# Girl Rage Quits During Women’s Suffrage Debate

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mLFtDJkCC2Q

[00:00] I like that you don't keep them either.
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[02:24] the, you know, the what you got
[02:25] anything. You got anything going on?
[02:26] What's new with you, bro?
[02:27] Oh, yeah. I'll be on um I did a I did a
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[02:42] Going to Dallas.
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[03:00] introductions. Uh, we got a few Let's
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[03:04] People that have been here before.
[03:05] Actually, let's start with you. Uh,
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[03:09] Hey y'all. I'm Grace. I'm 21 and I'm
[03:12] from Lehigh Valley.
[03:14] Grace. Now, you've been on the show when
[03:16] you were 18.
[03:18] Now she's 21, Chad. That's crazy, right?
[03:21] Yeah. 18 going on. Yeah. She's like 18
[03:22] going on 19.
[03:23] Yeah. She's like 18, 19.
[03:25] Yeah. Yeah.
[03:25] That's crazy. Now she's 21. Um, and
[03:28] you've been on a few times back, you
[03:30] know, what was like two, three years
[03:31] ago.
[03:31] Yeah. Yeah.
[03:32] Yeah. You've been on like a few times.
[03:33] She was like She's an original G, bro.
[03:35] She's an original gangster of No Fugazi.
[03:38] Uh, and Grace, what do you do for a
[03:40] living? Um, I'm in nursing school and I
[03:44] manage a couple restaurants and I work
[03:45] in the hospital. I do a lot.
[03:47] Nursing school, manage some restaurants.
[03:50] Talking to the mic.
[03:52] Okay. Uh,
[03:55] when do you be Well, are you in nursing
[03:57] school to get your RN? Like a registered
[03:59] nurse?
[04:00] Yeah. But then I'm going to get my
[04:01] masters.
[04:01] Okay.
[04:02] Going.
[04:03] So, when do you Okay. So, like
[04:05] left a regular RN
[04:07] to get your RN.
[04:08] Gotcha. was talking about talking about
[04:09] they say her mic ain't a ain't a ain't
[04:11] ain't on.
[04:12] It's on.
[04:13] Well, it says she it says no mic. They
[04:15] keep saying no mic. Mic.
[04:17] Hold it near you.
[04:18] I'll uh check the audio. Sometimes the
[04:20] chat be lying, bro. They be doing that.
[04:22] Yo, a few people. Yo, chat, don't be
[04:24] having me look bad, y'all. I'm over here
[04:25] reading. What y'all saying?
[04:27] I'll check right now.
[04:30] No,
[04:30] they said her mic is low.
[04:37] Oh, yeah. Her mic is low. Let me check.
[04:40] All right, chat. Chat, I'll be my D.
[04:43] See, chat, I'll be looking out, man. Yo,
[04:46] trust me. I'll be watching watching.
[04:49] Anyway, chat, what up? Yo, like I miss
[04:52] y'all, man. Like, I haven't seen y'all
[04:53] in a minute. Like, what y'all been up
[04:55] to, chat? Talk to me. Talk to your boy.
[04:58] Chat, be nice.
[04:59] Chat, don't be nice. Matter of fact,
[05:02] because he said that, don't be nice.
[05:03] Chat, go in. Send the bread. Go in.
[05:07] Hey, can you hear me? Better.
[05:09] Better.
[05:10] Yeah. Yeah. So, it's better.
[05:15] All right. Grace. And uh relationship
[05:19] status.
[05:20] I'm in a relationship.
[05:21] Okay. Grace locked down. All right. So,
[05:25] when you were 18, 19 when you came on,
[05:28] was she single? You remember?
[05:29] She was single. Yeah,
[05:30] she was single. Okay. So, Grace was
[05:33] single then, but she not single no more.
[05:35] All right, listen. Y'all lost your
[05:36] chance, fellas. Y'all lost the chance.
[05:38] Um, [laughter]
[05:40] okay. And, uh, let's do fun fact.
[05:43] Um, I have pet pigs.
[05:46] Wow.
[05:47] Wait, you have you have pigs?
[05:48] Yes.
[05:49] Yeah, they live in my house.
[05:50] They inside your house?
[05:52] They're [snorts] in the crib, bro.
[05:53] Like, they have their own room, own
[05:54] little bed.
[05:55] And she And look, and she's not going to
[05:56] butcher them either, bro. She told me.
[05:58] Yeah, I I'm not eating them.
[05:59] And she also doesn't them.
[06:01] That's the most filthiest thing I've
[06:03] ever heard. No, they're clean.
[06:05] I don't I listen, I'm not even a fan of
[06:07] having like, you know, cats and dogs in
[06:10] the house. I think people that live with
[06:11] their animals inside the house is like
[06:13] unclean, but a pig is like they eat
[06:16] their own feces, right? Don't your pig
[06:17] Your pig eat his poop?
[06:20] No, it doesn't. [laughter]
[06:21] Yeah. Not my dog.
[06:22] They eat like vegetables and fruit.
[06:24] So, you trained your pig?
[06:27] I mean,
[06:28] what are their names?
[06:29] Dash and Dodge.
[06:31] Oh,
[06:32] Dash. See, she she asking a regular qu.
[06:34] What are those names? No, I want to know
[06:36] if it eats it own.
[06:37] No, it doesn't. No, it doesn't.
[06:39] It definitely eats.
[06:40] What do pigs eat? What do you feed them?
[06:41] They're picky eaters. They eat like
[06:42] squash, apples, Cheerios.
[06:44] You have to cook it.
[06:45] Watermelon.
[06:46] Cheerios.
[06:47] Cheerios. They don't get that natural.
[06:50] [laughter]
[06:50] Every farm I went to is pigs eating
[06:52] their own poop.
[06:53] Not here. Those are outside. These are
[06:56] inside.
[06:56] Okay. So, you train.
[06:57] So, they going to eat what I want them
[06:58] to eat. [laughter]
[07:00] Fair. Fair enough. Fair enough. And um
[07:03] ease bonus question.
[07:04] Bonus question. Um about does it have to
[07:06] be about them?
[07:08] Yeah. Well, actually I got a bonus
[07:10] question
[07:11] cuz I have a I have a question I've been
[07:12] want to ask, but it's not about like
[07:14] them. It's just about women.
[07:15] Okay. Yeah. Go ahead and wait. Wait. You
[07:17] want to save it or you want to
[07:18] It's up to you. I don't
[07:19] you can ask it with us.
[07:20] So, all right. So, what makes a woman a
[07:22] bum? Cuz we all know what makes a man a
[07:24] bum.
[07:25] I know. That's a hard one. That's a hard
[07:26] one.
[07:26] Yeah. Let's keep it about think about
[07:28] that. [laughter]
[07:29] Yeah, I was about to go in like you know
[07:30] what I'm saying?
[07:31] So, so for the bonus question is um if
[07:34] you can change one thing about yourself,
[07:36] what would you change
[07:38] besides obvious?
[07:40] Can it be like personalitywise or like
[07:43] does it have to be physical?
[07:44] That was me.
[07:45] Yeah. So, this is a dating podcast.
[07:48] [ __ ] don't really care about your
[07:50] personality. Um so, yeah. It's like
[07:53] body.
[07:55] Um I feel like my face is a little
[07:57] lopsided.
[07:57] Oh, no. I feel like I'm not symmetrical.
[08:00] Stop. Only you know.
[08:01] Well, okay, I got you. So, you can do
[08:03] body or like you could do physical or
[08:06] you can do like inner
[08:08] but not personality like I want to be
[08:10] more funnier. That's gay like kind of
[08:12] more like
[08:13] values or principalistically.
[08:17] Stop.
[08:17] Where the [laughter]
[08:21] All right. No. No. All right. So, Grace
[08:23] says she lose 20 pounds. I word. All
[08:24] right. Cool. Um, let's move it right
[08:27] along to you.
[08:28] You look beautiful. Name
[08:30] think. Yes, you are beautiful.
[08:31] No, she doesn't.
[08:32] I'm going to
[08:33] Oh, I said that out loud.
[08:34] Sitting right next to you. I will slap
[08:35] you.
[08:36] That's crazy. Me?
[08:38] Yeah.
[08:38] Wow.
[08:39] She didn't look beautiful.
[08:40] Chat, remember what I said? Anyway,
[08:43] okay, continue. Let's go. Shelby,
[08:45] uh, name, age, where you from?
[08:46] All right. 34. Um, [clears throat] and
[08:47] [sighs]
[08:48] Shelby, 34, Delaware.
[08:54] what do you do for a living?
[08:55] I work in special education.
[08:56] Okay. How long you been doing that for?
[08:58] Couple years. All right. And, uh, let's
[09:02] do relationship status.
[09:03] Single.
[09:04] You ready to mingle?
[09:07] Yeah.
[09:08] Yeah.
[09:09] Maybe.
[09:10] Maybe.
[09:10] Little bit.
[09:11] Okay.
[09:11] A little bit.
[09:11] Ready to mingle. All right. And how long
[09:13] have you been single for?
[09:14] Two and a half years.
[09:17] Okay. Been single for a while. So, 34.
[09:19] You've been single since you were 32.
[09:21] And what was your longest relationship?
[09:25] Eight years. Off and on.
[09:26] Eight years. Okay. Ever married?
[09:29] Twice.
[09:29] Twice.
[09:31] Okay. Now we getting somewhere. All
[09:32] right. He [laughter] was married twice.
[09:35] In both of the times you were married,
[09:37] who divorced in your first marriage? Who
[09:39] divorced who?
[09:40] I did. I divorced him in both.
[09:43] So you both you divorced both of your
[09:45] husbands in both your marriages.
[09:46] Correct.
[09:48] chat. This is why you don't get married,
[09:50] bro.
[09:50] I agree.
[09:51] This is why you don't get married cuz
[09:52] women will always leave. Well, look,
[09:54] women go into relationships ready to
[09:56] leave, bro. You know what I mean? Don't
[09:58] do it. Just
[09:59] Okay. All right. So, you divorce both.
[10:02] And let's get And you don't got to get
[10:04] too personal, but if you just want to
[10:05] give, you know, the general info. Um,
[10:08] for your first marriage, any kids with
[10:11] that guy?
[10:11] No.
[10:12] Okay. And what made you divorce him? Um,
[10:14] long story short, I put up with far too
[10:17] much for far too long. Um, and I gave up
[10:20] a lot of the things that I gained to put
[10:25] him in a position to do the things that
[10:27] he wanted to do. Um, and when I did
[10:30] that, he went back to his high school
[10:31] sweetheart when I was going through like
[10:33] a rough time in my life. So, I packed up
[10:35] and came home.
[10:37] Well, did he like actually leave you or
[10:40] he just cheated and then he came back
[10:42] home?
[10:42] Well, no. I like sold my home and moved
[10:45] to a different state for him. And then
[10:47] when we moved back to his hometown, he
[10:49] cheated.
[10:50] Oh, but he still came back home.
[10:53] Yeah. Like he went out. He
[10:55] And then he went back to her. Yeah. He
[10:56] came home and he went out and he came
[10:58] home. That's how I do.
[10:59] I know. You know, I just wanted to know
[11:01] like did he actually like
[11:03] leave you for another woman or he just
[11:05] was cheating on you with another woman,
[11:06] but he still would come back home to
[11:08] you?
[11:11] He did not come back home emotionally.
[11:14] Okay. So, what changed with his emotions
[11:16] when he would come back home?
[11:18] Cold and mean. You sure he wasn't cold
[11:21] and mean before?
[11:22] He cheated. He was cold and mean.
[11:23] He was fine. And then
[11:25] and then that's how I knew something was
[11:27] up.
[11:27] Do you know why he started cheating?
[11:31] So, real real quick, the cold and mean.
[11:34] I think that if we're being honest, um,
[11:38] he would probably be cold and mean to
[11:40] create distance so he could cheat.
[11:41] That's fair.
[11:42] It doesn't mean that I'm not saying
[11:44] that. Well, correct me if I'm wrong cuz
[11:45] I don't know. Do you think that that's
[11:47] the case? Like he was being cold and
[11:49] mean to create distance so he can cheat
[11:51] or do you think that from him cheating
[11:54] actually made him cold and mean?
[11:57] I think he was probably changed the
[11:59] demeanor to push me away to make it
[12:01] easier.
[12:01] Ah, yeah. So, and I wanted to get
[12:04] clarity on that because when men,
[12:06] generally speaking, when men cheat, they
[12:07] normally don't carry their emotions with
[12:09] them. It's more of a physical aspect and
[12:11] then they're able to go back home and
[12:12] love their woman the same. But if a man
[12:14] wants to commit infidelity, he wants to
[12:16] cheat. He wants to escape. He'll go
[12:18] ahead and, you know, cause a problem
[12:21] to create distance so he can get an
[12:24] excuse to be outside of the house for
[12:25] longer hours.
[12:27] That makes sense. Yeah. But that doesn't
[12:29] necessarily mean that he like he was
[12:33] actually like he fell out of love with
[12:35] you or anything.
[12:36] If he had the opportunity, um I let him
[12:38] know I was willing to work through it or
[12:40] like should I just go home and he said
[12:42] you were done?
[12:43] Yeah. So before he cheated on you, did
[12:44] you guys like stop having sex?
[12:46] No.
[12:47] So sex was still
[12:48] all on the table.
[12:50] [snorts]
[12:52] Did you ever like withhold sex for
[12:54] compliance?
[12:54] No.
[12:55] No.
[12:57] Listen, man. He wanted that high school
[12:59] sweet thing. He He wanted to dig up
[13:01] inside them guts.
[13:02] Oh, no. She's not telling the truth
[13:04] about something. [laughter]
[13:06] I Mhm. Yeah.
[13:08] Okay.
[13:09] All right. No. No. All right. So, now
[13:11] that was husband number one. No kids.
[13:14] You know, he cheated. You was like, I
[13:15] don't want to be with him. Husband
[13:17] number two.
[13:18] What made you divorce him?
[13:23] Don't lie. You look this
[13:26] I'm trying to say this right because
[13:27] this is the father of my children.
[13:29] Oh yeah. Yeah. You want to say this
[13:30] right?
[13:30] So we all make choices in regards to the
[13:33] things that we want and what's important
[13:34] to us.
[13:35] And sometimes those goals and choices
[13:38] don't match the things that we're doing.
[13:41] Um and you can only put up with that for
[13:42] so long before
[13:44] they impact an entire family.
[13:46] Yeah. Starts to hurt you.
[13:48] Mhm. And when you can bring that up and
[13:50] have those conversations and it's still
[13:52] uph.
[13:54] So, look away from the camera. Actually,
[13:56] put the camera on her and then look at
[13:58] me. And then with your with this eye, I
[14:02] want you to No, for real. For real. With
[14:04] this eye, I want you to blink if it's a
[14:07] yes. They can't see which eye. That's
[14:08] what I did. I want you to blink if it's
[14:10] a yes.
[14:11] Uh, don't blink if it's a no. So, only
[14:14] blink if it's a yes with this eye.
[14:16] Okay. I'm going to ask you something.
[14:17] That's a lot of work.
[14:18] It's real simple. If it's a yes, blink
[14:19] with that eye. If it's a no, don't
[14:21] blink. So, did he cheat as well?
[14:26] Not while we were together. Not while we
[14:28] were married that I know of.
[14:30] Oh, okay. Okay. Okay.
[14:31] I found out after.
[14:32] And the reason why I did that chat is
[14:34] because, you know, she's a mother and
[14:36] probably kids watching. So, I didn't
[14:37] want, you know, the the uh the kids to
[14:40] know that.
[14:40] So, the second husband cheated also?
[14:42] No.
[14:42] No. She said no. [laughter]
[14:44] I was trying to do it secretively.
[14:47] But he cheated also then son you son not
[14:50] doing right.
[14:50] All right. So the second husband didn't
[14:53] cheat though. So like what was that?
[14:55] Give me one thing he really did wrong
[14:57] though. Like what was that one specific
[15:00] thing that was just like pushed you to
[15:02] the edge
[15:03] financially? So he lost his job,
[15:04] couldn't get another job?
[15:07] No.
[15:08] But when you say financially, meaning
[15:09] that he couldn't protect and provide or
[15:11] what do you mean?
[15:12] He chose what to protect and it wasn't
[15:16] the family. M
[15:18] he he he was Yeah. He chose what he
[15:21] wanted to pay for, what he didn't want
[15:22] to pay for.
[15:23] Correct.
[15:25] That he chose not to pay for it. She
[15:26] wasn't with it
[15:28] or I had to pay for it myself,
[15:30] which I do.
[15:32] And whatever that was, it was a big
[15:34] turnoff for her. She was like, "Yeah, I
[15:35] can't do this."
[15:36] So funny, chat, when women talk like we
[15:38] got to read through [laughter] the like
[15:40] read through the trash to try to
[15:42] decipher the truth within here. All
[15:45] right, fair enough. If you divorce both
[15:47] of your husbands, um, uh, would you ever
[15:50] get married again?
[15:53] I don't know.
[15:54] Listen, you going to divorce that [ __ ]
[15:56] too? [laughter]
[15:58] Third times a charm, right?
[15:59] Uh,
[15:59] no, I'm just kidding.
[16:01] Okay. Um, now, fun fact.
[16:04] Um, I'm the oldest of nine.
[16:08] Seven little brothers.
[16:09] Big sister.
[16:10] Seven brothers.
[16:11] Brothers.
[16:12] Yeah. Me. Seven boys. Baby sisters. You
[16:15] came from You came from like a cult.
[16:17] [laughter]
[16:17] That might have been easier.
[16:19] She looked like she came from one of
[16:21] them like uh like small little towns and
[16:23] they had was like a little cult like
[16:25] Yeah. You have sex with like did the
[16:27] pastor have sex with uh the cult leader,
[16:30] right? The guy that's you know uh
[16:32] leading y'all. Did he have sex with the
[16:34] mom, the sister, the auntie?
[16:38] Never mind. Cuz you said you had all
[16:39] them brothers and sisters, same mother
[16:41] and father.
[16:41] No.
[16:42] See cult leader. Told you, Chad.
[16:44] [laughter]
[16:46] No, I'm playing. Um, okay, cool. And
[16:48] then the next question is, um, name one
[16:52] thing that you would change about
[16:53] yourself.
[16:55] My confidence.
[17:00] Yeah. Give us something else. Like,
[17:01] [ __ ] don't care about confidence.
[17:03] Physical.
[17:04] My skin.
[17:04] Your skin.
[17:05] Okay.
[17:06] Y'all don't care about confidence. Guys,
[17:08] they don't if they're not attracted to
[17:09] you. Well, yeah, they do because the
[17:10] less confident you are, the easier it is
[17:12] to get it in, right?
[17:13] No, actually, it's the opposite.
[17:14] Yeah.
[17:15] Really?
[17:15] Yeah. Actually, it's the opposite. The
[17:17] more confident you are, the more likely
[17:20] it's easier to get it in with the woman.
[17:22] Well, yes, but I'm saying the less
[17:24] confident the woman is.
[17:25] The woman is like, y'all don't think
[17:27] about a woman's confidence.
[17:28] No, no, no, no. The See, it's different.
[17:32] The more confident the woman is, the
[17:34] more likely she's uh she's promiscuous.
[17:36] the least confident she is,
[17:39] the chances of her being promiscuous is
[17:41] lower because the confident woman, she
[17:44] exhibits characteristic traits that is
[17:46] abnormal to femin femininity.
[17:49] So,
[17:50] a feminine woman doesn't really express
[17:52] her confidence like that like how a man
[17:55] does um outwardly. She's kind of more
[17:57] shelled. A confident woman, she's more
[18:00] likely outgoing. She's more likely to
[18:02] it's more like a a type personality and
[18:04] a type personality individuals tend to
[18:07] be more social calibrated and people uh
[18:12] more people person and the people person
[18:14] of a woman is more likely to cheat.
[18:17] So wouldn't you say that but men are
[18:19] looking for a more confident woman then?
[18:21] No, we're not looking for a more
[18:22] confident woman.
[18:23] Exactly.
[18:24] Well, that's ex
[18:25] There you go. [laughter]
[18:27] That's why they seek out the low
[18:28] confident woman.
[18:29] Yeah. which is what I said to begin
[18:31] with.
[18:31] Low confident women, they can be
[18:33] trained. They can get on our program.
[18:35] They can be why you do care.
[18:37] They can follow our lead.
[18:38] They care in the opposite direction.
[18:39] We care in the opposite direction.
[18:40] But you still care about confidence.
[18:42] Well, you say the lack of confidence.
[18:46] Yeah, you're right.
[18:47] Yeah. The lack of confidence,
[18:48] I would say. [laughter]
[18:49] But does that make sense?
[18:51] Absolutely.
[18:51] Okay. Yeah. So yeah, men from a general
[18:54] aspect like your confidence your
[18:56] confidence level does not make you more
[18:59] physically appealing to the man. But
[19:01] vice versa
[19:02] from a woman's lens, if a guy is not
[19:05] confident, that would actually make him
[19:07] less attractive.
[19:09] Like you would be less physically
[19:11] attracted to that man. But if the he's
[19:12] more confident, he's more physically
[19:14] attracted. So attraction isn't
[19:16] symmetrical, it's asymmetrical. Like
[19:18] what we are attracted to, the women are
[19:19] attracted to the opposite things.
[19:22] Yeah.
[19:25] Okay. Um, so you said confident, but
[19:29] Yeah. Yeah. Give us something else.
[19:31] I did. I said my skin.
[19:33] Oh, skin. Okay, that's right. And uh
[19:35] name, age, and where you from?
[19:36] I'm uh D. I'm 27 and I'm from Jersey.
[19:40] New Jersey.
[19:41] Okay. D.
[19:42] Mhm.
[19:42] And uh what do you do for a living?
[19:44] [cough]
[19:44] I work [clears throat] with adults with
[19:45] disabilities right now.
[19:47] Let me help you out.
[19:49] Since
[19:51] you want to do it that way,
[19:52] I think. Yeah. Yeah. Got you. Cuz it's
[19:55] Here you go. Hook you up like that.
[19:59] Good to go.
[20:00] Good to go.
[20:01] Thank you.
[20:02] All right. Um Yeah.
[20:04] So, you said you work with adults with
[20:06] disabilities.
[20:06] Yeah.
[20:07] Okay.
[20:07] And how long have you been doing that
[20:09] for?
[20:09] For about since February.
[20:12] Okay. And welcome back to the show. The
[20:14] last time you were on the show, were you
[20:15] doing that for a living?
[20:16] Were you still Okay.
[20:17] Yes, I was.
[20:18] All right. And uh relationship status?
[20:20] Single.
[20:21] How long you been single for?
[20:23] Since September of 2025.
[20:26] Okay. September 2025. All right. And
[20:28] what was your longest relationship?
[20:30] That relationship. Eight years.
[20:32] Eight years. You broke up with him or he
[20:34] broke up with you?
[20:34] I broke up with him.
[20:36] Okay.
[20:37] All right. You see fellas [laughter]
[20:39] and uh give me one reason why you broke
[20:42] up with him.
[20:44] Misalignment.
[20:46] I like that.
[20:47] Yeah. That's not really a reason. One
[20:49] one specific reason.
[20:51] Um
[20:52] like what's that one thing when you were
[20:54] in the relationship with him that made
[20:56] you look at him like
[20:57] instability
[20:59] financially financially instability
[21:01] all in and always financially uh
[21:05] uh physically mentally Yeah.
[21:08] instability. It was Yeah.
[21:10] So he was financially inadequate.
[21:13] Mhm.
[21:14] And that's what made that's what pushed
[21:16] you to the edge. Now, when you got with
[21:18] him,
[21:18] what pushed me to the edge was no
[21:20] leadership. There was there's no
[21:21] leadership. I wasn't being led.
[21:23] So, you was the one taking control and
[21:25] and taking the
[21:26] There we go. That makes sense. All
[21:27] right.
[21:28] I wasn't being led anywhere.
[21:30] Got it. And uh fun fact.
[21:32] Fun fact about me is I love the color
[21:35] orange. Can't you tell?
[21:37] That's whack. Choose another one.
[21:39] I have a pet ball python snake.
[21:42] Damn.
[21:43] Why did you bring him?
[21:44] I should have. You should have her and I
[21:47] should have bro.
[21:47] Oh, I'm so sorry.
[21:48] No snakes allowed on this podcast.
[21:51] She's coming next time.
[21:53] And I'm coming in my worker boots.
[21:55] [laughter]
[21:56] Your construction boots.
[21:57] We're going to the construction
[22:00] you don't do construction. She lying.
[22:01] [laughter]
[22:02] I thought coming in my boots.
[22:04] You said you take care of disabled
[22:06] people. I thought you said you did
[22:07] construction last episode.
[22:08] No, she said she was going to do it.
[22:10] Oh, she was going to do construction.
[22:11] I was going to do it and in any need I
[22:14] can do it. Was it because of like the
[22:15] color orange?
[22:17] No, that wasn't involved yet. Yeah, that
[22:18] wasn't there yet. Yeah, that wasn't
[22:20] there yet.
[22:20] Oh, also when you speaking, just grab
[22:22] the mic toward you or come closer so
[22:23] they can hear you.
[22:25] Um, all right,
[22:28] let's do
[22:29] And one thing I would change about
[22:30] myself is o my stubbornness. I I'm very
[22:35] stubborn. I would love to figure that
[22:38] out.
[22:38] And that's why it didn't work out with
[22:39] your relationship because you ain't let
[22:40] him leave because you were stubborn.
[22:41] See, Chad, you got to dissect. Got to
[22:43] dissect.
[22:44] You thought you ate with that one.
[22:47] [laughter]
[22:48] No, that's not why. What? What did you
[22:50] say? Yeah. Yeah, that's not why though.
[22:52] We'll take your word for it. [laughter]
[22:54] [gasps]
[22:55] Whatever. No. Yeah, that's not why.
[22:58] I want a leader. I want to be like,
[22:59] let me adjust your mic. You going to put
[23:00] it on your knee like that? I got you. I
[23:02] adjust for you.
[23:04] Got you. Get the likes up, chat. If
[23:07] anybody got any questions, send in some
[23:09] super chats. Donate to the podcast.
[23:11] Support the channel. Let's go. All
[23:13] right. There you go. And uh name, age,
[23:15] where you from?
[23:16] Uh my name is Emma. I am 35 and I'm from
[23:19] the mainline.
[23:21] Okay. 35 from the mainline.
[23:24] Okay. Mainline is Philly.
[23:27] Like the suburbs of Philly.
[23:28] Phoenix type.
[23:29] Oh,
[23:30] like Malvin.
[23:31] Malver. Okay. All right. Um cuz I heard
[23:34] of Mainline Health.
[23:36] Yeah. They're all over the place, but
[23:37] they're all over the place. They started
[23:38] there. Okay. Makes sense. And uh how old
[23:41] did you say you were?
[23:42] 35.
[23:42] 35. Is she the oldest or who?
[23:44] Yes, I am.
[23:45] How old did you say you were?
[23:46] I'm 27. I'm N. I was about to say I'm
[23:48] the youngest.
[23:49] She's No, she's the baby. [laughter]
[23:52] Okay. And uh for you, let's go with what
[23:57] do you do for a living?
[23:58] I'm an artist.
[23:59] Okay. Artist like what?
[24:01] Um well, I do painting. Um but I also I
[24:05] do like it's called 3D mixed media art.
[24:07] So, I I like to glue things onto
[24:09] canvases and make bigger pictures out of
[24:11] it.
[24:12] Cool.
[24:13] Okay.
[24:13] Interesting.
[24:14] All right. Cool. Um, and how long have
[24:16] you been doing that for?
[24:17] Since co. That's when I started getting
[24:19] into it. I was in my basement and I had
[24:21] nothing but time to paint.
[24:24] Got it. All right. Cool. And uh, let's
[24:28] do what do you do for a living?
[24:30] No, I'm sorry. Relationship status.
[24:32] I'm single.
[24:33] How long you been single for?
[24:35] Since the beginning of May.
[24:38] Damn.
[24:38] And how long was that relationship for?
[24:40] That one was five years.
[24:42] Five years. Okay. So, you're newly
[24:43] single and that was a fiveyear
[24:45] relationship. You broke up with who?
[24:47] I did actually.
[24:48] So, you broke up.
[24:49] But wait a second. I have a No, listen.
[24:51] I have a way to break your rule cuz I
[24:53] was married too. Not at the same time,
[24:56] but previously my longest relationship,
[24:58] I was married and he left me. So, there
[25:01] you go.
[25:02] Okay. No, that's that's [laughter]
[25:03] So, there you go. You know,
[25:06] only time.
[25:07] But still, let's see this. How many
[25:10] total boyfriends did you have
[25:13] at what point?
[25:14] Okay, I got a better question.
[25:17] Oh, no. [laughter]
[25:18] Your husband divorced you, right?
[25:20] Yes, sir.
[25:21] Did any other guys other than your
[25:23] husband ever break up with you?
[25:25] Yes. Until this time, um, I had always
[25:28] been broken up with cuz I was always
[25:30] willing to hang on. But at this point, I
[25:33] said, "Fuck it."
[25:34] So, wait, the majority of the guys you
[25:35] dated, they broke up with you.
[25:37] They broke up with you.
[25:38] Yes.
[25:38] Well, that's
[25:43] okay.
[25:44] Cuz you know, guys on normally break up.
[25:46] Yeah. We don't we don't break
[25:47] like when guys get with a woman normally
[25:49] we're very territorial.
[25:51] So, like this is why ladies like Tell me
[25:53] if I'm wrong.
[25:54] White guys white guys will leave you.
[25:56] I'm sorry. I'm just saying it.
