obviously
[01:02:32] didn't like you. You said you tried to
[01:02:34] like who liked you. She didn't like you.
[01:02:36] She was just playing a game to get you
[01:02:37] to come up to her and spend some money.
[01:02:39] Man, sound like you was at the strip
[01:02:40] club.
[01:02:42] I mean, and if you wasn't at the strip
[01:02:43] club and you went up to a woman and she
[01:02:45] said, "Spend some money on you." Uh,
[01:02:47] she don't like you. So, she didn't you
[01:02:49] didn't try like who like you. You you
[01:02:52] fell for a woman who gave you choosing
[01:02:54] signals who wanted to treat you like a
[01:02:56] trick. There's no shame in that. Hey,
[01:02:59] man. If if if a broad looking at me and
[01:03:01] giving me choosing signals and I go up
[01:03:03] to her and she say, "Uh, spend some
[01:03:05] money on me." Uh, that ain't no fault of
[01:03:07] mine. [ __ ] gave me choosing signals. I
[01:03:09] went up to her like I was supposed to.
[01:03:11] Little did I know that she thought I was
[01:03:13] a trick and now she knows I'm not and
[01:03:15] this interaction is over. And I don't
[01:03:16] feel no type of way about it. Like what
[01:03:18] are we talking about right now?
[01:03:20] You know, so you shouldn't feel no type
[01:03:21] of way about it unless it's more to the
[01:03:23] story. If unless it's more to the story,
[01:03:27] and which it probably always is. It's
[01:03:28] always more. You know why it's always
[01:03:29] more to the story? And that's why it's
[01:03:31] great when I do one-on- ones and things
[01:03:32] of that nature cuz I can see through the
[01:03:34] [ __ ] when somebody tells me
[01:03:35] something. And it's not even that you're
[01:03:36] trying to [ __ ] It's just that a lot
[01:03:38] of people are not very aware about
[01:03:40] what's actually going on.
[01:03:42] This is how you see the story. What
[01:03:45] would that girl tell me the story was?
[01:03:47] What would her friends tell me the story
[01:03:48] was? You know, we could only we can't
[01:03:50] see the picture from inside the frame.
[01:03:52] And that's why mentors are so important
[01:03:53] because there's so many things that
[01:03:55] we're doing that we don't even know that
[01:03:56] we're doing that's hindering us and
[01:03:58] getting forward in life that we can't
[01:03:59] see because you cannot see the picture
[01:04:01] from inside the frame. And that's why
[01:04:02] it's guys who got 10 million, 20
[01:04:05] million, making millions of dollars a
[01:04:06] month, who still spend $250,000 a year
[01:04:09] on mentorship
[01:04:11] because it is invaluable. No matter how
[01:04:13] much you know and how much you read and
[01:04:14] how much self-aware you think you are,
[01:04:16] you will never be able to see some
[01:04:18] things about yourself and it's going to
[01:04:19] be those things that are going to be the
[01:04:21] glass ceiling to your potential and your
[01:04:23] furtherance in life in every area.
[01:04:26] You know, you want to get on a
[01:04:27] mentorship, you know, DM me.
[01:04:31] Y'all need to get the bundle too. This
[01:04:33] is second best thing.
[01:04:59] If a bra won't leave your house after
[01:05:01] you ask her to leave numerous times and
[01:05:04] she starts to show out and gets
[01:05:06] physical, what's the best way to handle
[01:05:08] it? It's a great question. If a woman is
[01:05:10] at your house and you ask her to leave
[01:05:13] and she doesn't, you ask her multiple
[01:05:15] times and then she starts to show out
[01:05:17] and tries to get physical. What do you
[01:05:19] do? Number one, you start recording
[01:05:21] before you even start asking her to
[01:05:23] leave. Everything must be documented.
[01:05:26] Now, there's two ways to go about it.
[01:05:27] First, I like to record so they don't
[01:05:29] know, so I can see their true colors,
[01:05:31] right? And so this evidence can see what
[01:05:35] she did before the cameras came on.
[01:05:38] And [snorts] then if she tries to
[01:05:39] escalate the situation, you show her the
[01:05:42] camera to maybe that'll calm her down to
[01:05:44] where she won't take it any further
[01:05:46] because she knows she's being recorded,
[01:05:49] right? And I would say I wouldn't even
[01:05:51] tell her she's being recorded. I would
[01:05:52] say she's on live, right? because that
[01:05:55] is going to put a lot more social
[01:05:56] pressure on her to behave. He's not just
[01:05:59] recording me and the recordings in his
[01:06:00] phone. He's on live, which means people
[01:06:03] are watching this actively, right?
[01:06:06] And then from there, you know, nine
[01:06:08] times out of 10, she going to get out
[01:06:10] your house, man. And she acting real
[01:06:11] crazy. Call the [ __ ] police, [ __ ]
[01:06:13] What's wrong with you? You in my [ __ ]
[01:06:15] house and I tell you to leave and you
[01:06:16] won't and you want to get physical. I'm
[01:06:18] calling police. Calling police. And I'm
[01:06:20] recording. And I'm recording. You feel
[01:06:22] what I'm saying? So, I mean, at at that
[01:06:24] point, there's nothing else you could
[01:06:25] do. You know, at the end of the day,
[01:06:27] man, she's a woman, you're a man. If you
[01:06:29] got her on camera and you are recording,
[01:06:31] man, if she try to hit you, hey, man,
[01:06:32] put that [ __ ] in a full nelson and walk
[01:06:34] her ass and throw her ass out on the
[01:06:35] grass on the front lawn and wait for the
[01:06:37] police to come get her ass. They not
[01:06:39] playing about that [ __ ] They will come
[01:06:40] and take her [ __ ] ass to jail
[01:06:42] if they can see her and prove on camera
[01:06:44] that she was trying to assault you, man.
[01:06:45] I ain't going to spare the [ __ ] man.
[01:06:46] You know what I'm saying? I don't act a
[01:06:48] fool around here. Hey, [ __ ] Then I
[01:06:49] will come down to that [ __ ]
[01:06:51] station and press full [ __ ]
[01:06:52] charges on your ass. And with no shame
[01:06:54] in my game, you throw the book at that
[01:06:55] hoe. You know, don't play with me in my
[01:06:57] house. Lucky I had some somebody come
[01:07:00] over here and beat your ass. That's what
[01:07:01] I should have did. But I'm better than
[01:07:03] that. and sit your ass down in the drunk
[01:07:05] tank and think about what the [ __ ] you
[01:07:07] did?
[01:07:24] Can a woman ever tell you that she can
[01:07:27] do the exact same things you do? Like
[01:07:29] talk to other people? How does that
[01:07:31] work? I do what I want. You do what I
[01:07:32] tell you to do. [ __ ] could tell me
[01:07:34] whatever she want to tell me. It doesn't
[01:07:36] mean that I'm going to deal with her.
