# BORING MEN ARE INVISIBLE: Speak HER Language Or You DO NOT EXIST

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ueP1pVESQQc

[00:00] Guys will say, "I'm not good-looking enough to attract a significant other."
[00:05] "I'm not good-looking enough to meet a girl."
[00:10] And I tell them, "If the OSH experiment and the Mgrim experiment show that whoever has the most confidence, people will listen to, that should tell you why when you ask the most women, what is the quality that you care about the most in guys?" is confidence.
[00:23] You have to believe 100% that you're the [ __ ].
[00:29] Now, here's the main key.
[00:31] You don't actually have to be objectively the [ __ ].
[00:34] You don't actually have to be the best.
[00:36] Your belief that you're the best and your capacity to make yourself believe you're the best makes you the best.
[00:43] This is a very hard concept to understand.
[00:45] Okay.
[00:47] Very hard to understand cuz as a guy you're like, "What do you mean I make myself believe I'm the best?
[00:52] Shouldn't I act shouldn't I actually have to be the best?
[00:54] Wouldn't that make sense?
[00:59] What do you mean make myself believe I'm the best?
[01:00] In fact, what would be a negative aspect of making yourself believe that you're the best?
[01:03] Like delusion.
[01:04] Yeah, delusion might be unmotivating.
[01:08] It's stupid.
[01:10] That would be a reason why some people don't want to believe they're the best.
[01:13] Here's what you're not understanding.
[01:15] If I'm going to hold your attention in a speech, I've got to believe that I'm the best.
[01:18] Do you guys notice how right now because I believe I'm the best?
[01:22] Even if I'm not, but because I believe it, you feel in your brain, I should listen to what this guy says.
[01:28] Yes.
[01:29] Can you feel my frame of what I think of my teaching and what I think of myself via the way I talk?
[01:37] Do you feel that?
[01:38] So, if I believe that I'm the second best speaker ever, then what happens is if I have that belief in your mind, you're going to start looking at your phone and you're going to leave early.
[01:49] You're going to go, "Okay, he was cool, but I don't think that was the best guy to learn from.
[01:52] If I don't believe that I'm the best, you will also not believe that I'm the best."
[01:58] And because your time is valuable, you'll leave.
[01:00] But the
[02:01] Truth is, I don't.
[02:03] The best is subjective.
[02:05] You could say Teal Swan is the best because she's a psychic lady in a dress and has a crystal and for the right audience, she's super gangster badass.
[02:10] You see?
[02:13] So, who's really the best?
[02:15] I don't know, right?
[02:17] That's a very up for debate, you know?
[02:19] Lewis House and Jay Shetty are the best for syrupy self-help and, you know, Tony Robbins the best for getting you to jump up and down.
[02:28] Ed Grant Cardone's the best for, you know, talk about that money or whatever, right?
[02:30] So different people can be the best for different reasons.
[02:32] You ever notice if you listen to like a great EDM track, you start to think that your favorite music EDM is electronic dance music?
[02:38] Like the kind of stuff they play at, like, uh, EDC or, you know, festivals and stuff, right?
[02:44] So when you're listening to EDC, do you ever have that feeling like I like electronic music the best?
[02:49] Like when you're listening to it in that moment, like if I put on a killer EDM track, would you be craving hip-hop or would you be like no, this is sick?
[02:53] I love EDM.
[02:56] But then if I put on a crazy ass like Dr. Dre song, you don't want to listen to EDM.
[03:00] You want to listen to Dre.
[03:02] Want to listen to hip-hop.
[03:04] Now, also, it's like within hip-hop, right?
[03:05] You'll hear when battle rappers are rapping, it's whatever rapper thinks that they're the best more tends to win.
[03:12] You guys see that?
[03:14] So, that's battle rapping, right?
[03:14] If you believe that you're the best and then you'll and battle rapping shows us you'll free associate better and you'll have more what's called bars.
[03:21] People go bars, bars, you and you'll have better free association and you'll let go more.
[03:27] Okay?
[03:27] So, you'll go into a release state or what I sometimes call competitive versus collaborative frame.
[03:30] I call it collaborative frame.
[03:32] Even though they're competing, actually, funny enough, kind of a weird example, but they're competing, but they're in a collaborative frame.
[03:39] Collaborative frame, by the way, what it means is that you're so invincible internally that you're like, "Oh, that's so cute.
[03:46] We're friends."
[03:48] You guys see the difference?
[03:49] Yes.
[03:49] It's the worst form of competitiveness.
[03:52] Collaborate.
[03:54] Like liking everyone, loving everyone is such a frame of superiority.
[03:57] It's ridiculous.
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[04:46] I'm literally driving to Salt Lake.
[04:49] I'M DRIVING OUT TO SALT LAKE RIGHT NOW.
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[06:20] Like, if you go into a battle rap and you're not even competing with the other rapper, you view him as like your little buddy, like he's cute.
[06:27] That's the ultimate sunning.
[06:29] You know what it means to sun someone like they're your son.
[06:31] The ultimate way to sun them is not to compete with them, cuz now you're giving them too much.
[06:37] You're placing them too high that you even would compete with them.
[06:41] It's like you're playing basketball with your nephew who's like six and you're like, "Oh, here.
[06:45] Oh," you know, right?
[06:47] It's like a joke.
[06:49] Okay, that's what you should be like with your girlfriend, too.
[06:50] Like guys that get all butt hurt because like their girlfriend talked to a guy, it's they're doing too much, man.
[06:55] They're doing too much.
[06:57] It should be the point that it's like, "Oh, that's so cute.
[06:58] You're making a little friend."
[07:01] Like, cuz she's just so lucky to be with you.
[07:03] It just looks so dumb and ridiculous that nothing is taken.
[07:07] Seriously.
[07:08] You never argue with your girlfriend.
[07:09] Like arguing with your girlfriend that puts you at such a low level because it shows that you care enough to even have the argument.
[07:16] Okay?
[07:18] So, you're putting her on a pedestal.
[07:19] That's why a lot of time I'll tell guys I'm not jealous.
[07:20] They're like, "You're not you don't get jealous."
[07:22] I'm like, "I don't care enough because that's beneath me.
[07:24] Anger is beneath me.
[07:27] Jealousy is beneath me.
[07:29] I just forget the person exists if they get too much out of my boundaries.
[07:30] I don't discuss it.
[07:32] I don't have a long conversation about it."
[07:33] A lot of people will say like, "If that person does me wrong, I'll leave."
[07:37] I'm like, "Then stop talking about it, bro.
[07:38] Do it."
[07:40] Like, why are you talking about it?
[07:41] Like, if it's that bad, you know, give them a chance to explain themselves.
[07:42] Otherwise, do it.
[07:44] Don't give an empty threat.
[07:46] Like, be about it.
[07:50] Look, the guys that can beat your ass, do they start do they get angry at you?
[07:51] No.
[07:53] They just beat your ass.
[07:55] Like, some guy starts posturing at me.
[07:57] I'm not scared.
[07:58] Some guys just weirdly looking at me like very calm.
[08:00] I'm like, "Fuck, this guy could kill me."
[08:02] Okay, so like the silent killer, right?
[08:03] Like the guy I remember one time my buddy Joe, he was from Philly.
[08:05] That guy got in so many fights and he moved to
[08:07] Canada where I grew up.
[08:08] That guy got in that guy was like crazy crazy good in a fight.
[08:11] Like he beat anyone's ass.
[08:13] That guy will never tell you before he'll knock you out.
[08:14] Like you'll insult him.
[08:15] He'll tell me.
[08:17] He'll go he'll be like, "Hey dude, chill.
[08:20] Hey dude, you need to chill.
[08:23] Okay, don't say that again." Third time he'll just lights out.
[08:24] He'll knock you out in a millisecond.
[08:26] Okay, he doesn't get all mad cuz he knows that he's in a position of power.
[08:29] So he does that to posture.
[08:33] So, getting jealous beneath you.
[08:35] Like, I'm going to set that girl straight cuz she flaked me.
[08:37] That's beneath you.
[08:39] You should already be out with other girls.
[08:42] No reaction at all.
[08:44] But you got to put her in her place.
[08:46] No, you don't.
[08:48] You're already out with another girl.
[08:51] Another girl's already there.
[08:54] Okay.
[08:57] So, you have to believe in your mind that you're the best.
[08:59] And when you when you're watching Avatar, Avatar is the best.
[09:01] Then if you're watching a and you like fantasy big budget movies.
[09:02] When you're watching a really great Oscar movie, it's all about the acting.
[09:05] Oh, the acting is the best.
[09:05] [ __ ] Avatar.
[09:07] Avatar is a bunch of stupid clown cartoons.
[09:09] I want this world class acting.
[09:11] Maybe you watch a Quinton Tarantino movie where the acting and the character development is so intricate and perfect.
[09:15] Like uh Once Upon a Time in Hollywood or something like that, as opposed to to Avatar, which a bunch of dumbass cartoons, but then you watch the dumbass cartoons, you're like, "No, these have graphics.
[09:23] It's not just some boring dry acting."
[09:24] Oh, look.
[09:27] It's a comedy movie.
[09:28] I want to watch comedy so I can laugh.
[09:30] I don't want to wa I don't want to watch a bunch of dumb cartoons.
[09:32] I don't want to watch some weird acting tour to force.
[09:34] I want to laugh.
[09:35] Oh, look.
[09:37] It's an action movie.
[09:39] I don't want to laugh.
[09:41] I want to watch [ __ ] get [ __ ] up and blown up.
[09:41] It's awesome.
[09:42] You see where I'm going with this?
[09:43] Yes.
[09:46] So, your version of you of what you are has like when you guys watch a Chris Nolan movie in your brain, any movie by Chris Nolan, do you feel like you're watching the best movie ever made?
[09:53] Yes.
[09:55] It carries itself with that kind of pacing, right?
[09:57] So, you have to believe that you're the [ __ ] best no matter what as you're talking.
[10:01] But here's what you need to understand.
[10:03] It's not about whether or not you're actually the best.
[10:05] It's about whether or not you feel like
[10:07] The best and you have a direction.
[10:10] So, do you guys notice that when I'm up here yesterday, for example, I feel like I'm the best and I have a very clear direction?
[10:18] Like, I really, really want to lead you in a certain direction, right?
[10:21] I want to lead you on what it is that I'm talking about.
[10:25] If I want you to take another training, I'm like, "Get up.
[10:26] Take the training."
[10:28] Can you guys even hear the way get up, take the training?
[10:30] Can you feel that in my voice?
[10:31] Yes.
[10:32] Do you feel the int like like sign up back of the room, take the training, get up, watch how I even say, "Get up."
[10:41] Look at that.
[10:44] Get up back.
[10:44] You see that?
[10:47] Can you almost feel the kinetic energy in my voice?
[10:49] Like look, you could even do this.
[10:51] Watch you when you say get up, you can even move your feet like like this.
[10:53] Watch this.
[10:56] You go get up.
[10:56] You go get up back.
[11:00] You guys catch that.
[11:00] Do you feel the kinetic energy?
[11:03] Get up.
[11:03] Get up.
[11:03] Back.
[11:06] You see that?
[11:06] That's a belief that going there is the best.
[11:08] Idea.
[11:08] Get up.
[11:08] Hey, get up back.
[11:13] So you can you can feel your brain almost complying to it because the kinetic there's a kinetic energy that's there that where you're sending the person is good.
[11:22] So you've got to get used to carrying yourself in a way that there's an energy that you're the best.
[11:27] Say an energy that I'm the best.
[11:28] An energy that I'm an energy that I know where to go.
[11:33] Yeah.
[11:34] It's like, oh, we're going to go like afterparty.
[11:35] We're going to go to an afterparty.
[11:38] Get in the Uber.
[11:38] We're doing an afterparty.
[11:40] It's going to be amazing.
[11:40] How amazing is the after party?
[11:42] Amazing.
[11:44] So that's so the problem is we as guys, we're like, "Well, maybe there's like a better afterparty somewhere else."
[11:49] Bro, you're doing too much.
[11:51] Okay, look, if the girl's hot, she's just hot, right?
[11:55] Hot for a guy is he just thinks he's hot.
[11:57] That's a hot guy.
[12:00] I can be fat and literally go dance like a male stripper and girls will start gushing and blushing like I'm a male stripper.
[12:08] I can show you countless.
[12:09] Videos of it cuz I do it as a joke.
[12:10] Like I'll be I'll just be like like just dancing and the girls are like and they act like I'm like a Chip and Dales dancer or something.
[12:16] It's completely ridiculous.
[12:19] If you just act like it, they respond to it.
[12:21] If you hold yourself like you're that hot Chad from Love Island, they just react like you're the hot Chad from Love Island.
[12:29] They actually do.
[12:31] It's weird.
[12:32] It's weird.
[12:33] It's weird.
[12:33] That's why you have to have your iners dialed in.
[12:35] Okay?
[12:38] Cuz the thing is, you'll see some gigachad guy go up to a girl and then the girl's gushing over him.
[12:43] You're like, "Oh, proof.
[12:43] Girls like looks."
[12:44] But then you'll see me get an even better reaction.
[12:46] Why is that happening?
[12:47] Cuz I believe you're the best.
[12:48] I just believe it in that moment.
[12:49] But here's the funny thing.
[12:51] I don't necessarily believe I am, but in that moment, I think I do.
[12:55] And let me show you another distinction.
[12:57] Okay, so all the trainings that I've ever done, I worked on those with a high degree of insecurity as I built them.
[13:06] So while you're building yourself, it's okay to be insecure.
[13:08] But once you take it to
[13:11] Market, you shut that off and you are 10 out of 10 confident.
[13:17] So like blueprint decoded, I worked on that for 5 years.
[13:19] Every minute that I worked on that for half a decade, I was paranoid it wasn't the best program.
[13:26] Up until the minute I pressed the DVD, and paid about a gazillion dollars because it was DVDs back then, and I recorded, I pressed the DVD, I was like, maybe this is not the best.
[13:35] But once that thing goes to market, all that noise is done.
[13:39] We're in a different phase now.
[13:41] Okay?
[13:41] Look, if you were having sex with somebody, you don't want to be like like but like when you're having sex, the motions are like you're the best.
[13:48] You're like, you know, you're like, I'm the man, right?
[13:50] You don't want to be like, well, I'm kind of the man, right?
[13:54] Like that's that ruins the dance.
[13:58] That ruins the dance, right?
[14:00] That's messing up the dance.
[14:00] So, you've got to believe at the highest of levels, you are the best.
[14:05] And okay, I don't care if you're tall or short, bald or not bald, fat or not fat, good-looking, not good-looking.
[14:11] Carry yourself like your
[14:13] Balls are in a [ __ ] wheelbarrow.
[14:15] Carry yourself like you are the [ __ ] man.
[14:16] Everywhere you go, carry yourself like that.
[14:19] Just make a habit.
[14:21] Every single place that you go, carry yourself like you're the man.
[14:26] So in my brain, yeah, I believe that I'm like like not literally God cuz that's demonic, but jokingly like a God on earth.
[14:34] Now, if you guys actually see the way I carry myself at these events, now today I'm a little cooked, right?
[14:39] I went crazy yesterday.
[14:41] Is the way that I carried myself yesterday a person with massive self-belief or like dubious self-belief?
[14:47] Massive selfie.
[14:49] So how did that come across in the speech yesterday?
[14:52] Like it was the best speech ever.
[14:54] You guys understand?
[14:57] Okay.
[14:57] So, I'm coming at it like it's the best words to ever be uttered by a [ __ ] human.
[15:01] Now, what that does is it makes it easier to pay attention for several hours.
[15:04] You can pay attention more easily for several hours when I have that belief.
[15:13] So, great gurus, Alexi, Elliot Holtz, Tony
[15:16] Robbins, Tai Lopez, many of these guys that do millions in sales, they just believe they're the best.
[15:23] That's it.
[15:23] They just think I'm the [ __ ] best.
[15:25] And repeat this after me.
[15:27] They self select.
[15:29] Say self-select.
[15:30] That's it, guys.
[15:31] They just self-select.
[15:31] They don't wait to be told they're the best.
[15:33] They self select.
[15:37] Okay, [snorts] now here's where it gets really interesting.
[15:41] Women hate guys who self-qualify and they hate guys who try too hard.
[15:47] Say, don't self-qualify.
[15:50] Don't try too hard.
[15:52] Okay.
[15:53] And a better word for not trying too hard might be um acting from approval because you should you know engage.
[15:58] You have you can't just sit there doing nothing but it can't be stemming from approval.
[16:04] Okay.
[16:04] So maybe that'd be a better way to put it.
[16:06] Now women are to the point where anything you do if it comes across as self-qualifying will hurt you.
[16:14] That literally means and I'm not this is not a joke.
[16:16] Okay?
[16:16] Because I sometimes I
[16:18] I think I say these things and people think I'm just trying to encourage the broke guys to feel confident or I'm just trying to encourage ugly guys to feel confident.
[16:23] No, no, no, no, no.
[16:29] This is real.
[16:33] If a guy goes to the gym because he's insecure and he gets an amazing shape, he's really jacked, often he will still lose his girl to a fat guy with more self-esteem.
[16:45] Yeah.
[16:46] Don't ask me how I know.
[16:49] Okay, so it's real as real can be.
[16:53] Why?
[16:54] Because, you know, he goes to GNC, he gets his protein shake, goes to 24-hour fitness and lifts all day thinking that eventually he'll be enough.
[17:04] And then some guy like me comes along who feels like I'm enough for no reason at all just 'cause I just feel it in my soul.
[17:10] And that winds up getting her attention away from him.
[17:14] Let me give an example.
[17:15] There's a girl who lives out here, Darla.
[17:18] Who here knows Darla?
[17:19] You know Darla?
[17:21] No one.
[17:21] You know Darl?
[17:21] Okay.
[17:21] Well, okay.
[17:21] So, anyway, Darla was with a guy who got she was married to him and she's a girl who I know and she got super jacked and the thing is she got or sorry, he got super jacked.
[17:35] She's a beautiful girl.
[17:36] I can call her on the phone.
[17:36] She can break this down.
[17:38] He got super jacked and she dumped him because of it.
[17:42] He went and got jacked and she dumped him because he got jacked.
[17:46] Now, I know what you guys think, oh, it's cuz she can't handle that.
[17:47] He's better looking now.
[17:49] No, it's because he became very uptight and very self-qualifying.
[17:53] It didn't come across like he was doing it for love, joy, or passion.