[25:59] I'm sorry. I'm sorry. She might have got
[26:01] you there.
[26:02] I mean, white guys don't leave either.
[26:04] Men in general don't leave.
[26:06] Yeah. No. No. I I hear that.
[26:08] But what I'm saying is like since men
[26:10] are territorial by nature, when we're
[26:12] with a woman, we're less likely to
[26:14] leave. Not only that, every guy that
[26:16] y'all been with, like when he's when
[26:19] y'all are intimate, he normally says,
[26:22] "Yeah, this [ __ ] mine." Right.
[26:24] Every guy said that. And the reason why
[26:25] every guy said that and the reason why
[26:27] every guy said that before is because
[26:29] we're territorial. [laughter] Even if he
[26:31] just met you, he probably going to say
[26:33] it.
[26:34] Is he yours?
[26:34] I've definitely heard people say that.
[26:36] Exactly. Yeah.
[26:37] Not every person. Don't say that to me.
[26:39] But anyways, um
[26:41] say that too.
[26:41] No. Yeah, that's true. I was like a
[26:44] while back, but I was like on a first
[26:45] date kiss him. He goes, "Those lips are
[26:47] mine."
[26:47] Yeah, that's what I said. Yeah, that's
[26:49] what guy said. Yeah. Like y'all trying
[26:51] to act like [ __ ] don't be saying that.
[26:53] Yes. Guys say that. possession.
[26:55] Yeah.
[26:56] Um
[26:57] but on to you. So, all right. So, you
[26:59] were with him for 5 years. You broke
[27:02] with him.
[27:02] Um give me one thing he did wrong. Like
[27:05] that one main thing of white.
[27:07] He didn't move
[27:09] back to Pennsylvania like he was
[27:11] supposed to.
[27:13] Did he promise you he was going to do
[27:14] that?
[27:15] That was the whole He was looking for a
[27:17] girlfriend in Pennsylvania when he lived
[27:19] in a different state
[27:21] and specifically so we could settle
[27:24] down. and he's got family here.
[27:25] Mhm.
[27:26] And um I waited like
[27:28] Would you have to travel to him or he
[27:30] would travel to you? Majority of the
[27:32] time.
[27:32] Majority of the time he came here cuz he
[27:34] has family here as well. And I don't
[27:35] [clears throat] have any other
[27:36] connections where he want to be honest.
[27:38] I went there. Trust me.
[27:40] You want me to be honest?
[27:41] You can be honest. I don't know.
[27:43] Okay. The the tr honest truth is
[27:46] he was only utilizing you for sex.
[27:47] Oh, no. I know. I trust me. I figured it
[27:50] out. That's why I left.
[27:51] Fair enough. Yeah. He was only smashing
[27:54] Yes.
[27:55] For five. And guys would that do that.
[27:56] Listen ladies, guys would like this is
[27:59] why
[28:00] I need more backbone.
[28:01] Y need to know your worth.
[28:02] Stand behind it.
[28:03] Well, no. What I'm saying here is you
[28:05] ladies do it too, but you do it in the
[28:07] opposite way. So like this is why we
[28:09] have two zones. Men put women in sex
[28:11] zone and women put men in friend zone.
[28:13] You have all of you ladies probably have
[28:15] guys in friend zone for over 5 years.
[28:18] Meaning that it's a guy that you know
[28:19] that he wants to have sex with you, but
[28:21] you continue the friendship and garner
[28:23] time, attention, and resources from him.
[28:25] And yeah, that's that's the same that's
[28:28] the equal opposite equivalent. When guys
[28:31] put women in sex zone, they garner sex
[28:33] from the woman, but they never elevate
[28:35] the woman to wifey level or relationship
[28:38] level. They just utilize them for sex.
[28:40] just like the guys that you're in a
[28:42] friend zone with. Um, you know, you
[28:44] don't elevate him to.
[28:46] So, isn't that based on how what
[28:48] standard you hold sex to and friendship
[28:50] to? Because
[28:52] anybody can be my friend and like I'm
[28:54] going to treat everyone the same that I
[28:56] have sex with. Like, like if that's the
[28:58] case, what I'm saying?
[28:59] What do you mean?
[29:00] Meaning, if it comes down to
[29:04] being with a if I have a man, correct?
[29:08] And and then we're talking about
[29:11] Repeat the point that you said.
[29:13] Oh my god, I forgot. It's been a long
[29:15] time since I made a point. [laughter]
[29:18] Oh [ __ ]
[29:18] I got like
[29:19] I
[29:20] I think I'm the one that made the last
[29:21] point.
[29:22] Okay, repeat your point.
[29:23] Okay, so the point the I was making a
[29:25] distinction, right? because she said
[29:28] that she was with a guy and it was long
[29:30] distance and he would only, you know, he
[29:33] promised her that he would move to
[29:34] Pennsylvania, but he never did it. And
[29:36] she was with him for 5 years and he was
[29:39] just
[29:40] and and he was just having sex with her.
[29:41] And then she said, "Oh, yeah, I knew
[29:43] that." And then you replied back and
[29:45] said, "Yeah, guys just need to make up
[29:46] their mind and stick with what they
[29:48] really want." I said, "Well, no, women
[29:51] operate the same way. Women put men in
[29:53] friend zone and they extract time and
[29:56] attention from them. But men, we put
[29:58] women in sex zone and we extract sex
[30:00] from them without elevating.
[30:02] We all hold the weight on the sex zone
[30:04] like
[30:06] sex the weight on the friend zone as
[30:08] long as we have all three. Why can't it
[30:10] be the friend the the whatever you said
[30:13] about women put men in the friend zone
[30:16] to get these things. Why can't we want
[30:17] that and sex?
[30:19] You mean like friends with benefits?
[30:23] Yeah.
[30:23] Yeah, you could want that. There's women
[30:25] that want friends with benefits, but
[30:26] generally speaking, when a woman is
[30:29] intimate with a man, normally they can
[30:31] see a little bit more with that man.
[30:33] Like women,
[30:34] generally speaking, now we know that
[30:35] column
[30:35] A or column B,
[30:37] we we know that there's there's always
[30:38] exceptions to the rule where there's
[30:40] women that they can have sex um you
[30:43] know, without any strings attached. They
[30:45] don't. It's just short-term relationship
[30:47] and it's only for their benefits. We
[30:49] know there's women like that, but I'm
[30:51] saying generally speaking,
[30:52] most women if they're going to be
[30:54] intimate with a man,
[30:55] they would only be intimate with that
[30:57] man if they can see something more than
[30:59] just sex.
[31:00] So, what I'm saying is women would be
[31:03] intimate with a man, but normally
[31:06] they're hoping for something more.
[31:09] Okay, I can see that. So I give
[31:10] So you see that most people most women
[31:13] are intimate with a man but they hope
[31:15] for a relationship and most men would be
[31:17] friends with a woman but they hope for
[31:19] sex.
[31:20] Yes, this is true. That's what I'm
[31:22] saying. Okay, that I understand
[31:23] in a generalized fashion 100%.
[31:25] [clears throat] That I understand.
[31:26] But um Okay, chat. Uh I think we got
[31:28] some super chats that came in here. Let
[31:30] me go ahead and get to these. Oh,
[31:31] actually I'm not
[31:32] want Yeah, I do want to know
[31:32] for for the intro. Yeah. So uh well wait
[31:35] real quick. Let's do uh fun fact.
[31:38] Oh my god. Yeah, I already said that I
[31:41] was an artist.
[31:43] Um,
[31:45] something that you're good at, something
[31:46] that you
[31:47] and one thing you'd want to change about
[31:48] yourself.
[31:50] Thank you for remembering the questions
[31:51] he forgot. Um, fun fact is I bought my
[31:56] house when I was 19.
[31:58] Woo!
[31:58] Oh, damn. Big money. Let me
[32:00] Let me get a dollar.
[32:03] You bought your house when you were 19?
[32:05] Yes, sir.
[32:07] the townhouse.
[32:08] Like, did who gave you money for this?
[32:10] Your family?
[32:11] That's none of your business.
[32:13] Okay. She
[32:13] No, I got married.
[32:14] Oh, you got married.
[32:15] And I have my My parents and
[32:17] grandparents have many friends that were
[32:20] very happy to see me get married.
[32:22] Oh, okay. So, they
[32:24] I know that's right.
[32:25] What What's your ethnicity?
[32:26] I'm Jewish.
[32:27] Oh, that makes sense. Please do not do
[32:29] [laughter] I should have just said I
[32:31] should have said
[32:34] Listen,
[32:35] you walked yourself right.
[32:37] Oh my god. Can I take it back?
[32:38] Uh chat. Uh that makes sense. Uh listen,
[32:41] man. They keep the money in a family.
[32:43] Family, bro.
[32:44] Yeah. And
[32:45] she probably didn't pay a dime.
[32:46] [ __ ] She didn't pay nothing right now.
[32:49] I'm going to slap you with this
[32:50] microphone. [laughter] How you
[32:52] No violence.
[32:53] Our government funds her. I'm bad with
[32:56] No, it doesn't. I'm joking. I'm joking.
[32:57] Um,
[32:58] please.
[32:59] So, I guess the fun fact. All right,
[33:01] cool. You got your house when you were
[33:02] 19 and you were married as well. Cool.
[33:04] Good for you.
[33:04] I get it. I bought it. Please.
[33:08] Yeah, you know, but it was funded. Let's
[33:10] just say that. But, uh, for the next
[33:12] question, if you could change one thing
[33:14] about yourself, uh, what's that one
[33:15] thing you would change?
[33:17] Um, I wish I would be able to let go of
[33:21] things faster.
[33:23] Oh, wait. It's supposed to be
[33:25] Yeah. something either physical or
[33:28] something like
[33:30] internally
[33:30] internally like something deeper than
[33:33] internal.
[33:33] Yeah, but that's
[33:34] okay.
[33:35] Men care about.
[33:36] You're right. You're right.
[33:37] Something
[33:38] something men would care about.
[33:40] I wish my boobs were bigger.
[33:42] You wish your boobs was bigger.
[33:43] I'm sorry. I just looked I was like,
[33:45] okay,
[33:45] I'm like a little hand.
[33:46] I'd be insulted if you didn't.
[33:48] [laughter]
[33:51] All right. Uh let me get to these super
[33:52] chats real quick. Chats. Uh chat, get
[33:55] the likes up, man. Get the likes up.
[33:58] Where we at?
[34:00] What's up, chat? Talk to us nicely.
[34:03] I get a chat because they're the chat.
[34:05] Oh my gosh. [laughter]
[34:06] Come on now.
[34:07] This is what the This is what the
[34:08] younger generation, they all talk to an
[34:11] anonymous chat. That's I know. I know.
[34:14] We got uh for the super chats in here,
[34:16] we got uh Manuel State sending in $20.
[34:20] Hey, man. I appreciate the support, man.
[34:21] Appreciate the support. He says, "Um,
[34:23] [ __ ] we want to know which one of
[34:26] these ladies is responsible for making
[34:29] the stream late. Point them out."
[34:31] Not me. [laughter]
[34:33] Me
[34:34] right there, brother.
[34:34] It be like that, man. We got Charlie
[34:36] LeBron sending in $2. He says,
[34:38] "Dang, they say, "Name female
[34:41] profession." And ladies, while I'm
[34:43] reading these, just let me get them out.
[34:45] Uh, name female professions that keep
[34:47] men away from you. So, name some female
[34:51] professions that keep men away from
[34:54] them. All right, that's a good one.
[34:56] That's a good one. Let's uh
[34:59] CEO.
[34:59] Let's start with Let's Let's start with
[35:01] you, Shelly. Shelby
[35:05] collector.
[35:07] A collector is what keeps men away from
[35:09] you.
[35:10] You said a profession.
[35:11] Like a debt collector.
[35:12] Yeah.
[35:13] Oh, that's
[35:15] everyone wants to be away from a debt
[35:17] collector. That's great. Yeah. know how
[35:19] to find people.
[35:20] No, but I'm saying like if if if
[35:24] you were out at an event or somewhere
[35:27] and a guy was trying to talk to you
[35:29] and he said, "Yeah, what you do for a
[35:30] living?" And you were like, "Yeah, I'm a
[35:31] debt collector." He wouldn't disqualify
[35:33] you because you're a debt collector.
[35:35] He'd be like, "Is my name on your list?"
[35:37] That's true.
[35:37] Yeah. You know what I'm saying? So,
[35:38] like,
[35:39] give me a different profession of why a
[35:41] man would disqualify a woman.
[35:45] A psychologist.
[35:47] [laughter]
[35:47] Okay. What's the reason for it?
[35:49] Let me answer.
[35:52] Go ahead.
[35:52] Well, you know, that's fine.
[35:53] Psychologist, but what what's the reason
[35:56] you think a man
[35:57] He doesn't want to be analyzed or
[35:58] psychoanalyzed. He doesn't want anybody
[36:00] to have opinions about him that he can't
[36:02] face.
[36:04] I think they think that.
[36:05] Yeah. But women aren't really good at
[36:07] psychoanalyzing men. Um because women
[36:10] have to be with them. Even the
[36:11] professionals generally speaking,
[36:13] generally speaking, most professional,
[36:15] you know, psych psychologist or
[36:17] psychiatrist um or or a therapist,
[36:20] something like that, they're normally
[36:22] not good at psychoanalyzing the man
[36:24] because women don't really understand
[36:26] the man's point of view because men and
[36:29] women live a totally different
[36:30] experience. Women live life from a
[36:33] privilege perspective because you don't
[36:35] have a burden of performance on you to
[36:37] become attractive to attract the
[36:38] opposite sex. Meanwhile, men, we have a
[36:41] burden of performance on us to become
[36:43] attractive to attract the opposite sex.
[36:45] So, I'm saying all of that to say that
[36:47] um you don't really have to
[36:48] self-improve. A guy would just accept
[36:51] you for who you are. Um you don't really
[36:53] have to self-improve. But for me, for an
[36:55] example, like I can't just be lazy and
[36:58] eat sandwiches and Cheetos in my mom's
[37:00] basement. I really won't get a woman at
[37:02] all. I'll become I'll be a virgin. I'll
[37:04] be an incel. Right? So, I'm just saying
[37:06] that women from a general aspect, they
[37:09] don't really understand the male's
[37:10] perspective like that unless she's a
[37:12] good, you know, psychiatrist or
[37:14] something like that,
[37:16] psychologist, whatever. Yeah.
[37:17] So, a lawyer.
[37:20] I mean, I mean, that's not going to
[37:21] disqualify, but okay, fair enough. But
[37:23] let's let's go let's go with Grace.
[37:25] What's up? [laughter]
[37:26] Okay, so I feel like nursing I feel like
[37:29] all nurses get like a bad rep,
[37:32] which like I'm still going to say at the
[37:34] end of the day, but I don't know. I
[37:35] think all nurses are looked at as like
[37:40] as they
[37:40] for the streets.
[37:41] Yeah, I think so.
[37:42] Thoughts? [laughter]
[37:43] Yeah,
[37:44] [ __ ]
[37:46] I feel like everyone in the medical
[37:47] field though to a certain degree like
[37:50] but it's what for the streets
[37:52] a little bit. Well, unless you're a
[37:55] doctor.
[37:56] Just the streets.
[37:59] Wait, which question? What you talking
[38:00] about
[38:00] for the for the chat about the
[38:01] profession? What was what?
[38:02] So, it's just uh name a female
[38:04] profession that men would reject them
[38:07] for.
[38:07] What's a female profession?
[38:09] Like a female dominated
[38:11] like a job. Just a job.
[38:12] Just jobs that
[38:13] any job. Not one that's dominated by
[38:15] females specifically.
[38:16] It could be do No, it's not specific.
[38:18] Okay.
[38:18] Yeah. Yeah.
[38:19] Or I mean my other answer would be like
[38:21] Only Fans.
[38:22] Oh, that's a good one.
[38:24] But I don't though it depends.
[38:26] Wait, but I like I don't know if that
[38:27] would keep men away. But like it
[38:29] wouldn't make them want a relationship.
[38:32] That's what we mean,
[38:33] right?
[38:33] Yeah.
[38:34] Yeah.
[38:34] So yeah, you were right though. Like our
[38:36] is one of them do have bad reps.
[38:37] They do. Yeah.
[38:38] So yes, I would agree with that too.
[38:40] Yeah. Nurses got bad reps because they
[38:42] tend to be a little bit more on the
[38:43] promiscuous side. Generally speaking,
[38:45] they just have a nice personality and it
[38:47] comes off as flirty.
[38:50] Nah, it's because so like guys talk like
[38:54] guys talk to other men to get whole
[38:56] facts on women and like nurses is high
[39:00] up on that list of a lot of whole facts.
[39:02] Okay,
[39:02] that's what I'm saying. Yeah.
[39:04] Yeah.
[39:05] But um Okay, let's uh let's go to
[39:08] I was going to say uh RNs. I was going
[39:10] to say nurses. That's what I hear a lot
[39:12] nowadays. And then what's the other one?
[39:14] Aestheticians.
[39:16] Aestheticians. What does that do? The
[39:18] eyebrow. eyebrows, the nails. Yeah, all
[39:21] of them. Yeah, I've heard that a lot
[39:23] lately, too. Um, but I don't have a
[39:26] third. But
[39:27] if I could like just throw one out there
[39:29] like randomly that isn't the stereotype,
[39:32] I maybe would say like someone that
[39:37] deals with like animals. So like,
[39:41] but like grooming. [laughter]
[39:44] Okay. Okay. Okay. Okay.
[39:46] Grooming like pet grooming. Like, don't
[39:48] nobody want to deal with you coming home
[39:50] to dog hair all over you. Like, I think
[39:53] that's a no-go. Like, it's a dumb job.
[39:55] Not. No, it isn't. No, it isn't. It's
[39:57] not a dumb job.
[39:57] But I bet if you I bet
[39:59] it's not a dumb job.
[40:00] I bet if you're a vet though, you come
[40:01] home probably smelling like like, you
[40:03] know, the way a vet office is.
[40:06] And I love the vets and I think they're
[40:07] wonderful and extremely
[40:09] You do good work.
[40:10] Like talented.
[40:11] Okay. All right. So, you think that you
[40:12] know,
[40:13] don't no man want that?
[40:14] I don't. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. So again,
[40:17] you're looking at it from more of a
[40:18] females lens. That's not really a
[40:21] a career that men would disqualify women
[40:24] for. Like what I'm looking for is if
[40:27] you're out and a man is approaching you,
[40:29] he's supporting you.
[40:30] Yeah, that's what
[40:31] There you go.
[40:32] All right. So like, and you say what you
[40:34] do for a living, you know, he's just
[40:36] going to disqualify you based off of
[40:38] your profession. So let's go to you.
[40:40] What? Give me an answer.
[40:41] She just said it.
[40:41] What?
[40:42] Strippers.
[40:43] Okay. Yeah. Yeah. You're definitely
[40:44] getting disqualified.
[40:45] I I'll give you one. Bartenders.
[40:49] I feel like they get the same rap as RNs
[40:51] though. It's like just because like you
[40:53] like to like help people out.
[40:54] It's answering the question like if you
[40:56] know if I'm trying to like wife a girl
[40:58] up and I'm talking to her and she's
[40:59] like, "Hey, I'm a bartender." I'm like,
[41:01] "Yeah." No.
[41:01] Waitresses cuz other people are going to
[41:03] be like flirting with her the whole time
[41:04] or because of her.
[41:05] She's good at conversating.
[41:06] [clears throat]
[41:06] Call too many people.
[41:07] Both.
[41:08] Okay.
[41:09] Both.
[41:09] So waitresses like like waitresses too.
[41:12] Waitresses. I don't
[41:13] cuz they are nice. They meet a lot of
[41:16] people.
[41:16] Sometimes they're not though. Like Yeah.
[41:18] Don't be smiling.
[41:19] You got to say bartenders like they're
[41:20] like, you know, they're seeing different
[41:22] types of guys. You know, they're
[41:24] flirting. They're they're getting
[41:25] flirted with, they're flirting back.
[41:26] They're usually dressed provocatively.
[41:28] And you know,
[41:28] listen, it's very simple. If a woman is
[41:30] a bartender, she's in she has a specific
[41:33] type of profession where is she's going
[41:35] to be surrounded by a lot of men.
[41:37] Like, do women are are women at bars to,
[41:40] you know, buy their own drinks? No, men
[41:42] are at bars to buy their drinks and also
[41:44] buy drinks for women. So, she's going to
[41:45] be surrounded by a lot of men, which
[41:49] then it increases the chances of her
[41:51] being, you know,
[41:53] you think so nowadays with bartending
[41:55] though, cuz it's so diverse now. It's so
[41:58] men and women dominated. Like,
[42:00] no. Like, dudes would hit on a woman
[42:02] that work at McDonald's. Why wouldn't he
[42:04] would hit on a chick that's dressed in a
[42:06] little tight shorts or a little skirt
[42:08] that's a bartender? But I think I'm
[42:10] saying a man would wife wife a bartender
[42:12] up too is what I'm saying. Like I don't
[42:14] think that's a job that they he would
[42:16] turn down.
[42:17] No, no, no. That will be one of them
[42:18] that he would turn down for wifey. Now
[42:21] just to smash
[42:22] she's a good bartender, too. Like what
[42:23] if she's an elite bartender?
[42:25] It doesn't matter of listening.
[42:28] That's what I'm saying. Ladies, ladies,
[42:30] you're confusing it. Ladies, it's like a
[42:32] stripper. It doesn't matter if she's the
[42:34] best stripper in the world.
[42:35] There's no high class strippers, but
[42:36] bartending is a career that Ladies,
[42:39] here's what I'm saying. It doesn't
[42:42] matter if she's topnotch the best at her
[42:46] career. Certain careers, certain career
[42:49] fields, men just are going to disqualify
[42:50] the women if they work.
[42:51] I don't think bartending is bartending
[42:53] is one of them. You're in a, you know,
[42:55] in
[42:56] 2026.
[42:57] Yes. How you going to speak for guys?
[42:59] You're in a situation where I haven't
[43:00] heard that. I haven't heard that. I've
[43:02] heard RNs. I've heard I've heard
[43:05] estheticians and and like those like
[43:07] that. bartenders.
[43:09] Would you date the bartender at the
[43:10] strip club?
[43:11] No. No. No.
[43:12] No. I'm not saying for you.
[43:14] Yeah. No, I get what you're saying. But
[43:15] I haven't heard that.
[43:16] We're not even talking about talking
[43:18] about bartenders at regular bars ladies
[43:21] now. Back in the day, I could hear that.
[43:23] Now 2026. No. The way that bartending is
[43:27] that career.
[43:27] I think because like you're in a public
[43:29] place like let like you're almost
[43:32] letting men hit on you. That's your job.
[43:34] What I'm saying is I can understand this
[43:37] thought. I don't agree. I don't hear
[43:40] that enough. I don't hear
[43:41] Oh, you don't got to
[43:43] I don't But I haven't I've been
[43:46] I don't hear men shunning bartenders.
[43:49] I'm going to say it in front
[43:50] [clears throat] of you.
[43:51] Yeah. Why would we say
[43:52] because I see them dating bartenders?
[43:53] What do you mean?
[43:55] You see them effing bartenders.
[43:57] I see them dating bartenders. Like I
[43:59] don't see
[43:59] like they will they will f a bartender
[44:01] for sure. Of course. But dating is a
[44:04] whole another level. We're talking about
[44:05] look, we're talking about for
[44:06] relationship.
[44:07] Wait, were they dating wife? I
[44:09] I don't think bartending is a is a
[44:11] career that it is. I think it is
[44:14] diminishes.
[44:15] Women who are into the night life are
[44:17] for the streets.
[44:19] A bartender is equivalent to the girl.
[44:21] That's where I think about how the
[44:22] bartender is equivalent to a bottle girl
[44:25] because you're dressed provocatively.
[44:26] You're getting hit on. You're getting
[44:28] hit on all the time. You're coming
[44:30] across guys with money. And we all know
[44:32] women fold with guys that that have
[44:34] money. So you're flirting. You're being
[44:36] you're being flirted with. And you know,
[44:39] no, it isn't confidence ladies.
[44:41] No, I think that's a talent nowadays.
[44:44] Bartenders and bottle girls are
[44:46] bartending is a niche for men and women.
[44:48] I don't think anyone's thinking about it
[44:50] like that.
[44:50] Bottles girls are nowadays. I don't
[44:52] think anyone's thinking about bartending
[44:53] like that.
[44:53] Let me give you Let me give you a
[44:54] perspective. So it's two sides you can
[44:57] look at it. One of the angles that Ease
[44:58] was speaking about that I was alluding
[45:00] to as well is that well no a man would
[45:02] disqualify a woman that's working uh at
[45:04] a bar because she's in a situation where
[45:07] she's surrounded by a bunch of men.
[45:09] She's dressing provocatively usually and
[45:11] she's also normally a lot of these
[45:13] bartenders part of their job is to
[45:15] communicate with men in a way which is
[45:18] kind of flirt with them to keep them
[45:20] buying more drinks and to make them
[45:21] coming back. So, she's in a situation
[45:24] where it's not conducive for a
[45:27] uh for a long-term relationship. She's
[45:28] for a short-term and recreational use
[45:30] only. Now, the other aspect of it is I
[45:34] know you ladies was like, "Oh, well, he
[45:35] doesn't want a woman that's a bartender
[45:37] because, you know, she's going to be
[45:38] surrounded by a lot of men, so he's
[45:39] insecure. He's lack confident."
[45:41] Did any of us say it like that?
[45:43] Again, I was going to say, which one of
[45:45] us sounded like that?
[45:46] You said uh you said lack confidence and
[45:48] you said insecurity.
[45:48] I didn't say it into the
[45:49] She said the insecurity, too. No, you
[45:51] said it. She said both. Yeah. Yeah, it
[45:52] was shelter. Speaking of I said both.
[45:54] Okay. So, you said that the guy was
[45:57] insecure and he lacked confidence.
[45:59] If that's his concerns, then yeah,
[46:02] that isn't the only that isn't a concern
[46:05] of that way. One of the main issues is
[46:07] is that
[46:09] when men deal with women, we like to
[46:12] mitigate risk.
[46:13] Yes.
[46:14] That's what we do. And you ladies do it.
[46:16] Absolutely.
[46:16] All the time. If you see a guy, he lacks
[46:19] confidence or he has poor social skills,
[46:21] he's a little bit of awkward and he
[46:23] twitches or something, you'll be like,
[46:24] "Ew, he's weird. He gives like creep
[46:26] vibes, like, you know, uh uh uh stalker
[46:29] vibes or something or serial killer
[46:31] vibes." So, you're always looking to
[46:34] mitigate risk by
[46:37] uh looking for some type of security
[46:40] value from the man. If he can make you
[46:41] feel secure, then okay, the risk has
[46:44] been mitigated. You'll feel more
[46:45] comfortable. You'll want to be around
[46:46] him. go on a second date with him. Vice
[46:50] versa, men, well, we mitigate risk in
[46:53] other areas when the woman is prone,
[46:55] more prone to putting herself in
[46:58] situations where the probability would
[47:00] increase. I got you
[47:06] automatic lights. [laughter]
[47:09] Uh where the probability would increase
[47:11] for the woman to be promiscuous. So,
[47:13] it's not that he's insecure or he lacks
[47:16] confidence. He's just mitigating risk
[47:19] and he's using discernment to judge
[47:21] wisely to not choose a woman like that
[47:24] because the probability will be higher
[47:26] for her to cheat on him and do other
[47:28] things like that. Not only that, those
[47:30] women that go into those career fields
[47:32] like being a bartender and things of
[47:34] that sort, the night life, they're more
[47:36] promiscuous. They're more promiscuous
[47:38] women. So,
[47:39] it's a blanket.
[47:40] It has nothing to do with
[47:41] analysis. I was going to say that's just
[47:43] a fancy way to put it.
[47:44] Uh, no. I'm just letting you know I just
[47:47] refuted the point on when you talked
[47:48] about the man is insecure or he lacks
[47:50] confidence. That has nothing to do with
[47:51] You got to say guys are territory. We
[47:53] don't want our girl dressing
[47:54] provocatively and flirting with other
[47:55] guys for work.
[47:57] Like why? Like you wouldn't want your
[47:59] boyfriend to be surrounded by women and
[48:02] flirting with them and being extra
[48:04] friendly and then creating a work wife
[48:05] and then like women are territorial. So
[48:08] like it it goes both ways. You know what
[48:10] I'm saying? I'm like, why would I want
[48:12] that?
[48:12] You got something to say, though. It's a
[48:13] general, but go ahead. Let me let me
[48:14] hear your
[48:15] No, I think that that's correct in
[48:16] general. That's a That's
[48:18] Yeah. Okay. All right. So,
[48:19] not always like that, but that's
[48:20] definitely correct in general.
[48:22] Fair enough. All right. She agrees. What
[48:23] about you? You think in general uh the
[48:27] chances for a night woman in the
[48:29] nightife working at a bar being a
[48:31] bartender is higher for her to be more
[48:35] promiscuous working uh versus the woman
[48:37] that's like working in a call center.
[48:39] Correct. for both men and women.
[48:41] Also, I think the women in the call
[48:42] center are probably pretty freaky.
[48:44] I
[48:46] I mean, it could be never you [laughter]
[48:49] would never expect it. I promise.
[48:51] Yeah, I'm sure they could be. But versus
[48:53] the woman that's a bartender, it's like
[48:56] Yeah, but I don't know. You don't know.
[48:58] It's like ah [laughter]
[49:00] that chick got the bar.
[49:01] Have you ever [ __ ] someone from Oh,
[49:03] I'm sorry. Language.