[01:07:39] Listen, these are the rules. This is the
[01:07:43] Constitution of my household. This is
[01:07:46] what it is. I didn't say it was fair. I
[01:07:49] said this is what it is. Do you think
[01:07:51] everything in the United States
[01:07:52] Constitution is fair? Do you think every
[01:07:54] law in the United States is fair? No,
[01:07:56] you don't. But this is where you want to
[01:07:58] live, right? So, you abide by those
[01:08:00] rules. Same with me in my household. If
[01:08:03] you want to be with me, if you want my
[01:08:05] company, if you want to get my great
[01:08:06] game, my great insight, my great wisdom,
[01:08:09] you want me to support you in all of
[01:08:10] these ways, me mentally, physically, you
[01:08:13] know, if you want that, then you want to
[01:08:16] be in my country, in my sphere, so
[01:08:19] therefore you must abide by my rules, my
[01:08:22] laws, my bylaws, my constitution.
[01:08:25] That's it. You don't have to.
[01:08:29] You do not have to. So, we're not going
[01:08:31] to have a conversation about you can do
[01:08:33] what I can do because in these laws, in
[01:08:35] these bylaws, you know that you can't.
[01:08:38] So, if that's how you're feeling, then
[01:08:40] you're just letting me know that you
[01:08:41] want to exit my country and you have a
[01:08:43] passport you can do that. There's many
[01:08:45] other countries out there you can go to
[01:08:46] and you can go and do that. We're not
[01:08:47] even going to have a conversation about
[01:08:49] it.
[01:08:50] The fact that you're even having a
[01:08:51] conversation about it lets me know that
[01:08:53] you don't have bylaws in your household
[01:08:54] cuz a woman of mine would never say that
[01:08:56] because she wouldn't be a woman of mine
[01:08:57] and she'd know that. So, she's
[01:08:58] essentially just she would have
[01:08:59] essentially just left or wouldn't have
[01:09:01] been here or she would have packed her
[01:09:02] bag and say, "Yeah, I can't get with
[01:09:03] this no more." She wouldn't even have
[01:09:06] that conversation with me because she
[01:09:07] knows how how illogical it would be.
[01:09:10] It's like having a conversation trying
[01:09:12] to have a a a conversation with the
[01:09:13] president of the United States about how
[01:09:15] you don't like this law and and and and
[01:09:16] you don't like this in the Constitution.
[01:09:18] Well, then just leave. Well, then just
[01:09:21] leave. How about that?
[01:09:23] It's that simple. About to be going back
[01:09:26] and forth about some [ __ ] Dude, come
[01:09:28] on.
[01:09:34] Somebody said, "Did it one time, felt
[01:09:36] like a molly." That's because it's
[01:09:37] amphetamines in it. You know, most of
[01:09:38] the mollies that they be giving out be
[01:09:41] bunch of crushed up [ __ ] meth.
[01:09:43] They try to trick you into thinking it's
[01:09:45] Molly.
[01:09:48] For anybody who doesn't know, we're
[01:09:50] talking about Adderall. Somebody was
[01:09:51] talking about taking Adderall. Somebody
[01:09:52] said it. Somebody took it one time and
[01:09:55] they said it felt like Molly. And I
[01:09:56] said, "That's cuz most Molly that you
[01:09:58] getting from your street dealer is a
[01:10:00] bunch of crushed up meth with a bunch of
[01:10:02] other [ __ ] in it stepped on a
[01:10:04] million times to make you think you
[01:10:06] taking Molly, but you really just taking
[01:10:07] a bunch of meth. And that's why you up
[01:10:09] all goddamn night.
[01:10:30] All right,
[01:10:33] we're about to get into some more
[01:10:36] game.
[01:10:41] Let me see.
[01:10:44] Let me see. Let me see. Let me see.
[01:10:57] So,
[01:11:00] this is a very serious subject
[01:11:05] because I I believe that
[01:11:09] a lot of people have been led astray by
[01:11:11] this I like who like me philosophy. It's
[01:11:14] not a slogan.
[01:11:17] It's a philosophy.
[01:11:19] And if you violate this rule of I like
[01:11:21] who like me, you will never be at peace
[01:11:24] in life in a relationship. And no amount
[01:11:28] of game will ever solve your issues.
[01:11:32] Only mitigate them and they will appear
[01:11:35] again.
[01:11:38] I like who likes me.
[01:11:42] Most people hear this
[01:11:45] and think it simply means
[01:11:48] don't chase people who aren't
[01:11:50] interested.
[01:11:51] That's not what it means.
[01:11:54] I like who likes me isn't a a slogan for
[01:11:58] your ego.
[01:12:00] It isn't about believing you're better
[01:12:03] than everyone else.
[01:12:05] It isn't about expecting people to
[01:12:08] worship you.
[01:12:11] It is a filter,
[01:12:14] a decision makingaking framework.
[01:12:18] It is a filter
[01:12:22] to help you make better decisions. A
[01:12:24] decision making framework. It is a law
[01:12:29] that if violated, you will be punished.
[01:12:34] And most of you are in relationships
[01:12:36] right now where you are being punished
[01:12:37] by that woman because you violated the
[01:12:40] law of I like who likes me.
[01:12:45] It means
[01:12:47] never build your life around someone who
[01:12:50] doesn't genuinely value you to the
[01:12:53] utmost.
[01:12:55] Utmost should be in parenthesis
[01:12:59] because the moment you violate the law
[01:13:01] of I like who likes me, the relationship
[01:13:04] starts fighting against itself and no
[01:13:06] amount of game or reasoning will fix it.
[01:13:10] Cuz from that point forward, everything
[01:13:13] becomes an uphill battle.
[01:13:16] Because
[01:13:18] just like the guy was talking earlier,
[01:13:19] you're trying to convince someone to see
[01:13:22] your value instead of sharing your life
[01:13:24] with someone who already does.
[01:13:27] How does that make sense? How is that
[01:13:29] going to work?
[01:13:31] I have to convince you of the value that
[01:13:33] I have. Okay, let's just say
[01:13:36] I own a jewelry shop
[01:13:39] and I have a a
[01:13:42] a kilo Cuban link with all diamonds on
[01:13:46] the counter and somebody comes in shop
[01:13:51] and doesn't even notice a Cuban link.
[01:13:54] Okay. And then I pick it up and I say,
[01:13:56] "Look at this Cuban link."
[01:13:59] I'm say, "Don't you see how nice it is?
[01:14:01] Don't you see how shiny the diamonds
[01:14:03] are?
[01:14:04] and they be like, "Uh, not really for
[01:14:07] me." Oh, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait.
[01:14:10] I'm trying to convince somebody that
[01:14:13] this is valuable.
[01:14:15] Clearly, it's gold and diamond, so it is
[01:14:17] valuable. This person doesn't see the
[01:14:19] value in it. So, what does that mean?