[17:56] It came across like he was highly insecure and didn't feel good about himself.
[18:00] And she'd look at me having a paw belly and you know what she'd say?
[18:04] I just like that you're cuddly.
[18:05] I like I like that you're a teddy bear.
[18:07] I like that you're cuddly.
[18:09] Why was that happening?
[18:09] That happened.
[18:09] Okay.
[18:11] She did that after they broke up.
[18:12] Why did that happen?
[18:15] That happened because in effect what happened was he was too self-qualifying.
[18:19] I believe in myself.
[18:21] 100%.
[18:21] He was like in this demonic pit in his soul that he's not enough and he thought that she would love him more when he got jacked enough.
[18:31] So he became obsessed with getting jacked and he basically just was very uptight and he was less fun, less joyful and he looked very self-qualified.
[18:37] He looked very insecure.
[18:39] So she dumped him.
[18:39] I can also tell you that guys who need too much money, not making money for joy, but because they need approval, will get dumped over it.
[18:47] Okay?
[18:47] They will get dumped.
[18:51] Like, you're a millionaire.
[18:51] What happened to you?
[18:52] Just yell it out.
[18:53] My wife developed feelings for another man.
[18:55] Yell louder, please.
[19:01] Are you a millionaire?
[19:02] Yes.
[19:03] So, that's what I'm saying, right?
[19:05] If he had actually been having more fun with her and not just been working, he'd probably still have his wife.
[19:10] This is just the truth, guys.
[19:11] I hate to tell you.
[19:13] I'm not we're going to fix this whole situation for him.
[19:14] But anyway, that's what happens.
[19:16] Anyone else here ever do it where you got totally focused on money and then the girl left you?
[19:19] Wife or girlfriend just [ __ ]
[19:21] left you because you just work all the time
[19:24] and she just thinks you're boring.
[19:25] Yeah, we see some ads going up, right?
[19:27] What happened to you?
[19:27] I worked 12 to 16 hours a day to earn a six-figure income
[19:34] and she developed feelings for another man.
[19:35] Wow.
[19:35] Can't believe it.
[19:35] Yeah.
[19:37] Like clockwork.
[19:38] And then took your kids.
[19:39] And took my kids.
[19:40] Yeah.
[19:40] Awesome, huh?
[19:40] Okay.
[19:42] Sorry about that.
[19:42] Who else?
[19:43] Yeah.
[19:43] You just yell at what happened?
[19:46] Married for nine and a half years.
[19:48] She said she never really loved me, but I was a good provider.
[19:51] Well, there you go.
[19:51] Yeah.
[19:53] But guys, so guys, when I'm saying like if you just work and work and work, not out of passion, but for approval, she'll leave.
[20:00] This is not me trying to try to like make you feel better if you don't have money.
[20:03] I'm telling you, the guy who had the hottest girl of anyone yesterday was our boy Jesse at the back.
[20:08] Had that hot blonde with him.
[20:10] Gorgeous.
[20:13] And how much a month does he make?
[20:14] Do you guys remember?
[20:15] 4K.
[20:16] 3 to 4K a month.
[20:18] And he had the baddest girl here.
[20:18] So, I'm not saying make less
[20:21] money to get girls, but what I'm saying
[20:22] is make the amount of money that you
[20:26] actually want to make, okay? Like, does
[20:29] is Jeff Bezos dating a Victoria Secret
[20:31] model? [laughter] Is is Mark Zuckerberg
[20:34] dating a Victoria Secret model?
[20:35] No.
[20:36] Look, I I'm part of groups like EO and
[20:38] YPO, okay? And Summit Series. These are
[20:40] some of the top entrepreneurs groups in
[20:42] the world, okay? YPO is for people whose
[20:44] businesses do more than 10 million a
[20:45] year. EO is for people who usually who
[20:47] do 1 million to 10 million. If I look, I
[20:49] love Vio. I love YPO. And the wives of
[20:51] those guys are great women, quality
[20:54] women who I think are [ __ ] awesome.
[20:55] I'm not clowning them at all, but they
[20:57] Victoria Secret models. A lot of guys
[20:59] think that. If I got to a certain money,
[21:01] I get a Victoria Secret model. She's
[21:02] just waiting at the end. If I get to
[21:03] certain deadlift, a Victoria Secret
[21:04] Supermodels waiting at the end. It's not
[21:06] true. You look at Zuckerberg's wife.
[21:08] Look at look at uh the Amazon guy's
[21:10] wife.
[21:12] They're they're regular ladies, okay?
[21:14] Good girls. They're good girls. But I
[21:18] mean, let's put it this way. If I'm in a
[21:19] room right now full of very average
[21:21] women or below average, I could show
[21:23] those guys as inspiration for what they
[21:25] could get. Like look at this. This girl
[21:27] here got Zuckerberg. So, okay. So, you
[21:31] could do it, too. And they really could.
[21:33] It's the truth. Who gets the hottest
[21:35] women? Mostly club promoters, DJs, guys
[21:38] having fun. So, right, you become a
[21:41] Zucker. You you be you get a you get you
[21:43] get uh $500 billion dollars. You get a
[21:46] regular girl. You become a DJ. You get a
[21:49] Victoria Secret Supermodel. Why? Well,
[21:51] what's the DJ doing that women are
[21:53] attracted to? What's the DJ doing?
[21:55] Throwing parties. Going to parties.
[21:56] Social status.
[21:57] He's in flow. He's passionate and he's
[22:00] doing what he loves. As he plays his
[22:03] track and he dances and he pumps his
[22:06] fist, she's seeing a man who loves what
[22:08] he's doing. So, here's the thing. the
[22:11] way that I do public speaking because
[22:13] it's not a job for me, it's a calling.
[22:16] Women come to these things, they get
[22:18] very attracted oftentimes because it's a
[22:20] calling. But if I was dryly doing it at
[22:23] the front off of a PowerPoint and I'm
[22:25] just putting in the work, they'll lose
[22:27] interest. But if they know that I
[22:29] [ __ ] love it and I'm passionate and
[22:31] it's emotional,
[22:33] then they like it. Okay? For example, I
[22:36] have a protect Philippe watch that's
[22:38] worth maybe 100K. That's to network with
[22:41] men. No woman knows what a protect
[22:43] philippe Nautilus is. For women, I use a
[22:46] sparkly watch. Why? Because it's
[22:50] sparkly. Men who are rich look at this
[22:52] and go, "What is that monstrosity? Why
[22:54] are you wearing that? That's dumb."
[22:56] Women go sparkly. Okay. So, okay. So,
[23:01] they want you to wear something that you
[23:02] think is fun and that you like. They
[23:04] want you to dress in a way that you like
[23:07] to dress. See, here's what's funny. For
[23:10] me to wear a baller watch actually makes
[23:14] sense because it aligns to who I am as a
[23:17] person. It's almost kind of weird. Like,
[23:20] let me be real, right? You, most of you
[23:22] guys don't need a mansion. I don't
[23:24] either. I I do not need a mansion when I
[23:26] go out. But if you found out I didn't
[23:28] live in a mansion with the way my
[23:30] personality is and I lived in a studio
[23:32] apartment
[23:33] in maybe a mid part of town, would that
[23:35] be weird?
[23:36] You know what I'm saying? Yeah.
[23:38] Yeah.
[23:38] Now, I I have several of these that I
[23:40] just own, but where I live is a fat
[23:43] crib. So, if a girl were to meet me with
[23:46] the way I act and then I I live in a in
[23:48] a broky apartment, that's it's like
[23:52] this isn't lining up properly. But if a
[23:55] guy is really into like tarot cards,
[23:58] right? Like he has tarot cards and
[24:00] crystals obviously because the way I
[24:03] carry myself is like this dictator. I
[24:05] look like a [ __ ] dictator. But if you
[24:08] carry yourself as a flowy crystal guy
[24:11] who just loves that, or if you're a
[24:12] surfy boy, like if you're a surfy boy
[24:15] and you live in a tent, that is better
[24:18] than a mansion for that guy,
[24:20] right? It's congruent.
[24:21] Yeah. If you're the It's congruent. If
[24:22] you're the tarot guy and you live in
[24:26] like a cool apartment, but all through
[24:28] the apartment you have pink Himalayan
[24:29] sea salt lamps everywhere and crystals
[24:32] and viby 528s hertz music, right? She
[24:35] gets to enter into that reality. You're
[24:38] that guy, okay? You're doing what you
[24:41] like. So, so guys mistake the mansion in
[24:44] the car, right? Like for the right guy,
[24:46] he should get a car. If that guy is
[24:49] somebody who is just a natural dominator
[24:52] and the way he carries himself is as a
[24:53] tribal leader, then it makes sense he
[24:55] pulls up in that car. But the girl is
[24:57] just as likely to date a guy who lives
[25:00] in a $2,500 a month apartment if that's
[25:03] who he is. If he loves it. Now, here's
[25:07] where it gets interesting. If you hate
[25:10] that you don't have money, it bothers
[25:12] you and you feel ashamed of it, then it
[25:15] [ __ ] you up. Does that make sense?
[25:17] Yes.
[25:18] Okay. So, so, okay. So, by the way, so
[25:20] if you're somebody who loves exercise
[25:22] and you love aesthetics and you have a
[25:24] pot belly and man boobs,
[25:26] that will hurt your success. Do you
[25:29] understand?
[25:29] Yeah.
[25:30] That will dramatically hurt your
[25:31] success. Like, if I'm a guy who's really
[25:33] big on being jacked and I care a lot
[25:36] about being jacked, like I think like
[25:38] the key to life is being jacked and then
[25:40] I'm not jacked, that would come across
[25:43] in my speech. Why don't I care about
[25:45] being jacked, by the way? That's kind of
[25:47] weird. Why don't I care?
[25:50] Because to be honest, I trained for most
[25:53] of my adult life and I just got bored of
[25:55] it. And also, I like food and also I
[25:59] like traveling. And when I'm traveling
[26:01] in the Redwoods this week, I don't want
[26:02] to do meal prep. Sorry, there's a really
[26:06] sick place called Arcada Pizza and I'm
[26:08] going and I don't care. Now, when I'm
[26:11] older, I'll get lean because I don't
[26:13] want to get metabolic syndrome, okay? I
[26:15] don't have a heart attack. But the point
[26:16] that I'm getting at is that I don't
[26:18] care. So because I don't care about
[26:20] being in shape, the girls don't care if
[26:22] I'm in shape at all. If I go get in
[26:25] shape, my results will be zero
[26:26] different. But what if you care a lot
[26:28] about being in shape and it bothers you
[26:30] that you're not in shape? It bothers
[26:32] you.
[26:33] What then?
[26:35] If it really bothers you, like for you,
[26:38] the eye patch, if you think that's cool,
[26:41] helps you. How do I know? I was in a
[26:43] wheelchair. I thought it was cool. had
[26:45] great results. But if you're like, "Oh
[26:48] my god, oh, I have a patch. Oh my god,
[26:50] hurts you." Me in a wheelchair, every
[26:52] girl I date in the wheelchair said the
[26:53] same thing. I can't believe I'm dating a
[26:55] guy in a wheelchair. They all said it.
[26:57] [laughter]
[26:58] They'd have to take my wheelchair, put
[27:00] in the back. They'd have to drive me
[27:02] back to my house. They'd have to watch
[27:03] me crawl down the stairs looking pretty
[27:05] weak.
[27:07] And then they had to empty out my piss
[27:08] bottle every before we'd have sex. Baby,
[27:11] please empty my piss bottle. I'd have to
[27:12] roll over, take a piss in the bottle,
[27:14] and have her flush it before we had sex.
[27:16] Okay? And this happened every time I had
[27:18] sex. I had such a great dating life in
[27:20] the wheelchair. Cold approach, crushed
[27:23] it, cuz I thought the wheelchair was so
[27:25] sick. I love the wheelchair. I thought
[27:26] it was fun. I thought it was really
[27:28] cool. Didn't bother me in the slightest.
[27:31] No difference in results. Like, okay,
[27:33] it's to the point that if I was in a
[27:35] competition with a guy in a wheelchair
[27:37] and he didn't beat me, I'd laugh at his
[27:39] face he didn't beat me. and he'd be
[27:42] like, "But I'm in a wheelchair." I go,
[27:43] "It doesn't matter." [laughter] Like, if
[27:45] if me and Kevin went out and I'm in a
[27:47] wheelchair and he did better than me, he
[27:50] beat me. I'm not like, "Well, I'm in a
[27:51] wheelchair. It doesn't count." No. No.
[27:52] It still counts. There's no excuse.
[27:55] Okay? There's literally no excuse. If
[27:58] you're in a wheelchair, doesn't matter.
[28:00] Okay? I prove that, by the way. I
[28:01] literally prove that. I very literally
[28:03] prove that. So, if I don't care, like if
[28:08] I h if I'm uh gray in the beard, right,
[28:11] and it bothers me and I'm really
[28:13] embarrassed about it, then I would have
[28:16] less good results. But what if I happen
[28:19] to think that gray beard is like a new
[28:20] style that I'm pioneering?
[28:22] Because men are viable to an older age.
[28:25] Now, women kind of are, too. So, I think
[28:27] having a gray beard is in style. I like
[28:29] it. So, I leave it gray. I think it's
[28:32] [ __ ] sick. I think it's awesome. I
[28:34] think I am one of the OGs in the space.
[28:37] A lot of the younger guys coming up look
[28:38] up to me. I think the Santa beard kind
[28:40] of suits me. I think it works. So,
[28:42] because it works, it doesn't hurt me at
[28:44] all. But if it bother me, it will hurt
[28:47] me massive. So, understand if something
[28:50] genuinely bothers you, then fix it if it
[28:53] bothers you. But you'll find that as
[28:55] long as you're happy with it, it's fine.
[28:58] And that's why I say you've got to know
[29:01] that you're the best. You got to know
[29:03] you're the best. Okay. Neil Strauss, for
[29:06] all the crap he talked on me, has really
[29:08] good social skills. He has great results
[29:09] with girls. That guy is like 5'5 or so.
[29:12] I don't know what. Bald pipsqueak voice.
[29:15] Very meek guy. Smash it. Every time we
[29:18] go out, he'd be making out with super
[29:19] baddies. Honestly, I'll give him the
[29:21] credit. I'm saying that as a guy that
[29:23] crap talked the [ __ ] out of me, and I'll
[29:25] give him that. He's really good. Really,
[29:27] really good. He had so much attention
[29:29] from women. He's the kind of dude you
[29:30] got to be care like if if your
[29:31] girlfriend's around, she's high chance
[29:33] going to sleep with him. Think about
[29:35] that. That little 5'5 pipsqueak bald guy
[29:37] is going to bang your girl. Yeah, he is
[29:40] real good. Okay, so be careful. Okay, he
[29:43] probably is actually going to try too
[29:44] with Neil. So the point is um being
[29:48] honest. So point being and he'll blame
[29:50] me for it in his book that what he did,
[29:52] but anyway. So point being is that not
[29:55] that I know, but point being is this.
[29:57] Okay. So,
[29:59] but no, he had he's very good though. I
[30:00] got to be honest with you. He's really
[30:01] really really good. And I I bought So,
[30:04] that was part of my development was
[30:05] seeing Neil. Seeing mystery was good,
[30:07] but you know, he's really tall. He does
[30:09] magic. But then you saw Neil do the same
[30:11] thing. You're like, "Wait a minute, he
[30:12] can also do it. Holy [ __ ] that's
[30:14] crazy." Right now, you know what's
[30:16] funny? People always want to want to
[30:18] write it off by saying that the guy has
[30:21] an unfair advantage. Neil was a writer
[30:22] for Rolling Stone. So this little 5 foot
[30:25] five bald pipsqueak guy would be
[30:27] crushing like a rockstar and then it
[30:29] would go everybody would go well of
[30:31] course that happened. He writes for
[30:33] Rolling Stone.
[30:36] That is his that's why he has those
[30:38] results cuz he writes for Rolling Stone
[30:40] magazine. So you know what's funny? I
[30:42] said Neil that's [ __ ] I'll even say
[30:45] tonight that I write for Rolling Stone
[30:47] magazine and it won't change my results.
[30:49] I'll do the experiment for you. But then
[30:50] in his book he was like Owen wanted to
[30:52] be me and he told everyone he writes for
[30:53] Rolling Stones he wants to be like no
[30:55] Neil I was actually trying to give you
[30:56] props and give you credit and tell
[30:58] people it didn't matter but okay anyway
[31:00] I don't know where this all rant came
[31:01] from so okay anyway POINT BEING
[31:04] [laughter]
[31:05] NOT OVER IT 20 YEARS AH GOOD OKAY
[31:10] [laughter] I don't talk about much that
[31:12] just came up so anyway so point being
[31:15] [laughter]
[31:17] but look if I think it's funny to vent
[31:19] it's 20. So, what I what I'm getting at
[31:21] is like it's um Neil proved to me that
[31:25] honestly looks don't matter. Height
[31:27] doesn't matter. Being bald doesn't
[31:28] matter. High Look, I got a high pitch
[31:30] voice. I got I sound a lot like a gay
[31:32] guy. So, like high pitch voice doesn't
[31:34] matter. None of it actually [ __ ]
[31:35] matters. None of it matters. Look at
[31:37] Gary Vee has got a high pitch voice.
[31:38] Easy. He's got a high pitch voice. Not
[31:40] every guy is like, I talk like this.
[31:42] Like maybe I should do a Hey guys,
[31:45] welcome to the seminar. Here I am, Owen
[31:48] Cook. It's me, RC Tyler. Ready for 12
[31:52] hours of this? So, you got to be who you
[31:54] are, right? You have to own who you
[31:56] actually are. That's who I am. Own who
[31:59] you are. Got to own it. So, you got to
[32:02] believe you're the [ __ ] best. It when
[32:03] Neil would go out, it is mine. He's the
[32:05] best. Mystery goes out, it is mine. He's
[32:07] the best. Now, where this gets annoying
[32:09] in the community is where then guys take
[32:11] what is a healthy belief and an
[32:13] empowering belief to have and really a
[32:15] needed belief to have and then they
[32:17] start bickering with each other over
[32:18] who's the best cuz then they hear the
[32:20] other guys saying the best and go,
[32:21] "WAIT, WHAT? BUT I'M THE BEST." AND THEN
[32:22] IT [ __ ] them up. It's like, "Bro, we
[32:24] can all be the best." You guys follow
[32:26] that?
[32:26] Yes.