[49:04] That's fine. Okay. Continue. um from not
[49:07] you specifically, but like do you hear
[49:08] people tell stories about sleeping with
[49:10] someone from the call center? No,
[49:12] I don't hear.
[49:13] I'm not gonna talk about it.
[49:14] Well, well, you know, I've I've
[49:15] definitely heard stories of like a dude,
[49:17] you know, hooking up with one of his
[49:18] little work John Jones and stuff like
[49:20] that and they work at like some call
[49:21] center. Yeah, that's out there. But like
[49:23] the chick that's a bartender. No, I hear
[49:24] more stories about the girl that's a
[49:26] bartender versus the girl that's at a
[49:28] desk all day.
[49:29] Yeah.
[49:30] Yeah. And then she gets out at 4:30
[49:33] versus the girl that gets out at
[49:34] starts at 4:30.
[49:35] 2 a.m.
[49:36] Yeah.
[49:36] You know what I'm saying?
[49:37] No, I feel you.
[49:38] Yeah. Uh, okay. We got uh Manuel State
[49:41] in five. He says, "Shout outs to
[49:42] Koulian. The girl next to Ease looks
[49:44] slow and crazy at the same time.
[49:47] You got something you want to say back?
[49:49] Remember the rules?" I said, "Got."
[49:51] Yeah, you you can talk your drunk back.
[49:52] You can talk your drunk back. Talk talk
[49:54] that talk.
[49:55] No, I'm sorry. I'm too slow to respond.
[49:57] [laughter]
[49:58] I was I was actually good. Um, we got
[50:01] Charlie Lebron saying $2. He says, "If
[50:04] you're in a situationship, are you in a
[50:08] uh three times zone?"
[50:11] What is that? [laughter]
[50:13] Oh, no. No. Oh, no. Okay. Okay. He says,
[50:15] "If you're in a situationship, are you
[50:17] in the sex zone?" I see what you're
[50:19] saying. You had to spell it that way
[50:20] because of YouTube. Um, I guess this is
[50:24] just a question for me, I'm guessing.
[50:26] Yeah. So most women when they say that
[50:30] they're in a situationship, yeah,
[50:31] normally they're in sex zone, bro. Um,
[50:34] it's basically saying friends with
[50:35] benefits, bro.
[50:35] They're basically saying friends with
[50:36] benefits or they're saying like, well,
[50:39] I'm in a situationship and you know,
[50:41] like I like him, but you know, I'm
[50:43] waiting for him, meaning that he doesn't
[50:45] want to elevate her to wifey level or
[50:47] commitment level
[50:48] and he's just utilizing her for sex
[50:50] only. So yeah,
[50:52] we got Manuel States in five again. He
[50:54] says, "If a man is providing and
[50:56] protecting, what do you expect
[50:59] he wants in return?" Good question.
[51:02] Sex.
[51:03] Uh,
[51:04] start with Start with Grace. Go ahead,
[51:05] Grace.
[51:06] Sex.
[51:07] Into the mic, Grace. [laughter]
[51:09] One more time.
[51:10] Sex. Sex.
[51:12] Anything else? That's it.
[51:15] I mean, obviously, just if they have
[51:17] kids, primarily taking care of the kid.
[51:20] I'm saying this is what the man wants.
[51:22] Okay. Um, you know, cleaning, laundry,
[51:27] but like sex times 10.
[51:29] Okay. [laughter]
[51:31] Go ahead, Shelby. What do you think?
[51:35] Yeah. You You can have more than one
[51:36] answer, too.
[51:37] Yeah. It's
[51:39] Yeah. So, if the man is protecting and
[51:40] providing for you, uh, what do you think
[51:42] the man wants in return?
[51:46] Trying to figure out the words here. Um,
[51:48] say with your chest.
[51:50] Nourishment.
[51:51] Okay. nourishment.
[51:53] He wants to be
[51:54] What does that look like? Like
[51:55] being built up, taken care of,
[51:58] like supported.
[51:59] Supported. Yeah.
[51:59] Yeah. Okay. Like needs met.
[52:03] Okay.
[52:03] All right.
[52:04] Hey, what about you?
[52:05] Well, real quick. Real quick. I'm going
[52:07] to add something to this question.
[52:09] And the part that I'm going to add, do
[52:11] you think that's equivalent? And I'm
[52:13] going to go back to you, Grace. But
[52:14] first, I'm going to start here.
[52:16] So, you said that nourishment he's
[52:18] looking for. You said nourishment and
[52:19] what else?
[52:21] Oh, I forget the word I used.
[52:22] I think support. She support
[52:24] fulfillment.
[52:25] Needs fulfillment. Needs met. Yes.
[52:27] Okay. Needs need to be uh met. Um now,
[52:30] do you think that that's equal or
[52:34] equivalent to uh the man's duty? So, if
[52:38] he's protecting and providing for you,
[52:39] do you think what's equal is nourishment
[52:42] and you know,
[52:44] supportive?
[52:45] Being supportive?
[52:46] Absolutely.
[52:47] Okay. And what did you say? I said
[52:50] sex and what else?
[52:51] I said like you know like house duty
[52:53] stuff but like sex. I don't think just
[52:56] nourishment and
[52:57] you also said kids too.
[52:58] Yeah. Yeah. Like taking care of the kids
[52:59] but I don't think just nourishment is
[53:01] enough.
[53:02] Okay. You you don't think that that's
[53:04] equal?
[53:04] Not just that alone.
[53:06] Okay.
[53:06] Like you have to be doing more than just
[53:07] that.
[53:08] Okay.
[53:08] Yeah.
[53:08] Okay. All right. Now on to you. If a man
[53:10] is protecting and providing uh what do
[53:13] you expect he wants in return?
[53:16] I think if he is protecting and
[53:19] providing, I think he wants in return
[53:22] respect and
[53:25] uh peace.
[53:26] And do you think that that's equivalent
[53:28] to what he's doing?
[53:29] I think he is happy with that.
[53:31] Okay. And uh what about you?
[53:34] I would say the same thing as Grace. Sex
[53:36] and like taking care of the stuff that
[53:38] like when he's at work, those are the
[53:41] things. It's like your work at home is
[53:43] to take care of the house so he doesn't
[53:44] have to do it when he comes home. Same
[53:46] thing with the kids.
[53:47] So, side note, I've done those things
[53:48] and men don't care about them from my
[53:50] experience.
[53:51] Listen, [laughter] I'm just telling you
[53:52] what I think the answer is.
[53:54] Okay.
[53:55] It was.
[53:55] All right. And do you think that that's
[53:56] equivalent to protecting and providing?
[54:00] Yeah, I think it depends on the person,
[54:01] but yeah, like
[54:02] Okay, I think it is. And um now I'm
[54:05] going to just ask another question.
[54:07] What duties would be equal um to the
[54:11] man's duties if he's protecting and
[54:12] providing?
[54:15] Yeah, we did. I think
[54:16] I think Yeah.
[54:18] Okay. Yeah. I think that that would
[54:19] actually be equal.
[54:21] All right. What about this? I got a
[54:23] question. Um
[54:25] I mean, what would y'all like us to do?
[54:27] Like other than like do you want us to
[54:30] be inside taking care of the house, the
[54:32] kids, and then I'm also having sex with
[54:34] you. Like
[54:36] like what else? Like
[54:37] Well, I'm going to ask a question. Um,
[54:40] who should Well, show of hands real
[54:42] quick.
[54:43] Do you think that the man should be the
[54:45] leader in a relationship? If you think
[54:46] so, raise your hand. Like, should the
[54:48] man be the leader in a relationship?
[54:52] All right, we got all hands but one. So,
[54:54] let's go with you.
[54:55] No, I'm not talking about this.
[54:57] What' you say?
[54:58] I think there's lots of different ways.
[55:00] I've seen it successful
[55:03] in other like
[55:06] I've seen it successfully work with the
[55:09] woman being the type A person and the
[55:11] man not in terms of job but I think
[55:14] personalitywise. Um
[55:17] it's not necessarily how it works for
[55:19] everyone but I've seen it work
[55:22] successfully.
[55:23] Okay. All right. [snorts] Um but being
[55:25] being that you've seen it work
[55:27] successfully from a general aspect. So
[55:30] if you would take in you know the the
[55:32] you know everyone in general would you
[55:34] say that generally speaking women would
[55:38] want a man to lead?
[55:40] Yeah.
[55:40] Okay.
[55:41] And if we're talking about generally
[55:42] Yeah.
[55:42] Okay. Got it. Got it. So if that's the
[55:45] case, if women want a man to lead, then
[55:48] they would be in the subordive role,
[55:51] subordinate role. And who has the final
[55:54] say in that relationship? Does the man
[55:56] have the final say or does the woman
[55:58] have the final say?
[55:59] Any opinion?
[56:00] I believe the man.
[56:01] Okay, man. What about you?
[56:03] Still equal.
[56:05] Coming.
[56:05] It's still equal.
[56:06] But if the man is the leader,
[56:08] then why wouldn't he have the final say?
[56:12] It depends what it's in like regards to
[56:14] though.
[56:15] It could be anything.
[56:16] It could be anything.
[56:17] Everything.
[56:18] Yeah.
[56:20] like he's a leader. So no matter what
[56:23] situation
[56:24] if I picked if I picked him and he is
[56:25] acting as a leader then yeah.
[56:27] Okay.
[56:28] Okay. What about you?
[56:31] I would say yes. The if he is leading
[56:35] I am subordinate. I'm submissive. So he
[56:37] got the final say.
[56:38] So remember this is your like your
[56:39] perfect ideal man that you're dating.
[56:41] And not only that you don't have to like
[56:42] internalize this conversation to
[56:44] yourself. You can think about it like as
[56:46] an idea. Like, okay, if the man is
[56:49] leading,
[56:50] he's protecting and providing, and you
[56:52] want him to be a leader. The question is
[56:53] simply, well, should he have the final
[56:55] say?
[56:56] Yeah. Okay. What about you?
[56:58] Yeah, I agree.
[56:59] All right. All right. All right. Cool.
[57:02] Checking check. I was checking the
[57:04] temperature, chat. Chad, I was checking
[57:05] the temperature. It looks like uh you
[57:08] know, [laughter]
[57:09] maybe they watched a few clips. They're
[57:10] like, "Ah, I see where he's going with
[57:12] this. I'm prepared." All right, we got
[57:15] um we got John Ruck sending in $2. He
[57:18] says she looks like Darlene from
[57:20] Roseanne TV show.
[57:22] Wait, which one?
[57:25] Pull up pull up. Uh
[57:26] don't do that.
[57:27] Pull up Darlene. Darlene look like I
[57:29] remember the show. I don't know who you
[57:31] talking about. Who you talking about?
[57:32] Who looked like Darlene
[57:33] from uh what show?
[57:34] Y'all can you be nice?
[57:38] The one they said was
[57:39] What the images? What the images?
[57:40] Yo, someone else has told me this
[57:42] before. You look like
[57:43] someone else has told me this before.
[57:45] Yo, chat, she do look like Darlene from
[57:47] Ojama.
[57:47] Darlene's not slow, so it wouldn't work.
[57:50] Oh, okay. Gotcha.
[57:51] Oh, you missed it. One of them called me
[57:53] said I [clears throat] look slow and
[57:54] crazy.
[57:55] Yeah.
[57:55] Look at the little Look at the camera.
[57:56] Darlene,
[57:58] you [laughter] said that.
[57:59] Put it Put it on the uh the other one.
[58:02] Yo, she do.
[58:03] It just switched. It's up at the top.
[58:05] My hair looks like when I take it down.
[58:06] When did they say that?
[58:08] It hover over it in the bathroom.
[58:10] It'll tell you. The only comment they've
[58:12] read about any of us or maybe that
[58:14] they've gotten
[58:14] click on that one. That one.
[58:15] No.
[58:17] Yeah.
[58:18] Okay.
[58:18] No. No. No. The other one. That one.
[58:21] She do look like you. Y'all do look like
[58:23] Darn. You got Click on the picture.
[58:24] What's her name? What's her name in real
[58:26] life?
[58:26] I don't know. But you do look like her.
[58:28] All right. Never mind. She You could
[58:29] just exit out. Stop sharing.
[58:32] We get it.
[58:33] Yeah, we get it. We get it. [laughter]
[58:36] All right, chat.
[58:37] I mean, you did kind of look like her. A
[58:38] little dude look like her. It's not the
[58:40] first person that said that.
[58:41] Yeah. Gota.
[58:41] Um, all right. We got uh KB Mos sitting
[58:44] in five. He says, "So ladies, to follow
[58:46] up
[58:48] uh to follow up, what does the man want
[58:52] from you? Question. If you all bring the
[58:55] same thing to the table, why shouldn't
[58:58] he have multiple women?"
[59:01] Some men do.
[59:03] What table?
[59:04] Okay. Uh, let me see what he's saying.
[59:06] So, to follow up, ladies, what does the
[59:09] man want from you?
[59:11] Um, yeah, the ladies, yeah, they
[59:13] basically answer that one.
[59:15] Why can't I have multiple wives?
[59:16] And then he's saying, you got to find a
[59:18] woman who's down with that.
[59:19] Yeah, absolutely.
[59:20] So, he's just saying like if you guys
[59:21] all bring something to the table, why
[59:24] why shouldn't he have multiple women? If
[59:27] you if you disagree with that,
[59:28] you're you're you're you'll be down with
[59:30] a man. You'll be down sharing your man.
[59:33] I don't mind.
[59:34] I'm talking in generalizations. I'm
[59:36] okay. I'm
[59:37] Got it. So, she not downsharing her man.
[59:39] You downshare your man.
[59:39] Well, I didn't say that.
[59:40] I would do polygamy in a well
[59:43] communicated.
[59:44] That's a deep conversation.
[59:46] What about you?
[59:47] I was actually a swinger. So, that's why
[59:49] I'm I was trying to be Corey about it.
[59:51] No, you don't have to be Cory. This is
[59:53] no gazy.
[59:54] Keep it aund.
[59:55] Got to be caught.
[59:56] Yeah.
[59:56] I wasn't lying. I just wasn't saying
[59:59] extremely.
[01:00:00] Hey Chad, did y'all notice this? She
[01:00:02] didn't want to answer the question,
[01:00:04] right? Until the other lady answered the
[01:00:06] question. Then on she was like, "Oh,
[01:00:07] yeah, I'm Polly." She was like, "Oh,
[01:00:09] yeah. I'm Polly, too."
[01:00:10] No, I'm not Polly. No, no, Piey's
[01:00:12] different. They're different.
[01:00:13] So, wait, what's different from Polly
[01:00:15] and swinging? But swinging is
[01:00:18] You would have sex with other men.
[01:00:19] So, okay. There's lots of different ways
[01:00:21] to do this. [laughter]
[01:00:22] We getting into lifestyle talk.
[01:00:24] Yes, ma'am. You know the words. Give me
[01:00:26] a high five. Okay. Um,
[01:00:28] man, what we just got in there?
[01:00:29] Yeah. I don't know. I'm not going to
[01:00:31] give you a story. It's like I'm just
[01:00:32] going to tell you people do it in
[01:00:33] different ways.
[01:00:34] All right. So, what's the difference
[01:00:35] between swinging and poly?
[01:00:37] Okay. So, the
[01:00:38] the people that I know that have done it
[01:00:40] and stuff like that like swinging is
[01:00:42] usually you enjoy watching your partner
[01:00:47] cooking
[01:00:47] [ __ ] someone else while you're being
[01:00:49] [ __ ] by someone else's partner.
[01:00:51] [clears throat]
[01:00:52] Having sex with each other's Oh, yeah.
[01:00:54] Having sex with each other's you with
[01:00:56] that. Can I Yeah. Can I answer? So this
[01:01:00] is all under an umbrella of non-
[01:01:03] monogamy and monogamy. Non- monogamy.
[01:01:06] Ethical non- monogamy. [snorts]
[01:01:07] Exactly. Well, exactly. And that can go
[01:01:08] into
[01:01:09] Well, that would be unethical.
[01:01:10] Nog
[01:01:12] no. Yeah. Unethical is when it's not
[01:01:14] fair.
[01:01:15] About consent.
[01:01:15] Anyway, so then you have nominogamy,
[01:01:17] right? In that are different
[01:01:19] relationship types. So you have you will
[01:01:22] then have uh not polygamy because that's
[01:01:26] involves marriage, but then you have
[01:01:27] swingers. You will have uh voyers.
[01:01:30] That's when you get into those different
[01:01:31] types. People that like to watch, people
[01:01:33] that just like
[01:01:33] There's some people that like to know
[01:01:34] their partner is doing it, but they
[01:01:36] don't want to see it.
[01:01:37] There's like too much. There's too much.
[01:01:39] You're right.
[01:01:39] Polygamy just gets into marrying
[01:01:41] multiple people. That's it. Polygamy is
[01:01:43] that that is all that polygamy.
[01:01:45] You think you would do that?
[01:01:46] Listen. Listen real quick.
[01:01:47] If it's a it's a business, baby.
[01:01:48] Listen. It's only two It's only two
[01:01:51] types of relationships when it comes to
[01:01:52] women. It's either you a hoe or you a
[01:01:56] wife. So this whole like other stuff
[01:01:59] swinging n that's what usually the hoes
[01:02:01] do
[01:02:02] and then versus the women
[01:02:04] I know like [laughter]
[01:02:06] okay
[01:02:08] versus the women that's actually going
[01:02:10] to be taken serious in a committed
[01:02:12] relationship or a wife like men that's
[01:02:15] what we like generally speaking men we
[01:02:17] put women in two compartments is either
[01:02:19] relationship zone or sex zone if it's
[01:02:22] relationship zone most men does not want
[01:02:25] his woman being plowed by other men.
[01:02:27] That's a small percentage of men like
[01:02:29] Diddy and other people would want that.
[01:02:31] Whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa. I did not
[01:02:33] compare my relationship to Diddy. I
[01:02:35] I didn't I said that.
[01:02:36] I said that. [laughter] Diddy will want
[01:02:37] that though.
[01:02:38] Yeah, he did.
[01:02:38] Yeah. Yeah, he did.
[01:02:39] We call We call those guys cucks. That's
[01:02:41] what we call them.
[01:02:42] Yeah. But what if you're all
[01:02:43] There are certain cucks. Yes. Yes. Yes.
[01:02:45] That's the whole thing.
[01:02:46] Guys, ladies, it's only two. It's only
[01:02:48] two relationships. It's hoes and it's
[01:02:50] wives. You got to figure out what you
[01:02:52] want. You want to be a hoe or you want
[01:02:53] to be a wife?
[01:02:54] As a wife. And I just might be a
[01:02:57] Well, see that's how Yeah,
[01:02:59] I don't care. Call me what you want.
[01:03:00] I'm not going to agree with you on that.
[01:03:02] Oh, I know.
[01:03:02] Call me what you want.
[01:03:04] Okay. Um,
[01:03:07] was anyone wanted to add into this uh
[01:03:11] conversation of uh swinging and stuff?
[01:03:14] No.
[01:03:15] You ever swung before?
[01:03:17] I sw
[01:03:19] you mad young. I know you ain't swing
[01:03:21] before.
[01:03:22] She's good.
[01:03:23] You bet not swung. No,
[01:03:25] she can do what she what her merry heart
[01:03:27] wants.
[01:03:29] If you construction want to [laughter]
[01:03:33] do construction
[01:03:35] on the table forever.
[01:03:36] Mhm. Everyone can do construction.
[01:03:37] We got uh PR sending in five. He says,
[01:03:40] "What's up, fellas? Ratings from Ease."
[01:03:44] Uh [laughter]
[01:03:45] here.
[01:03:46] All right. So,
[01:03:47] yo, yes.
[01:03:48] So, so here we go. Here we go. He's
[01:03:50] giving the ratings from E. So, it's
[01:03:51] starting with you. You ready? All right.
[01:03:54] So, he says, "Oh boy from Stranger
[01:03:57] Things 3."
[01:03:59] I don't know what that is.
[01:04:00] So, from Stranger Things 3. I don't know
[01:04:02] who's Oh boy from Stranger Things 3.
[01:04:04] Yeah, I I didn't watch that. So,
[01:04:06] yeah, I don't know. But okay, fair
[01:04:08] enough.
[01:04:08] Uh for you, he says Pam hiding those uh
[01:04:14] BDB
[01:04:15] BDB eyes.
[01:04:17] [laughter]
[01:04:18] Uh he gives you a two. Oh, no, no, no.
[01:04:20] He's just saying he's he's giving the
[01:04:22] rating. I'm sorry. So for you, he said
[01:04:25] he said, "Oh boy, from Stranger Things,
[01:04:27] you're a three." So that's your rating.
[01:04:28] You're number three.
[01:04:30] And it's from 1 to 10 out of 10. So he
[01:04:32] said he gives you a three. Then for you,
[01:04:34] he calls you Pam from Martin. OBD eyes.
[01:04:37] Uh he gives you a two.
[01:04:39] Oh, that's funny.
[01:04:40] That's funny.
[01:04:41] And then uh for you,
[01:04:44] it's ass. Uh
[01:04:45] Zoe from Family.
[01:04:47] Yeah. Zoe from Girl with the glasses.
[01:04:49] That's funny as hell. Yo,
[01:04:51] damn.
[01:04:52] That is type good.
[01:04:54] That is type good. That is type good. I
[01:04:57] was going to say that was ass. You can't
[01:04:59] even roast.
[01:05:00] That's hilarious. Your chat,
[01:05:01] but that was good.
[01:05:03] RP Monster right there. That's her.
[01:05:06] I'm a nerd.
[01:05:08] Yeah,
[01:05:09] I had braces, too. That's like
[01:05:12] That was good.
[01:05:13] RP Monster. That's hilarious, bro.
[01:05:15] But Pam,
[01:05:17] whoever you are,
[01:05:18] that's funny. Yeah. Keep it there. Keep
[01:05:20] it like that. That's good [laughter]
[01:05:21] then. No, keep it like that,
[01:05:24] cuz they can't see it the other way.
[01:05:26] Oh [ __ ]
[01:05:30] Yeah, that's that is type funny. Okay.
[01:05:32] All right. Yeah, you do look like her.
[01:05:34] [laughter]
[01:05:34] That's crazy. You look
[01:05:38] You do look like her.
[01:05:40] That's so funny. I love this. Why I love
[01:05:42] the chat.
[01:05:44] And then for uh Grace,
[01:05:47] he says Down syndrome Puerto Rican a
[01:05:49] three. Sounds drunk. I'm glad. Well, I
[01:05:53] didn't get a number.
[01:05:54] Oh, yeah. Your number was a two.
[01:05:55] Yay.
[01:05:56] Yeah, you were two. Yay.
[01:05:57] Yay.
[01:05:58] So, no one got over a four. Y'all were
[01:06:00] all threes and twos. The good thing no
[01:06:02] one was a zero.
[01:06:04] Wow.
[01:06:04] Yeah. It's a positive side. You got to
[01:06:06] look at like the glass half half full
[01:06:08] instead of half empty, you know?
[01:06:10] Shout out to him.
[01:06:11] Right. High standards.
[01:06:12] Wasn't a zero.
[01:06:13] High standards.
[01:06:14] My boy.
[01:06:15] Right.
[01:06:16] All right. Um,
[01:06:17] let's have it all together. [laughter]
[01:06:19] That's it for the super chats. E, you
[01:06:20] got any questions? Ladies, any
[01:06:22] questions?
[01:06:22] That question I had earlier
[01:06:24] about the bump thing.
[01:06:26] Um, okay. Before that, let's ladies, any
[01:06:28] questions? Anything y'all want to speak
[01:06:29] about dating? Any questions you got
[01:06:31] about men and women?
[01:06:36] Anything.
[01:06:43] No. Dan, switch for over here. Rotate.
[01:06:50] Okay, go ahead. Get to your question.
[01:06:52] Yeah. So, my question earlier that I
[01:06:54] have
[01:06:54] I got it. Don't worry. Ask your
[01:06:56] question.
[01:06:56] Um, so what makes a woman a bum? Like
[01:07:00] when you see a girl when you see another
[01:07:02] woman, right? What would
[01:07:06] uh what would identify her as? Oh,
[01:07:09] that's a bum. You know what I mean?
[01:07:10] That's a bum [ __ ] Cuz we all know what
[01:07:12] a bum guy is.
[01:07:13] Dan, get that clip up, too. That clip
[01:07:15] ready. First one.
[01:07:16] Well, we think of a bum as for a male.
[01:07:17] We always we say
[01:07:18] it's already there. It's there.
[01:07:19] We say no no no job, live at home with
[01:07:21] his mom, whatever. So what's the female
[01:07:24] version of a bum in your eyes?
[01:07:27] Same thing. Lack of ambition.
[01:07:29] And well,
[01:07:31] anybody there's people who have a job
[01:07:32] and who take care of themselves who have
[01:07:34] ambition. So a woman that's a a woman
[01:07:36] that's a bum just lack of ambition makes
[01:07:38] her a bum. That's it. She can have a she
[01:07:40] can have a job, a car, live.
[01:07:42] Well, she wouldn't have a job in a car
[01:07:43] if she left ambition.
[01:07:45] Well, that's basic necessities. Like you
[01:07:47] need a car to get to work. You need a
[01:07:48] job to leave to to live.
[01:07:50] You can be a bum and live on someone's
[01:07:51] couch.
[01:07:53] So
[01:07:55] I need lack of ambition is too vague for
[01:07:57] me. I need like a more in-depth answer.
[01:08:00] Like if you seen a girl, right? Like and
[01:08:03] you let's say you know you know about
[01:08:05] her personal life. What about her
[01:08:08] personal life would you be like, "Oh,
[01:08:09] that's a bum bitch."
[01:08:14] Um, I probably,
[01:08:15] this is disappointing because I really
[01:08:16] want to know.
[01:08:17] He's trying to say, do you hold women to
[01:08:19] the same standard that you hold men to
[01:08:21] when you call people a bum?
[01:08:23] I got one.
[01:08:23] Yeah. And I'd probably
[01:08:25] real quick, let's have the conversation
[01:08:27] be direct and concise. So, the question
[01:08:30] is, I'll just rephrase it for ease. Do
[01:08:32] you hold women to the same standard that
[01:08:34] you hold men to when it comes to them
[01:08:37] being financially adequate?
[01:08:40] Start with you.
[01:08:41] Yes.
[01:08:42] Speaking to the mic. Are you here? Yes.
[01:08:44] Okay. And what about you?
[01:08:47] Wait, repeat the question.
[01:08:48] Yeah. Do you hold men Do you hold women
[01:08:50] to the same standard that you hold men
[01:08:52] for when it comes to them being
[01:08:54] financially adequate?
[01:08:55] Oh, yes.
[01:08:56] Okay. So, then you would call a woman a
[01:08:58] bum if she's working at McDonald's?
[01:09:02] Yes.
[01:09:04] Personally,
[01:09:08] why the [ __ ] you lying?
[01:09:10] Oh, that's cute.
[01:09:13] You know you're not going to call her
[01:09:14] bum. You going to be like, "At least you
[01:09:16] work and get it, girl. Do your thing.
[01:09:19] You independent."
[01:09:20] I mean, okay. Depending on
[01:09:24] No, hold on a second. Girls won't say it
[01:09:27] out loud cuz they don't want to hurt
[01:09:28] each other's feelings, but like
[01:09:30] So, list a number of things that will
[01:09:33] make a girl a bum.
[01:09:34] Well, no, no, no, no, no, no. That's
[01:09:36] fine. That's fine. Let's keep it with
[01:09:37] this question cuz it's a little bit more
[01:09:38] easy to digest these.
[01:09:40] Okay, [laughter] cool. Uh, I mean,
[01:09:42] and so for you, cuz at least they're
[01:09:44] actually answering a question now. So
[01:09:45] for you, do you hold women to the same
[01:09:48] standard that you hold men to when it
[01:09:50] comes to them being financially
[01:09:52] Yes, I do.
[01:09:54] You do?
[01:09:54] I do.
[01:09:55] Okay. So, if a woman
[01:09:56] I wouldn't I wouldn't call a woman that
[01:09:59] works at McDonald a bum. No.
[01:10:00] Would you call a man that works at
[01:10:03] McDonald's? I wouldn't call him.
[01:10:04] You're lying. You're lying. You're
[01:10:05] lying. You're lying.
[01:10:07] Me.
[01:10:07] Would you date a guy that works at
[01:10:08] McDonald's? I I'm going to date a guy
[01:10:10] that is working at
[01:10:11] He's not a manager. He's just an
[01:10:13] employee.
[01:10:13] If he is working to protect and provide
[01:10:15] me for me, hell yeah, I'm dating him.
[01:10:19] If you're you're single, you're in the
[01:10:21] dating scene and a guy is trying to
[01:10:23] court you
[01:10:24] and he's stable. He sustains his life.
[01:10:26] He He if he shows me that he can sustain
[01:10:29] and support me and my life, I Yes, I
[01:10:32] will. Sure. If he has two other jobs as
[01:10:34] well,
[01:10:35] he'll have no other job and he's not a
[01:10:37] manager. They always ask something. Oh,
[01:10:39] he work at McDonald's, but he got to
[01:10:40] have 13 other jobs.
[01:10:42] If I If that McDonald job allows me to
[01:10:45] be sit up and submissive in the house,
[01:10:47] go the [ __ ] Get up and flip them
[01:10:49] patties, boy.
[01:10:50] I got a better question. [laughter]
[01:10:52] I got a better question.
[01:10:54] Not even a question statement. You
[01:10:56] wouldn't even look the guy's way if he
[01:10:58] worked at McDonald's. You wouldn't give
[01:10:59] him
[01:10:59] You're bugging. You're bugging. You're
[01:11:01] bugging. I shoot my shot. That's a fine
[01:11:03] man and he got a good head on his
[01:11:05] shoulder and he is sustaining his life.