[01:14:21] This person is not for this. It's that
[01:14:24] simple. This person is not for this.
[01:14:27] If you are trying to constantly
[01:14:30] convince that woman of your value, then
[01:14:33] you're going to be constantly
[01:14:34] overexplaining yourself. Oh, and this is
[01:14:37] a big one. You're going to be constantly
[01:14:39] having to reassure that woman.
[01:14:41] Constantly having to prove yourself to
[01:14:43] that woman. Constantly wondering where
[01:14:46] you stand to that woman and constantly
[01:14:49] giving more than you receive to that
[01:14:52] woman.
[01:14:53] You will spend years trying to earn
[01:14:56] something that should have existed
[01:14:58] before the relationship even began. So
[01:15:01] why would you not just choose somebody
[01:15:03] who already sees that value in you and
[01:15:07] then your entire relationship won't be
[01:15:09] having to constantly do all of these
[01:15:11] things? Then you could actually enjoy
[01:15:13] the relationship because she values you.
[01:15:18] When you violate I like who likes me,
[01:15:22] you are no longer choosing.
[01:15:25] You're negotiating.
[01:15:27] You're campaigning. You're trying to
[01:15:29] sell yourself and you're daily trying to
[01:15:31] prove yourself. And the irony is the
[01:15:35] harder you try to be chosen, the less
[01:15:37] valuable you usually appear. The more
[01:15:40] the salesperson tries to overly sell
[01:15:42] you, the more you start to not want what
[01:15:44] they selling cuz it's like, why you
[01:15:45] trying so hard? It must not be as
[01:15:47] valuable as you think.
[01:15:50] And that's why the biggest mistake men
[01:15:52] make is believing a woman liking them
[01:15:54] enough is enough. It isn't.
[01:15:58] She must like your dirty draws. She must
[01:16:01] love your dirty draws. She must see you
[01:16:03] like women see Chris Brown, Drake. She
[01:16:05] must respect you like the president or
[01:16:07] an oligarch.
[01:16:09] Not just kind of like you, but overly
[01:16:12] like you. Your [ __ ] don't stink to her.
[01:16:16] She has to genuinely admire you. Not
[01:16:19] because you manipulate her, not because
[01:16:20] you're famous, not because you have more
[01:16:22] money, but because in her mind you are
[01:16:25] the man she doesn't want to lose. And
[01:16:28] that changes everything.
[01:16:31] When someone highly values something,
[01:16:34] they naturally protect it.
[01:16:37] BF Skinner, behavioral psychology.
[01:16:41] It has shown that people put more effort
[01:16:44] into avoiding losses than acquiring
[01:16:47] equivalent gains. And what does that
[01:16:49] mean? Losing something valuable hurts
[01:16:53] more than gaining something of equal
[01:16:55] value.
[01:16:57] So the more valuable she believes you
[01:16:59] are, the more motivated she is to
[01:17:01] protect the relationship instead of
[01:17:03] constantly testing it.
[01:17:08] When she just kind of likes you, when
[01:17:10] she just thinks your value is is a
[01:17:13] little more than hers, she constantly
[01:17:16] tests it
[01:17:18] because she's not scared to lose it cuz
[01:17:20] it ain't that valuable to her.
[01:17:24] That's why perceived value changes
[01:17:28] behavior.
[01:17:30] Think about the difference talking to
[01:17:32] your coworker versus talking to the CEO
[01:17:35] of the company.
[01:17:37] You complain to the coworker. You argue
[01:17:39] with your coworker. You bring very
[01:17:42] little issues
[01:17:45] to the CEO.
[01:17:47] You bring every issue to your coworker.
[01:17:51] But before you go to the CEO, you try
[01:17:53] solving a problem yourself, don't you?
[01:17:56] Don't you? Why? Cuz you don't want to
[01:17:58] damage that relationship.
[01:18:01] You don't want to lose your position.
[01:18:04] You want to be remembered as the person
[01:18:06] const you you you don't want to be
[01:18:08] remembered as the person constantly
[01:18:10] bringing drama.
[01:18:12] The higher you place someone in your
[01:18:14] mind, the more careful you become around
[01:18:16] them. And relationships work the same
[01:18:18] way. A woman who truly admires a man
[01:18:21] usually checks herself before he has to
[01:18:24] check her.
[01:18:27] She asks herself, "Is it worth creating
[01:18:29] unnecessary conflict?"
[01:18:32] She thinks twice before disrespect.
[01:18:35] She thinks twice before creating
[01:18:37] unnecessary jealousy.
[01:18:40] She thinks twice before entertaining
[01:18:42] unnecessary attention from other men.
[01:18:45] She naturally wants to stay in his good
[01:18:48] graces because she values the
[01:18:50] relationship.
[01:18:52] It doesn't mean she'll never disagree.
[01:18:55] It means she isn't constantly looking
[01:18:57] for reasons to create unnecessary
[01:18:59] friction like a lot of women do because
[01:19:01] they don't really value you because
[01:19:03] they're not scared to lose you cuz she
[01:19:05] doesn't think you're that valuable.
[01:19:08] And that is why choosing a woman who
[01:19:10] only likes you a little is exhausting.
[01:19:12] You know how many women I fired cuz they
[01:19:15] didn't like me enough?
[01:19:18] It's not that they didn't like me. They
[01:19:20] didn't like me enough.
[01:19:24] When they don't like you enough and they
[01:19:26] just like you a little, everything
[01:19:28] becomes work. Constant reassurance,
[01:19:31] constant negotiations, constant
[01:19:33] explaining, constant wondering where she
[01:19:35] is, constant worry about who she's
[01:19:37] talking to,
[01:19:39] constantly trying to convince her uh of
[01:19:42] the value that she should already see.
[01:19:45] You spend the relationship trying to
[01:19:47] earn something that should have existed
[01:19:49] from the beginning.
[01:19:52] And that's why a woman can't see you as
[01:19:54] equals. She can't even see you just a
[01:19:55] little bit above her. She has to see you
[01:19:57] like that.
[01:19:59] That's why I be saying y'all need to
[01:20:01] stop dealing with women on your level.
[01:20:04] Stop dealing with women just a little
[01:20:05] below your level. Start dealing with
[01:20:07] women so much lower than you. And I say
[01:20:08] that not to say to get a duck, but to
[01:20:10] raise your standard to be so high, even
[01:20:12] the highest level woman still looks at
[01:20:14] you like that because that's the only
[01:20:16] one that they going to value and
[01:20:17] respect. That's how they look at Chris
[01:20:19] Brown. That's how they look at Drake.
[01:20:20] That's how they look at the president.
[01:20:21] That's how they treat their boss. Why?
[01:20:23] Because in their mind, they are so much
[01:20:25] above
[01:20:27] where they are.
[01:20:29] They don't got to argue, negotiate. That
[01:20:32] woman is in pocket. Why? Because the
[01:20:35] value different.