[32:26] Like, like every one of you should think
[32:29] you're better than me. You're not, but
[32:32] you should think I'm joking. I'm joking.
[32:33] I'm joking. I'm joking. But what I'm
[32:35] saying is every one of you guys should
[32:37] believe you're better than me in that
[32:39] moment. Okay? In that moment, you had to
[32:42] believe you're better than me. Now,
[32:43] because women are so against anything
[32:46] involving self-qualification, like
[32:48] self-qualification is you're not just
[32:50] letting the vibe do it for you, but
[32:53] instead what you're doing is you're
[32:55] trying to logically convince her to like
[32:57] you. Okay? You're not just letting the
[32:59] energy evolve organically. You're trying
[33:02] to logically manipulate her to like you
[33:06] rather than knowing that the self is
[33:07] always shining through. Say the sh self
[33:09] self is always shining through.
[33:10] Self is always
[33:11] energy and vibe will carry it for me.
[33:13] Energy and vibe will carry it for me.
[33:15] Okay. So the basis of that energy of
[33:19] that vibe of that self is that you are
[33:21] comfortable in your own skin. In fact,
[33:25] we could make an argument that instead
[33:26] of saying I'm the best, another way to
[33:29] say it that might help you more, depends
[33:31] on the person, is are you 10 out of 10
[33:34] comfortable with who you are? Are you 10
[33:37] out of 10 comfortable in your own skin?
[33:39] I would ask you guys, which one puts you
[33:42] more in state, so to speak? 10 out of 10
[33:45] comfortable in your own skin, or 10 out
[33:46] of 10, you're the best?
[33:47] I'M THE BEST.
[33:48] WHO WOULD say I'm the best is the one?
[33:50] And then who would say comfortable in my
[33:52] own skin is the one. So look at that. So
[33:53] that might serve you guys better. It's
[33:55] not even it's not even who's the best.
[33:56] It's I am maximum comfortable in my own
[34:00] skin. Another way to think about that is
[34:01] I'm the best for the right person. But
[34:04] that's another way to look at look at
[34:05] it. Okay. So probably because I do
[34:07] public speaking, I've got to come and
[34:09] engage a crowd for many many hours. I've
[34:11] got to believe I'm the best. But
[34:13] whatever you want to put it, comfortable
[34:14] in your own skin, I don't care what it
[34:15] is, but you've got to believe it.
[34:17] Whatever works for you, you've got to
[34:19] find that within yourself. Okay. Now,
[34:21] here's the next thing.
[34:23] If you had to do something to get your
[34:26] confidence to women, believe it or not,
[34:29] that confidence is actually regarded as
[34:31] lower than if it's for no reason at all.
[34:34] This is the thing that guys don't get.
[34:35] Okay?
[34:37] If you needed to win, what would you
[34:39] guys think is better? You won a Super
[34:42] Bowl and are 10 out of 10 confident or
[34:44] you never won a Super Bowl and 10 out of
[34:46] 10 confident. What's better to a girl?
[34:48] Never won a Super Bowl and 10 out of 10.
[34:50] Here's why. Because the fact that you
[34:52] needed to win a Super Bowl makes you a
[34:54] loser,
[34:55] right?
[34:55] Yeah.
[34:56] You guys see that?
[34:57] Why did you need to do that? Couldn't
[35:00] you just be confident? Now, to be fair,
[35:02] you might argue that it's almost like
[35:04] the quality of your sperm. If your sperm
[35:07] quality was high, why did you need to
[35:10] win a Super Bowl? Women, okay, this is a
[35:13] bit messed up to say, but I sometimes
[35:14] feel this way. Maybe I'm wrong. I think
[35:16] women often feel that if a guy has good
[35:19] sperm, he wouldn't be making all that
[35:21] money. He wouldn't be working out that
[35:23] hard. He wouldn't be accomplishing all
[35:24] this stuff. He'd just be doing what
[35:27] feels good
[35:28] to him
[35:29] to him to him. So if the girl sees you
[35:32] like, I got to build this business, I
[35:34] got to build it. She's like, why do you
[35:36] need to do that? Is your sperm bad? Why
[35:38] do you need to go to the gym this much?
[35:40] Is your sperm bad? So in a lot of ways,
[35:43] look, none of us have perfect sperm.
[35:44] It's all ridiculous, but I'm just saying
[35:46] that's how they interpret it. So, what
[35:47] I'm getting at is um if you have if you
[35:50] have a business, say you're a DJ, like
[35:52] who does a girl want to [ __ ] more, Bill
[35:54] Gates,
[35:56] C Bomber
[35:58] or a DJ?
[36:00] A DJ.
[36:00] Okay. But Bill Gates makes more money.
[36:03] DJ is more happy.
[36:04] Yeah, the DJ is more happy. Now, the
[36:07] reason why girls like Elon Musk
[36:09] sometimes, although he is probably
[36:11] better looking, he got a hair
[36:12] transplant. But regardless, why do girls
[36:14] like Elon Musk? Because he wants to go
[36:17] to Mars. Because he wants the rocket to
[36:20] land, because he stands for something,
[36:22] right? So, he's more hype. Okay? He's
[36:25] more hype. So, he has that he's more
[36:27] fun. Elon's more fun. He has that
[36:30] flamethrower from the Boring Company.
[36:32] You guys see that?
[36:33] He does funny stuff. He puts fart sounds
[36:35] in his cars. So he's like the
[36:36] billionaire [ __ ] boy, right? Does dumb
[36:38] [ __ ] He's like full [ __ ] right? The
[36:40] car is full [ __ ] The car farts.
[36:42] It's a full [ __ ] car that can fart.
[36:44] You guys know about that.
[36:45] Tesla can make fart sounds, right?
[36:47] That's the kind of girl the kind of
[36:49] billionaire girl will [ __ ] Right? He's
[36:51] like, "Babe, look. The car MAKES FARTS."
[36:53] LIKE, "OH MY GOD, SHE CARES MORE ABOUT
[36:55] THE FARTS THAN THE MILLION DOLLARS."
[36:57] You guys follow that?
[36:58] The girl cares more about the state pump
[37:00] than the billion dollars.
[37:02] Is that all women though?
[37:04] Yes. They want their state pumped.
[37:06] They're emotionally driven. Look,
[37:08] there's no all anything. There's some Is
[37:10] there some woman out there who's
[37:12] literally the color blue? Probably
[37:14] somewhere. Okay. Probably in Kenya
[37:15] actually. There's some people there with
[37:16] slightly blue skin in Kenya. Point is
[37:17] like there like sure true sure true sure
[37:18] true sure true sure true sure true sure true sure true sure
[37:18] it's not just I'm not just saying this
[37:20] [laughter] but the point is like there's
[37:22] going to be there's going to be an
[37:24] opposite out there somewhere. But argue
[37:25] look you go make a billion dollars but
[37:27] that guy goes to your girl and he knows
[37:29] how to talk to her and he's got a
[37:31] mouthpiece. Watch out. Okay. Like you
[37:34] see this guy's like goddess blah blah
[37:37] blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah
[37:38] and she's like and she wrote I knew that
[37:41] this is the man for me when he spoke
[37:43] life to me
[37:44] and what's funny is I wrote speak life
[37:46] to your woman in the caption and all
[37:49] these girls were blowing me up. They
[37:51] would rather that you create a laring
[37:55] cosplay fantasy that have a real billion
[37:58] dollars. Okay. Say the word laring.
[38:01] Cosplay.
[38:02] Cosplay.
[38:02] Fantasy.
[38:03] Fantasy.
[38:04] Okay. Because they the enemy for them is
[38:07] reality. That's what they don't like.
[38:10] Reality.
[38:12] Okay. You think you think like Jaco
[38:15] Willink is the ideal guy? Hell no. It's
[38:19] the DJ. He's spitting records. There's
[38:22] lights everywhere. He's pumping his
[38:24] fist. It's pumping her state directly.
[38:26] Think about this. Okay. Try to think
[38:28] about think about it this way. If you
[38:30] have a as a metaphor for this, if you
[38:32] have a warm, tight wet hole in your dick
[38:35] and it gives you ecstasy and then I say,
[38:37] "Look, I'll get you a super tight warm
[38:41] wet hole on your dick that feels even
[38:43] more like ecstasy." Do you care if the
[38:46] girl has a 401k or do you care that
[38:48] you're feeling more good feelings on
[38:50] your dick?
[38:50] More good feelings on my dick.
[38:52] But wait, what about the 401k? Say
[38:54] you're getting a good feeling on your
[38:55] dick and then another one came and you
[38:57] got an even better feeling on your dick.
[38:59] But it's like but the the less good
[39:00] feeling one has a 401k.
[39:02] Do you care?
[39:04] Okay. So that guy who speaks life into
[39:06] his woman who can spit a fantasy and
[39:09] help shield her from reality
[39:12] is going to feel better. Remember that
[39:14] women often get emotionally regulated by
[39:16] the man
[39:17] and then women emotionally regulate the
[39:19] kids.
[39:20] So the here's the main key. Women, their
[39:23] highest priority is emotional regulation
[39:27] and getting state pumped. Why? Because
[39:30] if you look, the mother of my kids, I
[39:33] state pump her like nobody's business.
[39:36] Why? Because I state pump them on my
[39:39] kids. I emotionally regulate them on my
[39:42] kids. Who does she emotionally regulate
[39:43] and say pump?
[39:44] Kids.
[39:45] My kids. So the woman, the enemy is
[39:50] anything that puts her in a bad mood.
[39:51] Yes. It's literally a threat to the
[39:53] children.
[39:54] Yes.
[39:54] So, she just wants her state pumped.
[39:57] That's it. She wants to LAR. She wants
[39:59] to cosplay because the kids synaptic
[40:02] pathways and the way their whole
[40:03] emotional system will get built will be
[40:05] based on her emotions.
[40:08] So, if you're comfortable with yourself
[40:10] and you feel like you're the best, if in
[40:12] your mind you you're the most convincing
[40:15] of saying that you're the best, that
[40:17] makes you the best laring cosplayer.
[40:20] That is the most potent thing I might
[40:22] have ever said in my whole career.
[40:23] [ __ ] yeah.
[40:24] Okay. You believe you're the best, which
[40:28] makes you the best laring cosplayer. And
[40:31] what she wants is a laring cosplayer.
[40:34] She doesn't need you to objectively be
[40:36] the best. That's men thinking, male
[40:41] thinking. But I have to actually be the
[40:43] best. No, you have to be the best larer
[40:46] and cosplayer of being the best. If if
[40:49] in your own inner laring is live action
[40:52] roleplay, cosplay is costume play. Okay,
[40:55] it's like larping is like uh Dungeons
[40:57] and Dragons. They dress up like wizard
[40:59] mages and elves and they go and they
[41:01] they reenact D and D scenes like
[41:02] Dungeons and Dragon scenes, Lord of the
[41:04] Rings scenes. Okay, laring. It's it's
[41:05] really funny. If you who everyone here
[41:08] seen laring videos?
[41:09] Oh yeah,
[41:09] they're very very very funny. It's like
[41:11] lightning bolt. THEY'RE LIKE AH okay
[41:15] laring. So they love to lar that when a
[41:19] girl goes to a club and she's just
[41:20] dancing and she's dressed like a fairy
[41:22] princess, she's laring
[41:24] and she's really happy.
[41:27] Really, really, really [ __ ] happy. Be
[41:29] the best larer. Say that.
[41:31] Be the best.
[41:32] Be the best cosplayer.
[41:34] Be the best cosplayer.
[41:35] Lar and cosplay till the cows come home.
[41:38] LAR and cosplay till the cows come home.
[41:40] And never say you're laring.
[41:42] And never say you're laring. All the way
[41:44] to the bitter end.
[41:46] All the way to the bitter end.
[41:47] Yeah. Like like you've got to be the
[41:49] best larer and you got to own the laring
[41:51] completely. Say own the laring
[41:53] completely.
[41:53] Own the laring completely.
[41:55] LAR all the way.
[41:57] All the way.
[41:57] Okay. You got to LAR all the way, guys.
[42:00] Okay. If you come back like if Okay, if
[42:02] a guy gives a girl a horoscope reading,
[42:04] look, horoscopes may be real. I don't
[42:05] [ __ ] know. That's not my pay grade.
[42:07] But look at how much girls believe in
[42:11] the horoscopes
[42:13] with no evidence at all that they're
[42:16] real. Now, as you guys know,
[42:19] horoscopes are not for millionaires.
[42:22] They're for billionaires. You guys ever
[42:24] heard that?
[42:25] Yes.
[42:25] But no, no.
[42:27] What is it?
[42:27] JP Morgan.
[42:28] Okay. Yeah. So, it's not for
[42:32] millionaires. It's for billionaires. Now
[42:34] that may be true, but I promise you that
[42:37] they don't know any billionaires that
[42:38] are doing horoscopes, right? It's like
[42:40] it now. So the thing is horoscopes are a
[42:43] great example because do you do
[42:45] horoscopes?
[42:45] No.
[42:46] Okay.
[42:47] Charts though, but not horoscopes.
[42:48] What's that?
[42:48] There's something called charts and I've
[42:50] seen that.
[42:50] Okay. Charts. Horoscopes. Uh there's one
[42:54] called human. Anyone here know human
[42:55] design?
[42:56] Human design. All this stuff I'm telling
[42:58] you is crack cocaine for larping. Okay.
[43:02] It's entire laring systems, okay? Entire
[43:06] laring systems. It's like crack cocaine
[43:09] for their mind. I'm telling you, you
[43:11] have no idea. Like they like I could
[43:13] bring a 100 women here and I could be
[43:15] like, "Look, do you want to talk about
[43:16] how to make millions of dollars or do
[43:17] you want to learn about your destiny
[43:18] from your horoscope?" They will go
[43:20] crazy. One of my buddies does psychic
[43:21] readings, real or not real, I couldn't
[43:24] [ __ ] tell you. I don't know. I don't
[43:26] f I out of my pay grade, but I wanted
[43:28] him to do a reading on me. I had a hot
[43:30] girl there.
[43:30] Yeah.
[43:32] She watched that reading. That girl,
[43:35] this guy's reading lasted an hour. Okay.
[43:37] 1 hour.
[43:38] She was in.
[43:39] Do you know how hard it would be to get
[43:40] a girl to listen to anything for an
[43:41] hour?
[43:42] Okay. She sat there like it was like
[43:46] full on crack cocaine, heroin in her
[43:48] [ __ ] arm, and then at the end of it,
[43:50] she cried and said that was the most
[43:52] beautiful thing I've ever heard.
[43:53] [laughter] It was basically him just
[43:54] doing life coaching, but saying that he
[43:56] summoned it from a uh Kevin, what was
[43:59] it? It was like a a being. The rare
[44:01] a spirit. Yeah, a spirit.
[44:03] The spirits told sold him. Okay. So the
[44:06] life advice was a spirit. Okay. So look
[44:09] in the same way like for men to Okay. So
[44:12] try to follow this. Okay. When I wear a
[44:14] watch like this or I wear chains like
[44:15] this. Okay. What I'm actually doing if
[44:18] you want to know in in a sales ad that's
[44:20] called establishing authority. Say the
[44:22] word establishing authority.
[44:23] Establishing authority.
[44:24] Which fixates the
[44:26] which fixates the
[44:28] Okay. So if I so if I say my name is
[44:30] Owen and I've done live events in 265
[44:33] cities 75 countries around the world
[44:35] hundreds of thousands of people face to
[44:36] face millions online what I'm doing is
[44:38] I'm is that's called establishing
[44:39] authority which fixates your if I show
[44:42] watches or cars that fixates your if I
[44:46] show infield footage that fixates your
[44:48] because what it does it shows that you
[44:50] have the result okay the way for women
[44:53] that you establish authority is you
[44:56] become a maximum imum, thousand level
[45:00] larer. Okay, so in other words, I could
[45:03] be like, "Yeah, I did lot like, "Hey
[45:06] girl, I did live events in 265
[45:10] cities, 100 MILLION IN SALES." WHAT do
[45:13] you think that give credibility? I
[45:15] promise you. I do that [ __ ] That same
[45:18] girl,
[45:18] selfqualifying.
[45:19] Never. Well, A, it's self-qualifying and
[45:21] B, good catch. And B, she'd get bored.
[45:25] Okay, she doesn't care that I might have
[45:27] coached some of the most richest actual
[45:29] billionaires in the world who by the way
[45:31] weren't doing astrology.
[45:33] Okay, but they were learning from me.
[45:36] But let's forget that. But then, okay,
[45:39] they don't care about that story. But
[45:40] what they would care is if I had like an
[45:42] outfit like a like a probably some kind
[45:44] of a robe or a cape,
[45:46] you know, like a cape, you know, right?
[45:49] And I and I and I'm like I'm I'm like,
[45:52] "Hello."
[45:54] Oh,
[45:56] goddess.
[45:58] My name is Shamania.
[46:01] Hello. The spirits. Oh, the star charts.
[46:07] Oh,
[46:09] I hear it. The voice. Clairvoyance. Do
[46:13] you believe in clairvoyance? I'm also a
[46:15] psychic. Are you? We are all a little
[46:17] bit psychic. Tell me how you're psychic.
[46:20] I told my mom that the cat was behind
[46:22] the couch because I psychically sensed.
[46:24] Oh my god, you are psychic. Wow, I'm
[46:28] also psychic now. Here, take these weird
[46:32] drugs that will connect you to the gods
[46:35] and goddesses called psychedelics. Oh,
[46:37] but like I don't go near that [ __ ] but
[46:39] I promise you they will chew that [ __ ]
[46:40] like it's [ __ ] kids eating pez, man.
[46:42] You get to you can tell them anything.
[46:43] Like I don't go near that. I don't give
[46:44] a girl a drug in my life. I've never
[46:45] done a drug in my life. But those
[46:46] [ __ ] those those shaman [ __ ]
[46:48] boys. You guys know what a shaman [ __ ]
[46:49] boy is? You guys know about that? Oh,
[46:51] they're they're like they're like, "Oh,
[46:52] I Oh, quadruple dose of shrooms." Like,
[46:56] it's crazy, dude. Then they they're out
[46:57] there tripping and the shimania guys
[46:59] like And then he just winds up [ __ ]
[47:00] all of them. [laughter] Okay. It's
[47:02] called a spiritual [ __ ] boy. It's a
[47:03] classic thing. You can see it on on the
[47:05] on the Instagram profile. Super snake.