[01:11:07] That's a stable man.
[01:11:08] Look out. What
[01:11:09] are you talking about?
[01:11:09] What grown man has a good head on their
[01:11:12] shoulder and they work at McDonald's?
[01:11:13] That at this if we're talking about in
[01:11:16] this day and age in 2026 and I see a
[01:11:18] 27year-old man at McDonald's trying
[01:11:22] usually the people that work at
[01:11:24] McDonald's,
[01:11:24] he has his own home. He has his own.
[01:11:27] Listen real quick. Usually the guys that
[01:11:28] work at McDonald's, like men, not just
[01:11:30] the young kids that work there, but the
[01:11:32] grown men, they normally slow. They have
[01:11:35] some type of mental disability or real
[01:11:38] quick. Or they have some type of
[01:11:41] criminal past. So they have some type of
[01:11:43] criminal history, so they couldn't
[01:11:44] really get a job. So then they can only
[01:11:46] get jobs that's working at fast food
[01:11:48] restaurants.
[01:11:48] This is real life out here. I don't look
[01:11:49] at people like that.
[01:11:50] Google how much they make.
[01:11:51] I don't look at people like that. I know
[01:11:53] I know some good people that work at
[01:11:55] Let me Let me get Let me get her answer
[01:11:56] real quick. I'm just going to be honest.
[01:11:58] Like I was just like thinking about like
[01:11:59] like when I'm on Tinder and stuff and
[01:12:02] like
[01:12:03] honestly if somebody told me they worked
[01:12:05] at McDonald's I would probably be turned
[01:12:06] off. I'm just going to be honest. Not
[01:12:08] there's no
[01:12:09] somebody think you're being
[01:12:10] there's no like ethical I know it's not
[01:12:13] but I'm just saying my instinct. I'm
[01:12:16] just going to be honest. I'm being one
[01:12:18] of them being no food gazing. I'm being
[01:12:19] more than that is me. That was my if
[01:12:23] y'all don't like my authentic me. a a
[01:12:25] regular employee at McDonald's is making
[01:12:27] $15 an hour.
[01:12:29] Just to let you know. So, if you're out
[01:12:31] at the bar or out at an event and a guy
[01:12:35] is calling you like, "Hey, how you
[01:12:36] doing? Whatever, whatever." And you guys
[01:12:37] are vibing, you find him attractive, but
[01:12:38] he says, "Hey, I work at McDonald's." He
[01:12:40] doesn't have any other job,
[01:12:41] but he works at McDonald's and he's
[01:12:43] driving a 1998 Honda Civic. And not only
[01:12:46] that, I'm holding him to the same
[01:12:48] standard.
[01:12:49] So, I could work at McDonald's, too. We
[01:12:51] could work together, boo.
[01:12:51] No. No. Listen, listen. You're lying.
[01:12:53] That's only Listen, that's only $31,000
[01:12:56] a year.
[01:12:57] Let's work together, boo.
[01:12:59] What you need? I [clears throat] like
[01:13:00] the idea.
[01:13:00] You need that. And I feel bad for saying
[01:13:02] it, but
[01:13:03] No, that's But that's your opinion. Me,
[01:13:06] I don't think about people like that.
[01:13:07] Some people's lifestyles, though.
[01:13:09] Yes.
[01:13:09] Mhm.
[01:13:10] Okay.
[01:13:10] No,
[01:13:11] I don't care cuz I don't ask for much. I
[01:13:13] don't care for much. I want to be in the
[01:13:15] house. If if that McDonald's job, if we
[01:13:17] work, save, you save whatever you need
[01:13:19] to, whatever. And of course, I don't
[01:13:20] want you. I'm staying here for life,
[01:13:23] baby. So talking about you so then I'm
[01:13:25] looking at you a little crazy.
[01:13:26] Oh yeah. See, so meaning that you still
[01:13:28] want the guy that has potential to earn
[01:13:31] more because you don't want him just to
[01:13:32] stay at McDonald's.
[01:13:33] Yeah. I don't see my man as just as as
[01:13:35] just flipping burgers.
[01:13:36] And what I'm telling you is if he's 27,
[01:13:38] your age, working at McDonald's, and his
[01:13:41] skills is flipping burgers, he's going
[01:13:42] to be flipping burgers until he's 47.
[01:13:44] No. Why not? Let's now take it to
[01:13:46] school. Save up your money working at
[01:13:48] McDonald's and go and be a chef to flip
[01:13:50] burgers. And you're okay motivating a
[01:13:52] man
[01:13:52] and motivating a man to go to school.
[01:13:55] If you would have to My question is
[01:13:57] would you choose a man that you would
[01:13:59] have to motivate or would you choose a
[01:14:01] man that you don't have to motivate and
[01:14:03] he's already established
[01:14:04] at this time in my life yet? No. I do
[01:14:06] not I do not want to have to motivate a
[01:14:09] man. Yes. But the question you're ask
[01:14:11] You're [laughter] asking me Nuh-uh.
[01:14:12] You're asking me a question that is in
[01:14:14] real time. If I were to be dating a man
[01:14:17] who worked at McDonald I would I don't
[01:14:19] have
[01:14:19] motivated enough to work at McDonald's.
[01:14:22] Oh my god.
[01:14:22] That's all. Don't let me down. Don't let
[01:14:25] me down with promises while you working
[01:14:26] at that McDonald's. Don't
[01:14:28] So Shelby today if you find your ideal
[01:14:31] man and he said, "Hey, look Shelby, I'm
[01:14:33] I work at McDonald's." You're going to
[01:14:34] date him. You're going to take him
[01:14:35] serious.
[01:14:35] No, she's going to say that that's not
[01:14:36] your ideal man.
[01:14:37] No, you need to hear his life.
[01:14:38] Okay. No, no, listen real quick. One mic
[01:14:39] at a time when people speaking. So say
[01:14:41] the question again. If you met a guy
[01:14:44] while you're at the gas station and
[01:14:46] physically you're attracted to him and
[01:14:47] you ask him what he does for a living,
[01:14:49] he says, "I work at McDonald's." Are you
[01:14:50] going to give him the time a day?
[01:14:55] He's your ideal man.
[01:14:56] Like in looks, he he he checks all your
[01:14:58] boxes in looks, but he works at
[01:15:00] McDonald's.
[01:15:00] This your first conversation.
[01:15:02] He she what she wants to say is what she
[01:15:04] was about to say before that you said
[01:15:07] that guy to be her ideal man. Like he
[01:15:09] checks off all the other boxes, but he
[01:15:11] works at McDonald's. You were just going
[01:15:12] to say that wouldn't be your ideal man.
[01:15:14] Correct.
[01:15:14] Yeah. So, which means that listen, bro.
[01:15:18] Uh the guy's career choice, right? The
[01:15:22] job he's working plays a lot into if the
[01:15:25] woman is going to actually take him
[01:15:26] serious or give him a chance.
[01:15:29] So, you wouldn't, right? So, so you
[01:15:31] wouldn't So, you wouldn't date that guy
[01:15:32] that works at McDonald's?
[01:15:33] No, she wouldn't, bro.
[01:15:34] Okay. Thank you, Grace. Would you?
[01:15:36] I said I wouldn't.
[01:15:37] All right. So these the only the only
[01:15:40] liar here. [laughter]
[01:15:42] I ain't lying.
[01:15:44] I will say there is a caveat. Let's say
[01:15:46] man's Let's just say man's lost his job.
[01:15:48] He's got a lot going on. McDonald's is
[01:15:49] the first place he can get in to get a
[01:15:51] paycheck cash out until something else
[01:15:52] comes along.
[01:15:53] No, but that's not going to be a
[01:15:54] longterm thing, right?
[01:15:56] We're not talking about that kind of
[01:15:57] guy. Nope.
[01:15:58] But that's that's the only time that But
[01:16:00] and you're also
[01:16:02] Exactly. So,
[01:16:03] but Shelby, the only reason why you came
[01:16:06] up with that other situation because you
[01:16:10] assumed that you were already attracted
[01:16:12] to the man and you establish some type
[01:16:14] of relationship, but then like he's just
[01:16:16] working at McDonald's for a short amount
[01:16:18] of time. We're speaking about on the
[01:16:20] outset of things, like once the
[01:16:22] relationship gets started, uh, and you
[01:16:25] and he's he's working at McDonald's.
[01:16:26] He's like, "Hey, what do you do for a
[01:16:27] living?" "Oh, I work at McDonald's. I
[01:16:28] flip burgers." Are you going to take him
[01:16:30] serious?
[01:16:31] No.
[01:16:32] Nobody [laughter] has no one in anyone's
[01:16:35] career. Even the people that work at
[01:16:37] McDonald's like no one no one at
[01:16:39] McDonald's is like 50 YEARS I'M RETIRING
[01:16:42] FROM MCDONALD'S
[01:16:43] become a manager.
[01:16:45] But but he already said he's not a
[01:16:47] manager. I got a regular employee at
[01:16:49] McDonald's.
[01:16:50] So no regular employee is over there
[01:16:52] like Yeah, McDonald's ride or die.
[01:16:54] Career life but like what?
[01:16:56] But but your name is D, right?
[01:16:58] Yeah. So D, what you're missing is
[01:17:01] feelings does not play into this. So
[01:17:05] like even if what I'm saying is this,
[01:17:07] you said this is what you said. I'm
[01:17:09] going to repeat back what you said so
[01:17:10] you understand.
[01:17:11] So you know that I understand what
[01:17:13] you're saying.
[01:17:14] You said that
[01:17:15] even the the employees at McDonald's
[01:17:18] when they're working at McDonald's, they
[01:17:20] don't feel like they're always going to
[01:17:22] work there and retire there. That's not
[01:17:23] what these people feel.
[01:17:25] No. No one's goal is that. Feel goal.
[01:17:28] Plan.
[01:17:28] You said you said fail.
[01:17:29] A man's No, I didn't say feel. Well, if
[01:17:31] I said feel. No. The plan. No one's plan
[01:17:35] or goal is to say, "I plan to spend 25
[01:17:38] years here at McDonald's."
[01:17:39] Got it. And guess what? You know what? I
[01:17:42] would agree. Most of the McDonald's
[01:17:43] workers, their goal and their plan isn't
[01:17:46] to work there for 25 years. Get out. But
[01:17:48] the reality is if a person is 27 plus
[01:17:51] years old working at McDonald's, listen
[01:17:53] baby girl, that's the only goal. Listen
[01:17:56] real quick, that's the only goal that
[01:17:58] they can achieve.
[01:17:59] They won't have the ability. Generally
[01:18:01] speaking, those type of individuals do
[01:18:03] not have the ambition and the uh uh
[01:18:07] attitude to actually self-improve and
[01:18:12] get a better job and and you know just
[01:18:14] become
[01:18:15] I hear you something other than flipping
[01:18:17] burgers.
[01:18:17] I'mma find I could find me an ambitious
[01:18:19] McDonald's worker.
[01:18:20] You just like going against the grain
[01:18:22] just find me a ambitious
[01:18:24] think about your guy tomorrow.
[01:18:26] This is real though. What I'm saying to
[01:18:27] you e I don't think of people like that.
[01:18:29] I think there are good people are okay.
[01:18:31] [laughter]
[01:18:32] Say that they're bad people. Go ahead.
[01:18:34] So I remember feeling like that in my
[01:18:36] 20s and I got to like 30, 32 and I was
[01:18:42] like [ __ ] I don't have time to [ __ ]
[01:18:45] around anymore. Like I've got a time
[01:18:47] clock on me if I want my child like if I
[01:18:49] want to have like a relationship
[01:18:51] whatever.
[01:18:51] Now this I agree.
[01:18:52] And I stopped looking at people just for
[01:18:54] their looks. like I was I would have
[01:18:56] been listen I've gotten in plenty of
[01:18:58] relationships where it's like I should
[01:18:59] have thought this through a little bit
[01:19:00] farther
[01:19:01] but um to hear to to that and to that
[01:19:04] point though at my age right now looking
[01:19:06] for a man with a a leadership mindset
[01:19:09] and and if he were to come up to me and
[01:19:11] he said hey I work at McDonald's but I
[01:19:13] have a plan but I have a goal and I want
[01:19:16] to do this I want to protect and provide
[01:19:17] for you I give it a chance.
[01:19:19] Okay. No, I feel you. And I definitely
[01:19:21] think my mindset was probably there back
[01:19:22] then, too. And I just run out of
[01:19:24] patience. So, good for you. I want you
[01:19:26] to
[01:19:26] I do. I have that patience for
[01:19:28] Okay, we got Melinda G sending in $10.
[01:19:30] She says, "Female bum equals bonnet crew
[01:19:33] always asking for money. Food stamps uh
[01:19:36] assistance even though you are fully
[01:19:40] capable of working, not able to control
[01:19:42] your kids in public to name a few."
[01:19:45] Thank you. Like I knew my question
[01:19:47] wasn't hard to like wasn't complicated
[01:19:50] and thank you.
[01:19:50] Yeah. They just couldn't get it done.
[01:19:51] That's why I said like let's rephrase
[01:19:53] it. That's not my reality. I don't know.
[01:19:55] We're not talking about you personally.
[01:19:56] That's in general. What what would
[01:19:58] determine a female bump and those
[01:20:01] things that I think of a female bum. I
[01:20:03] think of Philly streets though. I think
[01:20:05] of Skid Row.
[01:20:06] When I hear a female bum, that's what I
[01:20:08] think of Skid Row.
[01:20:09] Shout out to Melinda for understanding
[01:20:10] my question cuz I knew I was going to
[01:20:11] call.
[01:20:11] Yeah. What's up, Melinda G? I didn't see
[01:20:13] you in the chat. people that the people
[01:20:14] that can't even
[01:20:15] let me get to these super chats real
[01:20:16] quick. We got Melinda G again sitting in
[01:20:17] five. She says, "Arange chick, when's
[01:20:20] the last time you dated a man working at
[01:20:23] McDonald's?
[01:20:24] And how long was that relationship?"
[01:20:27] I've never been with a man.
[01:20:28] Exactly. Exactly. [laughter] Exactly.
[01:20:32] But I have worked I mean I've been with
[01:20:33] a man that worked at minimum wage jobs.
[01:20:36] Yeah. Exactly. We got KB Mos in five. He
[01:20:39] says, "This woman's lies, uh, this woman
[01:20:43] lies are very revealing." Uh, not going
[01:20:47] to lie, I used to be against it, but now
[01:20:51] repeal the 19th and make the
[01:20:53] requirements accountability and
[01:20:55] [clears throat] an IQ test.
[01:20:57] Okay.
[01:20:58] What you ladies think about that?
[01:20:59] Repealing the 19th amendment.
[01:21:01] How about repealing men's right to vote,
[01:21:02] too, then?
[01:21:05] Why would we do that?
[01:21:06] Yeah.
[01:21:06] Oh, not all men had the right to vote.
[01:21:08] Let's be real. So
[01:21:09] somebody knows the history 100%. True.
[01:21:12] So if women don't get the right to vote,
[01:21:14] I think like the only reason we got the
[01:21:16] right to vote is because there was like
[01:21:18] there was like the beginning of the way
[01:21:20] things started to like roll towards
[01:21:22] civil rights.
[01:21:22] Enough women owned property at that
[01:21:24] point.
[01:21:25] In the 60s and the 70s, women couldn't
[01:21:27] have a credit card in their own name.
[01:21:29] Correct.
[01:21:29] No. When they were married, they
[01:21:31] couldn't do that.
[01:21:32] No. When they were married, when they
[01:21:33] were single, husband's permission's
[01:21:36] permission. Right. Right. my
[01:21:38] and the only way but that even for like
[01:21:40] at a certain point unless you owned
[01:21:41] property you couldn't vote back in the
[01:21:43] day. It didn't matter about anything
[01:21:44] else.
[01:21:44] Well, unless you Yeah. And if you were
[01:21:46] property then that's a different story
[01:21:48] too.
[01:21:48] That went for men though as well. So the
[01:21:50] truth is men and women um like you
[01:21:52] needed some stake in the game in order
[01:21:54] to vote. You needed to own property,
[01:21:56] things of that sort. And also a lot of
[01:21:58] men and women when the country was
[01:22:00] founded they couldn't vote and and stuff
[01:22:02] like that. So uh we're speaking about
[01:22:03] the 19th amendment. That's the amendment
[01:22:05] for that gave women the right to vote.
[01:22:08] So, uh, what's your what's your lady's
[01:22:11] thoughts on repealing the 19th
[01:22:12] amendment?
[01:22:13] Taking away women right to vote.
[01:22:15] Who cares right now?
[01:22:17] Does it matter, right? Did my last
[01:22:20] [laughter]
[01:22:21] stupid comment like, oh, repeal.
[01:22:23] Okay, people are weird.
[01:22:25] Yeah. No, I mean that's a very
[01:22:26] Do you own sir?
[01:22:28] Are you would you have been able to vote
[01:22:29] 100 years ago? [laughter]
[01:22:30] I don't think I'm just not going to say
[01:22:32] anything like that. No,
[01:22:34] no, you have Yeah, you got it. No, you
[01:22:36] don't have to say
[01:22:37] to say I said women.
[01:22:38] Yeah, that's a comment.
[01:22:39] Fair enough. And also, ladies, on this
[01:22:41] topic though, when we're speaking about
[01:22:42] voting rights now, um it is true that
[01:22:46] you know, men and women couldn't vote,
[01:22:48] but men, it was a little bit different
[01:22:51] in society because men, we have an
[01:22:53] obligation in society. Um, and one of
[01:22:56] those obligations is to be in the
[01:22:58] military. We have to enter the draft.
[01:23:00] like selective service, that's something
[01:23:02] that men have to enroll into, not women.
[01:23:05] So, when we're speaking about that,
[01:23:07] that's some stake in the game. So, like,
[01:23:08] let's just say hypothetically,
[01:23:10] um, they went ahead and got rid of the
[01:23:13] 19th Amendment, and they said, "Listen,
[01:23:15] you got to have some stake in the game.
[01:23:16] Maybe you got to own some property,
[01:23:18] maybe you got to be married, um, maybe
[01:23:20] you got to be in the military, you got
[01:23:21] to do something that's conducive to the
[01:23:25] country and to the community." Um, would
[01:23:28] you ladies be okay with that? Like if in
[01:23:32] order for you ladies to vote, you
[01:23:34] actually had to do a duty that was that
[01:23:38] would benefit the country?
[01:23:40] I think everyone should like I think the
[01:23:41] every vote would matter more if people
[01:23:44] felt like they had some responsibility
[01:23:45] towards it.
[01:23:46] Okay. All right. What about you?
[01:23:48] Uh, right now no. No, I don't think the
[01:23:52] vote the conversation around voting
[01:23:54] right now is no. What? What? Voting and
[01:23:56] you're talking about voting towards
[01:23:58] what? Donald Trump. This right now
[01:24:00] just voting in general. You vote for
[01:24:02] your local elections, your state
[01:24:04] elections.
[01:24:04] I'm okay. Right. Yeah. It's very
[01:24:06] important right now and it's a joke
[01:24:07] right now. It's a joke. So,
[01:24:09] okay. So, you wouldn't want that. You
[01:24:12] wouldn't be okay with that. And what
[01:24:13] about you? So, if it's the case that
[01:24:15] hypothetically, like cuz for this super
[01:24:17] chat, if they just repealed the 19th and
[01:24:20] in order for women to vote, they had to
[01:24:22] have some stake in the game. they had to
[01:24:23] do something that benefited the country,
[01:24:25] would you be okay with that?
[01:24:26] No,
[01:24:27] you wouldn't be okay. And why?
[01:24:28] Um because you're able to have an
[01:24:32] opinion and a
[01:24:37] you can have an opinion without having
[01:24:40] to have
[01:24:41] stake in a game.
[01:24:42] Correct.
[01:24:42] Yeah. Yeah. Anyone can have
[01:24:43] and you can everyone can have an
[01:24:46] opinion. Yeah.
[01:24:46] Um but sometimes the ones
[01:24:50] then the question is what makes the
[01:24:52] opinion valid
[01:24:55] and and beneficial for the society? Does
[01:24:58] everyone's opinion
[01:24:59] everybody's opinion forcely but it is
[01:25:02] not beneficial.
[01:25:03] Okay. So that's what we're speaking
[01:25:04] about. So if everyone opinions matter
[01:25:07] but um there's other ones but but it's
[01:25:10] not always beneficial. My question is
[01:25:12] shouldn't the opinions matter?
[01:25:16] should the only opinions that should
[01:25:18] matter should be the ones that's
[01:25:19] beneficial. Correct?
[01:25:20] Not necessarily.
[01:25:22] Okay. Why not?
[01:25:23] Um can I give an example?
[01:25:24] Yeah.
[01:25:24] Okay. So, you have a mother who was in a
[01:25:27] domestic violence situation who lost her
[01:25:30] house, who lost her husband, who lost
[01:25:31] her assets, and so now she doesn't get a
[01:25:34] right to vote.
[01:25:35] Okay. So, she was in a relationship with
[01:25:37] the man, but then she lost everything.
[01:25:40] Correct.
[01:25:40] And did she divorce her man?
[01:25:42] Let's say the state handled that.
[01:25:45] Wait, what?
[01:25:46] What? The state can't divorce you,
[01:25:48] but they can put in orders in place.
[01:25:50] Yeah. No, no, no.
[01:25:51] And the state can take a house and the
[01:25:52] state can do a lot of things.
[01:25:53] Yeah. No, no. We're speaking about
[01:25:54] someone has to initiate the divorce.
[01:25:56] So, did she No.
[01:25:58] Okay. So, yes. Let's say she did
[01:26:00] initiate the divorce.
[01:26:01] Oh, she did? No, she didn't.
[01:26:05] Okay. So, noted. A woman who is impacted
[01:26:07] by domestic violence doesn't have a
[01:26:09] right to vote.
[01:26:09] Domestic violence. Yeah, that's what she
[01:26:12] said in the beginning.
[01:26:12] Okay. Okay. Okay. So, if domestic
[01:26:14] violence was in there.
[01:26:15] Yeah, that was
[01:26:17] that's why she divorced him.
[01:26:19] Okay. That would be like an exception to
[01:26:20] the rule. So, there's always going to be
[01:26:22] exceptions to the rule and certain
[01:26:24] things. But I'm saying that if she just
[01:26:27] divorced her husband, then it's like,
[01:26:29] well, if you just divorce them,
[01:26:31] but if you don't make exceptions, then
[01:26:33] what's the point?
[01:26:35] But exceptions don't make the rule is
[01:26:36] what I'm speaking about. I'm speaking
[01:26:37] about so what my question is again
[01:26:41] what opinions should we benefit that
[01:26:46] would be what opinions should what
[01:26:49] opinions would be beneficial for the
[01:26:51] country and for them to vote
[01:26:56] all of them aren't for males for men
[01:26:59] anybody who's it'd be cool if you had to
[01:27:01] graduate school first
[01:27:03] that's what I was saying
[01:27:03] if you could say I agree with the IQ
[01:27:05] test I agree with the IQ test because
[01:27:07] not everyone tests well on IQ test. I
[01:27:09] don't test well at all.
[01:27:11] I would just say I think everyone should
[01:27:12] have a stake in it.
[01:27:13] Sweet.
[01:27:14] Or not graduate per se, but like there
[01:27:16] should I don't know. Can you
[01:27:17] Okay. I'm just saying you do think that
[01:27:19] there should be some standards that
[01:27:21] should be met then
[01:27:22] an adult.
[01:27:24] All right.
[01:27:24] Well, that's already.
[01:27:25] Yeah.
[01:27:26] Yeah. Never mind. Grace, what about you?
[01:27:27] What are your thoughts on this?
[01:27:28] That's right.
[01:27:30] I don't know. I'm back and forth. Like I
[01:27:33] [clears throat]
[01:27:33] should How many times have you been able
[01:27:35] to vote? [laughter]
[01:27:38] I'm just a joke.
[01:27:39] Probably actually more because of like
[01:27:41] [snorts]
[01:27:41] I don't know. I think Yeah, but there's
[01:27:43] there's men that are not contributing to
[01:27:45] anything either.
[01:27:46] 100%.
[01:27:47] Yeah. Yeah.
[01:27:47] Just cuz Yeah. Mhm.
[01:27:48] So I don't think I
[01:27:50] Yeah,
[01:27:51] I think that's a stupid question. It is
[01:27:53] a dumb question.
[01:27:55] My thoughts on this. I truly believe
[01:27:57] that um I mean the 19th amendment, yeah,
[01:28:02] go ahead and repeal that, but I would
[01:28:03] also repeal, you know, a lot of not just
[01:28:06] women right to vote, but men's right to
[01:28:09] vote as well. And I think that um you
[01:28:11] should be doing some type of duty that's
[01:28:15] conducive to the country and that
[01:28:16] benefits the country in some way for you
[01:28:18] to vote. So whether that's charity work,
[01:28:21] whether that's uh uh community service,
[01:28:25] enough community service hours along
[01:28:26] with a maybe an IQ test or some type of
[01:28:30] test. Um I think if women get married
[01:28:33] and they're married for I think if
[01:28:35] you're married, boom, the woman votes
[01:28:37] and the man votes. I think if you own
[01:28:39] property, boom, whoever owns that
[01:28:41] property, they vote. I think that if you
[01:28:43] abortion free, you have no abortions.
[01:28:45] Hey, you get the right to vote this
[01:28:47] year. You don't have an abortion this
[01:28:49] year, you get the right to vote.
[01:28:50] How would you know that?
[01:28:51] All abortions are rewarding.
[01:28:53] No, all abortions are are are
[01:28:55] calculated.
[01:28:56] Wait, what?
[01:28:56] You said you're rewarding people for not
[01:28:58] having abortions. Like that that's
[01:29:00] that's what you're saying.
[01:29:01] Wait, I'm sorry. Say that again.
[01:29:03] Are you saying you want people to be
[01:29:05] rewarded for not having abortions?
[01:29:07] Yes.
[01:29:07] Yeah. Rewarded for not having abortions.
[01:29:09] meaning that so we only are voting
[01:29:12] especially with these the you know
[01:29:14] presidential election that's like once
[01:29:16] well
[01:29:18] uh no the presidential election are
[01:29:20] every four years but then two years
[01:29:23] senator two
[01:29:25] six years but then for the local
[01:29:27] elections that's like every two years
[01:29:29] yes they're offset yeah
[01:29:31] okay so every two years then
[01:29:33] it might be one it might be every year
[01:29:34] it depends on the thing like the the
[01:29:37] thing that's up
[01:29:37] possibly but I think that yeah if If you
[01:29:39] have an abortion as a woman, uh you you
[01:29:42] can't vote that year. So,
[01:29:44] can can the man
[01:29:46] uh men don't have abortions? We don't
[01:29:48] have any reproductive rights.
[01:29:50] You don't have any reproductive rights.
[01:29:52] Yeah. Men don't hold any reproductive
[01:29:54] rights.
[01:29:55] Yeah. Women can get
[01:29:56] Women hold all of the reproductive
[01:29:57] rights in America.
[01:29:59] With the opinion of Congress.
[01:30:01] Speaking to the mic.
[01:30:01] With the opinion of Congress. Uh
[01:30:04] we have no rights.
[01:30:05] Huh?
[01:30:06] What you mean?
[01:30:06] Supreme Court.
[01:30:07] The Supreme Court. That one. Yeah.
[01:30:10] Uh, wait, what do you mean?
[01:30:12] So men is what she's saying. And yeah,
[01:30:14] men can
[01:30:15] we have no say. So if a woman wants to
[01:30:16] get an abortion, we can't. There's
[01:30:17] nothing we can do about it.
[01:30:18] No, it's nothing that men can do about
[01:30:20] it. And also if
[01:30:21] it's not your body.
[01:30:22] No, every in every state uh abortion is
[01:30:25] legal. There's not any state where
[01:30:26] abortion is illegal. There's just
[01:30:27] different terms,
[01:30:29] right? There's all Yes. But you say that
[01:30:32] to the woman in um Georgia who was brain
[01:30:35] dead and they forced her to keep um the
[01:30:38] pregnancy going until she had her body
[01:30:41] gave birth
[01:30:42] and
[01:30:42] and her ch her parents didn't want that
[01:30:44] but the state made her stay alive even
[01:30:46] though she was brain dead.
[01:30:48] That's a beautiful thing.
[01:30:49] And the baby suffered as well.
[01:30:51] Did the Was the baby born?
[01:30:53] No. Yeah. And it died
[01:30:54] or the baby was born and then it died?
[01:30:56] Yes. What caused the baby?
[01:30:57] That's totally fine. You still It's
[01:30:59] still It's like this. If you're hanging
[01:31:01] off a cliff, should I not grab your arm
[01:31:03] and lift you up? Even if I try to lift
[01:31:06] you up, but I can't lift you up and you
[01:31:07] still fall, you would still want someone
[01:31:08] to try to save you. So, they tried to
[01:31:10] save the baby, but
[01:31:11] she had a DNR.
[01:31:13] What's that?
[01:31:13] Okay. But the baby didn't have a DNR,
[01:31:15] though.
[01:31:16] Yeah,
[01:31:16] the baby didn't have DNR.
[01:31:18] Was the father paying child support?
[01:31:21] Sorry. It doesn't matter if the father
[01:31:23] isn't paying child support if it's such
[01:31:26] a deep conversation.
[01:31:26] No, the baby can still be adopted.
[01:31:29] You know what I'm saying?
[01:31:30] The baby can be adopted and things like
[01:31:32] that.
[01:31:32] Do I ask that? Ask it.
[01:31:35] Yeah, ask your question. Go ahead.