[01:20:38] That's why I like to get chose with my
[01:20:39] mouth closed. Cuz the moment I walk up
[01:20:40] to her, how can I be this big old king?
[01:20:46] If I'm walking up to her, think Drake
[01:20:49] walking up to these women? You think
[01:20:50] Chris Brown walking up to these women?
[01:20:51] No, they walking up to him. And that's
[01:20:54] the only way it's got to be if you want
[01:20:56] to remain in that same value position.
[01:21:01] Think about celebrities. Think about
[01:21:02] athletes. Think about highly respected
[01:21:04] public figures. Chris Brown, Drake,
[01:21:06] athletes, whatever. The average woman
[01:21:10] would enter those relationships already
[01:21:12] believing those men are exceptional.
[01:21:15] And that perception changes how they're
[01:21:17] treated.
[01:21:20] Many of the behaviors that will create
[01:21:23] conflict with another man never happen
[01:21:26] because the person has already decided,
[01:21:28] I don't want to lose this. This is
[01:21:31] valuable.
[01:21:32] they can get better than me, so I should
[01:21:34] be on my best behavior.
[01:21:37] And that's how your woman should be
[01:21:38] thinking.
[01:21:40] And the same principle applies to
[01:21:43] cheating. If someone genuinely believes
[01:21:46] they're with one of the best partners
[01:21:48] they'll ever have, someone they deeply
[01:21:51] admire and feel incredibly fortunate to
[01:21:54] be with. Risking that relationship
[01:21:58] becomes much harder psychologically.
[01:22:00] Could it still happen? Of course. woman
[01:22:01] could always cheat. People cheat for
[01:22:03] different reasons, but when someone
[01:22:04] truly believes the loss will be
[01:22:06] enormous,
[01:22:08] they're generally less willing to gamble
[01:22:10] with it. When somebody cheat on a man,
[01:22:14] they genuinely genuinely see as
[01:22:17] irreplaceable sometimes, but they're
[01:22:20] generally taking a much bigger risk than
[01:22:22] someone who believes I could always do
[01:22:25] well or better than this dude.
[01:22:27] You see what I'm saying? When the
[01:22:29] perceived value is lower, the risk often
[01:22:32] feels lower, too. That's why perception
[01:22:35] matters. And the mistake most men make
[01:22:37] is trying to convince a woman to admire
[01:22:39] them after relationship starts. It's
[01:22:42] backwards. Choose a woman who already
[01:22:44] sees your value. I like who likes me.
[01:22:46] Get chose with your mouth closed. My
[01:22:49] longest and best relationships with
[01:22:51] women, and I was just talking about this
[01:22:52] to one of my clients today. My longest
[01:22:54] and best relationships were with women
[01:22:56] who came up to me showing from the start
[01:22:59] who thought who had more value. That's
[01:23:01] why I'm not so pressed about going up to
[01:23:03] women because my longest lasting
[01:23:05] relationships and best relationships
[01:23:07] were always the one with women who saw
[01:23:09] so much value in me, they got beside
[01:23:11] themselves and did something they almost
[01:23:12] never do, and that's come up to a man.
[01:23:17] If she don't see your value, become more
[01:23:19] valuable until women naturally do. And
[01:23:23] here's the truth. Sometimes you are the
[01:23:25] better catch. Sometimes you listen, you
[01:23:28] more disciplined, you more ambitious,
[01:23:30] you have a stronger future, you have
[01:23:32] better habits, [clears throat]
[01:23:33] but because you don't see yourself that
[01:23:35] way, you accept treatment from that
[01:23:38] woman that's beneath your value.
[01:23:40] She doesn't have anything but looks
[01:23:43] that'll fade and a wet spot between her
[01:23:45] legs. So sometimes they gonna believe
[01:23:47] they more valuable than a man with a
[01:23:49] longerl lasting higher potential. But
[01:23:51] that's why you never treat them better
[01:23:53] than what they are.
[01:23:56] They treat you with the value that they
[01:23:58] know you have.
[01:24:03] People often treat you the way you teach
[01:24:05] them to treat you. If you act like
[01:24:08] you're lucky to have her, she'll often
[01:24:10] start believing she's the prize. If you
[01:24:12] act like you know your value, set
[01:24:14] standards, and are willing to walk away,
[01:24:17] she'll generally respond different.
[01:24:21] Self-perception influences other
[01:24:23] people's perception.
[01:24:26] And sometimes a woman with a slightly
[01:24:29] higher valuable man, but she'll rarely
[01:24:31] acknowledge it out loud. A lot of times
[01:24:32] a woman to get with you and she knows
[01:24:34] you more valuable, guess what? She don't
[01:24:35] want to compliment you. She she she
[01:24:37] don't want to talk about how respected
[01:24:39] you are. She don't want to remind you
[01:24:41] how attractive you are, how capable you
[01:24:44] are, how how everybody admires you. And
[01:24:46] she does that on purpose to try to
[01:24:48] minimize those qualities and bring you
[01:24:49] down psychologically so the relationship
[01:24:52] feels more balanced to her. You
[01:24:54] understand? So women do do this.
[01:24:55] Sometimes you'll have a lot more value,
[01:24:57] but she'll have tricked you into
[01:24:58] thinking you have less value. You
[01:25:01] understand? But anyway, that's why you
[01:25:03] got to stay working and keep working
[01:25:05] because your value doesn't depend on her
[01:25:06] approval because your standards rise as
[01:25:09] your values rise. You become more
[01:25:11] competent. You get more money. You
[01:25:12] become more disciplined. Your body looks
[01:25:14] better. You get more respected. You get
[01:25:16] more wellknown. And the less willing you
[01:25:18] should be able to violate I like who
[01:25:20] likes me. You understand what I'm
[01:25:23] saying? So listen, you just got to keep
[01:25:27] growing. You know what I'm saying? It it
[01:25:29] it was a time when I almost had nothing.
[01:25:31] I had a car, no money, no status, no
[01:25:34] following. Yet, I had treating me with
[01:25:35] far more admiration than many men with
[01:25:38] far more success. And it was because I
[01:25:41] believed I was valuable. I expected
[01:25:43] respect. I demanded respect. I carried
[01:25:45] myself like I belonged at the top long
[01:25:47] before I arrived.
[01:25:49] Confident alone isn't enough forever,
[01:25:51] but you have to start somewhere. So,
[01:25:53] don't think just cuz you don't got this
[01:25:54] and got that and got this and got that
[01:25:56] that a woman can't look up to you. Hey,
[01:25:57] it's a woman everywhere that'll look up
[01:25:59] to you. You know what I'm saying? It you
[01:26:01] just got to keep growing higher and
[01:26:02] higher so the level of the women who
[01:26:04] look up to you is higher and higher. But
[01:26:05] it it's a woman for everybody in here
[01:26:08] who going to look up to you like that.