[47:06] They make fun of them. They do it
[47:08] everywhere, right? And the guy is just
[47:09] like, "Yeah." Everybody just like,
[47:11] "Yeah, shrooms." Uh, right. And it's
[47:13] like, "No, you're getting enlightened."
[47:14] like the drug like like that's right
[47:17] girl with 200 by zelling 200 bucks to a
[47:21] guy in a van you can become enlightened
[47:24] you know what I'm saying right like just
[47:25] get your zeal out call call over your
[47:27] your your drug dealer Fred right zel him
[47:30] 200 bucks comes over to white van and he
[47:32] hands you enlightenment it's not decades
[47:34] of spiritual pursuit entrepreneurship
[47:37] going through hell meditation like
[47:40] gradually chipping away no no no that's
[47:42] boring okay that's too boring no The guy
[47:44] in the van comes, he gives you the
[47:46] mushrooms, you lar. He's a shame. His
[47:49] name is Shamania, and you became
[47:50] enlightened.
[47:52] Okay.
[47:52] Shamania.
[47:53] Shamania.
[47:54] Shamania. Okay. So, that's just laring.
[47:58] That's maximum cosplay. And that guy, if
[48:00] he's a good spiritual [ __ ] boy, he
[48:02] believes that [ __ ] Like you, you
[48:03] question on it, he'll get angry. Like,
[48:05] you'll be like, "Yo, like we both know.
[48:07] Like, come on." Right? Like me and you,
[48:09] if we were if we were to start using
[48:10] astrology, I'd be like, "Look, bro. You
[48:13] know, there comes a time in every man's
[48:14] life, he's got to choose between
[48:16] astrology and getting laid, right? Or
[48:19] it's like like saying you believe in
[48:20] astrology or not getting laid. Like
[48:22] what's your choice, right? Like there is
[48:23] a there like there's a point in like
[48:25] this is a meme. It's a me it's a meme on
[48:27] the internet. There's a point in every
[48:28] man's life where he has to choose, do I
[48:31] want to say I believe in astrology and
[48:32] get [ __ ] or do I want to say I don't
[48:34] believe in not get [ __ ] Right? And
[48:35] there's a choice in every man's life.
[48:37] Okay. And you got to choose. Okay. Like
[48:39] which one are you? Right. [laughter]
[48:42] Yeah.
[48:43] Okay. Yeah. Yeah. Try it. Be like be
[48:45] like there's no astrology, right? And
[48:47] like watch like I'm like like hey that's
[48:51] not logical. There's no authority to
[48:53] believe that. You think she's like
[48:56] yes forget about Shamania. Tell me John
[49:01] about how you want to [ __ ] my [ __ ]
[49:03] Like no. No. It's not like even words
[49:05] like [ __ ] my [ __ ] is too real. Do you
[49:07] see that?
[49:08] [ __ ] my [ __ ] That's real. No. It's
[49:10] like vibey, right? It's like no like
[49:12] we're not going to go back to [ __ ] my
[49:15] [ __ ] We're going back to vibe. You
[49:17] guys see that? We're going back to vibe.
[49:19] So, it's all a lar. It's 100% a lar. So,
[49:22] when guys are so caught up in
[49:23] objectively having a Lambo or
[49:25] objectively having a mansion or
[49:27] objectively being the best or
[49:28] objectively being jacked or objectively
[49:30] being good-looking, they're failing to
[49:32] LAR effectively. I am a 10 out of 10
[49:36] larar. Okay. When I come in here, how
[49:38] good of a [ __ ] song and dance did I
[49:40] put on for you guys yesterday?
[49:41] Very good.
[49:42] How much how committed was I to that
[49:45] song and dance?
[49:46] A thousand out of 10.
[49:48] Guys, for those of you that were here,
[49:50] what I'm running up and down screaming
[49:52] for 6 hours last night. Who have you
[49:55] ever had a man come and scream at you
[49:56] for 6 hours? [laughter]
[49:59] Screaming for 6 hours?
[50:01] Cracking jokes, yelling, going crazy.
[50:06] Was that not a hell of a presentation?
[50:08] It was a hell of a presentation.
[50:10] Did I present well?
[50:12] Was I was I committed to the role?
[50:15] Yeah.
[50:16] Okay. Now, I know I'm [ __ ] with you
[50:17] guys. You're like, "Were you lurping?" I
[50:19] know that's what you're thinking, right?
[50:20] Cuz a man wants it to be real.
[50:22] But a woman, reality is too scary. Your
[50:25] job as a man is to shelter her from
[50:28] reality.
[50:29] Say that again.
[50:30] Your job as a my job as a man
[50:33] my job as a man
[50:34] is not to torture my girl with reality
[50:36] is not to torture my girl with reality
[50:38] but to take the torture myself
[50:40] to take torture myself
[50:42] and to protect her from reality
[50:44] and to protect her
[50:45] and to make her feel good
[50:47] and to make her feel good.
[50:48] So you don't need to go get super jacked
[50:50] or rich to LAR just to be the best
[50:52] larer. I'm the best guy. I am the best
[50:55] guy that ever lived. I've got the best
[50:57] dick. I am the best guy. I am the most
[51:01] fun. My jokes are the most funny. Okay,
[51:04] look. I'm not in a gear to do this, but
[51:06] have you guys ever seen it where I'll
[51:07] just look at people in the crowd, they
[51:08] start laughing? You ever seen that?
[51:09] Yeah.
[51:10] Okay. Like I'll just look.
[51:33] [laughter]
[51:38] Okay. So when I go in my brain I am
[51:41] funny and I lo and I say the word
[51:44] psychically lock
[51:45] psychically lock
[51:47] the thought in your mind. A thought in
[51:48] your mind
[51:50] takes practice.
[51:56] [laughter]
[52:01] Okay. So, if I psychically if you guys
[52:04] are the same face, but you can't
[52:06] psychically lock the like put the
[52:07] thought in your brain, it doesn't work.
[52:09] If I psychically lock the thought in my
[52:12] mind that I'm funny and I look at him, I
[52:15] can literally like a magician be like
[52:17] that and make somebody laugh by pointing
[52:19] at them.
[52:19] It's like an instant state change,
[52:21] right? Like you change your state to
[52:22] feel like you're funny.
[52:23] Yeah. It's like
[52:25] But your [snorts] face is
[52:26] Yeah. But but what makes it cuz cuz
[52:27] watch cuz if I do the same face Well,
[52:29] now I think it's funny. So it's not
[52:30] going to work, right? But if but if I'm
[52:32] if I if I don't first lock onto the
[52:35] thought like a pitbull that I'm funny
[52:37] and I just do that like that it doesn't
[52:40] I mean now you're just laughing. Yeah.
[52:41] But like okay like if I if I just go
[52:44] like that it's not I'm not shooting the
[52:47] energy at you. So the same way that that
[52:50] if a comedian locks like a pitbull on
[52:53] the thought that he's funny. If you
[52:55] talking to a woman or doing public
[52:57] speaking to anyone lock in your brain
[53:00] the thought that you're the best or call
[53:02] it comfortable in your own skin whatever
[53:03] works for you to get in state but you
[53:05] lock on to it that will be higher value
[53:09] than objectively being the best
[53:12] right
[53:12] got it
[53:13] got it
[53:14] that will be higher value than
[53:15] objectively being the best. So, don't
[53:18] get hung up on whether or not you're the
[53:21] best because that is too male, too
[53:24] rational, too logic, and too much harsh
[53:27] reality. Instead, be the best larer. Be
[53:31] the best at laring that you're the best.
[53:33] Quick one. Yeah.
[53:34] Yeah. I just wondered if you could
[53:35] define laring.
[53:37] Laring is like she's on your arm and in
[53:39] your mind, your brain is locked in the
[53:41] thought, we are the best. And as she's
[53:44] with you, it's like she's walking on a
[53:46] [ __ ] cloud. You just psychically lock
[53:48] onto the thought.
[53:50] NO RATIONALE, NO LOGIC.
[53:52] IS THAT the same as just a state change?
[53:54] Sure. Okay. But but a state change to me
[53:57] is like how you do it. But like if if I
[54:01] have a girl, okay, I will lock onto the
[54:04] thought that she's the most amazing girl
[54:07] in the world and I'm the best guy in the
[54:09] world and we are having the best time
[54:12] there and we are the coolest people
[54:14] there. And I lock on that. Now we're
[54:16] walking and as we walk she's laughing
[54:19] and giggling out of control. I'm looking
[54:21] at her, she's laughing, she's attracted.
[54:23] Then as we kiss, I'm laring by locking
[54:27] onto the thought that this is the most
[54:29] passionate kiss in the world. Then when
[54:31] we [ __ ] I'm locking on the thought, and
[54:34] this is far from true, that I have the
[54:37] best dick in the world, which is
[54:39] ridiculous, of course. But commonly when
[54:42] you do this, you will provoke immediate
[54:44] orgasm.
[54:46] Immediate and they slide down and
[54:48] they're like moing and they're like I've
[54:50] never had this before. I'm so and they
[54:52] become say the word responsive.
[54:54] Responsive.
[54:54] Okay. Cuz you believe it even with okay
[54:56] with each like like there's like a
[54:58] stroke where you believe that stroke
[55:00] versus like you know you're kind of
[55:02] insecure about it. So you got to believe
[55:04] it. Say you got to believe.
[55:05] Got to believe.
[55:05] But that same confidence in sex by the
[55:08] way it applies to hip-hop dance. Hip-hop
[55:10] dance is the same thing. It's a LAR,
[55:11] right? When they're doing their moves,
[55:13] right? I don't know hip-hop dance. So,
[55:14] if I try to do hip-hop dance and and I'm
[55:16] like I'm like like that, I don't believe
[55:18] it. But a good hip-hop dancer like like
[55:20] they believe it like like they when they
[55:22] do their moves, they larve,
[55:27] right?
[55:30] [laughter] Like that.
[55:32] Like that. But but I'm not laring
[55:34] enough. Right.
[55:37] [laughter]
[55:38] Right. I'm not laring enough. Okay.
[55:42] Right. [laughter]
[55:54] Okay. So, you got to learn. So, when I
[55:57] do this, if I want to make that funny, I
[55:59] got to be like, "This is hilarious."
[56:01] Okay. So, you had So, again, okay. Um,
[56:04] some of this actually goes back to
[56:06] esoteric teaching like the Cabalian. Uh,
[56:08] they say be at the cause.
[56:09] Be the cause.
[56:10] Not the effect.
[56:11] Not the effect.
[56:11] That's big. By the way, this is a lot.
[56:13] This is a little deeper than we're
[56:15] saying here. By the way, you guys don't
[56:16] If you knew what I was really teaching
[56:17] you, you'd freak out. Okay? This is a
[56:19] little bit deeper than what I'm teaching
[56:20] you. Okay? Why am I one of the greatest
[56:22] sales closers in the world? Because my
[56:24] brain goes, "Get up. Go outside. Get up.
[56:31] Back of the room." Can you hear how I
[56:34] lock on? I envision you setting up. Get
[56:37] up. Back outside.
[56:41] It's just I lock on.
[56:44] Get up. Back. Get up. Back.
[56:49] Okay.
[56:51] So, so like if you think of like the
[56:53] Mgrim experiment or the OSH experiments
[56:56] that if Look those up. LOOK THOSE UP.
[56:58] LOOK THEM UP. MILGROOM EXPERIMENT. Osh
[57:00] experiment.
[57:01] How do you spell?
[57:02] We talked about this last time. OS
[57:04] last year.
[57:05] Look it up. Give me Make sure we just
[57:06] look it up.
[57:08] Okay.
[57:09] Okay. So,
[57:11] what happens is this. Okay. Absolute
[57:13] congruence causes people to fall into
[57:17] frame.
[57:18] So, that's why so a frame battle for
[57:20] example is if there's two of us at the
[57:22] front, whoever believes in themselves
[57:24] more will win the frame battle. Right?
[57:26] Right? Like if I bring two you guys up
[57:28] and you're clown and you start clowning
[57:30] each other, you can tell who believes
[57:32] that they're in control of the
[57:34] conversation more just by seeing them
[57:36] talk to each other. Like you can you can
[57:37] actively see who believes is they're in
[57:40] control of the conversation more. You
[57:41] guys ever seen videos where I've done
[57:42] that?
[57:42] Yeah.
[57:42] Okay. So, I could do examples if you
[57:45] want to see it, but anyway, you see the
[57:46] gist. Okay. So, yeah. I mean, if I just
[57:49] uh pull you two guys up, put you to the
[57:51] front.
[57:54] and not there cuz I I was working with
[57:56] him earlier.
[57:56] Okay, then let's Okay. Uh you have a
[57:59] seat there and you hop up. Hop right
[58:02] here. So basically just shake hands with
[58:03] each other and try to see who here. Go
[58:07] here. Turn sideways. Shake hands and who
[58:10] in their brain perceives themselves as
[58:12] having more value. And I think they're
[58:14] both fairly confident guys. But just
[58:16] shake hands.
[58:18] Who who is submissive? Who's who's uh
[58:20] who has frame and who's submissive in
[58:22] this in that handshake? Very subtle.
[58:24] It's kind of close.
[58:24] He has frame. He's got the
[58:27] guy on the right.
[58:28] Do it again.
[58:33] Turn a bit. Come a bit this way and do
[58:34] it again.
[58:35] Face him here.
[58:38] It's definitely close.
[58:39] Oh, where am I going?
[58:41] Like this. Okay. So they can see you.
[58:42] Okay. Do it again.
[58:46] Now go this way. Okay. Do it again.
[58:52] Are you guys able to see the difference?
[58:53] That's frame. Have a seat. Thank you.
[58:55] Give a hand for that. Thank you.
[58:56] So, [applause]
[58:57] oh yeah. Like, by the way, even when you
[59:00] start talking to a woman, she will start
[59:02] testing on your frame, hijacking the
[59:05] conversation, screening you, clowning
[59:08] you to see how much you have control of
[59:10] that to see how much that pitull in your
[59:12] brain can class on to you being the
[59:14] best. And she'll prod at it. And if you
[59:17] can hold it by being unreactive,
[59:19] indifferent, and funny. Here's the main
[59:22] thing. Unreactive,
[59:24] unreactive,
[59:25] indifferent,
[59:26] indifferent,
[59:27] funny,
[59:27] funny,
[59:28] and free associative.
[59:30] So, in other words, so she'll say
[59:31] something straight nasty
[59:33] and what? Okay, cuz what is the first
[59:35] thing that tends to happen? What is the
[59:37] first thing that shuts down when someone
[59:39] clowns you and makes you go into the
[59:41] survival part of your brain and
[59:42] approval?
[59:44] Sense. Watch this. Sense of humor.
[59:46] Say, "Sense of humor shuts down."
[59:49] Free association shuts down.
[59:52] Now, do you see why free association and
[59:55] humor is so powerful? If you talk to a
[59:57] girl, does that make more sense now?
[59:59] Okay. If I go to a girl, okay? Yeah.
[01:00:01] I'll walk up to her and I'll just start
[01:00:03] free associating, saying nonsense with
[01:00:06] humor. If you could just walk up and
[01:00:08] just start telling hilarious stories or
[01:00:10] saying things that are that are say the
[01:00:12] word deliberate illogicality.
[01:00:13] Deliberateity. So if you do that and you
[01:00:16] just start saying things that are
[01:00:17] illogical but funny and you have a and
[01:00:19] you show free association and there's
[01:00:21] some humor spiked in that will and you
[01:00:23] just do with good eye contact feeling
[01:00:25] that you are the best that there will
[01:00:28] generate skyrocketing attraction.
[01:00:32] Absolute
[01:00:33] skyrocketing attraction hold eye
[01:00:35] contact. Hold on the I'm the best. Hold
[01:00:39] on the I am the buyer not the seller.
[01:00:42] Say that buyer not the seller. So, I'm
[01:00:45] evaluating you.
[01:00:47] I'm screening you. Say, "I'm evaluating
[01:00:49] you."
[01:00:49] I'm evaluating you.
[01:00:50] I'm screening you.
[01:00:52] But you're very cute.
[01:00:54] But you're very cute.
[01:00:55] And adorable.
[01:00:56] And adorable.
[01:00:57] Like a little brat.
[01:00:58] Like a little brat.
[01:00:59] Kind of funny.
[01:01:00] Kind of quirky.
[01:01:02] Like a bratty little sister.
[01:01:04] Like a bratty little sister.
[01:01:05] I love you to death.
[01:01:06] I love you.
[01:01:06] I love you to death.
[01:01:07] You're kind of a dork.
[01:01:08] But you're kind of a dork.
[01:01:10] I could.
[01:01:11] I could.
[01:01:11] But I won't.
[01:01:12] But I won't. Oh, I know I could.
[01:01:14] I know,
[01:01:14] but I won't. But I won't.
[01:01:16] Those are powerful frames. I could, but
[01:01:17] I won't frame. Dorky little sister,
[01:01:19] bratty little sister frame. Super
[01:01:20] potent, right? Like you're talking and
[01:01:22] it's like And it's like and you're
[01:01:23] locking on mentally. You're locking on
[01:01:25] mentally that you know that she wants to
[01:01:27] kiss, but you're not going to do it.
[01:01:29] If you do that, that is really hot [ __ ]
[01:01:31] Like hot hot hot. 20 out of 10 hot.
[01:01:34] Million out 10 hot trillion out infinity
[01:01:35] hot. Like it's really good. Yeah.
[01:01:37] because you look and you hold and in the
[01:01:39] same way that I'm making them laugh by
[01:01:41] locking on like a pitbull as I'm
[01:01:43] talking, but I'm like I'm not going to
[01:01:45] do it to you, but if in my mind I'm like
[01:01:46] I know I could kiss,
[01:01:49] [laughter]
[01:01:50] but I won't.
[01:01:55] But I won't. [laughter]
[01:01:57] Okay, that Okay, that's called Say the I
[01:01:58] could but I won't frame.
[01:01:59] I could but I won't.
[01:02:00] Ratty little sister frame.
[01:02:02] Brady little sister frame is so potent
[01:02:04] because the popular guy in high school
[01:02:06] that they liked treated them like the
[01:02:08] bratty little sister. Okay? The guy who
[01:02:10] made them feel safe and loved but would
[01:02:12] never date them. See that? But still
[01:02:14] loves her. Like loves her more because
[01:02:17] he's a protector than the guy who has a
[01:02:20] crush on her but doesn't need anything
[01:02:22] but she's kind of funny. You know that's
[01:02:24] a powerful frame. I could but I won't
[01:02:26] frame. Very powerful. So, you kind of
[01:02:28] lock on to these and you you mentally
[01:02:30] lock on to the fact that you are the
[01:02:33] best. And this is called laring. It's
[01:02:36] cosplay. Say laring.