[01:31:36] What um do you know what the rate for
[01:31:39] children with medical disabilities
[01:31:41] getting adopted is?
[01:31:42] Uh I don't know. What is it?
[01:31:43] I'm not sure off the top of my head. I
[01:31:45] was wondering if you did.
[01:31:46] Yeah. I don't know.
[01:31:47] I don't know either. Okay. Yeah,
[01:31:48] it's I was just wondering.
[01:31:50] Okay. So I see the argument you're
[01:31:53] making. You're saying that well there's
[01:31:54] children that get adopted in the medical
[01:31:58] rate. Did you say
[01:31:59] children with disabilities?
[01:32:01] Disabilities. Okay. So
[01:32:03] are likely to spend more time in the
[01:32:05] system and not always under the best
[01:32:08] care.
[01:32:08] That's better than being dead. Shelby,
[01:32:10] you know, one of my brothers. So like
[01:32:13] from a situation similar, not an
[01:32:15] abortion.
[01:32:16] Okay. Would you want your brother not
[01:32:17] alive though?
[01:32:18] He's not alive.
[01:32:20] Was he aborted?
[01:32:22] He was not.
[01:32:23] Okay. So then he still had the
[01:32:25] opportunity to be born in this world and
[01:32:28] a chance
[01:32:29] had an opportunity.
[01:32:30] Wait, if he didn't never have an opport
[01:32:32] if he wasn't aborted, then he had an
[01:32:34] opportunity.
[01:32:34] Correct. But there are situations where
[01:32:36] a child does not have a chance to live
[01:32:38] or survive and they're born anyway.
[01:32:42] Correct.
[01:32:42] Totally fine. That's life.
[01:32:46] Okay.
[01:32:46] That's a beautiful thing.
[01:32:47] I understand. You breathe. You You came
[01:32:50] for 5 minutes and then you you died. At
[01:32:52] least you was here, my my little [ __ ]
[01:32:54] You had the opportunity to live. Nobody
[01:32:56] knows.
[01:32:57] No one knows this situation be like
[01:32:59] after they're born. Nobody knows that.
[01:33:02] No one knows 100%.
[01:33:04] You know, it's unfortunate. I'm sorry
[01:33:05] for your I'm sorry for your brother, but
[01:33:07] nobody knows.
[01:33:08] So, what if they did know that they did
[01:33:09] know that is what I'm saying
[01:33:10] in that situation? In that situation, I
[01:33:12] need more details before I even say
[01:33:13] anything else. in a situation
[01:33:14] like the doctor probably knew that he
[01:33:16] was about to pull out a baby and that he
[01:33:18] wasn't going to have time to live,
[01:33:20] but because of let's say abortion's not
[01:33:23] legal and now the mother's right life is
[01:33:25] at risk for a child that's not going to
[01:33:27] make it and who's literally
[01:33:28] medical issues. Because of medical
[01:33:29] issues,
[01:33:30] even because of medical issues.
[01:33:31] Miracles happen.
[01:33:33] Yeah. There's there's a lot of miracles
[01:33:34] that happen where catch up on and
[01:33:36] Okay, I got I got a I got a question for
[01:33:38] you. So if um uh
[01:33:43] someone gave you a hund uh a million
[01:33:46] dollars,
[01:33:47] someone gave you a million dollars,
[01:33:49] but once you take the million dollars,
[01:33:52] there are uh robbers
[01:33:55] right outside your door.
[01:33:56] I don't want that [ __ ]
[01:33:57] Real quick, real quick, real quick, real
[01:33:59] quick. Someone gives you a million
[01:34:01] dollars. There's it's your house.
[01:34:03] There's robbers right outside your door.
[01:34:04] Once they give you the million dollars,
[01:34:06] the robbers are going to come in and try
[01:34:08] to take your million dollars. Now, the
[01:34:11] robbers isn't going to beat you up,
[01:34:13] isn't going to do anything. They're just
[01:34:14] going to come in and try to get the
[01:34:16] million dollars. Do you still want a
[01:34:18] chance at that million dollars? Yes or
[01:34:20] no?
[01:34:21] Is my life at risk?
[01:34:22] Your life isn't at risk. The million
[01:34:24] dollars is at risk.
[01:34:26] Well, if my life So, there is no risk
[01:34:28] for these men outside besides going in
[01:34:30] and taking her money.
[01:34:31] It's only the money. So,
[01:34:33] so they're going to come in and hurt my
[01:34:36] hand to take it out of my fingers.
[01:34:39] They're not going to hurt me, right?
[01:34:40] Your life isn't at risk.
[01:34:42] Okay,
[01:34:42] you got it. It's a million dollars. Now,
[01:34:46] what are you going to choose? Are you
[01:34:47] going to take the chance at possibly
[01:34:49] getting this million dollars taken away
[01:34:51] from you or are you going to re uh
[01:34:54] reject that opportunity?
[01:34:55] If there is no risk to me, myself or my
[01:34:58] loved ones, then I will take an
[01:34:59] opportunity.
[01:35:00] Got it. Perfect. So right there is uh
[01:35:03] the what's analogous is money and the
[01:35:07] child's life.
[01:35:08] Risk risk was the
[01:35:10] No, no, no. What's analogous is money
[01:35:12] and the child's life. So the child
[01:35:14] that's being born well it's a it's a
[01:35:18] possibility maybe a slim chance that you
[01:35:20] know they'll actually live and survive
[01:35:23] of and that would be analogous to it's a
[01:35:26] possibility and a chance that maybe
[01:35:28] you'll be able to keep your money. you
[01:35:29] versus the robbers.
[01:35:32] So, why would you reject taking You
[01:35:35] wouldn't reject uh uh you know, risking
[01:35:38] a million dollars. You just No, you'll
[01:35:40] risk it all for the million dollars.
[01:35:42] Did you know that correlation doesn't
[01:35:43] always equal causation?
[01:35:45] Uh this isn't a correlation. This isn't
[01:35:47] a stat analy
[01:35:50] analogy. It's a hypothetical that's an
[01:35:52] analogy. Point is, you give a kid the
[01:35:55] chance to survive whatever life throws
[01:35:57] at them because we don't know how it's
[01:35:58] going to end up
[01:35:59] even if the mother will die or likely
[01:36:02] die. That's what I'm saying.
[01:36:03] Exactly. Cuz listen, you're only
[01:36:05] This goes along with the voting things.
[01:36:06] We're making blanket statements.
[01:36:07] Stop it. I got you. You're only thinking
[01:36:09] about the mother's life. You're not
[01:36:12] necessarily thinking about the child's
[01:36:15] life. So the child is the money. the
[01:36:19] mother, right, is not around, is not
[01:36:22] into this analogy. So, think about the
[01:36:24] money that you chose to keep and risk
[01:36:28] those robbers taking it from you. That's
[01:36:31] the child's life. The the child is there
[01:36:33] and it's a possibility that they can
[01:36:35] lose their life, but it's better for
[01:36:37] them to at least be born.
[01:36:38] So, I got a question for you. You're
[01:36:39] hanging off a cliff. You said you have
[01:36:41] three kids, right?
[01:36:42] You're hanging off. Are they under 18?
[01:36:44] Yeah.
[01:36:45] Are they Are they teenagers or like
[01:36:46] they're like adolescent? Little littles
[01:36:47] and teenager.
[01:36:48] Okay. You're hanging off a cliff and
[01:36:51] you and your three kids are like they're
[01:36:53] with you. Like they're hanging for dear
[01:36:54] life, hanging on to you and you're
[01:36:55] hanging off a cliff. Would you want the
[01:36:58] rescuer to save you or the kids?
[01:37:00] You're saving the kids.
[01:37:03] You get what? You get what I'm trying to
[01:37:04] say? It's the same analogy as if the if
[01:37:06] the baby was born knowing that there's a
[01:37:08] possibility that she may not live or he
[01:37:11] may not live.
[01:37:12] So, same note.
[01:37:13] Go ahead.
[01:37:14] I have three kids. There's a possibility
[01:37:16] I or there's a likelihood I will not
[01:37:19] live and it's almost guaranteed neither
[01:37:21] will that baby.
[01:37:24] What are you talking about?
[01:37:25] I'm talking about hanging from the
[01:37:26] cliff. I'm hanging from the cliff. I got
[01:37:29] three kids and a baby. Shoot. Am I
[01:37:30] saving myself and the baby?
[01:37:31] No. No. Stop it. Stop it. His example.
[01:37:34] Am I saving myself and the baby or am I
[01:37:36] saving?
[01:37:36] His example. His example was someone to
[01:37:39] save your life or someone to save your
[01:37:40] children's life. You said go ahead and
[01:37:42] save my children's life.
[01:37:43] Yeah.
[01:37:44] Right. So that's the same thing like if
[01:37:46] a woman is pregnant, right, and maybe
[01:37:49] it's some disability going on, some
[01:37:51] medical issues, and it's a possib it's a
[01:37:53] possibility, a high possibility that
[01:37:55] when the baby is born, the baby's just
[01:37:56] going to die.
[01:37:57] Mhm.
[01:37:58] I'm just saying don't abort the baby cuz
[01:38:00] that's still death. Go ahead and, you
[01:38:02] know, bring the baby full term.
[01:38:04] Give it a fighting chance.
[01:38:06] Give it a fighting chance.
[01:38:08] So with that's why I gave you that
[01:38:10] example cuz you said if you were hanging
[01:38:12] off a cliff with the three kids, you
[01:38:14] said you would want the rescuer whether
[01:38:16] it's me or [ __ ] to save your kids and
[01:38:17] let you die.
[01:38:18] Yeah.
[01:38:19] Can I ask?
[01:38:19] It's the same thing with the child being
[01:38:21] born that has a high possibility of
[01:38:23] dying.
[01:38:24] Can I ask
[01:38:25] that's a good analogy too. Good analogy.
[01:38:27] So then can I ask
[01:38:27] but she still rejects it. In say say in
[01:38:30] that instance then what if what if uh
[01:38:34] like the doctor is asking then or
[01:38:37] essentially being told that yes this
[01:38:40] baby doesn't have a chance to live and
[01:38:42] if we try to save it then we're killing
[01:38:45] the mom then
[01:38:47] exactly
[01:38:47] then you know what it is honestly I
[01:38:50] think in general the majority of women
[01:38:52] are selfish I think a lot I think a lot
[01:38:54] of you
[01:38:54] the doctor is saying we're killing her
[01:38:57] catch your own baby and and talk about
[01:38:58] that with your two hands and then talk
[01:39:00] about self.
[01:39:01] Okay, you're saying something totally
[01:39:02] different, but finish what you're
[01:39:03] saying. I'll get back to what you just
[01:39:04] said.
[01:39:04] So, like if the doctor is saying all of
[01:39:06] our efforts to try to get this baby to
[01:39:08] keep this baby alive is going we're
[01:39:10] literally murdering your the mother like
[01:39:14] so is it so then like how do how are you
[01:39:17] in that moment battling do I do I have
[01:39:21] the baby? Are you saying that if they if
[01:39:23] if the child is being born is going to
[01:39:26] kill the mom but the child gets to live?
[01:39:29] But whatever those efforts are like say
[01:39:30] if they have
[01:39:31] I get I get it. I get it. What I'm
[01:39:33] asking you is
[01:39:34] are you saying that if the baby is born
[01:39:36] the mother's going to die. Is that what
[01:39:37] you're saying basically in a nutshell?
[01:39:40] Yes. What we do to save this baby from
[01:39:44] the mom is going to kill.
[01:39:45] You're saying okay right I look this is
[01:39:48] how I look at it. Listen this is how I
[01:39:50] look at it. Kids don't ask to be born.
[01:39:52] We are adults and when we have sex, we
[01:39:55] know that there's a possibility that
[01:39:57] we're going to have a kid. Am I correct?
[01:39:59] Whether the kid was an accident or it
[01:40:01] was premeditated,
[01:40:03] that kid deserves a chance at life.
[01:40:06] Okay?
[01:40:07] You know what I'm saying?
[01:40:07] I hear you. So, regardless of what is
[01:40:10] going on, give that child a chance.
[01:40:12] Yes. In my opinion, obviously, you don't
[01:40:14] have to agree with me, but like the kids
[01:40:16] don't ask to be born. And that's why I
[01:40:17] gave her that analogy. I'm like, "Yo,
[01:40:18] look, if you're hanging off the edge and
[01:40:21] you're with your three kids, right,
[01:40:23] and and this restaurant could only save
[01:40:25] one of you guys, either the kids or
[01:40:26] you." Who would you say? She said, "The
[01:40:27] kids."
[01:40:28] I hear you.
[01:40:28] So, in my opinion, kids deserve to live
[01:40:30] because they don't have to be here.
[01:40:32] I just think this top that topic is when
[01:40:34] and that's why, you know, when she does
[01:40:35] say but
[01:40:36] catch a baby out of your two, it's like,
[01:40:38] why are men having this conversation?
[01:40:40] Because majority of the time women plan
[01:40:42] to have kids cuz it's premeditated.
[01:40:46] majority of the time. Obviously, not
[01:40:47] all. The majority of the time, women
[01:40:49] plan to have that kid. So now, you know,
[01:40:53] if you plan for it, that's different.
[01:40:55] I'm talking about the majority of the
[01:40:56] time women those kids aren't are
[01:40:58] planned. So, if you having a baby that
[01:41:01] you plan to have and it's saying, "Hey,
[01:41:03] look, you know, um the baby's going to
[01:41:05] be born just fine, but you're not going
[01:41:07] to make it."
[01:41:09] It's a [snorts] tough decision.
[01:41:10] The baby is what you're saying.
[01:41:12] Yeah. Why not? You know, obviously it's
[01:41:13] a hard decision. I mean, you can choose
[01:41:15] whatever you want, but I'm saying the
[01:41:16] babies deserve the right to live because
[01:41:18] they didn't ask to be here.
[01:41:20] You know what I'm saying? They didn't
[01:41:21] ask to be here. So, it's kind of like
[01:41:23] messed up. And plus, I believe in God.
[01:41:24] So, the abortion is is a sin anyway.
[01:41:26] You know what I'm saying? So, like, if
[01:41:28] you don't believe in God, then that
[01:41:29] totally makes sense why you would
[01:41:30] choose.
[01:41:30] Have you ever read the Bible?
[01:41:32] Yes, I do Bible study every Saturday.
[01:41:33] And what does God do to unborn babies?
[01:41:35] And
[01:41:36] what do you mean? What does he do to
[01:41:37] unborn babies?
[01:41:38] I was wondering if you've ever actually
[01:41:40] read the Bible and what happens and like
[01:41:42] how God feels. So, you came. So what
[01:41:44] scripture in the Bible
[01:41:45] in the Bible? I would
[01:41:46] you have your phone? Google it. Tell me
[01:41:47] the scripture.
[01:41:48] There's a signal in here. I tried. The
[01:41:50] signal is is
[01:41:51] Yeah, I tried earlier
[01:41:52] chat. [laughter]
[01:41:53] Google the scripture in the Bible what
[01:41:55] it says about what God does to unborn
[01:41:57] babies and I'll read in the chat.
[01:41:59] But other than that, but in a nutshell,
[01:42:01] I think a lot of women are selfish
[01:42:02] because a lot of you guys only think
[01:42:03] about you. You only put yourself first
[01:42:05] in everything. And I kind of understand
[01:42:08] why because you guys are the weaker sex.
[01:42:10] So you guys have to do anything and
[01:42:11] everything to survive in this world. But
[01:42:14] in a nutshell, I think women are selfish
[01:42:16] as hell. You guys only think about you
[01:42:18] in every and any situation. And if it
[01:42:21] doesn't benefit you, you guys want no
[01:42:23] parts, including in abortion. You know
[01:42:25] what I'm saying? That's just my take.
[01:42:27] So So who hurt your feelings?
[01:42:29] Some of that stuff.
[01:42:30] So yeah, I want to know what the Bible
[01:42:32] says about what God does to unborn baby.
[01:42:34] If any of that relates to anything that
[01:42:35] you were reading,
[01:42:38] God does. That's too many words for me
[01:42:39] right now.
[01:42:40] Okay. Okay.
[01:42:40] I just know he he kills them a lot. He
[01:42:42] kills a lot of unborn babies.
[01:42:44] I want I want the proof. I'm not going
[01:42:45] to go about with you. I want to know
[01:42:46] what
[01:42:46] chat. Now that I know who chat is.
[01:42:48] Yeah. Chat about to
[01:42:49] Hold on a second.
[01:42:50] They be commenting it up in there.
[01:42:55] I'm pretty sure he likes
[01:42:56] Of course. Of course. Thank you, Danny.
[01:42:58] Who's Danny?
[01:43:00] So, let me see what is
[01:43:02] I don't see anything here where it's
[01:43:03] saying that God is killing anybody.
[01:43:05] Thank you. So, you just made that up,
[01:43:06] Shelby. But I appreciate the the lies.
[01:43:09] So God doesn't do anything to unborn
[01:43:10] baby. It was it's just saying like he's
[01:43:13] all knowing forming the baby. I don't
[01:43:15] know.
[01:43:15] Yeah. God doesn't kill unborn babies. At
[01:43:17] first that doesn't even make any sense
[01:43:19] to begin with.
[01:43:20] I'm going to need my my chat. Does chat
[01:43:22] have an answer?
[01:43:23] Yeah. Did they come up with anything?
[01:43:24] Chat has Google.
[01:43:26] Yeah. And so does phones. So like it's
[01:43:29] no different. God this nowhere in the
[01:43:31] Bible
[01:43:32] that
[01:43:33] what does that say? Read it out loud. Uh
[01:43:34] Grace or give me the phone. No, I just
[01:43:37] go ahead. That's one thing that it does
[01:43:38] say in the Bible.
[01:43:39] I just clicked on like are aborted
[01:43:40] babies in heaven.
[01:43:42] I said is that what you're talking
[01:43:43] about?
[01:43:43] It's not. But
[01:43:44] no, but she specifically said that
[01:43:46] somewhere in the Bible God does
[01:43:48] something to unborn babies or kill
[01:43:49] unborn babies.
[01:43:50] I never heard that. And
[01:43:51] I'm saying that is false. There's no
[01:43:54] there's no Bible verse that says God
[01:43:55] kills unborn babies.
[01:43:58] And until Judo Christian theology, the
[01:44:00] direct answer depends on entirely on
[01:44:02] whether you are looking at God's cosmic.
[01:44:05] Okay. Mm-m.
[01:44:07] The passage in Hosea 9:10-16
[01:44:10] where God states, "He will cause their
[01:44:12] children to perish in the womb,
[01:44:13] misaryry, or be killed at birth."
[01:44:15] Do we say that? I was listening. What?
[01:44:16] What? What?
[01:44:19] Okay.
[01:44:19] There are several like that.
[01:44:20] Which one? Okay. Um, this passage
[01:44:21] described judgment on the people.
[01:44:23] Move over where God states he will cause
[01:44:25] their children to perish in a womb.
[01:44:27] Move your chair over.
[01:44:28] Oh,
[01:44:34] keep going.
[01:44:35] Yeah, bro. You want
[01:44:36] You better be a good listener, sir.
[01:44:38] [laughter]
[01:44:39] Me.
[01:44:40] She said, "What do you want for
[01:44:42] Christmas?"
[01:44:44] Several passages where God is portrayed
[01:44:45] as the author of life and death,
[01:44:47] including [laughter] the destruction of
[01:44:48] unborn or newborn children as acts of
[01:44:50] divine judgment. These texts are heavily
[01:44:52] debated and interpreted in various ways
[01:44:54] across different
[01:44:55] Wait, what's going on here? Which
[01:44:56] So, she was saying cuz she was saying
[01:44:58] that um in the Bible it says that God
[01:45:01] kills unborn babies.
[01:45:03] Yeah. No, no, no, no, no. That's out of
[01:45:05] context.
[01:45:06] Thank you.
[01:45:06] That's out of context. So, you're just
[01:45:08] saying that, oh, well, God committed uh
[01:45:10] killed unborn babies. No, that's not
[01:45:12] true. That's out of missing so much
[01:45:14] context on what was happening during
[01:45:16] that time.
[01:45:17] He said it didn't happen at all. So,
[01:45:19] yeah. No, but it it's not saying that.
[01:45:22] So, when women commit abortion, they do
[01:45:25] it based off of how they feel. You get
[01:45:27] what I'm saying? It's just like, oh,
[01:45:28] well, I don't feel I had sex with the
[01:45:30] wrong guy. I got pregnant, so I'm going
[01:45:31] to abort my baby. So the majority of
[01:45:34] abortions happen for reasons like that.
[01:45:36] Now of course there's always going to be
[01:45:39] scenarios that's very bad like if the
[01:45:42] woman's life is in jeopardy versus the
[01:45:44] baby's life. So well who do you think
[01:45:46] should should survive? Well I think the
[01:45:48] woman the mother in that case should
[01:45:50] have the choice of her life or the
[01:45:53] baby's life since the baby is within
[01:45:55] her. But other than that um no. I think
[01:45:58] abortion should be 100% illegal.
[01:46:03] Yeah.
[01:46:03] So, I had actually a chat to like Google
[01:46:05] the verse where it says God killed
[01:46:06] unborn babies.
[01:46:07] Yeah. That was just that's just out of
[01:46:09] context.
[01:46:10] God didn't kill no unborn babies uh for
[01:46:13] anything for any of reasons that
[01:46:16] you can even imagine, [laughter]
[01:46:18] right?
[01:46:18] That's that a human being would do. And
[01:46:21] also
[01:46:22] there's something called a just killing
[01:46:24] and an unjust killing. An unjust killing
[01:46:26] would be murder. There is things that is
[01:46:30] reasons that God would uh uh
[01:46:33] kill for,
[01:46:34] you know, kill for, but it would be a
[01:46:36] just reason, not an unjust reason.
[01:46:38] Correct. There we go.
[01:46:39] And so, never mind.
[01:46:42] Okay. Uh where else would y'all go going
[01:46:44] with this conversation?
[01:46:44] No, that was that was pretty much.
[01:46:46] Yeah, we can do anyone.
[01:46:47] Okay, cool. Uh dang, we got a lot of
[01:46:49] super chats in here. Chad, get the likes
[01:46:51] up, man. Get the likes up.
[01:46:54] Uh where we at? We got um
[01:46:57] [clears throat]
[01:47:00] Okay, we're on this one. We got PR
[01:47:02] Monster sitting in five. He says, "For
[01:47:04] the chick that said I can't roast, you
[01:47:06] look like the current uh [laughter]
[01:47:10] uh Maya Campbell.
[01:47:13] Is it Maria?" Did you try to say Maria
[01:47:15] Campbell or Maya Campbell?
[01:47:18] Uh f out of here. You couldn't get in
[01:47:20] the sink. I'm on you
[01:47:21] when I'm reading. Just let me finish. Uh
[01:47:22] he says, "F out of here. You couldn't
[01:47:24] get your hair done for uh for the show.
[01:47:27] I got locks underneath. Ooh.
[01:47:29] Go ahead. Take the head off. Show them
[01:47:30] what's up. Take that wig off. Show them
[01:47:32] what's up.
[01:47:33] I need a retwist. I'm going to let it
[01:47:34] rock. But I got beautiful, luscious
[01:47:36] locks underneath here. Okay. Don't try
[01:47:38] me. They know. Okay.
[01:47:39] Oh yeah. You wore your locks out before.
[01:47:41] Exactly. So try another one.
[01:47:42] You had locks on last time you was on
[01:47:43] here.
[01:47:44] Yeah. Yeah. That's a wig.
[01:47:45] I remember that. It's all coming back to
[01:47:46] me.
[01:47:47] She had her hair done last time she was
[01:47:48] on here. Chad,
[01:47:49] I do it all. That roast was ass. You
[01:47:51] bathe in the sink. [laughter]
[01:47:53] in the sink.
[01:47:54] Like he's a dirty sink. That was good.
[01:47:57] That was a good one. I got the sink.
[01:48:00] I seen somebody do that before. Baba in
[01:48:01] the sink.
[01:48:02] A bird bag. Yeah. Yeah. Like I was in I
[01:48:04] used to work in a hospital and I went to
[01:48:05] the bathroom to use the bathroom.
[01:48:06] There's some guy just washing up like
[01:48:08] just He wasn't naked, but it was weird.
[01:48:10] Hey yo, that's funny, bro. Um little
[01:48:13] bird bath. Uh we got uh W Kid Dream
[01:48:16] sending in $5. He says, "What's up,
[01:48:18] [ __ ] Uh, the rusty swing set next to
[01:48:22] ease is wild. Yeah, that chick left,
[01:48:24] bro. She She gone. She was probably
[01:48:26] triggered or something when she left.
[01:48:28] When I went to the bathroom, she was
[01:48:30] gone. Wasn't nobody here.
[01:48:31] Yeah.
[01:48:31] Uh, we got Miss Orange. We got Miss
[01:48:34] Orange is more cap than the one she is
[01:48:37] wearing.
[01:48:38] Fire. That's bar.
[01:48:39] That's a bar.
[01:48:41] He also says, "Ladies." He also says,
[01:48:43] "Ladies, why should a man pick you?"
[01:48:44] That's a good question. So,
[01:48:46] let's start with um Shelby. I don't want
[01:48:48] to be picked.
[01:48:50] Well, then you don't want a relationship
[01:48:52] with a man.
[01:48:53] Not if he has to pick me.
[01:48:54] What do you mean?
[01:48:55] He should just know.
[01:48:56] Wait, [laughter]
[01:48:57] what? What?
[01:48:59] That makes no sense.
[01:49:00] Even Grace. Grace is 21. Like, wait,
[01:49:02] what?
[01:49:03] Grace like what?
[01:49:04] Like, is he going eeny meenie miny mo?
[01:49:07] Girl, please. [laughter] Grace is like,
[01:49:10] yo,
[01:49:10] hold up. So, Shelby,
[01:49:15] why should a man have to pick you?
[01:49:19] You don't want him to pick you?
[01:49:20] Oh,
[01:49:21] meaning Oh my god. No. No.
[01:49:22] So, like I'm good on my own, right?
[01:49:24] Like,
[01:49:24] no. Stop. Before you even go that long,
[01:49:26] stop. No. Cut it up. Stop. Stop. Look.
[01:49:27] Listen. If you are interested in a guy
[01:49:30] and you want to be in a relationship
[01:49:32] with him, why should he make you his
[01:49:35] girlfriend? Or why
[01:49:36] should he pick you?
[01:49:37] Meaning, aka why should he pick you? Get
[01:49:41] it?
[01:49:41] Because he wants to. I don't know.
[01:49:45] Don't be not playing.
[01:49:46] Why would he [laughter] want to?
[01:49:48] Like, what qualities about you does he
[01:49:50] want?
[01:49:51] I don't know. Probably not the fact that
[01:49:52] I ask him question.
[01:49:55] That's why he got divorced
[01:49:56] twice.
[01:49:57] That's why he got divorced, bro.
[01:49:59] Twice.
[01:49:59] No, no, no. She divorced him twice.
[01:50:02] Oh,
[01:50:03] yeah. [ __ ]
[01:50:04] No. No. But that's why she divorced him.
[01:50:06] [laughter]
[01:50:06] Because he didn't want to pick her. No,
[01:50:09] because
[01:50:09] he did.
[01:50:10] She don't know what she want.
[01:50:11] Oh,
[01:50:12] you get it. [laughter]
[01:50:15] No, let's let's let's be smart here.
[01:50:17] Let's actually have some common sense.
[01:50:19] If you
[01:50:20] if you like a guy, right, and you want
[01:50:23] to be his girlfriend,
[01:50:25] what reasons
[01:50:28] would you give him to be like, "Hey,
[01:50:29] look, this is why I should be your
[01:50:32] girlfriend."
[01:50:32] I'm not going to give it.
[01:50:33] You wouldn't do this literally. This is
[01:50:34] just a hypothetical. Okay.
[01:50:36] What are some quality traits about
[01:50:38] Shelby that a guy should take serious?
[01:50:40] I make really bad jokes.
[01:50:42] [snorts]
[01:50:46] Let's just move it on to Grace. Grace,
[01:50:48] why should a man pick you?
[01:50:50] [clears throat]
[01:50:51] Speaking to the mic.
[01:50:53] Um, I'm willing to let him lead and
[01:50:57] protect and be like
[01:51:00] the main person in the relationship and
[01:51:02] make like the final say. And I think a
[01:51:04] lot of women nowaday
[01:51:08] don't really believe in that. And I feel
[01:51:09] like the rules have a little bit been
[01:51:13] like reversed. And
[01:51:18] I just I that's just like one
[01:51:20] talking about real quick.
[01:51:21] Hey chat,
[01:51:23] I know why Shelby wasn't paying
[01:51:25] attention and can't listen. She's
[01:51:27] writing on a piece of paper, bro. Can
[01:51:29] y'all see?
[01:51:30] You're not even writing. She's drawing.
[01:51:31] She's drawing. She's drawing. Wow. I can
[01:51:34] see. I don't know. I don't think they
[01:51:35] can see it. [laughter]
[01:51:37] She has ADHD. Like,
[01:51:40] back it up. Back it up.
[01:51:41] I have ADHD.
[01:51:42] Dang. It ain't focus.
[01:51:43] I get bored.
[01:51:44] It ain't focus. It can't see. All right.
[01:51:45] Well, scribble.
[01:51:48] It don't even look nice. See?
[01:51:50] Just scribbling on a piece of paper.
[01:51:51] Bro, [laughter]
[01:51:53] I thought she was actually taking notes
[01:51:54] the entire time,
[01:51:55] bro. I thought she was taking notes,
[01:51:56] too. I looked over. I see like a bunch
[01:51:59] of What is that? Like I thought she was
[01:52:00] cuz she was like, "Okay, I don't even
[01:52:03] know what that is."
