# The Difference Is Rarely Talent. It’s What You Choose To Focus On | Jay Shetty | Character Fuel |

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qSZWnmCwlyo

[00:00] Say that again, Jay.
[00:02] Weak people notice other people's mistakes and laugh.
[00:07] Strong people notice other people's mistakes and learn.
[00:12] Weak people talk about other people's problems to feel better.
[00:18] Strong people talk about other people's problems to become better.
[00:23] Weak people gossip about others to build fake connections.
[00:28] Strong people express vulnerability to build real ones.
[00:34] And this one's the kicker that you were just talking about.
[00:35] Weak people envy people ahead of them.
[00:38] Strong people study people ahead of them.
[00:44] And the interesting thing is both people are looking at the same thing, but they're seeing different things.
[00:51] Because no one is a weak or strong person.
[00:53] It's just what you focus on.