[01:02:38] Cosplay.
[01:02:39] Cosplay.
[01:02:40] That I'm the best.
[01:02:40] That I'm the best.
[01:02:41] And that we're the best.
[01:02:42] That we're the best.
[01:02:43] Okay. So, you're basically building uh a
[01:02:45] bubble with the two of you where you're
[01:02:47] having fun. By the way, some people that
[01:02:49] are [ __ ] psychos, like narcissists
[01:02:50] and stuff, actually, they do that
[01:02:51] deliberately. I found that out later in
[01:02:53] life. They call that a shared fantasy.
[01:02:54] Say the word shared fantasy.
[01:02:55] Shared fantasy.
[01:02:56] Yeah. It's actually a very horrible
[01:02:58] tactic that a lot of very evil bad
[01:03:00] people do and they do it because it
[01:03:01] works. It causes people to they they
[01:03:03] cause people to fall in love. I just
[01:03:05] like for me I just do it cuz I just want
[01:03:06] to be in love and maybe say it with the
[01:03:08] person. But the point is, you know, have
[01:03:09] an ongoing relationship. But for guys
[01:03:11] that are kind of like devious, they'll
[01:03:13] do that because they know how much
[01:03:15] attraction that builds. It's called a
[01:03:16] shared fantasy. It's like together like
[01:03:18] we are like you're they they do love
[01:03:20] bombing and then what happens is like
[01:03:22] together we're so hot right now. You
[01:03:24] have amazing sex, amazing chemistry,
[01:03:27] she's the best, you're the best, etc.,
[01:03:29] etc. Kind of how it goes. Or you treat
[01:03:31] her like you use a bratty little sister
[01:03:32] frame. I could, but I won't frame. Then
[01:03:34] she chases, and when she does nice
[01:03:36] things, then she's actually going more
[01:03:38] into the bubble. She's fighting. She's
[01:03:40] qualifying and fighting her way into the
[01:03:43] happy bubble, into the happy circle.
[01:03:45] Okay. So, does that make sense, guys?
[01:03:47] Because you're kind of saying, "I don't
[01:03:49] know." And then the more that she's
[01:03:50] nice, the more that she enters in the
[01:03:52] shared fantasy again. That's something
[01:03:54] that I found out later in life. But, you
[01:03:57] know, like there, you know, being
[01:04:00] somebody who actually has social skills,
[01:04:03] uh, is something that everybody should
[01:04:05] have, not just some weird psycho. You
[01:04:06] know what I'm saying? Not some weird NPD
[01:04:07] guy. Like, that's just called That's
[01:04:09] just called social skills, guys. Like,
[01:04:11] sweeping her off her feet, romance,
[01:04:13] charm, being a charmer. Say, being a
[01:04:15] charmer.
[01:04:15] Being a charmer.
[01:04:16] Yeah. It's called I'm just teach you how
[01:04:17] to be a charmer, not a psycho. Yep. Can
[01:04:19] you talk a little bit more about laring
[01:04:20] until you die and never giving the lar?
[01:04:23] Well, what happens if the spiritual [ __ ]
[01:04:26] boy is like literally like I don't know.
[01:04:29] Again, I use no drugs and I I'm not
[01:04:31] joking when I say this. Absolutely don't
[01:04:33] get involved in any drugs. It's not
[01:04:34] worth it. But for that spiritual [ __ ]
[01:04:37] boy, if he's blasting shrooms with a
[01:04:39] girl and he's like, "Oh, like we're
[01:04:41] we're talking to Collie and all shit."
[01:04:44] And then out of nowhere he's like,
[01:04:45] "We're not talking to Collie. You're
[01:04:47] frying your brain, you dumb [ __ ] He
[01:04:49] does that out of nowhere then.
[01:04:51] [laughter]
[01:04:52] You know? Yeah. Like she gonna be
[01:04:54] pissed, you know? Yeah. Like [laughter]
[01:04:59] like I'm not talking to spirit.
[01:05:01] You're [ __ ] dumb, right? Like just
[01:05:04] Yeah. So you got to hold the alarm.
[01:05:05] Yeah.
[01:05:06] What you're saying is because like men's
[01:05:08] [laughter] laring is like Civil War
[01:05:10] reenactment. It was just his death.
[01:05:12] Cool. Yeah.
[01:05:13] That's completely awful.
[01:05:14] Yeah. So, some men would would reenact
[01:05:15] Civil War, right? But women want to
[01:05:17] reenact being a fairy princess who's
[01:05:18] like getting enlightened, right? A lot
[01:05:20] of girls want to feel like they're
[01:05:21] getting enlightened. A lot of girls also
[01:05:22] want to feel they're an angel, right? If
[01:05:23] you put out angel wings, many women will
[01:05:25] feel very drawn to get in front of it to
[01:05:27] imagine they're an angel. If you tell a
[01:05:29] girl she's an angel, that's a very big
[01:05:30] compliment. She wants to be an actual
[01:05:32] angel. She wants to be a princess, an
[01:05:34] angel, beautiful. Most beautiful girl in
[01:05:36] the world, she wants to be a fairy. She
[01:05:38] wants to be a vibe. You guys ever seen
[01:05:40] the videos go, "Are you a vibe or are
[01:05:41] you stuck up? Are you a vibe?" They want
[01:05:43] to be a vibe. They want to be a vibe. If
[01:05:45] you went to a girl, he said, "Have you
[01:05:47] ever just had this thought? Give me one
[01:05:48] second. Have you ever just had this
[01:05:49] thought that like all this [ __ ] work
[01:05:51] is just fake and really what you're born
[01:05:54] to be is a vibe?" They'd be like, "Yes,
[01:05:59] yes,
[01:06:01] yes, I'm a vibe." Be like, "You are a
[01:06:05] goddess, a princess. You are a fairy
[01:06:08] who's entered into this world free.
[01:06:11] free, bringing energy, bringing light,
[01:06:13] you're a lightbrer, and like you're a
[01:06:15] vibe, etc. That's good laring. That's
[01:06:18] very real. But the thing, like, look,
[01:06:19] guys, try to put in context. Look, look,
[01:06:22] as much as we can laugh at a girl doing
[01:06:23] this, girls are not the ones that went
[01:06:24] around [ __ ] murdering each other and
[01:06:26] pillaging each other's villages for all
[01:06:29] of human existence, right? Like, we're
[01:06:31] like, "OH MY GOD, THAT THAT [ __ ] is lur
[01:06:34] that she's a fairy. That's so terrible."
[01:06:36] Meanwhile, men pillage each other's
[01:06:38] villages. go kill little kids to take
[01:06:41] the grain. Like I think I think a little
[01:06:44] bit of like fairy reenactment is not as
[01:06:46] bad as like pillaging a village to take
[01:06:48] the [ __ ] grain, you know? Like all
[01:06:50] like men are do way worse crazy rational
[01:06:53] [ __ ] than women do. Like like Gangaskhan
[01:06:55] like like I could say the word
[01:06:56] Gangaskhan in most guys in this room,
[01:06:58] including even me, which I'm not proud
[01:07:00] of, kind of think that's cool. Like if
[01:07:02] you came to me like you're kind of like
[01:07:03] Gangaskhan, I'd be like really? Tell me
[01:07:06] more. Tell me how I'm like Julius
[01:07:08] Caesar. Tell me how I'm like gang like
[01:07:10] like a mass murderer like a guy who's
[01:07:12] burning in hell but a guy something
[01:07:14] that's cool. So guys want guys like you
[01:07:16] know we have our own issues you know men
[01:07:18] male male toxic masculinity is like
[01:07:21] murder and death and stuff. Women toxic
[01:07:23] feminity is just like just like a
[01:07:24] [ __ ] fairy and bis and take some
[01:07:26] shrooms you know. Yeah.
[01:07:28] Regular people like you know people with
[01:07:30] jobs. What does laring exactly look?
[01:07:34] Yeah that's a great point. Right. So, a
[01:07:35] guy who's not a DJ or not a surfy boy,
[01:07:38] right? Cuz like the surfy boy could be
[01:07:39] like, "We're beating the matrix. We're
[01:07:41] not like those superficial people with a
[01:07:43] job. We're out here camping in nature
[01:07:45] the way we should." That's some killer
[01:07:47] laring, right? Like a guy in like a guy
[01:07:48] in a van who's doing van like that's
[01:07:50] killer laring. But um like he's on his
[01:07:53] mission. Like you guys don't realize
[01:07:54] that between having a like a 200k a year
[01:07:57] job struggling to pay your mortgage
[01:07:59] versus a van with a bed in the back and
[01:08:02] you're like baby we're not in the
[01:08:04] matrix. We're going to go to Crater Lake
[01:08:07] to connect to God and do shrooms. I
[01:08:09] promise you the shrooms Crater Lake guy
[01:08:11] with the van is going to crush it
[01:08:13] compared. Okay. But what his question is
[01:08:15] so so you don't need money to do that.
[01:08:16] Okay. I promise you like Bill Gates is
[01:08:18] not a good larer. Right? That's why
[01:08:20] girls don't like him. If he was a good
[01:08:20] larer they'd feel different. Right?
[01:08:22] Imagine Bill Gates became a larer. He'd
[01:08:23] be a very popular businessman with
[01:08:25] women. So, um, but as far as like a
[01:08:27] regular middle class job, what you do is
[01:08:29] you're like you're you're like like an
[01:08:31] example would be, you know, like people
[01:08:34] feel like they need to go make a billion
[01:08:35] dollars and then they work. Like being
[01:08:37] an entrepreneur, it's like, oh, total
[01:08:40] freedom. Pick Eddie 20 hours a day that
[01:08:44] you want to work. pick any have the
[01:08:46] freedom to pick any 20 hours a day you
[01:08:48] want to work and have a heart attack at
[01:08:50] 57 like Steve Jobs or you know work pays
[01:08:53] the bills and at night it's our time we
[01:08:57] have our time our magic our love our
[01:09:01] beauty we do what we want to do right we
[01:09:04] do what we want to do right you just
[01:09:06] start doing that so so whatever you do
[01:09:08] you got to you got to sell it you got to
[01:09:09] be a salesman right you got to LAR
[01:09:11] really well you had your question too
[01:09:12] quick and loud
[01:09:13] yeah so when does does it does the
[01:09:15] laring have diminishing returns like
[01:09:17] because part of what you're saying is
[01:09:19] the fantasy part. I get that but then
[01:09:20] the other part is like kind of the overv
[01:09:21] validating saying that they're an angel
[01:09:23] and things like that. Like does that
[01:09:24] have
[01:09:25] here's the thing right the first
[01:09:26] question
[01:09:26] you all okay you always know that I
[01:09:28] tease again bratty little sister frame I
[01:09:31] could but I won't so the bubble is what
[01:09:33] they want entry into by meeting your
[01:09:35] standards. Next question.
[01:09:36] Yeah. The next one is uh oh yeah that
[01:09:39] belief of like I'm the best, right?
[01:09:41] Would you ever let that come out of your
[01:09:42] mouth? I mean, cuz like you're
[01:09:44] I don't need to because whatever.
[01:09:46] If I go to him, right, and I go and I
[01:09:49] come in and then I lock in on funny and
[01:09:50] I go, I'm funny. I'm the funniest.
[01:09:53] That's not needed. I just lock onto the
[01:09:56] thought and it shoots out. When Mike
[01:09:58] Tyson knows, not that I would ever do
[01:09:59] this, but or could I couldn't even do
[01:10:01] it. But when Mike Tyson says he's going
[01:10:03] to kill your ass and his brady's locked
[01:10:05] on to I'm going to kill you and that's
[01:10:07] emanating out of him. That is the
[01:10:09] scariest look you've ever seen. That's a
[01:10:10] goddamn Undertaker coming to take your
[01:10:11] life. Right. So, yeah. So, so Mike Tyson
[01:10:14] used to say in his videos, he takes his
[01:10:16] opponent's soul before he even starts
[01:10:18] the fight.
[01:10:19] [ __ ] yeah.
[01:10:19] Yeah. Before the the fight even started,
[01:10:21] he already took his soul.
[01:10:22] You guys see how that works?
[01:10:23] Yes.
[01:10:24] You guys catch it?
[01:10:25] Yes.
[01:10:26] Okay. You know why that is?
[01:10:27] Ever.
[01:10:28] Because he goes up and he already knows
[01:10:29] he's going to kill you and you feel it
[01:10:31] and his reality win. He says that the
[01:10:33] fight is won or lost when they look at
[01:10:35] each other with the ref there. That is
[01:10:37] the ultimate analogy of attraction. If
[01:10:39] you believe you're the best and you walk
[01:10:41] up, you look at each other and you
[01:10:42] believe it and you hold frame and you
[01:10:44] believe you're funny and you're laring
[01:10:46] well, she will buy in the frame very
[01:10:49] fast. Or she may chip away at it for a
[01:10:51] bit and test the frame and then buy in.
[01:10:53] But you got to be a great larer. Truly.
[01:10:55] And and by the way, this is not a bad
[01:10:56] thing to do. Like it's called being
[01:10:59] charming.
[01:11:00] Be a charmer, right? So many guys are so
[01:11:03] focused on I've got to look like this.
[01:11:05] My body's got to be built like this. I
[01:11:07] got to make this much money with no
[01:11:08] charm. They have no They have no
[01:11:10] seduction skills. They have no charm
[01:11:11] skills. They're anti-seducers. They're
[01:11:13] anti-charmming. They don't know how they
[01:11:15] They don't know how to spin a yarn. Say
[01:11:16] the word spin a yarn.
[01:11:18] You got to learn how to spin a yarn,
[01:11:19] right? It's called charm, right? It's
[01:11:21] just called charm. It's the lost art of
[01:11:23] charm. And And you got to understand her
[01:11:27] priority is that she has to emotionally
[01:11:29] regulate the kids. So, as a result of
[01:11:32] that, yeah, you got to you've got to
[01:11:33] have some [ __ ] charm, guys.
[01:11:35] Like I look, I'm kind of a ladies man in
[01:11:38] the sense that I will go charm a
[01:11:39] 90-year-old woman. I I don't care if a
[01:11:42] girl's fat or not. I will charm her. I'm
[01:11:44] always charming everybody around me.
[01:11:46] That Uber driver woman who's been
[01:11:48] driving Uber all [ __ ] day still has
[01:11:51] that like inner child that wants to
[01:11:53] giggle and laugh and play. And I'm going
[01:11:54] to try to help her to get that out.
[01:11:56] [clears throat] I don't care if she's
[01:11:57] ugly or not. I'm going to make her day
[01:11:58] better. I've been a charmer. And if I
[01:12:01] see a 9-year-old lady, I know there's a
[01:12:02] part of her that she hasn't accessed
[01:12:04] probably in 30, 40 years. So, I had to
[01:12:06] help bring that out. Now, this would
[01:12:08] only be with consent, right? I don't
[01:12:09] just go blather this out to someone who
[01:12:11] didn't ask for it. But if the vibe is
[01:12:14] escalating and you kind of say some
[01:12:16] funny, you know, a little bit
[01:12:17] outlandish, you know, kind of fun
[01:12:19] things, that could lead to some pretty
[01:12:21] naughty talk with a nine-year-old. Like,
[01:12:23] it gets pretty naughty [laughter] and it
[01:12:25] can and it can get nasty because it's
[01:12:28] not because here's why. Because a true
[01:12:31] ladies man likes bringing joy. So like
[01:12:34] see when you say why do that cuz you're
[01:12:37] thinking of what you could take here.
[01:12:38] But here's but let me show you
[01:12:39] something. How much money have you ever
[01:12:42] paid me?
[01:12:43] Uh I haven't paid you anything. I feel
[01:12:44] these.
[01:12:44] Now watch this.
[01:12:46] Are you enjoying that? I'm charming you.
[01:12:49] I'm charming you in the same way I'm
[01:12:51] charming everybody else here who paid.
[01:12:53] Well, you were talking about naughty
[01:12:54] talk charm. But what you're doing is
[01:12:55] slow down. [clears throat]
[01:12:57] I'm up here. My voice is not exactly too
[01:13:00] chipper right now, bro. This hurts.
[01:13:02] Okay, this actually hurts a lot. Okay,
[01:13:04] I've been public speaking week after
[01:13:05] week. I did my LA event last week. It
[01:13:07] was a f Who was the LA event last week?
[01:13:09] It was a massive [ __ ] crowd and I had
[01:13:11] to scream over that [ __ ] crowd. Okay,
[01:13:12] I'm hurting right now. I'm inflamed. I
[01:13:14] spent half the day at [ __ ] Archimedes
[01:13:16] Bond. You're trying to get deinflamed.
[01:13:17] Okay, so thank you. So, I'm here
[01:13:19] charming you. By charming, I mean
[01:13:21] educating you and I'm a better word
[01:13:22] would be say guys say the word engaging.
[01:13:24] Engaging. Okay. So, I'm engaging you and
[01:13:27] I'm enjoying engaging you. Now, you took
[01:13:30] you just bought a 12K package with me.
[01:13:32] Yes.
[01:13:32] I'm I'm engaging you. I'm engaging him.
[01:13:35] Now, he'll be at the 12K one. You won't.
[01:13:37] But while we're here together,
[01:13:39] I'm going to engage you just as much.
[01:13:41] Why? Cuz I love you.
[01:13:43] Okay, that's it.
[01:13:44] Okay. I'm not trying to get anything
[01:13:45] from you. You're a person. You're a
[01:13:47] human.
[01:13:47] Naughty talk specifically with
[01:13:49] Okay. So, why would I give naughty talk
[01:13:51] to a to a little lady if again with
[01:13:53] consent? If it got to that point and
[01:13:56] she's receptive and it's clear and and
[01:13:58] it's it's clear. I'm not saying go to a
[01:14:01] 9-year-old and be like, "Okay, I'm not
[01:14:03] saying that." Okay? But I'm saying if
[01:14:04] it's mutual and clear and established
[01:14:07] and she's laughing and she's and she's
[01:14:09] smiling and loving you and she's
[01:14:11] consenting, then at that point she has
[01:14:13] affirmative and enthusiastic consent,
[01:14:14] then yeah, you know, sometimes you just
[01:14:16] say some wild things. And again, if it
[01:14:18] got to that point, it's natural. And
[01:14:20] often they know it's not leading to sex.