[01:52:03] Jotting it down.
[01:52:05] What? No. [laughter]
[01:52:06] Crazy, bro.
[01:52:06] I thought she was taking notes, bro.
[01:52:09] Maybe I should have been.
[01:52:10] We We going to come back to you on this
[01:52:11] question, though, Shelby. And uh Grace,
[01:52:14] you were
[01:52:14] Okay. I feel like I was talking too
[01:52:16] much. Okay. No, I'm willing to like
[01:52:17] submit. I also feel like I'm very smart.
[01:52:21] Um I'm make good decisions. Um
[01:52:28] um I'm like adventurous and down for
[01:52:31] anything and like willing to try new
[01:52:33] things.
[01:52:35] Yeah.
[01:52:36] Okay. All right. Why should a man take
[01:52:38] Why should a man pick you?
[01:52:40] Um
[01:52:41] cuz you let him sleep with multiple
[01:52:43] girls. Polyggony.
[01:52:44] No, cuz I'm like so great. Like I'm a
[01:52:47] really fun woman. I'm very smart. I'm
[01:52:49] ready to submit. I'm ready to I'm ready
[01:52:52] for my blessings for real to receive my
[01:52:54] blessings. Um I am ready to
[01:52:59] honestly
[01:53:00] be a mom. I'm ready to be a wife. Uh
[01:53:03] you're not a mom yet. You don't got
[01:53:04] kids?
[01:53:05] No.
[01:53:06] How many could you want?
[01:53:07] I want at least three.
[01:53:08] Wait.
[01:53:09] I will have as many as my body will
[01:53:11] allow. Um but anyways, yeah, you know,
[01:53:14] like I I I'm a great time. I'm fun. I'm
[01:53:17] smart. I'm outgoing. I'm super
[01:53:19] open-minded. I'm supportive. I'm kind.
[01:53:23] I'm genuine. Uh,
[01:53:25] do you shut up if he tell you to shut
[01:53:27] up?
[01:53:28] I'm ready to shut up. I want I don't
[01:53:29] want to talk. Let's test this out.
[01:53:30] I don't want to [laughter] talk. Let's
[01:53:32] test this out. Let's test this out.
[01:53:33] Put me up in the house. I want
[01:53:34] Let's test it out real quick. You ready?
[01:53:37] It's not going to work on me because
[01:53:38] I've seen the clips.
[01:53:39] Darn. You seen the clip? Clip guy. Why
[01:53:41] did you clip that one up?
[01:53:43] It's not going to work. Sorry.
[01:53:46] I should have let it rock. I should have
[01:53:47] let her [laughter]
[01:53:48] know she could have brought he was going
[01:53:50] to tell me to shut up and then I
[01:53:53] She was supposed to sit there.
[01:53:54] She was supposed to sit there. Exactly.
[01:53:55] I seen Yeah. I should have let it rock
[01:53:57] though.
[01:53:58] Um
[01:54:00] All right. And Shelby, back to you now.
[01:54:03] You're 39 years old.
[01:54:06] That's rude.
[01:54:06] She's 34.
[01:54:07] 29. Thank you. No, she's
[01:54:08] 34. 34.
[01:54:10] So you're 34 years old. How many kids
[01:54:13] you got?
[01:54:14] Three.
[01:54:14] You got three kids. You've been divorced
[01:54:16] twice. You divorce divorce both of your
[01:54:18] husbands.
[01:54:20] Why should a man pick you?
[01:54:23] I've always had my stuff together. I
[01:54:26] take care of my business. And yeah,
[01:54:30] men don't care about that though.
[01:54:31] That's fine.
[01:54:32] So why should a man pick you? It's a
[01:54:35] dating podcast, right? So
[01:54:38] if if it's the case that um you were
[01:54:44] advertising
[01:54:46] yourself to a man but he couldn't see
[01:54:48] you. What are the qualities that you
[01:54:51] would list about yourself so he can pick
[01:54:53] you?
[01:54:56] H I'm whimsical.
[01:54:58] I like a good adventure.
[01:55:01] Can I answer?
[01:55:02] No.
[01:55:02] You already answered.
[01:55:03] No, but let her answer first.
[01:55:04] No. Yeah, let her answer. Go ahead. I
[01:55:06] don't know.
[01:55:07] So there's nothing there's nothing dope
[01:55:08] about you.
[01:55:09] I think there's a lot pretty dope about
[01:55:11] So name them.
[01:55:12] Want to know?
[01:55:13] I don't know.
[01:55:14] So there's nothing about
[01:55:15] You're smart.
[01:55:16] Oh yeah.
[01:55:17] She don't know that chat. She just met
[01:55:18] her today. She don't know how smart she
[01:55:20] is. She hasn't shown her intelligence
[01:55:22] yet since we've been on the show.
[01:55:23] She smoked today and prior to the show
[01:55:25] they smoking weed.
[01:55:26] I think she's smart. I think Shel's got
[01:55:27] some brains on her.
[01:55:29] Me?
[01:55:30] I don't. Based on what she was saying
[01:55:32] today, she don't got no bins yet. I
[01:55:33] ain't seen nothing yet.
[01:55:34] Natural. Nice.
[01:55:36] I'm not talking about your hair,
[01:55:37] sweetheart.
[01:55:37] You said I don't have brains and I'm
[01:55:38] saying it's natural. I know.
[01:55:41] It's a blind joke. [laughter] It was a
[01:55:43] bad joke. Remember that's I was good at
[01:55:45] horrible joke.
[01:55:45] Okay.
[01:55:46] You're funny.
[01:55:47] Um,
[01:55:47] yes. That's what I was trying to say.
[01:55:49] So, in other words, Chad, she ain't
[01:55:50] worth butt sex. That's it. No long
[01:55:52] commitment.
[01:55:53] Is it good?
[01:55:54] Just sex, bro. That's all she's good
[01:55:56] for. That's what she's trying to No,
[01:55:57] Shelby, this is like one of the things
[01:55:58] that you should actually like you should
[01:56:01] put some thought into because as a
[01:56:03] single mom, 34 years old with three
[01:56:07] kids, you've been divorced twice.
[01:56:09] Meaning that when you look at your past
[01:56:10] history, you've been choosing men that
[01:56:13] you didn't want to stay committed to
[01:56:15] because you divorced them, right? So,
[01:56:16] that means that your choice wasn't the
[01:56:20] best choice. Like, if you choose
[01:56:21] something and then you put it back,
[01:56:22] I did not choose the correct men.
[01:56:24] Well, I got you. Listen, we're not even
[01:56:26] speaking about men. We're speaking about
[01:56:27] you. So, when we're speaking about you,
[01:56:29] right? If you choose something and
[01:56:31] they're like, "Ah, I don't really want
[01:56:32] that. I thought I wanted it, but I don't
[01:56:33] want it." And you put it back. That just
[01:56:34] means that you made the wrong choice.
[01:56:36] So, when you look at your situation, 34
[01:56:38] years old, you got three kids, you
[01:56:40] divorced both of your husbands, so
[01:56:42] you've been choosing poorly. You haven't
[01:56:44] been choosing the men that you truly
[01:56:46] wanted to stay committed in a
[01:56:47] relationship with, which means that
[01:56:50] I
[01:56:53] wanted to stay committed in the past.
[01:56:55] If you did, you would have never ended
[01:56:56] the relationship. You'd have did
[01:56:57] everything in your can in your power to
[01:56:59] make it work. So, stop lying to us,
[01:57:01] please.
[01:57:01] Yes,
[01:57:02] I understand.
[01:57:03] So, even if we know that men aren't
[01:57:06] perfect, we know that they do wrong.
[01:57:09] Yeah. But
[01:57:10] another birthday this week
[01:57:11] with that aside or even with that in
[01:57:13] there, you still chose to divorce the
[01:57:16] man. You get what I'm saying? So it's
[01:57:17] like what you chose,
[01:57:20] it just wasn't the right choice for you.
[01:57:22] Got it? So now we're asking, right? The
[01:57:26] man that you want, why should he pick
[01:57:30] you? So, these are things that you
[01:57:31] should be thinking about as a single
[01:57:33] mom. Like, what value do you bring to a
[01:57:36] man that you know that would make him
[01:57:39] want to
[01:57:41] not just have sex with you, but give you
[01:57:43] a true relationship and build with you?
[01:57:46] That's what we're saying. That's that's
[01:57:48] the level of the type of question that
[01:57:50] says. So, then you can speak about like
[01:57:52] some qualities that you would bring to
[01:57:54] the table that maybe would attract them
[01:57:56] in, keep them around. You know what I'm
[01:57:58] saying?
[01:57:59] I understand.
[01:58:00] All right, fair enough. She like, uh,
[01:58:02] [ __ ] I don't care about none of that.
[01:58:03] [laughter] Um, we got uh she like, I
[01:58:07] don't care about none of that. She like,
[01:58:08] man, I'm still She like, "Man, I'mma
[01:58:10] still have these dudes in my DMs, and
[01:58:13] that ain't going to stop them at all."
[01:58:15] And you know what, uh, Shelby, you are
[01:58:17] right. They're going to be in there, but
[01:58:18] the guys that's going to be in there in
[01:58:20] your DMs is not going to be the guys uh
[01:58:23] that you truly want. Maybe you'll want
[01:58:24] them for short term, but generally
[01:58:26] speaking, you're not really going to
[01:58:27] take those guys serious for long term,
[01:58:29] or they'll only take you for short term
[01:58:31] and not for long term. So, that's
[01:58:34] usually what happened. Generally
[01:58:35] speaking, that's what happens. Uh, we
[01:58:37] got um I think this is Oh, yeah. We're
[01:58:40] here. Roosevelt uh sending in $20.
[01:58:43] Appreciate the support, man. He says,
[01:58:45] "In my opinion, one of the worst things
[01:58:47] to happen in America history was the
[01:58:50] ratification of the 19th amendment."
[01:58:52] this one again.
[01:58:53] I also believe that the rise of the
[01:58:55] LGBTQ plus movement has had a negative
[01:58:59] impact on society.
[01:59:02] I agree. Do you ladies agree with his
[01:59:05] statements?
[01:59:06] No.
[01:59:07] Okay. As far as you don't think that the
[01:59:09] LGBTQ plus movement had a negative
[01:59:12] impact on society?
[01:59:12] No.
[01:59:13] I think it saved a lot of lives.
[01:59:15] Okay. And um in what way? What do you
[01:59:18] mean? I mean, suicide rates of members
[01:59:22] of the LGBTQ community were much higher
[01:59:25] before
[01:59:26] like it became like not criminalized,
[01:59:30] for example.
[01:59:31] Right.
[01:59:32] Uh, no, actually in fact it was lower.
[01:59:34] Really?
[01:59:35] Yeah. Yep. So, when we're speaking about
[01:59:38] the LGBTQ plus community, that
[01:59:41] encompasses um the trance as well.
[01:59:44] Higher now than before.
[01:59:46] Yeah. It's is higher now because when uh
[01:59:49] men and women transition, especially
[01:59:51] when men transition, the suicide rate
[01:59:54] increases,
[01:59:55] but
[01:59:55] it doesn't decrease.
[01:59:57] So, but those things weren't always
[01:59:59] reported on back then because it wasn't
[02:00:01] okay, right? So, we wouldn't necessarily
[02:00:03] have
[02:00:04] Okay.
[02:00:05] Yeah. This these things were We still
[02:00:07] knew the crossdressers. We still knew
[02:00:09] that this guy was a trans. [laughter]
[02:00:12] Yeah.
[02:00:13] Okay. And people always would um you
[02:00:16] know especially so it the statistic
[02:00:18] shows that when they go through with the
[02:00:20] surgery and they like transition so like
[02:00:23] uh when those people go through the
[02:00:24] transition the probability increases for
[02:00:27] them to off themselves
[02:00:30] those things weren't necessarily
[02:00:32] available. So I understand what you why
[02:00:36] that opinion is. No, those things was
[02:00:38] available. Like men uh uh males back
[02:00:41] then could still get breast implants so
[02:00:44] they can still transition. They couldn't
[02:00:46] like get the wang tucked inside. Certain
[02:00:48] surgeries and procedures wasn't there
[02:00:50] yet. But even just the transitioning of,
[02:00:53] you know, taking the hormone blockers
[02:00:55] and more of the estrogen pills and stuff
[02:00:57] like that. Um that was definitely
[02:00:59] available back then.
[02:01:00] Okay. Well, I guess I don't know enough
[02:01:02] about this then.
[02:01:02] Okay.
[02:01:03] I don't know much about
[02:01:04] What about you? Yeah, I don't know much
[02:01:05] about it and I think what is it about if
[02:01:09] it helps society or
[02:01:10] so he said that um he also believes that
[02:01:13] uh the rise of the LGBTQ plus movement
[02:01:16] has had a negative impact on society. Do
[02:01:18] you agree with that?
[02:01:20] Sure. Negative, positive. Yeah, I don't
[02:01:22] know too much about my time.
[02:01:24] What about you, Grace? The only thing
[02:01:26] that I've seen is like the exposure to
[02:01:29] kids
[02:01:30] like in schools and like
[02:01:34] just you know parks anywhere where kids
[02:01:38] are
[02:01:39] and like especially in the bathroom
[02:01:41] thing. I don't know like kids just I
[02:01:43] don't think they should be seeing that.
[02:01:44] It's in movies. It is. That's true.
[02:01:46] Yeah. Or like and like even like YouTube
[02:01:48] kids like ads will pop up. I don't think
[02:01:51] that kids should be shown that.
[02:01:53] Valid. What's your uh take on kids
[02:01:56] seeing uh the gays?
[02:02:00] I feel like it's I feel like it's
[02:02:02] natural for them to see things that are
[02:02:05] happening organically
[02:02:07] that ain't happening organically. It was
[02:02:09] an an agenda behind it
[02:02:11] in the agenda purposes. That's one
[02:02:14] thing. But I think it is good that there
[02:02:16] are some examples because let's like
[02:02:18] honestly like there are two mothers in
[02:02:22] families, right? So it is nice for some
[02:02:24] children to have that representation.
[02:02:25] Now again it does depend on the agenda.
[02:02:28] Why like why do you think that's good to
[02:02:30] see uh
[02:02:31] two mothers? Let's just take with the
[02:02:33] two mothers since she used that example.
[02:02:35] Yeah. Why do you think that it's good
[02:02:36] for kids
[02:02:38] to see two mothers?
[02:02:40] I'm saying for the child that has two
[02:02:42] mothers.
[02:02:42] It's good for them to see two mothers.
[02:02:44] I'm saying that it can
[02:02:47] they can see their two mothers. They got
[02:02:48] two mothers. They need to see it.
[02:02:50] Correct. Most people in their classroom,
[02:02:51] their parents are probably a mother and
[02:02:52] a father, right?
[02:02:53] Well, yeah. What's wrong with that?
[02:02:55] Nothing's wrong with it.
[02:02:56] Yeah. So then I want to know what's good
[02:02:58] about that then.
[02:03:00] Representation.
[02:03:02] So representation itself is good.
[02:03:05] Yes.
[02:03:05] Okay. So let's say this
[02:03:06] organic representation
[02:03:07] my my uh hypothetically my grandmother
[02:03:10] has cancer.
[02:03:11] Okay.
[02:03:12] And should that be represented outward?
[02:03:14] So, should we not have a cure for
[02:03:16] cancer? Because I want other people I
[02:03:18] need to see it represented somewhere.
[02:03:20] So, I want another person's grandparent
[02:03:22] to have cancer. So, it's for
[02:03:24] representation.
[02:03:27] That's not the same.
[02:03:28] Uh, it is the same as far as
[02:03:29] representation.
[02:03:31] It is the same.
[02:03:32] Who have cancer will band together and
[02:03:34] say
[02:03:34] band together and represent
[02:03:36] each other. Grandmas that have cancer.
[02:03:38] Absolutely.
[02:03:38] No, no, no, no. No, no, no. You missed
[02:03:40] the analogy.
[02:03:41] We're asking why is it good? The reason
[02:03:45] you gave for good was solely
[02:03:47] organic representation.
[02:03:48] It was solely because of representation.
[02:03:51] Correct.
[02:03:52] Got it. Now, if it's just representation
[02:03:55] then and that's what makes it good, then
[02:03:58] any sort of representation would be
[02:04:00] good, which means that if my grandmother
[02:04:02] has cancer and if representation is good
[02:04:05] in order, it's good because I see other
[02:04:08] grandmothers have cancer. So that so
[02:04:10] then we shouldn't create a cure. We
[02:04:12] should have those other grandmothers
[02:04:15] keep has have them keep having cancer so
[02:04:18] that a representation it doesn't make
[02:04:21] any sense is what I'm saying.
[02:04:22] It it's it's illogical.
[02:04:24] It's for the grandmas that already have
[02:04:26] cancer and for the kids that already
[02:04:28] have two moms.
[02:04:29] No, no, no. Listen, listen. Ladies,
[02:04:31] ladies, that doesn't make it good. Just
[02:04:33] because something Look,
[02:04:36] I'm trying to bounce off of her.
[02:04:38] Listen, let me finish my sentence. If
[02:04:40] it's the case that the good equals
[02:04:43] representation, then this would be
[02:04:45] anything that's representation. It would
[02:04:47] be, well, oh, my mom got hit by a car.
[02:04:51] Now she's in a wheelchair. You know
[02:04:52] what?
[02:04:53] So, yes, a mother in a wheelchair on a
[02:04:56] see other women and other mothers that's
[02:04:58] in a wheelchair
[02:04:58] that have went through the same thing.
[02:05:00] That's stupid. That does that make no
[02:05:03] listen listen. Stop it. That No, no.
[02:05:05] What what I'm saying is that isn't
[02:05:07] anything that's conducive to the good.
[02:05:11] This would just be a side effect of
[02:05:12] something. This it's an effect of
[02:05:14] something and that effect is doesn't
[02:05:16] make it good. Just because it's
[02:05:18] representation does not make it good.
[02:05:21] But it's conducive for you. It's
[02:05:23] conducive for them though.
[02:05:24] No, it's not good at all. If the good is
[02:05:27] representation, this means that bad
[02:05:29] things would be good.
[02:05:31] Stop it. Listen, ladies. I want you.
[02:05:33] Stop it. Listen,
[02:05:36] let me No, no, let me land my plane. If
[02:05:39] good equals representation,
[02:05:42] then anything that's represented is
[02:05:44] good. Even if it's harmful, if it's bad,
[02:05:48] it would still be good in return. It
[02:05:49] would still equal good because well,
[02:05:51] this bad can be good. Can be
[02:05:54] this bad thing happened to me for me,
[02:05:57] it's not good for him.
[02:05:58] It need to be represented. someone else
[02:06:01] needs to go through the same thing and
[02:06:03] that's what makes it good. That's
[02:06:04] nonsensical. It makes no sense at all.
[02:06:06] Look, first of all, um
[02:06:08] it's dumb. It's incoherent.
[02:06:10] LGBTQ things that are shown via media is
[02:06:13] not organically. It's all forced and
[02:06:15] pushed. Growing up, me and [ __ ] were
[02:06:17] younger.
[02:06:18] We didn't we didn't I didn't know what
[02:06:20] homosexuality was when I was a kid. At 5
[02:06:23] years old, kids know what gays are.
[02:06:25] Like, they know what that is. And why
[02:06:26] should kids know what that is? Like, so
[02:06:29] why is it okay to see two kid to see?
[02:06:32] Because of representation. E, you
[02:06:34] missing the point. Listen, it's this
[02:06:35] simple, ease. So, what I'm saying, what
[02:06:37] I'm trying to illustrate it here is we
[02:06:39] have to peel the layer back to what is
[02:06:41] actually good. She said good is
[02:06:44] representation
[02:06:45] organically. Don't forget the organic.
[02:06:46] No, it doesn't matter. It just is
[02:06:48] representation. Okay? Right? So if it's
[02:06:50] representation good is well if I'm going
[02:06:53] through something then I need to see
[02:06:56] other people go through it. Oh I get
[02:06:58] even if it's bad cool I guess. So if I
[02:07:00] cut myself right
[02:07:02] other people need to cut themselves.
[02:07:03] They need to see that.
[02:07:04] Yeah they need to see it.
[02:07:04] So that's good.
[02:07:05] Yeah it's good.
[02:07:06] I get it.
[02:07:06] You get it?
[02:07:07] Which means that it's dumb. [laughter]
[02:07:09] This is stupid.
[02:07:11] No but I want to get back to that. So
[02:07:12] why is it I want in your opinion. So, is
[02:07:15] it okay for your kids to watch any TV
[02:07:18] show or cartoon that has a
[02:07:20] representation of LGBTQ plus community?
[02:07:23] Fluid sexuality.
[02:07:24] Is that is that okay?
[02:07:25] I'm not going to let my children watch
[02:07:27] Wait, hold on one more time.
[02:07:28] Would you let your children watch a show
[02:07:30] that has like gay people in it?
[02:07:31] Yeah.
[02:07:33] Well, no, no, no, no, no. Because we
[02:07:35] won't know if they're gay cuz No. And
[02:07:36] there's a cartoon that shows two boys
[02:07:38] kissing.
[02:07:38] I got something better. You smoke,
[02:07:41] right?
[02:07:43] I know what you're about to get at, but
[02:07:45] what [laughter]
[02:07:47] I wanted to ask. Okay, go ahead. What I
[02:07:49] wanted to What I wanted because you have
[02:07:51] kids. You have three.
[02:07:52] Yes.
[02:07:53] So, are you okay with your kids seeing
[02:07:56] uh uh people performing gay activities?
[02:08:00] I'm not talking about sex, but like
[02:08:01] kissing, like guys kissing guys or girls
[02:08:03] kissing girls on cartoon on cartoon
[02:08:06] shows or or child TV shows or stuff
[02:08:10] exposing girls and boys kissing because
[02:08:12] if kids are kissing in general, my kids
[02:08:14] aren't going to be watching them like is
[02:08:15] what I don't understand.
[02:08:18] Okay, so she rejected she rejected what
[02:08:20] you said.
[02:08:22] But you would say yes to that.
[02:08:23] Okay, look, bro. If teenagers, they're
[02:08:26] watching Disney Channel high school.
[02:08:28] Okay, let them have it. Then we'll have
[02:08:29] it after this.
[02:08:31] Cartoons like kids shows shouldn't show
[02:08:34] any kind of
[02:08:35] correct. They shouldn't show any of
[02:08:36] that.
[02:08:37] But you said that it's okay for kids to
[02:08:39] see LGBTQ representation organically.
[02:08:42] And I'm disagreeing with you. Okay.
[02:08:44] I'm saying kids should not be seeing two
[02:08:46] women kissing or two guys kissing at
[02:08:48] five effing years old. That's what I'm
[02:08:50] saying.
[02:08:50] I didn't say they need to be seen
[02:08:51] kissing. Correct. I said that they can
[02:08:53] be seen and it's important that they are
[02:08:55] seen.
[02:08:56] So, so you're So, no, I'm not talking
[02:08:59] about Okay.
[02:08:59] Like seen as a couple, not seen doing
[02:09:01] the sexual act. Correct. Like seen maybe
[02:09:03] holding hands or something.
[02:09:04] Absolutely.
[02:09:05] Okay. So, that's what she's saying.
[02:09:06] That's different.
[02:09:07] No, that ain't different. That's still
[02:09:09] evil. That's just as evil. [laughter]
[02:09:10] Yeah. Just as just as an abomination.
[02:09:13] Okay. Because there are cartoons where
[02:09:17] homosexuality is being uh shown. I'm not
[02:09:20] talking like very I'm just talking about
[02:09:21] like two guys holding hands or two guys
[02:09:23] kissing. Like I disagree with that. Are
[02:09:26] you okay with your kids watching
[02:09:28] cartoons where two little boys are
[02:09:30] kissing or two little girls kissing?
[02:09:32] I'm still turned off by this whole why
[02:09:34] is anybody kissing in a cartoon?
[02:09:36] So you're agreeing with me then?
[02:09:38] I'm agreeing that there should not be
[02:09:39] kissing of any sort in a cartoon.
[02:09:41] All right. Only show that I will say
[02:09:44] that I have seen that is gives that it's
[02:09:47] like it's promoted for kids but it's an
[02:09:49] adult show is Big Mouth and it is and it
[02:09:52] is talking and it does talk sexually. It
[02:09:54] brings up sexuality. It brings up even
[02:09:57] male Yeah. It's like it's an animated
[02:09:59] It's not a kid show. It is not at all.
[02:10:01] Um it's on Netflix but it's an animated
[02:10:04] and it they dress up in a costume and
[02:10:05] they have hormone monsters. So it's like
[02:10:07] when when a teen Yep. When a pre-teen
[02:10:09] Yep. It's like the hor cartoon is this
[02:10:12] big mouth.
[02:10:12] Good. Uh, everybody banned Big Mouth.
[02:10:15] [laughter]
[02:10:15] No, that's the thing. Adults will watch
[02:10:17] it because they get it. But anyways,
[02:10:18] it's pre-teens hitting puberty and so,
[02:10:21] you know, the boys, they're going
[02:10:22] through their [ __ ] and the the girls are
[02:10:24] going through theirs and so it's there,
[02:10:26] but kids don't need to be watching that.
[02:10:28] It's very explicit. It is. I get, okay,
[02:10:32] you want people to understand the terms
[02:10:34] maybe or kids to understand the terms
[02:10:36] and the love. I get it. But no, we don't
[02:10:38] need to be seeing the ins and outs.
[02:10:40] Hugging, kissing, two men, two women.
[02:10:43] No. At early ages, animated shows or
[02:10:45] Disney chant, whatever. None of that.
[02:10:47] No, there are animated movies that get
[02:10:50] into that and they do throw that stuff
[02:10:52] in there slightly. And that's where kids
[02:10:54] start asking questions. They're like,
[02:10:56] "Mom, why they kissing?"
[02:10:57] Yeah. And also, just to uh end this
[02:10:59] topic real quick, or unless we can keep
[02:11:01] it on, we can keep it going. Um but when
[02:11:03] it comes to the super chat, he says he
[02:11:05] says he also wants um the rise of the
[02:11:08] LGBTQ plus movement um to be basically
[02:11:11] he thinks that it's negative. It's a
[02:11:13] negative impact on society. I also think
[02:11:15] that it's a negative impact on society
[02:11:17] because it's a perversion. It's not
[02:11:19] something that's it's not a behavior
[02:11:23] that's natural to human beings. Now you
[02:11:26] can say that well we find it in the
[02:11:27] animal community. Well are we animals?
[02:11:29] No we're not animals.
[02:11:30] We're mammals. We're different than
[02:11:32] animals. Uh we're more conscientious
[02:11:34] beings than animals. We're sentient
[02:11:36] beings. Animals are not human.
[02:11:39] Animals are not human beings and and
[02:11:41] conscientious beings like we are.
[02:11:44] Furthermore, um it's just degenerate
[02:11:47] behavior and it it's uh it's a
[02:11:49] reproductive dead end. Also, um
[02:11:51] currently our birth rate is below
[02:11:53] replacement level. Uh we don't want to
[02:11:56] promote uh two males and two women
[02:11:58] having sex together because that's not
[02:12:00] going to help out with our birth rate.
[02:12:02] Uh so we need heterosexual
[02:12:04] relationships. Um and yeah, it's just
[02:12:08] not anything good. We got uh Melinda G
[02:12:10] sending in uh two. She says, "Why do
[02:12:13] they always bring up exceptions?"
[02:12:15] Melinda, I don't know. We got KB Maul
[02:12:17] sending in five. He says uh BTW as far
[02:12:21] as DV is concerned currently from
[02:12:25] reports 24% of couples deal with
[02:12:27] domestic violence and of that 70% of the
[02:12:31] time the women is the aggressor.
[02:12:34] Just saying that is true.
[02:12:35] That's statistical facts for that ass.
[02:12:38] That's a that is a statistical fact.
[02:12:40] That is true.
[02:12:42] This is why I don't mess with women.
[02:12:44] We got um Melinda G in five. She says,
[02:12:47] "Just so you ladies know 99% of all
[02:12:49] abortions are not due to medical issues
[02:12:53] slashgrainccest. [snorts]
[02:12:55] So what you do think the re So what do
[02:12:57] you think the reason are for 99% of
[02:13:00] abortions? It's because of how women
[02:13:02] fail." U we got yo ling in $5. He says,
[02:13:05] "If I was to be the president, IQ tests
[02:13:09] would be mandatory." Uh he get one too.
[02:13:11] If you score below 80% you return to uh
[02:13:16] cotton return to the cotton field for
[02:13:19] the hard physical labor. These women are
[02:13:22] obtuse.
[02:13:23] What in the juice
[02:13:25] during Black History Month?
[02:13:26] We got We got East Side Larry.
[02:13:28] It's Is it It's It's not.
[02:13:29] Yeah, I was about to say it's the gay
[02:13:31] month now,
[02:13:31] right? But yeah,
[02:13:34] man. Listen, we got Eastside Larry. He
[02:13:36] sends in five. He says, "Besides sex,
[02:13:39] what do you have to offer to a high
[02:13:41] value man that is protecting and
[02:13:44] providing for you and yours? Cooly
[02:13:47] define high value."
[02:13:48] Oo,
[02:13:49] we kind of answered that like we did.
[02:13:50] Yeah, we Yeah, we kind of went through
[02:13:52] that with that.
[02:13:53] Yeah, we kind of went through that as
[02:13:54] differently.