[01:26:10] You just too busy chasing other ones.
[01:26:13] You know what I'm saying? So
[01:26:16] I like who likes me, man. It's it's
[01:26:18] deeper than just a slogan, man. It's a
[01:26:19] philosophy.
[01:26:21] [clears throat]
[01:26:31] Let me know if y'all was feeling that,
[01:26:32] man.
[01:26:36] Somebody said when you got to Vegas.
[01:26:50] Turn that off.
[01:26:56] It's an alarm going off. Turn that off.
[01:27:02] When you got to Vegas, what was the
[01:27:04] first step that led you to your success
[01:27:07] besides cutting vices, being in the
[01:27:09] right environment and mentorship? What
[01:27:10] led you to be successful? Also, you
[01:27:12] skipped my other question. What was your
[01:27:13] other question? Uh, man, like I said,
[01:27:15] burning desire. I was willing to do
[01:27:16] whatever, whenever, however. I was
[01:27:19] willing to get uncomfortable.
[01:27:21] I was willing to be by myself. I was
[01:27:23] willing to put myself in uncomfortable
[01:27:25] situations. I was willing to seek out
[01:27:28] the people that were doing the things
[01:27:29] that I was trying to do. I was willing
[01:27:32] to uh talk to any and everybody. It was
[01:27:35] the burning desire. But yeah, for sure
[01:27:37] the cutting out the vices and and
[01:27:38] building myself and reading and and
[01:27:40] staying motivated and staying positive
[01:27:42] and being in the gym and you know uh the
[01:27:46] right environment, the mentorships for
[01:27:48] sure. It was all of that. It was the the
[01:27:50] the desire that I was going to make it
[01:27:52] happen. So, I was willing to do any and
[01:27:53] everything it took, you know,
[01:27:57] like you saying like it was one thing.
[01:27:59] No, it was just a decision like uh in
[01:28:01] Thing and Grow Rich, man. What he say?
[01:28:03] He decided. It wasn't, "Oh, I'm going to
[01:28:04] go I'm going to go uh uh uh and try to
[01:28:07] be um Thomas Edison's partner." No, no,
[01:28:10] no. He didn't say, "I'm going to try to
[01:28:11] do nothing." He said, "I'm going to do
[01:28:12] it. It's done. It's done. The world the
[01:28:16] world just ain't caught up with it yet.
[01:28:17] This is a a a matrix holograph anyway.
[01:28:21] Virtual reality. Hey man, it's already
[01:28:23] done. I already done put the code in.
[01:28:26] Now we just have to wait for this slow
[01:28:27] computer to to to to catch up. Life just
[01:28:30] got to catch up with what I've already
[01:28:31] decided. And that's what I decided. I
[01:28:32] decided I'mma have it. Get rich or die
[01:28:35] trying. I'mma get it or I'mma die in a
[01:28:36] process, but I'm not going to sit where
[01:28:37] I'm sitting at. You got to feel like
[01:28:39] that. You got to feel like that. You
[01:28:43] don't feel like that.
[01:28:47] And you don't always know how it's going
[01:28:48] to turn out, but you know you ain't
[01:28:49] stopping.
[01:28:55] Appreciate the super chat. Mo Parman
[01:28:59] 2010. Appreciate the super chat.
[01:29:05] I meditate to facts like Gandhi. Yeah, I
[01:29:08] love ugly women if they pay me, but
[01:29:10] still got to be my type. I mean, let's
[01:29:13] talk about let's talk about ugly real
[01:29:15] quick. Let's talk about ugly women real
[01:29:16] quick. Beauty is in the eye of the
[01:29:18] beholder.
[01:29:20] Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.
[01:29:22] Now, of course, there are beauty
[01:29:23] standards and there's this thing called
[01:29:24] the goldie ratio which they say is
[01:29:26] perfect symmetrical which makes somebody
[01:29:28] beautiful. But at the end of the day,
[01:29:29] depending on the culture that you
[01:29:31] brought up in, certain proclivities that
[01:29:34] you have or just things that you like,
[01:29:36] everybody likes something different. And
[01:29:38] oh, it's it's Victoria's Secret models
[01:29:41] that you would say, "Oh, they're the
[01:29:43] prettiest and slimmest and this." And I
[01:29:45] look at it, I'll be like, I mean, I
[01:29:46] could appreciate it, but to me, that's
[01:29:48] that's that's not my type. They're not
[01:29:49] attend to me. Maybe a 10 to everybody
[01:29:51] else, man. And I know some guys where
[01:29:52] they be like, they think they wife is is
[01:29:54] is is gorgeous. And to me personally, I
[01:29:57] think she's ugly. Beauty is in the eye
[01:30:00] of the beholder.
[01:30:01] Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.
[01:30:03] You like what you like for what you
[01:30:04] like, and it is what it is. You know
[01:30:06] what I'm saying? If you go to a
[01:30:08] different country right now, their
[01:30:09] beauty standards, what they probably say
[01:30:10] is a 10. You'll probably be like, "Ah,
[01:30:12] that's ugly to me." And they might say
[01:30:13] the same even just cross culture. Some
[01:30:15] people like black women, some people
[01:30:16] don't. Some people like white women,
[01:30:17] some people don't. Some people, you know
[01:30:19] what I'm saying? So beauty is in the eye
[01:30:21] of the beholder. You get what I'm
[01:30:23] saying? And I say that to say, if beauty
[01:30:26] is in the eye of the beholder, you have
[01:30:28] to ask yourself, what has been wired in
[01:30:30] your brain to make you say that you
[01:30:31] really like this? So, what if since
[01:30:35] since because if beauty wasn't in the
[01:30:38] eye of the beholder, then everybody
[01:30:39] would value a certain woman the same and
[01:30:42] say she's a 10. And that's almost never
[01:30:43] the case. You can't find a hundred guys,
[01:30:46] all different nationalities and
[01:30:48] upbringings to say any woman and say and
[01:30:50] everyone say she's a 10. It would never
[01:30:52] happen. So, what does that mean? That
[01:30:53] means it's something individually that
[01:30:54] we tell ourselves that make us attracted
[01:30:56] to this person, right? Whether we can
[01:30:58] identify it or not. And so if that is
[01:31:00] the case, why would you not start
[01:31:02] saying, "Let me try to wire rewire
[01:31:05] myself to be attracted
[01:31:08] to a woman who treats me right, to a
[01:31:10] woman who likes me a lot, to a woman who
[01:31:11] has a good soul, to a woman who has
[01:31:13] these good characters. How can I wire
[01:31:15] myself since I know that attraction is
[01:31:17] just made up? How can I just wire myself
[01:31:20] to like the person who is the way that's
[01:31:24] beneficial to me?" I don't know. Just a
[01:31:27] little tidbit.
[01:31:29] Don't know if that made sense.