[01:14:22] And they they they will repeatedly just
[01:14:24] say the word thank you almost in tears.
[01:14:26] They'll say like in the same way you'd
[01:14:28] give a I'm not comparing apples and
[01:14:30] oranges here, but if you give a a
[01:14:32] sandwich to someone starving to death,
[01:14:33] they're very grateful. A woman who's
[01:14:35] never been engaged like that, who's
[01:14:36] viewed as invisible, and you go engage
[01:14:38] her like that, that's a very beautiful
[01:14:40] place to be coming from. Okay? And you
[01:14:43] know, sometimes I make up a fat chick,
[01:14:45] too. And guess what? I like it. And I'll
[01:14:48] tell you why. Because it's still a woman
[01:14:49] and she needs love, too. Okay. Fat women
[01:14:52] need love, too. And so, I got very good
[01:14:54] karma, guys. I got very good karma. So,
[01:14:57] okay, I've dated some of the most
[01:14:58] beautiful women ever to live. I could
[01:15:00] show you I've dated if you ever want to
[01:15:01] see. It's amazing. But I'll show you
[01:15:03] anytime you want, but some of you guys
[01:15:05] know my exes. But the point is this,
[01:15:06] okay? Um, if I see a girl and I think
[01:15:09] she's a sweetheart, you know, she's a
[01:15:11] little soft, I can roll with that. She's
[01:15:13] got nice lips, nice tongue, I can roll
[01:15:15] with that. I don't care. Right? So, like
[01:15:16] I want to make her have a good time,
[01:15:17] too. Okay. Some of you guys in here are
[01:15:19] broke. Any who in here is like flat
[01:15:21] broke and like probably three years away
[01:15:22] from ever doing a training with me? Put
[01:15:23] your hands up. You can tell me. They
[01:15:24] can't. Anyone in here? Yeah. But I enjoy
[01:15:27] helping you.
[01:15:28] What's that?
[01:15:29] I can't do a 12K train.
[01:15:30] Well, there you go.
[01:15:31] Can you do a 5K or anything?
[01:15:32] Maybe.
[01:15:33] And we'll talk. Okay. Well, anyway. Hey.
[01:15:35] Hey, you can all leave now. Okay.
[01:15:37] [laughter]
[01:15:37] Okay. So, but you know, any of you guys
[01:15:40] here maybe a little tight on money? I
[01:15:42] want to help you. I don't care. Like I
[01:15:43] do free I do I do free events cuz people
[01:15:46] need help. So it's it actually raises my
[01:15:48] self-esteem to be the to be say this
[01:15:50] word the einator of vibes.
[01:15:53] Rather than the taker of vibes
[01:15:54] rather than
[01:15:55] Yeah, you can be a receiver of a vibe
[01:15:57] and enjoy someone but you also want to
[01:15:59] give no matter what. Um I don't have to
[01:16:01] run this event this late. I don't have
[01:16:02] to run my trainings as late as I do. I
[01:16:04] don't have to put as much value in them
[01:16:05] as I do. I don't have to put out a
[01:16:06] 5-hour video regularly. I do it because
[01:16:08] I want to charm people. I want to engage
[01:16:10] them. So, I like to engage everybody
[01:16:12] around me. And what they really want is
[01:16:14] like they want to live within that
[01:16:17] world. I think the essence of being a
[01:16:19] man is that like here's the most extreme
[01:16:22] example. Take money as an example, but
[01:16:24] you don't need to do this with money at
[01:16:25] all, but take money as an example.
[01:16:27] Imagine you're so rich now. To get rich,
[01:16:30] you went through hell. You went to hell
[01:16:32] and back to get rich. You had to learn
[01:16:34] thousands of brutal lessons. But when
[01:16:37] you're out with your wife, do you want
[01:16:39] your wife to have to say, "I'm just a
[01:16:40] mom." Or do you want her to get to be a
[01:16:42] business owner, too? So, you buy her a
[01:16:44] little spa, right? It loses 20K a month.
[01:16:47] And when you're out, you never tell her.
[01:16:48] And when you're out, they say, "What do
[01:16:50] you do?" "Oh, you know, I run my
[01:16:52] seminars company." "What do you do?"
[01:16:53] "Oh, I run a spa." "Oh, wow. You run a
[01:16:56] spa." You're like, in your mind, you're
[01:16:57] like, "Huh?" 20 grand a month losses,
[01:16:59] right? But she now now she thinks she
[01:17:01] runs a spa. She shows up at 11:00, waves
[01:17:04] at everybody. She doesn't want to do any
[01:17:05] of the work, but she gets to feel like
[01:17:06] she's running a spa. That's an example
[01:17:08] when you're rich that you can make
[01:17:10] people feel protected. You know what I'm
[01:17:11] saying, right? You know, if if if my
[01:17:13] sons are on Christmas, I can buy their
[01:17:16] like, you know, I can buy their mom's
[01:17:17] present. And I can say, "Oh, hey
[01:17:19] Tristan, this is from you. This is your
[01:17:22] present to mom." Like, I got mom a
[01:17:24] present. Of course you got mom a
[01:17:26] present, Tristan. Of course you did.
[01:17:29] Okay. Maybe I could take him out and
[01:17:30] have him pick it or something, but I'd
[01:17:31] be the one paying for it. Right. So, he
[01:17:33] gets to feel like he's paying for it.
[01:17:35] Now, I always want people to feel that
[01:17:36] they're important. The problem is
[01:17:37] sometimes I make people feel so
[01:17:38] important they think I'm using them and
[01:17:40] [ __ ] I'm like, "Wait, wait, wait, no.
[01:17:41] I'm like, "No, we're not taking laring
[01:17:42] that far." Okay, that's a little far for
[01:17:43] your little LAR buddy. Okay, but that
[01:17:45] can happen, right? I always want people
[01:17:47] to feel valued. Okay, what do I say at
[01:17:48] the end of every single free video that
[01:17:50] I paid all this money, time, effort to
[01:17:51] put out? What? Where do I put Thank you.
[01:17:53] Right? You were part of it, too. You
[01:17:55] know, your one view was part of it, too.
[01:17:58] [laughter]
[01:17:59] You know, right? I'm laring with you.
[01:18:01] You know what I'm saying? Right? I say,
[01:18:02] "I love you. Thank you. I want you to
[01:18:03] feel valued." And it is real because
[01:18:05] because you know why it's real? What if
[01:18:07] the world was empty and there was no one
[01:18:08] to serve? That'd be a very dark place.
[01:18:10] So the fact that people are there to
[01:18:12] receive it allows you to be your best.
[01:18:13] So when I say thank you, I mean it. So
[01:18:15] in the same way, it's like um you can do
[01:18:18] that emotionally. You want to create a
[01:18:20] beautiful reality for the people that
[01:18:22] you're talking to. So when you're
[01:18:23] together, it's like you're walking on a
[01:18:25] cloud. When it when I'm with my kids, I
[01:18:27] want them to feel like they're with the
[01:18:28] best dad, the strongest dad, the leader,
[01:18:31] their dad's a [ __ ] superhero. Your
[01:18:33] kids should not have if your kids want
[01:18:35] to watch cartoons, great. But they
[01:18:37] shouldn't have to watch a cartoon to
[01:18:38] feel their dad's a superhero.
[01:18:39] Doesn't matter how much money you
[01:18:40] actually have. You just take them to
[01:18:41] softball. You take your son to softball,
[01:18:43] you could be a [ __ ] superhero. It's
[01:18:44] in it's in the way that you go about.
[01:18:46] It's the energy that you're generating.
[01:18:47] Great sex doesn't mean that you have to
[01:18:48] have the biggest dick. Great sex doesn't
[01:18:50] mean you have to have the strongest
[01:18:51] tongue. Great sex doesn't mean you have
[01:18:52] to have the best cardio. Those things
[01:18:53] don't hurt, but you actually don't. It's
[01:18:55] do you believe it's passionate? It's
[01:18:57] it's the energy that you pour into it.
[01:18:59] That's someone who creates energy and is
[01:19:02] a energy generator, not a black hole. It
[01:19:06] is someone who's a generator. Say
[01:19:07] generator.
[01:19:08] Generator.
[01:19:09] Not a black hole.
[01:19:10] Not a black hole.
[01:19:11] Somebody who emanates
[01:19:13] rather than a taker.
[01:19:14] Rather than a taker.
[01:19:15] Yeah. Is really what it comes down to,
[01:19:17] right? So when you can do that, it's
[01:19:19] kind of like you're [ __ ] her before
[01:19:20] you're [ __ ] her. Got that? You're
[01:19:22] [ __ ] her before. It's the prefuck.
[01:19:26] Okay. So, if I had a girl here, there's
[01:19:28] no girls here today, but some have girls
[01:19:30] seminar and I'll show I'll literally be
[01:19:32] like this and I'll show myself talking
[01:19:35] to her and I show the not literal, not
[01:19:39] physical or literal, but energetic
[01:19:41] penetration as I talk. Okay? Like as I'm
[01:19:45] talking, I'm going into the base of her
[01:19:50] brain. Okay? Okay, I'm right in her
[01:19:52] mind. So, can you almost feel my words
[01:19:54] rattling in your head, almost taking
[01:19:56] over your thoughts? Cuz I'm choosing to
[01:19:58] enter into your emotions and into your
[01:20:01] soul. I'm in your soul. Do you
[01:20:05] understand me? I'm in your soul. Do you
[01:20:09] understand how much I'm in your soul
[01:20:11] right now? We love each other. Okay, you
[01:20:14] see what I'm doing? How much am I
[01:20:15] [ __ ] with you right now?
[01:20:17] Thousand out of 10.
[01:20:18] Okay. Yeah. Yeah. [laughter] He's using
[01:20:20] RSD terms, so that I must be working.
[01:20:22] Okay. So, but how does it feel to have
[01:20:24] me do that to you?
[01:20:25] I can feel your energy in my head where
[01:20:28] it feels like your thoughts are taking
[01:20:30] over my brain. If that makes
[01:20:31] Yes. Nailed it. Thoughts taking over the
[01:20:34] brain.
[01:20:35] No.
[01:20:35] And what thought do you have? I'm the
[01:20:37] best. Say it. I'm the best. So, so if
[01:20:41] that's what's taking over her brain,
[01:20:42] that's why looks to don't matter.
[01:20:44] That's why looks to don't matter.
[01:20:46] Because it's all confidence. Okay.
[01:20:49] Thought transfer.
[01:20:49] Yeah. It's a thought transference. It's
[01:20:50] confidence.
[01:20:51] And when you were doing that, you didn't
[01:20:52] really use a lot of volume. You were
[01:20:54] like when you're st
[01:20:55] Oh, yeah. No, a lot of the time if I'm
[01:20:56] talking to her, I'm just whispering. I'm
[01:20:58] just I'm just talking, you know? It's
[01:20:59] like And you and you can make you can
[01:21:01] make it funny. You can make it sexy. You
[01:21:03] can make it emotional. You can make it
[01:21:04] like you're being kind of a dick and
[01:21:06] then it's like reenacting like them
[01:21:07] chasing approval. Like there's all sorts
[01:21:09] of fun stuff you can do. And again,
[01:21:11] there's a lost art of charm and a lost
[01:21:12] art of social skills that guys just have
[01:21:14] lost because they they literally just
[01:21:16] believe the red pill. It's all looks
[01:21:17] money. They thought hypergamy is just
[01:21:19] looks some money. They're right about
[01:21:21] hypergamy. I'm the guy that popularized
[01:21:23] that. By the way, by the way,
[01:21:27] that's me. But it's not just looks
[01:21:30] money. They got it wrong. The guy who's
[01:21:32] the top guy is the best larer.
[01:21:36] They took the top guy. Hypergamy is they
[01:21:38] go for the top guy. But if red pill guys
[01:21:42] themselves say that women are not always
[01:21:44] hyperlogical beings,
[01:21:46] then why are they thinking that they're
[01:21:48] picking the most logically top guy?
[01:21:50] Who's the best larer? Jay Bieber.
[01:21:53] He's the best larer. Justin Bieber.
[01:21:55] Amazing larer. Or at least he's the most
[01:21:58] socially proof larer.
[01:21:59] Yeah, we were at Dolores Park today with
[01:22:02] it was a Justin Bieber lesbian party.
[01:22:06] It's the weirdest
[01:22:07] lesbians for Bieber. Yeah, we picked up
[01:22:09] a bunch of girls [laughter]
[01:22:11] like
[01:22:12] they just want to be near him
[01:22:14] because he's laring, right? He's got a
[01:22:16] song, One Less Lonely Girl, right? And
[01:22:18] then there was even a scene with um uh
[01:22:21] that singer who he pulled on stage and
[01:22:22] then she Billy Eyish who's a female
[01:22:24] singer pulls her on stage and then he
[01:22:26] hugs her while singing One Less Lonely
[01:22:28] Girl. Now he's singing One Less Lonely
[01:22:30] Girl while he hugs her and then she's
[01:22:31] laring that she's not lonely anymore.
[01:22:34] But is Billy Isish even lonely?
[01:22:36] No.
[01:22:37] No. It's Billy Isish. She's She has
[01:22:39] endless people trying to get her
[01:22:40] attention, right? But for that moment,
[01:22:41] she's like she's laring that she's
[01:22:43] lonely and that Justin's curing her. So,
[01:22:45] she's going with the LAR. She wants to
[01:22:47] lars cosplay. She wants to lar. She
[01:22:50] wants You got to cosplay with him. You
[01:22:51] got to LAR with him. Got to cosplay. You
[01:22:53] got to LAR. The movie The Fountain um
[01:22:56] literally showed this, right? Uh Hugh
[01:22:58] Jackman's trying to save his wife's life
[01:22:59] when she just wants to do cosplay. She'd
[01:23:02] rather be dead than sit there in
[01:23:05] reality.
[01:23:07] but lose six months of cosplay. She just
[01:23:10] wants six months of cosplay. They live
[01:23:12] for this. They want to have fun. Girls
[01:23:14] just want to have fun. Oh, girls just
[01:23:16] want to have fun. They want to have a
[01:23:18] fun time. Why? Why are you fighting
[01:23:20] this, guys? You're making this way too
[01:23:22] hard. Stop fighting it. Just have sex.
[01:23:26] Just enjoy. Laring is life.
[01:23:29] Yes.
[01:23:29] Authenticity is laring.
[01:23:32] Yes.
[01:23:32] Authenticity is life.
[01:23:34] Yeah.
[01:23:35] Say it one more time.
[01:23:37] Authenticity is laring. You're
[01:23:40] authentically
[01:23:41] laring.
[01:23:42] Laring.
[01:23:43] Laring.
[01:23:45] What? Okay, look. If I go to your
[01:23:47] grandma and I'm like,
[01:23:49] "Not my grandma."
[01:23:50] Okay. And I go, "Hey, my name's Owen.
[01:23:53] What's your name?" That's rude. If I go,
[01:23:56] "Hi, it's nice to meet you." What's your
[01:23:59] name? Velma. That's my grandma's name.
[01:24:01] Velma is your name. Wow. Your son is
[01:24:04] really amazing.
[01:24:06] or your grandson is just incredible.
[01:24:08] You're so lucky. Wow. Oh, you're
[01:24:11] knitting. What are you knitting?
[01:24:14] [laughter] That sweater is beautiful.
[01:24:16] Wow. Is this your cat? [laughter]
[01:24:20] What's your cat's name? Felix. Oh,
[01:24:24] Felix, come here. He's so cute. Hello,
[01:24:27] Felix. This is the cutest cat. Oh, you
[01:24:30] you stay here all day knitting and
[01:24:32] looking at your cat. That's so beautiful
[01:24:34] that you have a relaxing life like that
[01:24:35] and you're so proud of your grandson.
[01:24:37] That's amazing. Like, is that fake?
[01:24:40] Well, it can't be.
[01:24:42] Anyone who doesn't do that should die.
[01:24:44] Okay.
[01:24:46] Anyone who doesn't do that should just
[01:24:47] die.
[01:24:47] I'm saying people can do that where it
[01:24:49] does come off as fake.
[01:24:50] No, no, no. That's what I told you. You
[01:24:52] have to properly be convincing. Okay.
[01:24:55] You got to LAR properly. Okay. You got
[01:24:57] to own it. Never break frame.
[01:25:00] Don't break frame. So, in other Okay.
[01:25:02] Yeah. If if I uh talk to a to a baby and
[01:25:05] I go coochie coochi goo, it's like, but
[01:25:08] is that really authentic? Were you
[01:25:10] teaching that baby to be real or teach
[01:25:12] you to be fake? Okay, it's a baby. You
[01:25:15] understand? So much of masculinity.
[01:25:17] Okay, so much of masculinity, your job
[01:25:20] is to shelter is your job is to cope
[01:25:23] with maximum brutal reality and to hide
[01:25:26] them from as much reality as you can.
[01:25:28] Guys, even though I teach topics of
[01:25:30] dating for guys a lot, a lot of my
[01:25:32] videos are not dating based. Many are
[01:25:34] not dating based. How come I don't have
[01:25:36] a lot of women watching my stuff?
[01:25:38] Partly cuz I'm funny looking. But what's
[01:25:39] the other reason?
[01:25:41] Because every word out of my mind is
[01:25:43] like it's it's like driving a car
[01:25:45] without rubber on the tire. You know,
[01:25:47] the way I talk is very shrill, very like
[01:25:51] it's like this. Here's the truth. Here's
[01:25:55] what's actually happening. here's what's
[01:25:58] actually going on. So, they're like,
[01:26:01] [screaming]
[01:26:03] "Okay, now my friend Aaron Dowy, okay,
[01:26:07] like if I pull up Aaron, who's I'm a
[01:26:10] great fan of, by the way, but he's, you
[01:26:11] know, he's really good at communicating
[01:26:13] with women, right? Let's see." Like,
[01:26:17] but I mean, to be fair to men, like guys
[01:26:18] like [ __ ] big fake titties and [ __ ]
[01:26:20] Guys like to be called daddy. So, I
[01:26:22] mean, you know, they guys like to be
[01:26:24] called Poppy. So you're like, "Oh, like,
[01:26:27] okay, if a girl calls you Poppy, are you
[01:26:28] like, "Hey, wait. [laughter] I demand
[01:26:31] authenticity." If a girl tells you you
[01:26:33] have the best dick in the world,
[01:26:35] [laughter]
[01:26:36] she's like, "Oh my god, you're so good."
[01:26:39] You're like, "Hey, tell me the truth.