[02:13:55] I appreciate the support though. Ei
[02:13:56] Larry U. We got Wicked Kid Dream sending
[02:13:58] in five. He says, "You're 34 and you
[02:14:01] look like you are 41. You are
[02:14:03] recreational use only at this point and
[02:14:06] should learn about force doctrine and
[02:14:09] come back to reality. What's your
[02:14:12] thoughts on that?
[02:14:12] What's force doctrine?
[02:14:15] Okay. Uh I guess I could um so force
[02:14:18] doctrine is a description of reality. So
[02:14:22] uh it simply means that when we think
[02:14:24] about rights,
[02:14:26] rights is a construction of the mind.
[02:14:31] Like all the rights that we have is just
[02:14:33] something that we agree on. We write it
[02:14:35] on a piece of paper. So it's an idea.
[02:14:36] It's a construction of the mind. And in
[02:14:39] order to actually have a right, this
[02:14:42] right needs to be enforced. And what is
[02:14:46] enforcement? Enforcement is violence.
[02:14:50] Well, if you write something on a piece
[02:14:52] of paper, is it truly a right? If
[02:14:55] someone tries to then infringe on your
[02:14:57] right, well, you need to protect
[02:14:58] yourself. Mhm.
[02:14:59] So all rights are reduced down to force
[02:15:02] and men have the monopoly on force
[02:15:04] because we are physically stronger than
[02:15:06] women. So since rights equals force and
[02:15:09] men have the monopoly on force all the
[02:15:11] rights that women have and also men have
[02:15:13] are all granted and given by men a
[02:15:17] collection of men. And the reverse is
[02:15:21] well women can't enforce any rights for
[02:15:23] themselves. So they always have to rely
[02:15:26] on men to enforce rights for them. Which
[02:15:28] means that women should be thankful uh
[02:15:31] to the benevolent men that's giving them
[02:15:32] rights.
[02:15:33] Oh,
[02:15:34] because you don't actually have to have
[02:15:35] a right. Like grape could be legal. I'm
[02:15:39] putting a G in front of it so you
[02:15:41] understand. So grape could be legal. And
[02:15:42] the reason why it's illegal is because
[02:15:44] men are benevolent. We love our
[02:15:46] daughters. We love our mothers, our
[02:15:47] aunties, and we want to protect them
[02:15:49] from bad people. So this is why we put
[02:15:51] consequences on said bad behavior.
[02:15:54] So force doctrine is rights equals
[02:15:57] force.
[02:15:57] So what was his question?
[02:15:59] It wasn't a question. It was a
[02:16:01] statement. He said uh he said uh Shelby,
[02:16:03] you 34 but you look 41.
[02:16:05] Okay. That's what [laughter]
[02:16:07] I have three kids.
[02:16:08] Um shoot.
[02:16:09] We got uh Melinda G. Welcome to the gang
[02:16:13] for 13 months. Melinda G. I appreciate
[02:16:16] you. And this is a woman. She became a
[02:16:18] member for 13 months. She says it's been
[02:16:20] over a year already. Shout outs to
[02:16:22] [ __ ] and Eise and the chat crew.
[02:16:24] Shouts out to you, Melinda G. We got
[02:16:26] your boy Lame sending in $2. He says
[02:16:28] Kevin Samu said it. Women have terrible
[02:16:30] picks. Uh we got um John Ruck sending in
[02:16:34] two. He says women read Oult feminis
[02:16:36] ault feminism by Rachel Wilson today.
[02:16:40] Okay. All right. Um All right, ladies.
[02:16:43] Uh D. We didn't even get to the clips or
[02:16:46] anything. Let's get in one clip. Let's
[02:16:48] get in one clip. One clip
[02:16:49] and then we
[02:16:50] Let's get in one clip. Go to uh that
[02:16:52] one.
[02:16:54] Oh, we got clips.
[02:16:56] Go ahead and share it. Other one then.
[02:16:59] Yeah. Yeah, it's right there right here.
[02:17:02] I'm just trying to make sure this is
[02:17:03] you got a note. Go over that one
[02:17:05] and then put the camera on uh
[02:17:07] this side.
[02:17:10] I picked it.
[02:17:12] You got to wait.
[02:17:19] There we go. All right. Go ahead and
[02:17:20] play that.
[02:17:22] These [ __ ] really be thinking they the
[02:17:24] [ __ ] prize. I'm sitting at home
[02:17:25] drinking, doing my homework and [ __ ]
[02:17:27] And this [ __ ] was supposed to pull up
[02:17:28] and drink with me, right? This
[02:17:30] [ __ ] going to say, "Hey, I'm
[02:17:32] leaving the gym late. Do you want to
[02:17:34] reschedule?" I said, "Bitch, I will
[02:17:36] block the [ __ ] out of you before you
[02:17:38] think that you going to ever text my
[02:17:40] phone and ask me to reschedule like you
[02:17:42] somebody [ __ ] special, [ __ ]
[02:17:44] Like, I can't pull up to the next [ __ ]
[02:17:46] house or I can't call the next [ __ ] to
[02:17:47] pull up because you can't." [ __ ] don't
[02:17:48] ever text my [ __ ] phone talking
[02:17:50] about some rescheduled [ __ ] You not
[02:17:51] nobody.
[02:17:53] Okay, stop sharing with
[02:17:54] that [clears throat] dumb ass [ __ ]
[02:17:56] [ __ ]
[02:17:57] Dan, stop. Just hit stop sharing, Dan.
[02:17:59] Stop sharing
[02:18:00] right there. Okay. All right, ladies.
[02:18:02] Uh, let's go around. Let me go ahead and
[02:18:03] get your perspective on that clip. Uh,
[02:18:06] basically what you heard there, she was
[02:18:08] upset because a dude that she was
[02:18:10] supposed to link with, he ends up
[02:18:11] rescheduling and she basically said that
[02:18:14] no, she kicked him to the curve and
[02:18:16] she's going to go ahead and um, you
[02:18:18] know, schedule another guy as a
[02:18:20] replacement because he uh, dubbed her.
[02:18:22] So, first, let me get your opinion and
[02:18:24] then the second question around this is,
[02:18:26] have you ever done that before?
[02:18:29] Let's go with uh, you
[02:18:32] uh, my opinion
[02:18:33] on a video. Do you agree with her?
[02:18:35] Yeah. Yeah. Um, no.
[02:18:37] Oh, okay.
[02:18:38] Yeah. No. And and if you remember you
[02:18:41] was using that word bum earlier.
[02:18:42] If I had to describe anything, that gave
[02:18:45] very big bum energy.
[02:18:47] Yeah. That was not cute.
[02:18:50] So, no, I don't agree with the video.
[02:18:51] And then what was your second question?
[02:18:52] Then a question on the topic of what
[02:18:55] she's speaking about is um did you ever
[02:18:57] have a guy that you know wanted to
[02:18:59] reschedule with? He canceled and he said
[02:19:01] he wanted to reschedule.
[02:19:02] Um uh yes, I have. And
[02:19:05] were you upset?
[02:19:06] You communicated. Nope. You
[02:19:07] communicated. We're good.
[02:19:08] And did you then chill with him again?
[02:19:10] Yeah. If we
[02:19:11] Do you normally like give him another
[02:19:12] chance?
[02:19:12] Yeah. Yeah. If it all went smooth like
[02:19:15] that, if he commun exactly how she said
[02:19:16] it, you know, and he said it
[02:19:18] respectfully and we continued, planned
[02:19:21] another date. Sure.
[02:19:22] The second question on this, when he
[02:19:24] canled and rescheduled, did you have a
[02:19:26] backup plan?
[02:19:28] Did you ever have a backup plan ever?
[02:19:29] Not for No, not for the same night. Ew.
[02:19:31] No.
[02:19:32] Okay. And uh let's go with uh you. Let
[02:19:34] me get your thoughts on the video.
[02:19:36] I mean, I would never act like that. I
[02:19:39] don't agree with that.
[02:19:40] Okay. And then in regards to did you
[02:19:42] ever have a guy cancel on you and want
[02:19:43] to reschedule?
[02:19:44] I have. And yeah, I would.
[02:19:46] You would. You had no issue with it?
[02:19:48] No. Yeah, I don't care.
[02:19:49] Okay. Uh did you ever have a backup
[02:19:51] plan? Um,
[02:19:54] meaning like beforehand if he reschedled
[02:19:56] or like like he canceled on you, but you
[02:19:59] had another guy that wanted to chill, so
[02:20:01] you went ahead and chill with the other
[02:20:02] guy.
[02:20:04] Um,
[02:20:07] but like got back friends, bro.
[02:20:09] [laughter]
[02:20:10] Like before like
[02:20:12] No, no. So, look, he was y'all was
[02:20:14] supposed to hang out.
[02:20:15] Okay.
[02:20:15] Right.
[02:20:16] Friday.
[02:20:16] On a Friday. But I'm saying like in my
[02:20:19] mind I'll let you know later have like
[02:20:21] if he cancel I'm going to go see this
[02:20:23] one like
[02:20:23] Yeah. Yeah. Like in your Okay. But but
[02:20:26] in your mind you didn't have a backup
[02:20:28] plan.
[02:20:29] But when
[02:20:30] But have I seen someone else the same
[02:20:32] night?
[02:20:32] Yeah.
[02:20:33] Instead. Yeah.
[02:20:34] Okay. Fair enough. All right.
[02:20:36] But like not
[02:20:37] I got to get my [ __ ] a pre-planned. It
[02:20:39] was kind of more like a backup plan.
[02:20:41] No. [laughter]
[02:20:42] Exactly.
[02:20:44] It was a backup plan. Listen, if you if
[02:20:47] if the dude canceled on you and then you
[02:20:48] chilled with another guy the same night,
[02:20:50] that's a backup plan.
[02:20:51] No, no, no, no. Because if I
[02:20:52] wasn't It's not a premeditated backup
[02:20:54] plan because all
[02:20:55] not premeditated.
[02:20:56] That's what she trying to say. It wasn't
[02:20:57] premeditated. But she knows she know
[02:20:58] every girl knows a guy that's willing to
[02:21:00] hang out with them right then and there.
[02:21:01] If I'm already ready and ready to go
[02:21:03] out, even if it's not wasting that
[02:21:06] makeup,
[02:21:06] it doesn't mean I'm going to have sex
[02:21:08] with this person.
[02:21:08] We not talking about sex, but just
[02:21:10] talking about somebody else. Yes.
[02:21:12] Yeah. Yeah. Okay. Okay.
[02:21:14] Yeah. Sex. We not talking about sex or
[02:21:15] anything. We're just talking about like
[02:21:17] you chill with the next guy.
[02:21:18] Yes.
[02:21:19] Okay. What about you? What's your
[02:21:20] thoughts on the video?
[02:21:23] I thought that was rude.
[02:21:26] Yeah. My thing is long as long as it's
[02:21:28] not consistent, it's not a problem. But
[02:21:29] if it's like if you make plans with me
[02:21:32] three times in a row and every time it's
[02:21:34] like, "Oh, something came up. Let's
[02:21:35] reschedule." Then that's consistency.
[02:21:37] Makes sense. And then have you've ever
[02:21:40] made plans? Um, well, has a guy ever
[02:21:43] canceled on you and then you had a
[02:21:44] backup plan?
[02:21:45] Yes, I've been cancelled on and
[02:21:47] and had a backup plan.
[02:21:48] It's usually my brother like
[02:21:50] No, but a backup plan [laughter] of
[02:21:52] another guy.
[02:21:52] Oh, I
[02:21:55] incest. I knew you was from a I knew you
[02:21:57] was from a cult, [laughter]
[02:22:01] right? Remember
[02:22:03] how
[02:22:04] but for you to think of your brother
[02:22:06] first that was that was a little crazy
[02:22:09] because like
[02:22:10] like another guy Shelby
[02:22:13] really I I have like one at a time. I I
[02:22:16] get distracted easy.
[02:22:18] I don't get [ __ ]
[02:22:20] I one at a time.
[02:22:21] Is your dad and mom brothers and sister?
[02:22:23] No.
[02:22:23] You look like an incest baby.
[02:22:25] Yo [laughter] I'm screaming
[02:22:27] screaming.
[02:22:28] It's a joke.
[02:22:29] Don't mess with Shelby. It's a joke,
[02:22:32] Shelby. It's a joke. [laughter] Okay,
[02:22:35] ladies. Um, all right. We got some chats
[02:22:37] that just came in real quick. We got uh
[02:22:38] Oh, your boy Lame send in, too. He says,
[02:22:40] "Of course, Blondie doesn't think."
[02:22:43] Not a surprise,
[02:22:45] right?
[02:22:46] I good.
[02:22:48] Got to keep them.
[02:22:49] It's natural.
[02:22:50] It's natural.
[02:22:50] Fair enough. Uh, how long we've been
[02:22:52] gone for? 220. Okay, ladies. Let's do
[02:22:55] last. This is a part of the podcast
[02:22:57] where You know what? Do we got time for
[02:22:59] one more clip? Y want to do one more?
[02:23:01] You got one more?
[02:23:02] One more clip.
[02:23:03] One more. Let's go to the next one. Dan,
[02:23:06] that was a quick one.
[02:23:08] Last one, then we do last thoughts.
[02:23:17] Remember to click on the video so it
[02:23:19] doesn't play.
[02:23:20] Now unmute it.
[02:23:22] I got it.
[02:23:22] Got you.
[02:23:36] Good.
[02:23:38] And then go back up. Yep. No, you got to
[02:23:40] unmute it first at the bottom right.
[02:23:44] I don't care what nobody says. If the
[02:23:45] mother has to go no contact with the
[02:23:47] child's father, it says more about him
[02:23:49] than it does her. Cuz what kind of good
[02:23:50] mother is sitting there cutting off a
[02:23:52] person that they need as important as
[02:23:54] the child's father? If the father was
[02:23:56] doing their part, then it would be hard
[02:23:58] hard to cut them off. If he played a
[02:24:00] significant role in the child's life, it
[02:24:02] would be so extremely hard to not talk
[02:24:04] to them, not conversate with them,
[02:24:05] especially if they were getting money.
[02:24:07] Oh, yeah. Why would a woman cut that
[02:24:08] off? A woman ain't cutting off no type
[02:24:10] of man that she getting money from. So,
[02:24:12] if that woman cut off the contact of her
[02:24:13] child's father, it was for a good
[02:24:15] reason. It's cuz he ain't doing nothing.
[02:24:17] It's cuz he's taking up space. It's cuz
[02:24:18] he's asking her the wrong questions
[02:24:20] about what man she's with instead of the
[02:24:21] child. It's cuz every time she asks the
[02:24:23] child's father for some money, he brings
[02:24:24] up other things. He wants to make it
[02:24:26] seem like that she's using him for money
[02:24:28] even though she has more emotion. She's
[02:24:29] the one taking care of the child. It'd
[02:24:31] be the gaslight and reverse psychology
[02:24:33] to me. They always want to make it seem
[02:24:34] like mothers are complaining about doing
[02:24:36] everything alone. No, the ones
[02:24:38] complaining is you. You have more to say
[02:24:40] about taking care of your child and
[02:24:41] you're not even doing for her. That's
[02:24:43] more a complaint to me. Regardless,
[02:24:45] complaining or not, it holds no value
[02:24:47] over the parent that's doing something
[02:24:49] versus the parent that's not. So, if the
[02:24:51] mother cuts off the contact of the
[02:24:52] child's father, it's because she's
[02:24:54] better without it. Hello.
[02:24:57] [laughter]
[02:24:59] Okay. Uh, all right, ladies. Um, let me
[02:25:02] go ahead and get you ladies perspective
[02:25:04] on that clip. Now, who in here has kids?
[02:25:06] I think only you, Shelby. Right.
[02:25:08] Yep.
[02:25:08] Okay. Let's start with you, uh, first,
[02:25:10] then we'll go around. Um, so what's your
[02:25:12] thoughts on that clip?
[02:25:13] I agree.
[02:25:15] Okay, you agree. So, you agree that the
[02:25:17] mother should cut off total contact with
[02:25:20] the father
[02:25:23] cuz that's what she said. The mother
[02:25:24] would cut off she said that she should
[02:25:26] cut off contact with the father if the
[02:25:27] father um
[02:25:29] uh isn't you know doing what he needs to
[02:25:31] do.
[02:25:32] No, no, she was saying that um she was
[02:25:34] saying that uh if a woman cuts off the
[02:25:36] baby dad, it's not for a reason. It's
[02:25:37] it's probably because he wasn't doing
[02:25:39] whatever it is.
[02:25:40] That's literally what I just said. He's
[02:25:42] that's not what you said. Wait,
[02:25:45] you
[02:25:45] she literally she It's the same thing.
[02:25:48] What is the same thing? [laughter]
[02:25:50] It was the same.
[02:25:51] Yeah,
[02:25:51] it was the same thing.
[02:25:52] Yes. If a woman has to go no contact
[02:25:55] with a man for a reason. It's for a
[02:25:57] reason.
[02:25:58] Got it.
[02:25:59] If especially a baby dad, like there is
[02:26:01] a reason. Okay. Got it. So, you're
[02:26:02] saying that it's a reason.
[02:26:04] You think that that's okay?
[02:26:06] She didn't say the reason though. She
[02:26:07] didn't say the reason
[02:26:09] in the video. That's pretty much what I
[02:26:10] was getting at. She doesn't.
[02:26:11] Okay. Well, she did kind of say the
[02:26:12] reason though a little bit. A little
[02:26:14] bit. She did. She alluded to her
[02:26:17] responsibilities. He's not even asking
[02:26:18] about the kids. She said he's asking
[02:26:20] about what date I went on when she's
[02:26:22] home with the kids.
[02:26:24] So, meaning that the man isn't really
[02:26:26] uh, you know, taking care of the kids.
[02:26:28] He's more worried about, you know, what
[02:26:29] she's doing and stuff like that.
[02:26:30] Correct. Control.
[02:26:32] Play the video again.
[02:26:34] Bro, we that that's what she said. She
[02:26:36] Yeah.
[02:26:36] Yeah. She was just I'm trying to tell
[02:26:38] you what she was she was saying that
[02:26:42] it's a good reason for a mother to cut
[02:26:47] off ties with the father if he isn't
[02:26:50] doing certain things. Exactly. And it
[02:26:52] isn't her fault. It would be his fault
[02:26:56] to why she cut him off.
[02:26:58] Correct.
[02:26:59] So she was distributing the
[02:27:02] accountability to him, not to her.
[02:27:05] [laughter]
[02:27:06] M
[02:27:08] yeah, that's what she did. She didn't
[02:27:09] want to take accountability.
[02:27:10] That's I heard some
[02:27:12] for her leaving her. No, she This clip
[02:27:14] was about a woman not wanting to take
[02:27:16] accountability because uh of her
[02:27:20] choices.
[02:27:21] Yes. I don't think it is good. I don't
[02:27:23] think it is good. She She said at the
[02:27:25] end there, she said it's easier uh with
[02:27:29] no contact than it is with contact. Like
[02:27:31] she said,
[02:27:32] my my baby dad doesn't take care of his
[02:27:35] kids. It's like you spend the time with
[02:27:36] your kids. If we're not together, you
[02:27:37] don't need to worry about me.
[02:27:39] But is that good for the kids?
[02:27:42] I don't think so.
[02:27:44] Okay. So then So then what she So then
[02:27:46] what she said is that good.
[02:27:50] I don't think we could play it again.
[02:27:51] No.
[02:27:51] Yeah. I think it agreeing.
[02:27:53] No, no, no. So the thing because the
[02:27:55] thing
[02:27:55] Play it one more time real quick.
[02:27:57] It's a simple question.
[02:27:58] Just play it again. Just play it again.
[02:28:00] You shouldn't go no contact with your
[02:28:01] baby father.
[02:28:02] There's reasons.
[02:28:05] And I understand it, but that it's not a
[02:28:08] good thing.
[02:28:11] Just let let her listen to it again.
[02:28:14] Put it up for the audience or just
[02:28:16] No, no, no. Put it up for the audience.
[02:28:17] They need to see it.
[02:28:18] Share it.
[02:28:30] It's going to switch. Yeah.
[02:28:34] If the mother has to go no contact with
[02:28:36] the child's father, it says more about
[02:28:38] him than it does her. Cuz what kind of
[02:28:39] good mother is sitting there cutting off
[02:28:41] a person that they need as important as
[02:28:44] the child's father? If the father was
[02:28:45] doing their part, then it would be hard
[02:28:47] hard to cut them off. If he played a
[02:28:50] significant role in the child's life, it
[02:28:51] would be so extremely hard to not talk
[02:28:53] to them, not conversate with them,
[02:28:55] especially if they were giving money. Oh
[02:28:56] yeah. Why would a woman cut that off? A
[02:28:58] woman ain't cutting off no type of man
[02:29:00] that she getting money from. So, if that
[02:29:01] woman cut off the contact of her child's
[02:29:03] father, it was for a good reason. It's
[02:29:04] cuz he ain't doing nothing. It's cuz
[02:29:06] he's taking up space. It's cuz he's
[02:29:08] asking her the wrong questions about
[02:29:09] what man she's with instead of the
[02:29:11] child. It's cuz every time she asked the
[02:29:12] child's father for some money, he brings
[02:29:14] up other things. He wants to make it
[02:29:15] seem like that she's using him for
[02:29:16] money. Even though she has more emotion,
[02:29:18] she's the one taking care of the child.
[02:29:20] It tend to be the gaslight and reverse
[02:29:21] psychology to me. They always want to
[02:29:23] make it seem like mothers are
[02:29:24] complaining about doing everything
[02:29:25] alone. No, the ones complaining is you.
[02:29:28] You have more to say about taking care
[02:29:30] of your child and you're not even doing
[02:29:31] for her. That's more a complaint to me.
[02:29:34] Regardless, complaining or not, it holds
[02:29:35] no value over the parent that's doing
[02:29:37] something versus the parent that's not.
[02:29:40] So, if the mother cuts off the contact
[02:29:41] of the child's father, it's because
[02:29:43] she's better without it. Hello.
[02:29:46] I don't.
[02:29:47] All right. Got it.
[02:29:48] So, now since we watched it again,
[02:29:50] Shelby,
[02:29:52] um, now do you agree with what she said?
[02:29:54] Yes.
[02:29:55] Okay. Now going no contact says more
[02:29:59] about the father than the mother. Do you
[02:30:01] agree with that? So if the if the if the
[02:30:04] woman has to go no contact with the
[02:30:06] father, does that say more about the
[02:30:09] father or more about the mother?
[02:30:15] It's tricky.
[02:30:16] Okay. because it can go both ways
[02:30:18] because what is she willing to put up
[02:30:20] with for her sanity and for this right
[02:30:22] and or for her safety and her kids
[02:30:25] safety and wellbeing and it could also
[02:30:26] go for what has he done to push her to
[02:30:28] that point like so
[02:30:31] from that perspective
[02:30:34] of she's saying the from what I
[02:30:36] understand
[02:30:37] the dad's not around
[02:30:39] well right well could the m could the
[02:30:42] woman get pregnant if she didn't sleep
[02:30:44] with the with the
[02:30:46] Yes.
[02:30:47] No. How can she get pregnant if she
[02:30:49] didn't sleep with the men?
[02:30:50] They have they have centers for that.
[02:30:53] No, she wouldn't. [laughter] She's
[02:30:55] always talking about some exception to
[02:30:57] the rule. Oh, there's a center for you
[02:30:58] don't have to have sex. You can just get
[02:31:00] the semen and you know and plant it into
[02:31:02] your eggs. What I'm saying is uh women
[02:31:05] that
[02:31:06] women grant access to sex. So, a man
[02:31:08] can't have sex. A a baby doesn't come
[02:31:11] about unless you know the woman grants
[02:31:14] access to sex. And also women hold all
[02:31:16] of the reproductive rights in America.
[02:31:17] So women are the ones why they have
[02:31:20] children in America,
[02:31:23] right?
[02:31:23] So mothers make themselves. So if she's
[02:31:27] putting all of the accountability on the
[02:31:29] father and saying that, well, if I have
[02:31:31] to go no contact with the father, it
[02:31:34] says more about him than it says about
[02:31:36] me. My thing is, no. I think that it
[02:31:39] says more about the mother because she
[02:31:41] chose to have sex with that man and she
[02:31:43] chose wrong. So even if it's the case
[02:31:45] that the dude is a douchebag, well, she
[02:31:47] chose to do the most ultimate form of
[02:31:49] submission, which is having sex with a
[02:31:51] man to that douchebag. So that says more
[02:31:53] about her than the man.
[02:31:55] Did you know it takes about 6 months for
[02:31:57] a man to show his true colors?
[02:32:01] Where did you get this statistic from?
[02:32:04] You just made it up.
[02:32:05] Yo,
[02:32:07] she been making stuff up the entire
[02:32:08] show.
[02:32:09] Yo, Shelby just [laughter]
[02:32:11] Shelby has been saying stuff and
[02:32:12] joining. Where did you make this up
[02:32:14] from?
[02:32:14] Can I answer the clip? Cuz it's a hard
[02:32:16] one. Honestly,
[02:32:17] we can go.
[02:32:18] If you think about
[02:32:19] Go ahead. Yeah.
[02:32:19] If you think about it, okay, sure. Yes,
[02:32:22] it is a good thing to choose what is
[02:32:25] best for the kids in that situation. And
[02:32:29] if what is best is taking the entity
[02:32:34] that is
[02:32:35] entity I like that
[02:32:36] the entity that is taking away from this
[02:32:39] family these kids from their growth
[02:32:41] their this household this growth then
[02:32:45] then yeah you got to step to the side
[02:32:47] but in a perfect world that shouldn't be
[02:32:50] the case. It should not be the case. you
[02:32:52] should not be cutting off the uh father
[02:32:54] of your children even if other uh
[02:32:57] disagreements come in uh when it comes
[02:32:59] to what they can provide. They they have
[02:33:02] to be a father. They they have to be a
[02:33:05] father and step up to the plate. So when
[02:33:06] it comes to that uh
[02:33:09] choosing to cut them off has to be a
[02:33:12] last final resort.
[02:33:14] Yeah, I disagree with her cuz she said
[02:33:15] that if a woman, you know, cuts off full
[02:33:18] contact with the man, it means he's not
[02:33:20] doing his part. I disagree because a lot
[02:33:22] of women prevent their uh father prevent
[02:33:25] their kids from seeing their father
[02:33:26] because the father doesn't want to be
[02:33:28] with them anymore or the father cheated
[02:33:30] on her. So now she's trying to punish
[02:33:32] him by using the kids. We've seen it
[02:33:34] from time and time again where women
[02:33:35] will weaponize their kids against the
[02:33:37] father. [snorts] So I don't agree with
[02:33:40] her at all because that's not always the
[02:33:42] case. You know what I'm saying?
[02:33:44] And I do agree with that statement. I
[02:33:45] agree.
[02:33:46] Women often do weaponize children. She
[02:33:47] was saying it as if, oh, if a woman cuts
[02:33:49] off the baby dad completely, that means
[02:33:51] he's not doing his job. And that's not
[02:33:53] even half true.
[02:33:54] And I ain't going to lie to you, too.
[02:33:56] She sound like a bum, too. Because
[02:33:58] [laughter]
[02:33:58] because in the video, too, she she
[02:34:01] brought up money and then and like
[02:34:04] reversed her tracks on money. Like,
[02:34:06] yeah, you're absolutely what you're
[02:34:07] saying is absolutely true. People uh
[02:34:09] women use some women use their kids as
[02:34:12] weapons and oh, he don't want to be with
[02:34:14] me. Well, I'm cutting him off. Yeah.
[02:34:17] Absolutely.
[02:34:17] But with the money thing, from my
[02:34:19] understanding of it was she was saying
[02:34:20] like if I'm willing to cut him off, even
[02:34:23] if if he is providing money and I'm
[02:34:25] still willing to cut him off, the
[02:34:27] situation's bigger than that.
[02:34:29] That's what I took from her and it
[02:34:31] shouldn't get to that point.
[02:34:32] And that's where it goes back to what I
[02:34:33] said earlier. Women are selfish as hell
[02:34:35] because if he's still providing money
[02:34:37] but just want to be with you, then you
[02:34:39] should be then it's not about it's not
[02:34:40] about you anymore once you have kids.
[02:34:42] Kids come first. Once kids are in the
[02:34:44] equation, it's not about you or your
[02:34:46] happiness. is about the betterment of
[02:34:47] and statistically speaking, here's some
[02:34:49] stats for you, Shel.
[02:34:50] Oh, I love statistics.
[02:34:51] These are real statistics, real
[02:34:52] statistics. You can make these up. So,
[02:34:54] uh well, single mothers when
[02:35:01] let's just be let's just be honest here.
[02:35:02] These are things that you could probably
[02:35:04] observe. So, I'll give you some
[02:35:06] statistics and things that you can
[02:35:07] observe. Okay? Mhm.
[02:35:08] So when you look at gang violence and
[02:35:11] stuff, you think that gang violence in
[02:35:14] Chicago and maybe in some, you know,
[02:35:16] rural areas in LA,
[02:35:18] mostly single mothers.
[02:35:19] Mostly single mothers. Mostly single
[02:35:20] mothers.
[02:35:22] When you look at women on a stripper
[02:35:24] pole and things, single mothers. So I
[02:35:27] don't even have to give the stats. You
[02:35:28] kind of know
[02:35:29] single mothers will do what they have to
[02:35:31] do.
[02:35:32] Got it. So, you know, the degeneracy
[02:35:36] that comes from a single mother home.