[01:31:39] Yeah, she must be battle tested. Bros
[01:31:42] ain't battle tested. Ain't went through
[01:31:44] nothing. Bro want to say, "Well, I
[01:31:45] didn't do nothing wrong." [ __ ] it
[01:31:47] ain't what you did wrong, [ __ ] What
[01:31:48] you did right is not a [ __ ]
[01:31:49] thing around here. You know what I'm
[01:31:51] saying? [ __ ] love to be like,
[01:31:52] "Well, she ain't did nothing wrong. It
[01:31:54] ain't about what you did wrong." Hey,
[01:31:55] man. Why is a man
[01:31:58] Why are only men
[01:32:01] have such have been taught to have such
[01:32:03] low standards
[01:32:05] that we will say, "Well, she ain't
[01:32:08] really did nothing wrong.
[01:32:10] She ain't really did nothing too bad."
[01:32:13] But when it comes to a woman, it's what
[01:32:15] has he done for me lately? What is he
[01:32:17] doing? He's not doing this. He's not
[01:32:19] doing dates. He's not doing this. He's
[01:32:20] not it's it's I'm I'm bored. I'm going
[01:32:23] to the next. But with a man, it's oh
[01:32:25] well, she ain't did nothing too bad. No,
[01:32:28] no, no. We got to start raising our
[01:32:29] standards.
[01:32:31] It ain't about what you did. It It ain't
[01:32:35] about the fact that you didn't do
[01:32:37] anything wrong. What the [ __ ] are you
[01:32:39] doing right producing and making good in
[01:32:41] this relationship? Raise your standards
[01:32:43] as a man.
[01:32:46] I've had plenty of women, oh man, they
[01:32:49] they in pocket. They they they in
[01:32:50] pocket. They they they talk right. They
[01:32:52] they really understanding it. But [ __ ]
[01:32:55] you ain't producing nothing around here.
[01:32:56] And I ain't just talking about
[01:32:57] monetarily.
[01:32:58] You're not doing anything that makes me
[01:33:01] say you being here is making my life
[01:33:03] better. Which means laws of the
[01:33:05] universe, growing or dying, moving
[01:33:07] forward or moving backwards, no in
[01:33:08] between, which means you're making it
[01:33:09] worse. Cuz I have to think about it like
[01:33:11] this.
[01:33:12] If you have a woman,
[01:33:15] minimum, bare minimum, for most people,
[01:33:18] you have to text her at least once a
[01:33:20] day, if not more.
[01:33:22] You might even have to call her once a
[01:33:24] day depending on the relationship. And
[01:33:28] if you live in the same city, you're
[01:33:30] going to have to see her minimum once a
[01:33:32] week.
[01:33:34] And that's minimum.
[01:33:36] Really think about how much time and
[01:33:38] energy that is over a year's time. You
[01:33:40] got to text her every day, multiple
[01:33:42] times, probably multiple interruptions
[01:33:44] in your day. You probably got to talk to
[01:33:47] her on the phone at least
[01:33:50] once every [clears throat] other day, if
[01:33:54] not every day. How long is that
[01:33:56] conversation? And y'all probably not
[01:33:57] talking about [ __ ] that matters. And
[01:33:59] then you have to see her at least once a
[01:34:01] week.
[01:34:03] Take her out to eat, staying at her
[01:34:06] house, she come to your house, you got
[01:34:08] to do something. Think about that. Think
[01:34:11] about all of this time and energy to
[01:34:14] have a relationship with a woman. And
[01:34:15] and and listen, we know most of y'all
[01:34:17] probably got to text her all day, got to
[01:34:18] call her once a day, got to see her
[01:34:20] three, four times a week. And if you
[01:34:21] don't, what's going to happen? She going
[01:34:23] to have an attitude, right? She going to
[01:34:24] feel away, right? You going to have some
[01:34:25] problems, right? So really think about
[01:34:27] how much time and energy you're spending
[01:34:28] in that relationship.
[01:34:31] And now ask yourself, what are you
[01:34:32] getting from that relationship?
[01:34:36] Now, now we can say there's some
[01:34:37] intrinsic value there, but I bet you
[01:34:39] it's not. We're not talking about the
[01:34:42] very few percentage who are with a woman
[01:34:43] who really feeds their soul and you guys
[01:34:45] are on the same type of time and you
[01:34:46] guys are like soulmates and you guys
[01:34:48] have great chemistry and you guys build
[01:34:50] ideas and you guys support each other's
[01:34:52] dreams and you we're not talking about
[01:34:54] most of you who don't have that. We're
[01:34:55] talking about when and I'm really asking
[01:34:57] you what does she bring to your life?
[01:35:00] Probably mostly a headache, chaos and
[01:35:03] confusion which is evil. Evil is chaos
[01:35:05] and confusion. So mostly she brings
[01:35:06] chaos and confusion. drains your
[01:35:08] pockets, drains your time, drains your
[01:35:10] energy, drains your focus.
[01:35:14] You get what I'm saying? So, what I'm
[01:35:15] saying is you can't just discount that
[01:35:16] you with this woman and oh well, she's
[01:35:18] not doing nothing wrong. Okay, it
[01:35:20] doesn't matter that she's not doing
[01:35:21] nothing wrong. All of these things that
[01:35:22] you have to give of yourself to this
[01:35:23] woman, what are you getting to be
[01:35:25] replenished back? You're not. Start
[01:35:28] firing these women who ain't doing
[01:35:29] something. Start firing these women who
[01:35:31] ain't who they need to be. Raise your
[01:35:33] standards for what you accept in your
[01:35:35] life. You can't just be here and just
[01:35:37] not just just be here and you ain't do
[01:35:39] nothing wrong. No. What are you doing to
[01:35:40] really make me say my life is better cuz
[01:35:42] this woman is here. That should be the
[01:35:45] new standard for men. It ain't though.
[01:35:47] So, you know, I ain't going to hold my
[01:35:50] breath about it.
[01:35:59] [clears throat and cough]
[01:36:12] Somebody said, "I miss your super chat."
[01:36:15] Let me try to go back up to these super
[01:36:16] chats real quick.
[01:36:20] If I had a chance to leave my hometown
[01:36:23] and get a job in Miami, do you think it
[01:36:25] would be worth it? I'll be taking a pay
[01:36:26] cut for sure. But I'm sure I can elevate
[01:36:29] so fast and be in the right environment
[01:36:30] 110%. 110,000%.
[01:36:33] Do it now. Do it now. Do it now. Do it
[01:36:34] now. To be the best thing that you ever
[01:36:36] did in your life in this big old world,
[01:36:38] man, what's the worst that could happen?
[01:36:39] All you got to do is go back home. But
[01:36:42] guess what? Even if you did have to go
[01:36:43] back home, guess what? You had an
[01:36:44] adventure in your life, man. You could
[01:36:45] die tomorrow. You could die a month from
[01:36:46] now. You could die two years from now.