[01:26:42] Was some guy before me had a bigger
[01:26:44] dick?" And then she's like, "Well,
[01:26:47] actually, the previous man I dated
[01:26:50] [laughter] was about a half inch longer,
[01:26:52] and it hit it a little deeper in the
[01:26:54] cervix. Okay. And you're like, "Thank
[01:26:57] you for being honest and authentic with
[01:26:59] me." No. Like, yo, I had this one girl
[01:27:02] where her whole code was to always tell
[01:27:05] the truth all the time. God damn that
[01:27:07] [ __ ] needs to learn how to lie. Like,
[01:27:08] she like she'd be she would tell me
[01:27:10] things like, you know, like I mean, she
[01:27:12] would always tell the truth. Man, that
[01:27:13] [ __ ] crushed my self-esteem. Like, even
[01:27:15] I need a little laring sometimes, you
[01:27:17] know? Oh, yeah.
[01:27:20] Even I need a little laring sometimes. I
[01:27:21] mean, I I'd ask her things, she'd just
[01:27:23] tell you, right? She she'll just [ __ ]
[01:27:25] tell you be like, "Oh." And then of
[01:27:26] course you you have a morbid curiosity.
[01:27:28] So you start asking and the more you ask
[01:27:30] them more like basically into our
[01:27:31] relationship. So I need a bit laring
[01:27:33] too.
[01:27:34] You know quick one. Yeah. On topic.
[01:27:36] Yeah.
[01:27:37] Loud.
[01:27:37] What is the uh the difference between
[01:27:40] shared fantasy versus us versus the
[01:27:43] world like mentality.
[01:27:45] I think that's great.
[01:27:46] You can literally Yeah. That's the
[01:27:48] conspiracy fantasy, right? Like you know
[01:27:50] we're going to go around and like look
[01:27:51] for weirdos. How weird are people?
[01:27:53] You're like, "Where's the weird dog?"
[01:27:55] Like, "That one's the weird dog. Oh my
[01:27:56] god." Ew. Right. They're like, "Yeah."
[01:27:58] Ew. Like, that'd be an example. All
[01:28:00] right. I don't know if I've ever done
[01:28:01] that exact one, so you can test it. I
[01:28:02] don't know if it would work, but that
[01:28:03] kind of format of like us against the
[01:28:05] world, right?
[01:28:05] Kind of like, "Fuck Mary, kill."
[01:28:07] Something like that. Yeah. It's like a
[01:28:08] It's a It's a conspiracy. That was one
[01:28:10] of the oldest techniques we ever taught
[01:28:11] back in the day, making joking
[01:28:12] conspiracy. Another one is uh
[01:28:14] roleplaying that you're getting married.
[01:28:15] Like you have you have like you have
[01:28:16] everybody go around you while you use a
[01:28:18] straw and you make a fake ring and you
[01:28:19] get on one knee and you marry her. Um,
[01:28:21] that's a big one. Another one is called
[01:28:23] FAPs, future adventure projection. So
[01:28:26] you you you say, you know, um you know,
[01:28:28] I'm going to adopt you. You'll be in my
[01:28:29] new little bratty little sister. I'll
[01:28:30] put you in a little bubble wrap
[01:28:31] envelope. I'll pack you in my suitcase.
[01:28:33] I'll bring you back to LA with me. I'll
[01:28:34] walk down the on walk down the street
[01:28:36] with you on my arm like this. Every girl
[01:28:38] will be jealous of you. Then we're going
[01:28:40] to fly to Greece together and I'm going
[01:28:42] to put you in a toe gun. We're going to
[01:28:43] sell hot dogs and you're going to dance
[01:28:44] on the beach and you're going to sell
[01:28:46] the most hot dogs. And like you just
[01:28:47] start joking. Like basically, you just
[01:28:49] make up an entire adventure in her mind
[01:28:52] and you just say it and she will again
[01:28:55] like the 9-year-old who you flirt with
[01:28:56] will say thank you. She'll just start
[01:28:57] saying thank you. So you can either you
[01:28:59] can either you can either say the word
[01:29:00] physically roleplay the lar. Say that
[01:29:03] physically
[01:29:04] or verbalize the LAR
[01:29:05] or verbalize.
[01:29:06] Yeah. And I'd encourage you all to come
[01:29:08] up with the craziest future adventure
[01:29:10] projection. We used to call those FAPs.
[01:29:11] Future adventure projection that you can
[01:29:12] fizzy come up with. Okay. Again.
[01:29:15] Yeah. Future adventure projection. faps
[01:29:17] or larps, right? And again, the best
[01:29:19] [ __ ] boys are guy like I don't do
[01:29:21] tattoos personally, but like guys with
[01:29:23] tattoos, again, I don't do it. Not my
[01:29:25] thing, but guys tattoos, guys with like
[01:29:27] certain style, kind of like how a girl
[01:29:29] would have style, but a guy has like his
[01:29:30] own like masculine style. I mean, he's
[01:29:32] got a he he like had like he can imitate
[01:29:35] things, joke around, tell stories, be
[01:29:38] fun. He controls energy well, all very,
[01:29:41] you know, dancing, right? Women will
[01:29:44] dance for hours, guys. Like I can't
[01:29:46] dance for more than two minutes. I could
[01:29:48] like girls be like, "Let's just go out
[01:29:49] and let's just dance. Let's just dance."
[01:29:51] And and like whenever I have a new
[01:29:53] girlfriend, they always want me to dance
[01:29:54] with them, right? And like eventually I
[01:29:55] I'll I'll sneak around it for like half
[01:29:57] a year. Eventually, no, tonight we
[01:29:59] dance. And I'm like, "Oh god, she's been
[01:30:00] waiting for this for like half a year."
[01:30:02] And I'm like, [laughter]
[01:30:04] you know, right? And like And she'll be
[01:30:06] like, she'll be like, "I feel so free.
[01:30:09] It's like hours could go by and it feels
[01:30:11] like one second." In my mind, I'm like,
[01:30:12] "Every second feels like hours."
[01:30:14] I got mic.
[01:30:16] [laughter]
[01:30:23] Oh my god. [laughter]
[01:30:31] Yeah. Get it.
[01:30:33] I feel so free. [laughter]
[01:30:37] I feel so free. Yeah. He wants to be
[01:30:39] free. He wants to be free. So anyway,
[01:30:41] [laughter] he go to Yeah. I was like,
[01:30:46] "Right." But they're like, they do it
[01:30:47] for hours cuz they're laring, right?
[01:30:48] They So, so a man you're So, my seminars
[01:30:52] appeal for guys more than girls because
[01:30:54] I'm always trying to unchath reality.
[01:30:57] LIKE, THIS IS REALITY. LOOK AT THE
[01:31:00] HYPERGAMY. IT is true reality. RIGHT
[01:31:04] NOW, SCREAM. AH, HYPER. RIGHT. SO, I'M
[01:31:06] DOING THAT. Whereas uh if if we were
[01:31:09] like how many girls will ask you if your
[01:31:11] soulmate's from different incarnations?
[01:31:13] Every single one.
[01:31:15] Guys, how many times have you had a girl
[01:31:17] ask you if you're soulmate's from a
[01:31:19] different incarnation?
[01:31:20] Every single time.
[01:31:21] Yeah. And you're like, technically
[01:31:23] speaking, there's no tangible evidence
[01:31:26] to point towards multiple lives.
[01:31:28] No, you say I have memories, right? You
[01:31:31] have to be like, I have memories of it,
[01:31:33] right?
[01:31:34] You know, right? And you're like, and
[01:31:36] you're like, "Did you have them, too? I
[01:31:38] didn't want to say anything. I didn't I
[01:31:41] [laughter] didn't I didn't want to say
[01:31:42] that that I had I had these memories of
[01:31:46] us from before from the from the before
[01:31:47] times." You remembered it. And they're
[01:31:49] like, "OH MY GOD, I ALSO HAVE THOSE
[01:31:51] MEMORIES." THEN IN YOUR MIND, you're
[01:31:52] like, "Fuck, does this [ __ ]
[01:31:53] hallucinate?" Like, that's that's that's
[01:31:55] a little scary, right? [laughter] That's
[01:31:57] kind of scary. But 100% of them have it.
[01:32:00] 100% have it. So, you have to go with
[01:32:03] it, right? Like any guy who's like
[01:32:05] technically speaking that's not true and
[01:32:08] you know right like say a girl's like am
[01:32:09] I the most beautiful girl in the world
[01:32:11] you're like well technically speaking
[01:32:12] there's eight billion girls right
[01:32:14] there's no so women live in the land of
[01:32:16] emotion right and they have logic too
[01:32:18] they okay look there's like a quote of
[01:32:20] this it's like it's like it's like a
[01:32:22] real a woman dating a man versus a woman
[01:32:24] dating a boy a woman dating uh a a man
[01:32:28] is like a little girl and then not a
[01:32:30] literal little girl but happy like a
[01:32:32] little girl but as an adult to be clear.
[01:32:34] And then a girl who's dating a boy has
[01:32:37] to be like a boss babe. Okay? Like if
[01:32:39] she's dating a little boy, she's got to
[01:32:40] be like very rigid. And so she'll be
[01:32:43] like, if a woman doesn't feel safe and
[01:32:45] the guy cannot provide the uh I think
[01:32:48] it's called containment. Say the word
[01:32:49] containment. Containment.
[01:32:50] So the guy can't provide containment,
[01:32:52] then she's got to provide her own
[01:32:53] containment. And then she's just
[01:32:54] regularly very very angry. Okay? She's
[01:32:57] miserable and angry as [ __ ] right? So
[01:32:59] part of containment is laring. Okay? Say
[01:33:02] containment
[01:33:03] containment
[01:33:04] is laring.
[01:33:05] Yeah. It's creating a beautiful reality.
[01:33:06] Now look, that doesn't mean Okay, so
[01:33:08] that doesn't mean that's not a license
[01:33:10] to go just make boldfaced lies like you
[01:33:13] know like we have 40 million in the
[01:33:15] bank, you know, that's a very short
[01:33:18] relationship, a fling maybe, but you
[01:33:20] know, it's like how you got there,
[01:33:21] right? Like how would you
[01:33:24] don't No, no. It's it's like soulmates
[01:33:26] and twin flames is one thing. Lying
[01:33:29] about your income is another thing. I'm
[01:33:31] saying like you said that if you don't
[01:33:33] do it properly become angry.
[01:33:35] You need to provide containment.
[01:33:36] So let's say if you're in that negative
[01:33:38] place with a woman, how do you get
[01:33:40] I mean that's a that's a whole other
[01:33:41] video I'd say. But I as I always say
[01:33:43] with women say repeat after me. Change
[01:33:45] her mood.
[01:33:46] Change her mood.
[01:33:47] Not her mind.
[01:33:48] Not her mind.
[01:33:48] Yeah. And by the way guys,
[01:33:50] another a couple points I want to point
[01:33:51] out, a couple like side points. One is
[01:33:53] when you get married and she gets
[01:33:55] married,
[01:33:56] you're getting married and you're
[01:33:57] thinking it's real. You're like, "Okay,
[01:33:58] we're making a lifelong commitment. What
[01:34:00] are they doing?
[01:34:02] They're playing makebelieve.
[01:34:05] Okay, they're playing make believe and
[01:34:07] they're laring. Okay, they're reenacting
[01:34:09] a marriage scene. It's just fun for them
[01:34:11] doing that. I think I think marriage is
[01:34:14] a very beautiful thing. But try to
[01:34:16] follow me here. Okay, you go get married
[01:34:19] and you're like, would I marry this
[01:34:20] person? Would I spend the rest of my
[01:34:22] life with them? I made a vow. A common
[01:34:24] thing that when a woman leaves a man,
[01:34:26] and by the way, like 80% of divorce is
[01:34:27] women, right? When women leave leaves a
[01:34:29] man, it's because the cosplay wasn't
[01:34:31] good enough and ended. But in addition,
[01:34:33] the guy will always be like, "When I
[01:34:36] took those vows, I [clears throat] meant
[01:34:39] what I said." Right? Is this helping
[01:34:42] you?
[01:34:43] Yes.
[01:34:43] When you took your vows, did you mean
[01:34:45] what you said?
[01:34:46] I said those exact words.
[01:34:47] I meant what I said. What did she now
[01:34:50] when when she was pulling back from you
[01:34:52] and you said when I took those vows I
[01:34:56] meant what I said
[01:34:58] she didn't care
[01:34:58] what' she say?
[01:34:59] I don't remember but she didn't care.
[01:35:01] She didn't care
[01:35:02] at all. Okay. The LAR ended. It's like
[01:35:05] LAR ended. I'm on to the new movie now.
[01:35:08] I'm out of your reality tunnel. I'm in
[01:35:10] the new reality tunnel. Why is this
[01:35:12] weird invader from the old reality
[01:35:14] tunnel entering the new reality tunnel?
[01:35:16] It's like you're trying to watch a new
[01:35:17] Chris Nola movie and a [ __ ] Smurf
[01:35:19] from your childhood comes back and
[01:35:20] demands you come back and watch Smurfs.
[01:35:22] She's on to the next, right? She's out
[01:35:24] of that tunnel. So guys take that [ __ ]
[01:35:26] way too serious. You could do as check
[01:35:28] the laws in your local cities. You could
[01:35:30] reenact a marriage, but it's not it's
[01:35:33] not doing anything, okay? It's a LAR. So
[01:35:36] keep that in mind, okay? It's a LAR. Try
[01:35:38] to understand that. It's just it's just
[01:35:40] play. It's all playful. Okay? You have
[01:35:42] the best dick. You're the best guy in
[01:35:44] the world. like she's the most beautiful
[01:35:46] girl in the world. Your sex is the best.
[01:35:49] You are soulmates. She's going to dance
[01:35:51] in a toga in a in a with a hot dog.
[01:35:55] Okay. Same thing. I remember I I had an
[01:35:57] ex who I love dearly, so I'm not trying
[01:35:58] to dog her cuz I love her to death. But
[01:36:00] I remember this. If anything, I'm
[01:36:02] clowning myself here. I'm purely
[01:36:03] clowning myself, but I think I spent on
[01:36:05] travel on her maybe I don't know two
[01:36:08] three million probably in travel.
[01:36:10] And I remember uh we went everywhere.
[01:36:11] She had a great time. I had a great
[01:36:12] time. I love her to death. I'm not like
[01:36:13] complaining. I'm just sharing my
[01:36:15] feelings and she probably like that.
[01:36:17] Sharing my feelings, baby. So,
[01:36:19] [laughter]
[01:36:19] sharing my heart. Okay. So, anyway, so I
[01:36:22] remember we broke up. We have a mutual
[01:36:24] friend and he mentioned that with her
[01:36:26] new guy, she's like, "My new guy, he
[01:36:29] drove me around Malibu, which is like
[01:36:30] just like kind of like a beachfront
[01:36:32] suburb of LA. He drove me around Malibu
[01:36:34] and we sang a song and I and and I was
[01:36:37] like again much like you like I when I
[01:36:40] took those vows I meant what I said.
[01:36:44] Okay. And the girls like we're laring
[01:36:45] like why are you being weird? Well in
[01:36:46] the same Okay. In the same way I mean
[01:36:49] that is how they look at you right? Is
[01:36:50] that not how they look at you? Like have
[01:36:53] you guys ever had a girl who like you
[01:36:54] guys told each other your soul mates and
[01:36:55] then the girl eats you like [ __ ] you
[01:36:57] said we're [ __ ] soulmates. You said
[01:36:58] that we we knew each other from past
[01:37:01] lives and [ __ ]
[01:37:02] [laughter]
[01:37:02] I had a girl that dumped me who told me
[01:37:04] we knew each other from all these past
[01:37:05] lives. And I actually was dumb enough to
[01:37:06] say this when I was younger. I'm like,
[01:37:08] "You said we knew each other from past
[01:37:09] lives." She goes, "No, but in like we
[01:37:11] could also because we are soulmates, we
[01:37:14] could be with different people in this
[01:37:15] life." That's how she justified the
[01:37:17] hypergamy. Yeah. Yeah. Cuz it kind of
[01:37:19] kept the alarm going, right? But
[01:37:21] Yeah. So,
[01:37:24] so then Yeah. But it makes sense her.
[01:37:26] So, okay. So, then from there, she's
[01:37:28] emotionally regulating herself for the
[01:37:30] babies. So, then Okay. So, watch this.
[01:37:31] So, so, uh, anyway, so I realized I was
[01:37:35] like, "Oh, wait a minute." See, I was
[01:37:37] dumb. I thought that the 2 million in
[01:37:40] the objective reality that we traveled
[01:37:45] would be worth more than a trip to
[01:37:47] Malibu. But if I'm on the trip and I'm
[01:37:50] trying to get videos and I'm stressing
[01:37:52] over work, but okay. And then we but we
[01:37:56] go all the way to Montana, but I'm not
[01:37:59] singing. But the other guy only goes to
[01:38:02] Malibu, but he sings. Who's the better
[01:38:06] larer?
[01:38:07] The other guy.
[01:38:08] The other guy.
[01:38:08] Do you think she cares? Like objectively
[01:38:10] speaking, the Grand Teton Mountains in
[01:38:14] Wyoming have a larger spike on them than
[01:38:17] the Malibu Mountains.
[01:38:20] I do care. Can I be honest with you? I'm
[01:38:22] not joking. I drove to [ __ ]
[01:38:24] Wing BECAUSE I WANT TO SEE THAT SPIKE.
[01:38:26] OKAY, you ever seen the R Tetons?
[01:38:29] Very spiky.
[01:38:30] Tetons.
[01:38:30] The word Teton actually was because
[01:38:34] French people named it giant tits.
[01:38:36] [laughter] So the joke you thought was
[01:38:39] real.
[01:38:41] Okay. Yeah, it's actually called the
[01:38:42] giant tits. Look them up. The Grand
[01:38:44] Teton Mountains. They're beautiful. It's
[01:38:46] a giant spike. So to me, I'm like,
[01:38:48] "Bitch, we just drove and spent tens of
[01:38:51] thousands to see the giant tit
[01:38:54] mountains." Was I stress? Yes.
[01:38:56] [laughter] But we got here.
[01:38:59] I got you here. And that's got to mean
[01:39:01] something. [laughter] When I told you I
[01:39:03] get you there, I meant it. Okay? And the
[01:39:07] funny thing is, if I took if if I told
[01:39:08] you guys I'm going to take you to the
[01:39:09] Grand Tetons, okay? And I was kind of
[01:39:11] angry the whole way there. But I got us
[01:39:13] there. We saw those [ __ ] titties,
[01:39:14] okay? You'd be okay with it, right?