[02:35:39] And if it's the case that in this clip,
[02:35:41] the video, the woman is trying to make
[02:35:44] an excuse and blame the man for why
[02:35:46] she's a single mother and the kids don't
[02:35:48] have any access to the father versus her
[02:35:50] making the poor choice of maybe choosing
[02:35:53] a man that wasn't good or maybe just
[02:35:55] being with the man and then, you know,
[02:35:58] generally speaking, women leave
[02:35:59] relationships. We all seen it here. It
[02:36:01] was four women on the show and all of
[02:36:03] you ladies left uh all of you ladies in
[02:36:06] your last relationship you left the man.
[02:36:08] You divorced two men. So women are more
[02:36:10] likely to leave men than men are likely
[02:36:13] to leave women. This is why they
[02:36:14] initiate about 70 to 80% of divorces.
[02:36:17] Right. With that being said, women are
[02:36:19] the ones they're at fault. They're the
[02:36:21] reason why these kids are being raised
[02:36:24] with just them.
[02:36:26] Yes. Yes. So, so real quick, gang
[02:36:28] violence, you mentioned single parents,
[02:36:31] correct? Typically, that mother is not
[02:36:33] home to even take care of the kids,
[02:36:36] right? Because she's working and that's
[02:36:38] one of the things that I think need to
[02:36:39] be put in. So, that's
[02:36:41] but she has to work. Correct. And she's
[02:36:44] not um
[02:36:45] So, she's not there to take care of her
[02:36:46] kids because she's taking care of
[02:36:49] responsibilities.
[02:36:50] Because
[02:36:52] she left the man.
[02:36:54] Oh,
[02:36:55] no. She left the man. And if she's not
[02:36:58] getting child support, the dude in most
[02:37:00] states will be in prison or he'll be,
[02:37:03] you know, he he'll have his driver's
[02:37:04] license taken away in most states.
[02:37:06] No. Which means that he's going to
[02:37:08] basically be broke. He's a brokie
[02:37:09] anyway, right? So, this is you again
[02:37:12] trying to make an excuse for the single
[02:37:14] mothers. You know, the truth about what
[02:37:16] single mothers, the effects of single
[02:37:18] motherhood. It breeds degeneracy and
[02:37:21] child del in juvenile delinquents and uh
[02:37:23] and children. So I'm just saying well it
[02:37:26] has
[02:37:26] domestic violence though
[02:37:28] domestic violence once again over 70
[02:37:31] over 70% of domestic violence cases
[02:37:34] women are the ones that initiate it. So
[02:37:37] men are the just the ones that just get
[02:37:38] locked up for because we're I mean the
[02:37:40] courts don't favor men when it comes to
[02:37:42] a man versus a woman in a physical
[02:37:44] aspect because the man is bigger. Uh
[02:37:46] [ __ ] you get locked up.
[02:37:47] Yeah. I'm saying regardless of who
[02:37:48] would.
[02:37:48] So what I'm just trying to illustrate to
[02:37:50] you here is that well uh single mothers
[02:37:53] are the problem and they are choosing to
[02:37:56] break up with the man and leave their
[02:37:58] children without the father. Fathers
[02:38:00] aren't just like leaving the mother.
[02:38:02] Like that's not what's happening. That's
[02:38:05] what I'm trying to men don't leave
[02:38:06] women. Fathers aren't leaving their
[02:38:08] children. Is that women mothers push the
[02:38:12] father away and leave the man. That's
[02:38:14] what happens
[02:38:15] in some cases.
[02:38:16] Generally speaking, there's always
[02:38:17] exceptions to the rule. There's always
[02:38:20] case, not some, the majority of cases.
[02:38:22] There's always some cases that would
[02:38:23] favor what you're saying, but that would
[02:38:25] be a small minority of cases. The
[02:38:28] majority of cases is women choosing men
[02:38:31] and then divorcing them and then raising
[02:38:33] the children on their own and then those
[02:38:35] kids end up on a stripper pole or in
[02:38:37] some type of gang violence. That's what
[02:38:39] generally happens. That's all I'm
[02:38:41] saying. So therefore, what she's saying
[02:38:43] is just incorrect.
[02:38:46] And the negative side effects proves her
[02:38:49] point to be wrong. Because if it's the
[02:38:52] case that well, oh, it's for good reason
[02:38:55] for me to go no contact with my baby
[02:38:58] father. No, it's for all bad reasons for
[02:39:01] you to go no contact with your baby
[02:39:02] father because then the probability no
[02:39:05] because then the probability would
[02:39:07] increase for your child to be a juvenile
[02:39:08] delinquent or be on a tripo or do some
[02:39:11] type of engage in some type of baby
[02:39:13] daddy. They're not in a relationship.
[02:39:14] She's already the single mom. If he's a
[02:39:16] baby daddy,
[02:39:18] right? Even if it's the case that he's a
[02:39:21] baby father and they're in a separate
[02:39:22] relationship, she took it to the point
[02:39:24] of going no contact where the father
[02:39:27] isn't involved in a child's life at all.
[02:39:29] That's even worse.
[02:39:30] My unders I No, I understood that
[02:39:33] thinking of it. She went no contact
[02:39:37] still has contact with the kids.
[02:39:38] No, no, no. Yeah, she's talking about no
[02:39:39] contact with in totality. No, I
[02:39:42] understood it as she went no contact and
[02:39:44] he still has access to the children
[02:39:46] because from what that's a different
[02:39:47] [laughter] conversation She said though,
[02:39:48] she just said that I she's in no contact
[02:39:51] with the kid's father. So if she's in no
[02:39:52] contact with the kids father, that means
[02:39:53] the father has no way of getting a hold
[02:39:55] of her to see his kids.
[02:39:56] That's another thing as well.
[02:39:59] I don't ever
[02:40:01] in that case it's her fault that the
[02:40:02] kids can't see their dad.
[02:40:04] No, it's literally her fault. didn't
[02:40:06] that's no I understood that's why I was
[02:40:08] confused cuz I'm like what's the issue
[02:40:10] with her going no contact with the dad
[02:40:11] if he still has
[02:40:12] access even if how can he even have
[02:40:15] access how can he even have access to
[02:40:17] the kids uh if she goes no contact with
[02:40:20] him
[02:40:22] things like that
[02:40:24] but she ain't speak about that contact
[02:40:26] it's not about that yeah it's not that
[02:40:28] she was saying that a woman has a good
[02:40:29] reason to go no contact with the father
[02:40:31] and she listed an example of reasons why
[02:40:33] a woman would go no And we're just
[02:40:35] saying that all of the reasons that she
[02:40:36] listed is still not good reasons to go
[02:40:38] to contact.
[02:40:39] She was trying to give good reasons to
[02:40:41] take their her kids from nothing but bad
[02:40:43] reasons.
[02:40:44] Well, not to take a child or bad take
[02:40:46] your child. There's no good reason for
[02:40:48] that.
[02:40:48] That's why I articulated a couple times.
[02:40:50] Like this is what I mean. The heck.
[02:40:51] Dang, that video took us through there.
[02:40:54] It [laughter] took took us through
[02:40:55] there. We got your boy Liam. He says,
[02:40:56] "Shall be straight out of the hills have
[02:40:58] eyes." [laughter]
[02:41:00] I have four cuz I have glasses. Get it?
[02:41:03] Hey yo, y'all funny. We got manual
[02:41:05] states and then $50. He says, "Shout
[02:41:06] outs to the guys again. I'm hoping they
[02:41:08] would fold some laundry today." Hey,
[02:41:11] listen. We was going to do that or make
[02:41:13] uh the these chick cook sandwiches. We
[02:41:14] had it ready.
[02:41:17] We had five girls cancel tonight.
[02:41:20] So, it was like, man,
[02:41:22] dang.
[02:41:22] We ain't do. We ain't play the fun
[02:41:24] games.
[02:41:24] Have a folding contest.
[02:41:26] We got uh uh Dne Snider sending in $10.
[02:41:29] She says, "Ask the women who does the
[02:41:32] child belong to. Their perspective
[02:41:34] assumes the child is theirs and the
[02:41:37] father is her guest in the child's
[02:41:39] life." [laughter]
[02:41:40] That's how most women look at it like
[02:41:42] Yeah. Yeah. That's he's just making a
[02:41:43] statement. Yeah.
[02:41:44] Like you don't leave my child alone.
[02:41:46] Don't do that to my child. You mean our
[02:41:47] child, [ __ ]
[02:41:48] Yeah.
[02:41:49] Yeah. I'm constantly like, "No, come get
[02:41:51] your kid." Like that's your kid. Come
[02:41:52] get it.
[02:41:53] Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Both both of both of
[02:41:56] my uh children's mothers uh they know
[02:41:59] that that them child them children is
[02:42:01] mine. [laughter]
[02:42:02] They know.
[02:42:03] And not only that, my children know.
[02:42:06] They know exactly who to report to. They
[02:42:07] don't run to mommy. They know that
[02:42:09] they'll be in trouble if they run to
[02:42:11] mommy besides me. No, you come to me and
[02:42:13] I'll, you know, I may get this situated
[02:42:15] directly with you. Don't hit up your
[02:42:18] mom. Don't talk to her. Come to me.
[02:42:19] I like that. Don't bother your mom.
[02:42:21] That woman don't know nothing. She got
[02:42:22] to go through me anyway. So if you go to
[02:42:24] her, you gonna it's gonna take longer.
[02:42:26] So go to the I mean go to the president.
[02:42:29] [laughter]
[02:42:30] We got uh Dane again says the woman's
[02:42:33] mindset that the child is hers and the
[02:42:37] father is her guest is likely a big
[02:42:40] reason she's a single mother.
[02:42:42] Facts.
[02:42:43] He's not speaking about you. He's
[02:42:44] speaking about like if that mind I
[02:42:47] already said there come get your kids.
[02:42:48] Well yeah he was speaking about exactly
[02:42:50] the woman in the video.
[02:42:51] Yeah. Uh but okay ladies um let's do
[02:42:54] last last thoughts on the podcast and
[02:42:56] this is the part of the podcast if you
[02:42:57] have any questions anything you want to
[02:42:59] speak about when it comes to dating and
[02:43:00] relationships you can go ahead and bring
[02:43:02] that up or if you don't just give me
[02:43:04] your last thoughts and how' you like the
[02:43:06] show. Let's start with you.
[02:43:09] I don't have any questions.
[02:43:10] Okay.
[02:43:11] Um but last thoughts uh enjoyed this
[02:43:15] show. I enjoyed the show. I charm.
[02:43:17] Yeah. Second time I got a third time.
[02:43:21] You got you got a third in you.
[02:43:22] I do have a I'm need it. Five girls
[02:43:24] cancelled. Not happy with it, chat. Not
[02:43:27] with it. I I need a little I need a
[02:43:29] little bit more.
[02:43:29] We have more girls.
[02:43:30] I need more.
[02:43:31] Unfortunately, weren't here for that.
[02:43:33] Yeah. And so, but I think it was a a a
[02:43:37] good show. I think it was a good show.
[02:43:38] Good conversation. It was I laughed. I
[02:43:40] like to laugh. So, no complaints here.
[02:43:42] Word.
[02:43:43] Cool. Uh we'll have you back. Thanks for
[02:43:44] coming. Um, Grace.
[02:43:48] Um, yeah, no questions, but good to be
[02:43:51] back. Haven't been here in a while.
[02:43:53] Um,
[02:43:54] yeah, Grace, you Yo, [laughter]
[02:43:56] for everybody in the chat, Grace was
[02:43:58] like on one of the first like 15
[02:44:00] episodes that we did. I think she was on
[02:44:03] like episode 15 possibly. So, she was
[02:44:05] there, you know, in the beginning. And I
[02:44:08] think we're probably like on episode
[02:44:11] man what
[02:44:14] 800. [laughter]
[02:44:16] I don't know. We We don't even keep it
[02:44:17] up anymore. It's It's pretty high. I
[02:44:19] don't think it's that high on 800.
[02:44:21] Probably with the debates and these is
[02:44:24] over a thousand, but we're probably like
[02:44:26] on episode.
[02:44:26] I know. I was coming when there was one
[02:44:28] like every single Saturday. [laughter]
[02:44:30] Yeah. It was Well, we used to do two a
[02:44:32] week.
[02:44:32] Two a week. We used to do two a week.
[02:44:33] We used to be like on a Thursday and
[02:44:34] like a
[02:44:35] Thursday and like on a Sunday.
[02:44:36] [clears throat]
[02:44:37] Sunday. Sunday, Thursday on a Sunday we
[02:44:38] used to do. So we used to do two a week,
[02:44:40] you know, back in the day. But um I'm
[02:44:42] sorry, Grace. Go ahead.
[02:44:43] No, but yeah. I mean, it was chill.
[02:44:45] Nothing crazy. I wish there was more
[02:44:47] people here, but
[02:44:48] But you came. Wasn't you on the episode
[02:44:50] where the uh where the fat chick cried?
[02:44:52] Mhm.
[02:44:53] I don't even remember. [laughter]
[02:44:54] Was the one that height saved me?
[02:44:56] Yeah. You were on that episode. You told
[02:44:58] her to get on the scale.
[02:44:59] Yeah. Some uh
[02:45:00] No, not that one.
[02:45:01] Yeah. I did a lot of those. You made her
[02:45:03] cry. No.
[02:45:04] We got to bring our scale back, bro.
[02:45:05] Bring the scale. Yeah, we got scale.
[02:45:07] We used to get these. We used to have
[02:45:08] these big chicks getting on the scale,
[02:45:10] Brad. Talking about they want a high
[02:45:11] value man, but she obese. Chick, you
[02:45:14] don't qualify for that. We need to bring
[02:45:15] back the scale.
[02:45:17] Why you looking at me like that?
[02:45:18] You scared of the scale.
[02:45:20] I'm not scared of the scale, but I
[02:45:22] didn't know weight.
[02:45:24] Weight is important.
[02:45:25] They don't care about anything, but you
[02:45:27] know,
[02:45:28] Listen, I I actually heard today. I'll
[02:45:29] be on Clubhouse a lot. You know
[02:45:30] Clubhouse, the app, right?
[02:45:31] I used to be on Clubhouse a lot, right?
[02:45:33] I heard today they said they love the
[02:45:35] BBWs. So
[02:45:37] there are guys that do and there guys
[02:45:38] that don't.
[02:45:38] Yeah, there's there's guys that do. They
[02:45:40] they want to utilize that to smash. And
[02:45:42] not only that, they know that it's
[02:45:43] easier access to sex.
[02:45:45] Men like taking all human beings.
[02:45:47] I just had this conversation.
[02:45:49] Ladies, real quick to give you guys some
[02:45:50] perspective. All human beings, we like
[02:45:52] to take the easiest route to success in
[02:45:55] our endeavors. So when it comes to men
[02:45:58] dealing with women, well, fat chicks,
[02:46:00] generally speaking, they tend to be a
[02:46:01] little bit more easier.
[02:46:02] Okay. But like what is considered fat?
[02:46:05] Well, that's Yeah, that's I mean there's
[02:46:08] a scientific standard for what is
[02:46:11] average weight for a high value man that
[02:46:14] a high value man wants.
[02:46:15] Well, then you got to talk about muscle
[02:46:16] and
[02:46:17] wait
[02:46:18] muscle weighs more than fat. What would
[02:46:19] a
[02:46:21] high Okay, guys. Some like obese. Some
[02:46:24] guys like slim, some guys like Guys
[02:46:27] wouldn't want obese. It's not obese.
[02:46:30] Okay. Hey,
[02:46:31] and there is a number for obese. Guys,
[02:46:34] we're all about the figure. So, if the
[02:46:36] waist is good and the hips is good, but
[02:46:39] you know, she's a little she got more
[02:46:40] meat on her, it's like, well, she got
[02:46:43] the meat in the right places. You know,
[02:46:45] I mean, I may take that.
[02:46:46] So, that's what it
[02:46:48] correlates to. Love the BBWs.
[02:46:52] And Grace, would you come back?
[02:46:54] M
[02:46:56] Grace like, man, [laughter] I've been
[02:46:57] here how many what what is this like
[02:46:59] your fifth time?
[02:47:01] Fourth, I think.
[02:47:02] Fourth.
[02:47:02] Yeah. No. Okay, I'll come back. I just I
[02:47:05] don't know.
[02:47:06] Maybe more.
[02:47:07] Every time is different. You've been on
[02:47:09] some wild shows. You've been on shows
[02:47:11] like this.
[02:47:12] Yeah.
[02:47:12] You've been Yeah. You've been on You
[02:47:13] actually You experienced a lot if we're
[02:47:15] being honest.
[02:47:16] I have.
[02:47:17] Yeah. Cuz you was on a show where the
[02:47:18] chick cried.
[02:47:19] I think I was
[02:47:20] You was on a show that didn't I kick out
[02:47:21] a girl?
[02:47:22] You kicked out a girl? I think I was on
[02:47:23] one where like somebody threw a drink on
[02:47:25] somebody.
[02:47:25] Oh yeah, you was on a wild ones. Yeah,
[02:47:27] you was. You experienced a lot, Grace.
[02:47:29] Yeah, when it was way more crazy and lit
[02:47:31] actually like in terms of girls whing
[02:47:33] out.
[02:47:34] No. Yeah, that was fun. We need that
[02:47:35] energy. But like
[02:47:36] we do.
[02:47:37] Yeah. Like shows like this.
[02:47:38] We need like at least one or two of
[02:47:39] them.
[02:47:39] It's just not Yeah,
[02:47:40] we used to have them a lot back when she
[02:47:42] used to come on. We had those a lot.
[02:47:44] Just at least one or two.
[02:47:45] Well, you know why? Because the the show
[02:47:47] wasn't as popular. So there wasn't like
[02:47:50] a so many clips of me. So the girls
[02:47:52] wanted to just come on cuz they didn't
[02:47:53] really want to see a whole lot. But now
[02:47:55] this podcast everybody knows about No
[02:47:57] Gazy, bro.
[02:47:58] So they're like they're a little to come
[02:48:00] on.
[02:48:01] They watch the C and be like I don't
[02:48:02] know.
[02:48:02] They're like nah this [ __ ] do not take
[02:48:04] L's.
[02:48:05] I was [laughter] told not to come
[02:48:06] multiple times.
[02:48:08] Okay. Well, if there's girls watching
[02:48:09] this, just come on. Don't be scared.
[02:48:12] Like
[02:48:12] nah, for real.
[02:48:13] I don't know. I'm not that much of like
[02:48:15] an outspoken person, but like I'm fine.
[02:48:17] Like I don't know. I'm a shy person. But
[02:48:19] yeah, Grace was nervous as hell. I had
[02:48:20] to confess. I'm like, "Yo, come on,
[02:48:21] y'all."
[02:48:22] Yeah, Grace, you was nervous every time
[02:48:23] before the show. Actually, think about
[02:48:25] it.
[02:48:25] It just It takes me a while to like warm
[02:48:27] up and just like I don't know.
[02:48:29] He could take a L. Don't worry about
[02:48:30] him.
[02:48:30] Like, I'm young and I feel like
[02:48:32] [ __ ] When have you seen me take a L?
[02:48:34] He won't. He if he will, he won't admit
[02:48:36] it because that one time he changed it
[02:48:38] to what I had said and he kept going
[02:48:40] like it's not what I had said.
[02:48:42] It's just the L's. May not. What What L
[02:48:44] did I take? Did I take a L today?
[02:48:47] No, I won't say you took a L today. I
[02:48:49] won't say you took a L, but I think I I
[02:48:51] I think you like you maybe
[02:48:55] like you like you you admitted you were
[02:48:57] like Yeah. Okay.
[02:48:59] Like you may agree to
[02:49:00] Oh, yeah. No. No. Yeah. I definitely
[02:49:02] would agree to points, but it's a
[02:49:04] disagree.
[02:49:04] So, the thing is why you got to be loud
[02:49:06] with your L's. I mean, which when we
[02:49:10] like when we take L's like you guys you
[02:49:12] cheer like ah I won.
[02:49:14] No, because
[02:49:16] aggressive. No, no, ladies. talking
[02:49:18] about debates, right? So, if we're
[02:49:20] having a discussion and we're talking
[02:49:21] about a specific topic, you ladies are
[02:49:24] so adamant and strong about your
[02:49:27] perspective and then I'm saying logical
[02:49:30] things to you, right? Like [laughter]
[02:49:31] she said that, oh, well, [clears throat]
[02:49:33] what makes it good is because it's uh
[02:49:37] um
[02:49:37] what's the word?
[02:49:39] Representation.
[02:49:41] If if as long as it's being represented,
[02:49:43] then it's good. Well, that doesn't make
[02:49:45] any sense because any if you slice your
[02:49:47] wrist, well, we need other people to
[02:49:49] slice their wrist because then that
[02:49:50] would be good because it's
[02:49:51] representation. So, it's just a dumb
[02:49:53] position to have.
[02:49:54] Has there ever been a conversation that
[02:49:56] you were in where a woman has where you
[02:49:58] sat back and you said you are right?
[02:50:00] No.
[02:50:01] Like where you took an L where you took
[02:50:04] took a L where she proved me wrong.
[02:50:05] That's something different. No. I've
[02:50:07] haven't never took an L from a uh from a
[02:50:09] woman. From I debate guys though, like
[02:50:11] yeah, I lose on certain arguments when
[02:50:13] it comes to when I when I'm debating
[02:50:15] some guys and stuff.
[02:50:15] I got to listen to these debates.
[02:50:17] You're on YouTube. Let's go.
[02:50:18] I got to take a watch. I haven't watched
[02:50:20] the debates the podcast.
[02:50:21] Yeah, but when I debate these,
[02:50:22] especially when I debate, you know, uh I
[02:50:25] do a lot of different type of debates.
[02:50:27] Um but uh yeah, you got to check it out.
[02:50:30] Check out my debate nights every Tuesday
[02:50:31] and Thursday between 7 and 8:00 p.m.
[02:50:33] Eastern Standard Time.
[02:50:34] Bet.
[02:50:35] Yeah. Um, all right. Grace. Grace said
[02:50:38] uh she'll come back for the 13th time.
[02:50:40] And uh Shelby, uh any last questions?
[02:50:42] Any questions about dating and
[02:50:44] relationships? You want my perspective
[02:50:46] on men or anything like that? Women,
[02:50:49] anything?
[02:50:51] Okay.
[02:50:51] Not that I can think of.
[02:50:53] Cool. And uh how did you like the show?
[02:50:54] And then would you come back?
[02:50:56] It was all right. It was okay.
[02:50:58] Cool.
[02:50:59] Um if I had access to get data as we
[02:51:03] speak, I would like that. You just do it
[02:51:05] before you get get on the show.
[02:51:06] I don't know what we're gonna talk
[02:51:07] about.
[02:51:08] You don't know what we talk about
[02:51:08] either.
[02:51:09] That's what I'm saying. Like I my phone
[02:51:10] I don't have signal. So I couldn't
[02:51:11] Google the statistics.
[02:51:12] Talk about whatever you want to talk
[02:51:13] about. That's why we said you can always
[02:51:14] ask questions. So if you want to come
[02:51:15] back,
[02:51:17] get the statistics of anything you want
[02:51:18] to get statistics.
[02:51:19] So we have shows where ladies come real
[02:51:21] prepared. They come with questions. They
[02:51:22] come with stats, statistics, everything.
[02:51:25] And uh
[02:51:26] and we'll let you read it out loud.
[02:51:27] Yeah. We'll let you go ahead and read
[02:51:28] stuff.
[02:51:28] You'll still lose a debate between us.
[02:51:29] Especially I'd like to know, you know, I
[02:51:32] did make up some numbers, but I like to
[02:51:33] know that the numbers aren't made up.
[02:51:34] They were close, though.
[02:51:36] Like, you can look up that six month
[02:51:37] thing. It might be four months,
[02:51:38] actually.
[02:51:39] It's like 120 days or something.
[02:51:41] [laughter]
[02:51:42] That's debatable,
[02:51:44] but sure enough.
[02:51:44] Also, the only thing I'd really like to
[02:51:46] see the people making these comments.
[02:51:48] That'd be great.
[02:51:49] Oh, you want to see what they look like?
[02:51:51] Yeah. So, I could flame them
[02:51:53] just for her.
[02:51:54] There's a whole bunch.
[02:51:55] Yeah. So, let's see. I want to see them.
[02:51:57] We had like 265 people watching want to
[02:52:00] call in
[02:52:00] watching the ones
[02:52:01] talking crap.
[02:52:02] Yeah. So tell tell the one that that
[02:52:04] want to roast.
[02:52:05] Yeah. Call in.
[02:52:06] Okay. Uh so we go at it.
[02:52:08] All right. So someone wants to call in.
[02:52:10] The girls want to see y'all. Uh you got
[02:52:13] to send in a $20 super chat. That's the
[02:52:15] only way I'm honoring it.
[02:52:16] Wicked. Let's get it.
[02:52:17] $20 super chat. I'll let you I'll I'll
[02:52:19] let you call in. I'll send the link to
[02:52:21] you and then you could call in and uh
[02:52:23] the girl could rate you or whatever. You
[02:52:25] could talk to the girl. So,
[02:52:26] it's crazy cuz I'm ready to go, but I'm
[02:52:28] ready to flame you, whoever you are.
[02:52:31] Yeah. So, uh
[02:52:33] but yeah, $20 if if any guys If not, um
[02:52:36] we're going to wrap up.
[02:52:37] Good night.
[02:52:39] Let me see.
[02:52:42] I I doubt anyone wants to do it.
[02:52:43] Nobody wants to get picked on. They just
[02:52:45] like to watch people be picked on.
[02:52:48] Yeah. And do it in the comments.
[02:52:50] Can't show their face.
[02:52:56] It'd be funny though. Yeah,
[02:52:58] if I got them. Uh, yeah. I don't know if
[02:53:00] they No, I'm just kidding.
[02:53:02] No, they they don't they can't do it.
[02:53:03] They're not brave enough.
[02:53:06] Melinda G said, "Wic kid, we doing this
[02:53:08] or no." I saw that too.
[02:53:09] Either Wicked Kid or your boy lame cuz
[02:53:11] y'all was talking the most smack or if
[02:53:13] any other guys that wanted to call
[02:53:14] still talking smack.
[02:53:16] I want the main one that said that he
[02:53:20] know who I'm talking to.
[02:53:21] Lloy said Yale Lee said, "Why you look
[02:53:24] old and young at the same time?"
[02:53:25] Oh, right. Yo, Gilber is cooking you
[02:53:28] right now in the chat. I'm reading
[02:53:29] everything.
[02:53:29] Oh, those are cooks. Let me read. I'll
[02:53:30] take that as a compliment.
[02:53:32] No, no, he's like making fun of you.
[02:53:33] That's what we mean by cooking.
[02:53:34] Oh, that's fine.
[02:53:36] It's a whole bunch.
[02:53:38] Nah, they ain't calling in. All right,
[02:53:39] ladies. Um, and uh Shelby, would you
[02:53:41] come back?
[02:53:42] Um, maybe.
[02:53:44] Uh, in chat, if y'all wanted to call in,
[02:53:47] y'all got to send the $20 in first, then
[02:53:50] I'll put the link in.
[02:53:54] Someone said, "I'm tempted." Man, y'all
[02:53:56] ain't waiting. We'll do that. We'll do
[02:53:57] that next show. We'll dedicate a show
[02:53:58] where we did it before. We'll dedicate a
[02:54:01] segment of the show where we'll allow
[02:54:03] you guys to call in. You guys donate to
[02:54:04] the channel. I'll come back. You can
[02:54:06] call in
[02:54:07] and um you know, we'll let the ladies uh
[02:54:09] rate y'all and stuff like that. Y'all
[02:54:11] can talk to the ladies or whatever.
[02:54:13] Um
[02:54:14] but all right. Uh we got uh
[02:54:17] so no debate night this Tuesday and
[02:54:20] Thursday cuz I will be in I'll be in
[02:54:23] vacation. I was about to say where I'm
[02:54:25] going but let me not disclose that.
[02:54:27] [laughter] Uh yeah I'll be on vacation
[02:54:28] with the family. So um no debate night
[02:54:31] this Tuesday or Thursday and uh I may be
[02:54:34] doing a debate night on Monday um since
[02:54:37] I'll be out of town on Tuesday. Uh so
[02:54:40] yeah, other than that, uh the next
[02:54:42] dating show is going to be July 11th on
[02:54:46] Saturday. And [snorts] then uh the next
[02:54:49] open panel debate night is going to be
[02:54:51] Tuesday and Thursday. Not this week
[02:54:53] coming up, but the following week. So
[02:54:55] we'll save that for that. Uh ease, you
[02:54:56] got anything, bro?
[02:54:58] All right. All right. Uh ladies and
[02:55:00] gents, peace. We out.
[02:55:02] Good night.
[02:55:02] Bye.
[02:55:09] And y'all see the suit too, man. Listen,
[02:55:11] new studio,
[02:55:13] new podcast, by the spirit, not by the
[02:55:16] [music] letter. Bro, we can go verse for
[02:55:17] verse all day long, [laughter]
[02:55:19] doing new things, are okay with [music]
[02:55:21] understanding the reality that we are in
[02:55:23] competition with one another. But you
[02:55:25] ladies think that you're special, that
[02:55:27] you are in comport. Men are men of
[02:55:29] [music] their word. So here's my word.
[02:55:30] I'll fly you out here and we can do it
[02:55:31] in person and after that we can box. I'm
[02:55:33] about my business. So, remember I said
[02:55:36] when I ask you [music] these questions,
[02:55:38] I will dismantle your entire argument.
[02:55:40] That's the end of the debate, my dog.
[02:55:42] I'm 39, but I don't look your typical
[02:55:44] 39.
[02:55:45] Belly. [music]
[02:55:45] Yeah,
[02:55:46] you look 39. It's okay, though.
[02:55:48] That man isn't intimidated by a woman
[02:55:50] like you. He's a nurse.