[01:36:48] What you going to say, man? I never,
[01:36:49] man, I should have went to to Miami.
[01:36:50] When you look back on your life, you
[01:36:53] sitting in that hospital bed and your
[01:36:55] family maybe is sitting all around you
[01:36:56] and you about to go. Are you going to
[01:36:58] say, "Oh man, I made the right decision
[01:37:00] staying in my staying in my hometown so
[01:37:02] I can get a couple extra dollars." Or
[01:37:04] you going to say, "Man, I'm so happy
[01:37:05] that I went to Miami and and had a new
[01:37:07] experience and it was scary and it was
[01:37:09] fun and it was exhilarating and it was
[01:37:11] adventurous and it was something new and
[01:37:13] it and it brought my life and I met
[01:37:15] people that I would have never met and I
[01:37:16] saw things that I would have never saw
[01:37:18] and it it was a great experience.
[01:37:22] do it. That's why like when I when I
[01:37:24] when I got to do stuff that I'm not
[01:37:26] really uh when I'm kind of scared to do,
[01:37:28] I just do it. I don't even think about
[01:37:30] it long enough to talk myself out of it
[01:37:31] because I know I will. So, I just do
[01:37:32] [ __ ] I've been doing that my whole life
[01:37:34] and it's worked out. Just do it. Just do
[01:37:36] it. You ever seen that movie with Jim
[01:37:38] Carries called Yes Man where he like he
[01:37:41] says yes to everything in his life.
[01:37:42] Starts saying just just do it. Just [ __ ]
[01:37:44] it. Just do it. Just go. Just do the
[01:37:46] thing. Go the place. You know what I'm
[01:37:47] saying? Just do it.
[01:37:54] Hey. Yeah, get them lights up. Get them
[01:37:56] likes up. I got a new course link in the
[01:37:59] description. Uh, get the game guide
[01:38:02] bundle. Get the game guide bundle 2.0.
[01:38:03] Join a brotherhood because that's where
[01:38:04] I'm going to be doing most of my talks
[01:38:08] and we going live every Sunday. Game in
[01:38:11] there every day.
[01:38:14] Have you ever had a great woman that
[01:38:15] just couldn't get over the fact that you
[01:38:17] deal with other women, even if she tries
[01:38:20] to sometimes act like she's cool with
[01:38:22] it? Uh, no. Ain't you ain't a great
[01:38:25] woman if you can't get with the way I
[01:38:26] want to live my life cuz you're trying
[01:38:27] to put me in bondage. So, no, you ain't
[01:38:29] that great to me. You know what I'm
[01:38:31] saying? But, I mean, every woman at some
[01:38:33] point, of course, a woman going to wish
[01:38:35] that she had you to herself deep down
[01:38:37] inside, but at the end of the day, uh, I
[01:38:39] don't care what you wish. Um, this is
[01:38:41] what it is. And so you either gonna be
[01:38:42] here and be with it or and and and tuck
[01:38:45] your feelings aside or you know go on as
[01:38:49] as as uh Johnny Cash would say at the
[01:38:51] end of the day uh I cannot be with I
[01:38:55] could have live a great life with narrow
[01:38:56] [ __ ] I I I have
[01:38:59] with n [ __ ] I have I have a great
[01:39:01] [ __ ] life. I do great [ __ ] I know a
[01:39:03] bunch of people. I got a bunch of money.
[01:39:05] I'm I I my mind is great. I have great
[01:39:07] wisdom. I meditate enough to where I'm
[01:39:10] at peace. I could have a great day by
[01:39:11] myself and guess what? If I had no
[01:39:12] [ __ ] I would knock I'd have a I have a
[01:39:15] whole new stable in a [ __ ] two
[01:39:17] months if I wanted it. And and I and I
[01:39:20] don't even care to have it because I am
[01:39:21] so fulfilled within myself. So, I really
[01:39:23] don't give a [ __ ] See, when you really
[01:39:24] fulfilled within yourself, man, you not
[01:39:26] doing things for the woman's approval or
[01:39:28] somebody else's approval cuz you need
[01:39:29] them. I don't need nothing. Hoes need
[01:39:30] me. I don't need these hoes cuz I'm
[01:39:32] fulfilled. These hoes is not. [ __ ]
[01:39:34] can't never compete with me. Why? Why we
[01:39:36] can't? Because you have to be fulfilled
[01:39:37] when you have somebody. I could be
[01:39:39] completely fulfilled with nothing. You
[01:39:40] [ __ ] cannot. That's why you always
[01:39:42] need a man. These [ __ ] are unhappy.
[01:39:45] Even if they act like they are without a
[01:39:46] man, they are not. I am. And that's why
[01:39:49] I act the way I act. Cuz I don't give a
[01:39:50] [ __ ] about losing nobody. Because my
[01:39:52] life is great because of me, not because
[01:39:53] of you. And your life is great because
[01:39:55] of me, not because of you. So me, you
[01:39:58] losing me
[01:40:00] is detrimental to your life. Me losing
[01:40:03] every woman I ever have is probably the
[01:40:06] best thing that ever happened to me. So
[01:40:08] me, so I can stop feeding all my energy
[01:40:10] to all of these other these entities and
[01:40:12] just put it all back into myself for a
[01:40:13] moment. That's why I say it's it's it's
[01:40:15] no competition, [ __ ] We are not the
[01:40:17] same. We don't even operate at the same
[01:40:19] frequency or mentally. These women could
[01:40:22] never get to the point that I'm at where
[01:40:24] they're truly fulfilled with no man. I
[01:40:26] can literally not have any woman and I
[01:40:28] would feel just as happy if probably not
[01:40:30] happier. Which makes me always more
[01:40:32] valuable. Which makes me always never
[01:40:34] willing to accept anything less than my
[01:40:36] standard. Which makes me always be able
[01:40:38] to look in a broad face and know I am
[01:40:41] the prize here.
[01:40:43] How could you be the prize when you need
[01:40:45] somebody to be happy? And I don't need
[01:40:48] anything to be happy but myself. Who's
[01:40:50] more valuable? Cuz I derive value from
[01:40:52] myself. You have to derive value from
[01:40:53] things and other people and and and
[01:40:55] birthdays and Valentine's Day and
[01:40:57] entertainment and this that and the
[01:40:58] third. You need that to be valuable.
[01:40:59] Which means the value doesn't come from
[01:41:00] you. It comes from external things. My
[01:41:02] value comes from myself. And because I
[01:41:04] need nothing is why I always have so
[01:41:06] many women and so many people around me
[01:41:08] because people feel that from me. I need
[01:41:10] for nothing from people. And because of
[01:41:13] that, I overflowth and the thing that
[01:41:16] they want so bad is what I have. And
[01:41:18] that's not needing anything. And so I'm
[01:41:21] attracted to from everybody.
[01:41:24] Do you understand that? Because I need
[01:41:26] nothing.
[01:41:29] That energy of not needing is so
[01:41:32] attractive because everybody is missing
[01:41:35] that within themselves that everybody
[01:41:37] gravitates towards me to get from me
[01:41:39] what they're missing. And that's that
[01:41:41] sense of fulfillment with nothing. That
[01:41:44] just went over y'all heads.
[01:41:51] I don't need hoes. Hoes need me.
[01:41:57] Oh, listen.
[01:41:59] I was thinking about this one day. Since
[01:42:01] the age of probably
[01:42:04] maybe 19, I have had women my entire
[01:42:08] maybe there's maybe been a three four
[01:42:12] month period since the time I was a
[01:42:15] teenager that I didn't have a woman or
[01:42:18] multiple women and most of the time was
[01:42:19] multiple women.
[01:42:22] Think about that
[01:42:24] from the time I was 19 when I just
[01:42:26] started getting in and getting my feet
[01:42:28] wet having multiple women. There maybe
[01:42:30] have been a three, four month period in
[01:42:34] my entire life that I didn't have at
[01:42:36] least one woman, if not multiple women.
[01:42:40] I'm sick of women. I don't Listen, I
[01:42:43] done been around women my whole life
[01:42:46] non-stop. This [ __ ] ain't nothing to me.
[01:42:48] That's why it's something to you cuz you
[01:42:49] ain't never had it. This is nothing to
[01:42:51] me. This been my life since forever.
[01:42:53] So, I ain't tripping. If I had to take a
[01:42:55] hiatus of not having no women, it
[01:42:57] wouldn't it wouldn't bother me. It would
[01:42:58] actually be it'd be exciting to see. And
[01:43:01] that's the difference. And that's why I
[01:43:03] have it cuz I don't care if I have it or
[01:43:05] not. And when you don't care about
[01:43:07] having something, you get everything.
[01:43:08] When you want something so bad, you you
[01:43:10] you're chasing it. You you you and it's
[01:43:12] running from you cuz you chasing it. I
[01:43:15] don't even care. I'm I'm trying to see
[01:43:17] one day what it's like to not have no
[01:43:19] women cuz it's been so long since I
[01:43:20] haven't had none. And because I have
[01:43:23] that energy, I just they just they she
[01:43:26] fall out the woodwork on me.
[01:43:57] Let me see. Let me see.
[01:44:03] And actually that actually really brings
[01:44:06] me back to a to a to a serious point.
[01:44:09] And this is I've been living like a
[01:44:11] Buddha my whole life and didn't know it.
[01:44:13] And that's how it uh she coming through
[01:44:14] the front door looking for a way out the
[01:44:16] back door. And now I realize why I've
[01:44:18] been so much at peace most of my life
[01:44:19] because certain principles from the game
[01:44:22] are actually principles from Buddha and
[01:44:25] and the law of attachment. Right? I was
[01:44:27] reading this book recently
[01:44:30] uh about Buddha and meditation about
[01:44:32] like a 12-day meditation
[01:44:34] and it was talking about how all
[01:44:37] suffering is born from attachment
[01:44:40] from craving what is absent and
[01:44:43] resisting what is present. If you
[01:44:44] understand what that means, you're
[01:44:46] craving something you don't have or
[01:44:49] you're trying to get away from something
[01:44:51] that you do have that you don't want.
[01:44:53] And that's where all suffering comes
[01:44:55] from is the attachment of things. So it
[01:44:58] was saying like you never keep what you
[01:45:01] desire in life. Nothing in life do you
[01:45:04] keep that you want. Even if you obtain
[01:45:07] it, you will eventually lose it.
[01:45:10] Everything that you love, every
[01:45:12] experience, every victory, every
[01:45:15] possession is temporary. Nothing
[01:45:18] remains.
[01:45:20] The pleasure is going to come in life.
[01:45:22] Pain is going to come in life. Gain is
[01:45:25] going to come in life. Loss is going to
[01:45:27] come in life. And he was saying all of
[01:45:30] these are visitors never permanent.
[01:45:33] Pleasure, pain, gain, loss. They are all
[01:45:36] these are all temporary
[01:45:39] feelings
[01:45:41] and the wise person does not cling to
[01:45:43] the highs or get too distraught in the
[01:45:47] lows because they understand the nature
[01:45:50] of reality that this too shall pass. So
[01:45:54] acceptance is the doorway to peace.
[01:45:57] You accept the highs without trying to
[01:45:59] make them last forever.
[01:46:01] You accept the suffering without
[01:46:03] believing it'll last forever.
[01:46:06] And when you stop fighting the changing
[01:46:09] nature of life, you discover a peace
[01:46:11] that cannot be taken from you.
[01:46:14] When you going through the down times,
[01:46:16] you got to remember this too shall pass.
[01:46:19] When you going through the highs in
[01:46:20] life, you got to understand this too
[01:46:23] shall pass. And it goes back to what I
[01:46:26] say. You'll have that woman for a time,
[01:46:28] but not forever. And that's okay.
[01:46:32] If you understand this, you'll be more
[01:46:34] okay when it happens. [snorts] And this
[01:46:36] is why life with most women is never
[01:46:38] peaceful because it violates this entire
[01:46:40] philosophy. They get too happy in the
[01:46:42] highs and they get too distraught in the
[01:46:45] lows and therefore they can never be at
[01:46:47] peace.
[01:46:49] A a a woman's entire nature violates
[01:46:52] this law and and why they suffer because
[01:46:55] they get too high in the highs and they
[01:46:58] get too low in the lows which means they
[01:47:00] can never be at peace because they never
[01:47:03] have the understanding in the moment
[01:47:04] that this two shall pass.
[01:47:12] Shout out to
[01:47:15] Dr. Dairo.
[01:47:17] appreciate the super chat. He said, uh,
[01:47:19] appreciate the game. Join the
[01:47:21] brotherhood. Hey, yeah, join the
[01:47:22] brotherhood. Get link in the description
[01:47:25] right now.
[01:47:29] Join the brotherhood. You know what? And
[01:47:31] on that note, I'm giving y'all too much
[01:47:32] game today. I'm giving you too much game
[01:47:34] tonight. I'm I'm not doing it no more.
[01:47:37] Join the brotherhood. You want some
[01:47:38] game? Get the new course. Life changer.
[01:47:42] Get the bundle if you don't have it. Get
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[01:47:47] Join the brotherhood. I'm I'm I'mma get
[01:47:49] up out of here. Uh uh. Y'all got some
[01:47:51] questions? Send it in. Link in the
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[01:47:59] the brotherhood. I want y'all to rewatch
[01:48:01] this. I want y'all to send this to
[01:48:03] somebody. I want y'all to share this to
[01:48:04] somebody,
[01:48:06] you know, and I want y'all to comment
[01:48:08] and time stamp.
[01:48:18] I'm gone.