[01:39:16] Because we achieve the goal, right?
[01:39:18] Logical. We achieve the goal. I want to
[01:39:20] see it. I made a plan. I got it. But for
[01:39:22] the girl, it's like, did you sing on the
[01:39:24] way there? We're in the fantasy on the
[01:39:25] way there, right? What were you saying
[01:39:27] on the way there? Has very little to do
[01:39:28] with that you actually got there. Okay.
[01:39:30] It's like my son Tristan. I try to hike
[01:39:32] to the top of the hill in Renion in LA
[01:39:34] Running Canyon because I I want to
[01:39:35] [ __ ] just get my heart rate up,
[01:39:36] right? My So, I'm trying to blast my way
[01:39:38] to the top. What's Tristan want to do?
[01:39:40] He'll skip the whole way and then he'll
[01:39:42] keep stopping to pull a a little
[01:39:44] dandelion up and he'll blow it. then
[01:39:46] he'll skip a bit more, then he'll pull
[01:39:47] up a rock, he'll throw. That's how women
[01:39:49] want to be. But the gift that women give
[01:39:51] to men is that if it wasn't for women,
[01:39:54] we would spend our whole life smashing
[01:39:57] up and down the hill. But what are we
[01:39:58] even moving towards if we can't have
[01:39:59] fun?
[01:40:00] WHY EVEN GO UP AND DOWN THE damn hill if
[01:40:02] we can't have fun?
[01:40:03] You see that? So actually women's laring
[01:40:06] is a gift because it gets you to have a
[01:40:08] better perspective and it because okay
[01:40:10] so you you you know you become this like
[01:40:13] raider empire builder goes and you know
[01:40:16] takes over the whole world but you
[01:40:18] didn't even enjoy it. Why'd you do it?
[01:40:19] That's why women view men as weak.
[01:40:22] Do you guys see this?
[01:40:23] Yes. They view men as weak because
[01:40:26] they're not strong enough to
[01:40:27] self-generate their own emotions. And so
[01:40:29] they're very needy for accomplishment to
[01:40:32] be okay with themselves.
[01:40:35] They're very needy for validation.
[01:40:39] They're very needy for accomplishment.
[01:40:41] They're not generators. They can't
[01:40:43] generate their own emotion. And so
[01:40:45] because they can't generate their own
[01:40:46] emotion, they have to self they have to
[01:40:48] accomplish all this stuff. themsel
[01:40:49] qualify instead of being strong enough
[01:40:51] to lar but actually strong enough to
[01:40:53] control their own state. So the women
[01:40:55] are controlling their own state better
[01:40:56] than guys do. Women also have better
[01:40:58] female friends than guys do. Guys tend
[01:41:00] to struggle with actually having group
[01:41:02] like female like guy friends. You guys
[01:41:04] actually making a group of guy friends
[01:41:05] here is probably 90% of the value of
[01:41:07] even being in a [ __ ] room. Okay, the
[01:41:09] camaraderie brotherhood is huge. Making
[01:41:11] meeting all you guys is huge. Why I do
[01:41:13] this [ __ ] why I love it. So guys
[01:41:15] struggle with that and they struggle to
[01:41:16] generate their own state. and they go
[01:41:17] very numb and then they just try to get
[01:41:19] to the next thing and what happens when
[01:41:20] they get next thing more numb. That's
[01:41:22] why women view it as dumb. So if you can
[01:41:24] self-generate a good mood and you're not
[01:41:26] needy, actually ironically needing less
[01:41:29] is actually viewed as more. That's why
[01:41:32] you go build you go make this a billion
[01:41:34] dollar empire, you just look like a
[01:41:35] manipulator with bad sperm,
[01:41:37] right? You go get super jacked, you look
[01:41:39] like a manipulator with bad sperm. The
[01:41:41] most attractive male body is closer to
[01:41:44] like a swimmer's body. And why is that?
[01:41:46] because it's a guy who like likes to
[01:41:48] feel good in his body. He likes to take
[01:41:49] care of himself, but he's not
[01:41:50] overcompensating. The right amount of
[01:41:52] money for a woman, a woman's ideal
[01:41:54] amount of money for her mate is probably
[01:41:56] like 80 to 120K where he can pay the
[01:41:58] bills and you're not in abject poverty,
[01:42:01] but it's not dominating his thoughts all
[01:42:03] the time and he can sing on the way to
[01:42:04] Malibu. Okay, the girl. Okay, look, Tom
[01:42:08] Brady won all the Super Bowls. What'
[01:42:09] Jazelle do?
[01:42:11] She went to the to the broke trainer,
[01:42:13] the broke jiu-jitsu instructor. He's a
[01:42:14] He's a grown man who's a jiu-jitsu
[01:42:17] instructor. A grown man. He teaches
[01:42:20] jiu-jitsu. Okay? But I guarantee you
[01:42:23] that guy knows how to lar. Okay? That
[01:42:25] guy knows how to get in her mind. He
[01:42:28] knows how to get in her [ __ ] soul. So
[01:42:30] guys hear this [ __ ] It pisses them off
[01:42:31] like, "No, no, I should be recognized
[01:42:34] for my accomplishments." Yeah, by other
[01:42:35] guys. I'll recognize your
[01:42:36] accomplishments. Why is that not enough?
[01:42:38] The other guys don't recognize your
[01:42:39] accomplishments. Why is that not enough?
[01:42:41] You recognize your accomplishment. God
[01:42:43] recognized her an accomplishment. I I
[01:42:45] personally think that's enough. I don't
[01:42:46] I don't think that you need um I I
[01:42:49] really really really don't think that
[01:42:50] you need that much more than that, guys.
[01:42:52] Um I I really I really don't. So like
[01:42:55] what I'd say to you here also guys is
[01:42:57] it's actually very masculine in a
[01:42:59] different way that you're not thinking
[01:43:00] about. Why is it masculine? Say the word
[01:43:02] cause
[01:43:04] not the effect.
[01:43:05] Not the effect.
[01:43:06] And generating emotion
[01:43:08] generating emotion
[01:43:09] the most direct way.
[01:43:11] The most direct way. And the most potent
[01:43:13] way.
[01:43:14] That's the truth. It's the most potent
[01:43:16] way. The most direct way, right?
[01:43:17] Generating is the most direct way. If
[01:43:19] you had this down, your wife would
[01:43:20] probably come back because you'd be
[01:43:22] infusing her with energy. Okay? That
[01:43:26] would be a hu that'd be so I want you to
[01:43:28] learn this stuff. Okay? And by the way,
[01:43:29] when I teach this stuff, we do the
[01:43:31] theory here, but I really teach you out
[01:43:33] there. I'll take you out and I'll you'll
[01:43:35] see me doing this everywhere. And that's
[01:43:37] why I'm kind of a charmer everywhere I
[01:43:38] go. Look, I know how to use my voice. I
[01:43:42] know how to use status. I know how to be
[01:43:44] at the cause, not the effect in the
[01:43:45] environment. And I know how to generate
[01:43:46] emotions. As a result of that, I have
[01:43:49] attention everywhere that I go. Look, I
[01:43:51] like a lot of the red pill stuff. They
[01:43:53] have a lot of good advice, but I think
[01:43:54] they really ignore charm. Say these
[01:43:57] words. Charm.
[01:43:58] Charm.
[01:43:59] Emotional awareness.
[01:44:00] Emotional awareness.
[01:44:01] Social intelligence.
[01:44:02] Social intelligence.
[01:44:03] Relating to people.
[01:44:04] Relating to people.
[01:44:05] Relating to people.
[01:44:06] Vibes.
[01:44:07] Vibes.
[01:44:07] Yeah, I think. Yeah. Rhythm.
[01:44:09] Rhythm.
[01:44:10] Flow.
[01:44:11] They ignore a lot of that.
[01:44:13] Like they actually do. They they they
[01:44:15] really do ignore a lot of that stuff.
[01:44:16] And so this whole thing of like, oh, be
[01:44:19] uh you know, have the have the Lambo and
[01:44:20] the muscles. That's a very guy version
[01:44:22] of hypergamy. That's called hypergamy
[01:44:24] for guys.
[01:44:26] It's not that women don't like it. They
[01:44:27] think it's cool. But not if it not if
[01:44:29] it's done for compensation, right? Not
[01:44:32] if it's done for compensation. And I can
[01:44:34] even show you like some of the things
[01:44:37] that I'd say are good. Um, okay guys,
[01:44:40] let me just read some notes here. I took
[01:44:42] man's under a patriarchy.
[01:44:46] What's attractive? Consistently
[01:44:47] reliability, investment in her,
[01:44:50] devotion, paying for her, putting her
[01:44:53] first, and building a nest. Under a
[01:44:55] matriarchal society, it's more about
[01:44:57] popularity, willingness to walk away
[01:44:59] because that means you're popular,
[01:45:01] following your emotions. money in in
[01:45:03] matriarchy is overcompensation, putting
[01:45:05] yourself first so that you're popular
[01:45:07] and has a lot of fun and can lar. Okay,
[01:45:10] so um skills that guys need to focus on.
[01:45:14] Okay,
[01:45:16] here's what I tell you. A lot of girls
[01:45:18] kind of a bad side they do is they will
[01:45:20] fleece guys who think we're under the
[01:45:22] old system.
[01:45:23] They fight a guy who thinks they're
[01:45:24] we're under the old system. He's
[01:45:25] courting her and doing all this stuff,
[01:45:28] but then she'll still cheat on him with
[01:45:29] a guy who's more fun. Who's a guy she
[01:45:30] cheats on him with? Here's things that
[01:45:31] you'd focus on. Not that you want to
[01:45:32] have a girl cheat on someone with you,
[01:45:33] but it'll happen when you have charm.
[01:45:35] They just do it and they don't tell you.
[01:45:37] Better point is to meet someone fresh.
[01:45:39] Focus more on, say these words after me.
[01:45:41] Abundance.
[01:45:42] Abundance.
[01:45:42] Say them loud, too. Abundance.
[01:45:44] Abundance.
[01:45:44] Non-ess.
[01:45:47] Energy generator.
[01:45:48] Energy generator.
[01:45:49] Rhythm.
[01:45:50] Rhythm.
[01:45:51] Flow.
[01:45:51] Flow.
[01:45:52] Vibes.
[01:45:52] Abundance.
[01:45:53] Being in state.
[01:45:54] Being in state.
[01:45:55] Raising emotion.
[01:45:56] Raising emotion.
[01:45:57] Humor.
[01:45:57] Humor.
[01:45:58] Present to the moment.
[01:45:59] Present to the moment.
[01:46:00] Emanating good energy. Ein good energy.
[01:46:02] Storytelling.
[01:46:02] Storytelling.
[01:46:03] Social intelligence.
[01:46:04] Social intelligence.
[01:46:05] Emotional awareness.
[01:46:06] Emotal awareness.
[01:46:06] Things happening naturally.
[01:46:08] Things happening naturally.
[01:46:09] No expectation.
[01:46:10] No expectation.
[01:46:11] Doing what feels good.
[01:46:13] Focusing on your own joy.
[01:46:14] Focusing on your own.
[01:46:15] 10 out of 10. Self-acceptance.
[01:46:17] 10 out of 10. Self-acceptance.
[01:46:18] Being comfortable in your own skin.
[01:46:20] Being comfortable in your own.
[01:46:21] Cultivating a positive inner ecosystem.
[01:46:22] Cultivating a positive inner ecosystem.
[01:46:24] Inner balance and joy.
[01:46:26] Inner balance and joy.
[01:46:28] Being popular. Being popular
[01:46:29] in real life.
[01:46:30] in real life.
[01:46:31] Being popular.
[01:46:32] Being popular
[01:46:32] on social media.
[01:46:33] on social media.
[01:46:34] Having status within a group.
[01:46:35] Having status.
[01:46:36] Having fun things to do.
[01:46:37] Having fun things to do.
[01:46:39] Having a cool style.
[01:46:40] Having a cool style.
[01:46:41] Jokes and expressions. Imitations.
[01:46:43] Jokes and expressions. Imitations.
[01:46:45] Being too busy to be needy.
[01:46:47] Being too busy to be needy.
[01:46:48] And the ultimate LAR.
[01:46:50] And the ultimate LAR.
[01:46:51] Getting paid to exist.
[01:46:53] Getting paid to exist.
[01:46:55] Okay.
[01:46:57] And for bonus points, say the word
[01:46:58] manifestation.
[01:46:59] Manifestation.
[01:47:00] Yeah. So that's more
[01:47:03] um you know, a little bit that's a
[01:47:05] little bit more where you want to be.
[01:47:08] And if you feel like you need to if you
[01:47:10] feel like you need to accomplish
[01:47:11] something, okay, oh, I have to
[01:47:13] accomplish something to be able to do
[01:47:14] that. You're wrong. You don't need to
[01:47:18] accomplish anything to generate a good
[01:47:20] vibe.
[01:47:21] Yeah.
[01:47:21] You don't need to be a certain You don't
[01:47:22] need to look at a certain level. You
[01:47:24] don't need to be in a certain kind of
[01:47:25] shape. You don't need any kind of
[01:47:26] certain money. All those things that
[01:47:28] guys think they need. That's hypergamy
[01:47:29] for men that that men will give you
[01:47:31] credit for. You got get in shape. I'm
[01:47:32] like, "Damn, how'd you get in shape?
[01:47:33] Nice peex, bro. You got a You got a
[01:47:36] million dollars. Nice, bro. How'd you do
[01:47:38] it?" That all be impressed. But if you
[01:47:40] want to impress a girl, give her what
[01:47:43] she wants. Say, "Give her what she
[01:47:45] wants.
[01:47:45] Give her what she wants.
[01:47:47] Give her what she actually values."
[01:47:49] Give her what she actually values.
[01:47:51] Give her what she's proven to respond
[01:47:53] to. Give her what she's proven
[01:47:55] and give her what she needs.
[01:47:57] Give her what she needs.
[01:47:59] Okay, give her what she needs. Okay, old
[01:48:03] school charm, guys. It's a loss of art.
[01:48:05] A lot of the guys, women are very
[01:48:06] frustrated with the guys coaching these
[01:48:07] days. They're like, "It's a lost art.
[01:48:09] This is not They see what the guys are
[01:48:10] coaching." You show the dude, they're
[01:48:11] like, "This is not what I want. This is
[01:48:13] not what I want." Okay? Instead, they
[01:48:16] want to feel good. Right? They want to
[01:48:19] feel good. So, I'm going to do another
[01:48:23] big segment, but I hope that you guys
[01:48:26] are excited for another 50 years of
[01:48:28] cosplay playing and laring.
[01:48:30] Okay? And realize this is a lot easier
[01:48:33] than you think.
[01:48:34] The only reason you get salty about it,
[01:48:36] the only reason is cuz you're like, "But
[01:48:37] I did." Cuz you're too far down the
[01:48:38] path. You're like, "But I did all this.
[01:48:40] But I did all this. I did ALL THIS
[01:48:42] STUFF. [ __ ] I DID." RIGHT? BUT YOU'RE
[01:48:44] NOT. It's like it's like you thought
[01:48:46] that to get to New York City from San
[01:48:48] Francisco, you had to hike all the way
[01:48:51] there, but in reality, you had a car,
[01:48:56] but you're mad. You're halfway hiking
[01:49:00] with destroyed hiking shoes to the east
[01:49:03] coast. And I'm going, there's a plane.
[01:49:07] You could have got in the plane.
[01:49:10] You see that?
[01:49:11] Yeah.
[01:49:11] Let me make a point, too. Can I say
[01:49:12] something powerful lesson for you and a
[01:49:15] couple of you guys here as the energy is
[01:49:18] coming to a close of the seminar. It's a
[01:49:20] very male trait to be like one MORE
[01:49:22] QUESTION.
[01:49:24] THEN I HAVE ONE MORE QUESTION. I NEED TO
[01:49:26] UNDERSTAND FULLY.
[01:49:27] That's true. It's a very and I like I
[01:49:28] commend you for that. You want to learn.
[01:49:30] That's why you're asking. You want to
[01:49:30] learn, right? But if I'm if Do you see
[01:49:34] how there's another channel that I'm
[01:49:35] moving energy here?
[01:49:36] Yeah.
[01:49:37] That's what annoys women is when you
[01:49:38] don't get the vibe. It's annoying to
[01:49:40] them. Okay. So, it's about getting like
[01:49:43] even with what you did here, right?
[01:49:44] Where you're like like we're trying to
[01:49:46] get the thing and you keep taking notes,
[01:49:47] right? I'm not trying to give you a hard
[01:49:48] time. It's like enjoy the vibe. A woman
[01:49:50] wouldn't be like I need to take notes,
[01:49:52] right? She'd enjoy the vibe. Okay. So, I
[01:49:56] understand that you've done a lot of
[01:49:56] this stuff to build up thinking it's
[01:49:58] getting you somewhere. It did get you
[01:50:01] somewhere cuz who did you do all these
[01:50:02] great things for yourself? For
[01:50:04] yourself.
[01:50:04] For you. Do you have value?
[01:50:07] You have value too, right?
[01:50:09] So, guys, I don't have to make money
[01:50:10] anymore.
[01:50:11] Make money for who?
[01:50:12] You.
[01:50:12] Cuz you're worth it. Why? Why are you so
[01:50:15] Women get mad about this with men, too.
[01:50:17] It's like, why do they have to go make
[01:50:18] money for me? Make money for you and for
[01:50:20] your joy and enjoy your life and bring
[01:50:23] me some good emotions.
[01:50:24] Do something that makes you happy and
[01:50:26] bring me a vibe. You see that? Bring me
[01:50:30] a vibe. Okay? So, you're worth it. You
[01:50:34] want to get in shape, get in shape for
[01:50:35] you and bring her a vibe. Don't do it
[01:50:39] from compensation. Don't do it from
[01:50:40] lack. Do it from wholeness. Do it from
[01:50:44] abundance. You have value and you're
[01:50:47] worth it. Then from there, meeting girls
[01:50:49] again. See that? See that? Watch that.
[01:50:52] Is it? But will it truly add like as we
[01:50:55] land the plane of this beautiful
[01:50:56] experience together? Will it will it
[01:50:58] bring us emotionally closer to where I'm
[01:50:59] taking us? Go for it. Go for it.
[01:51:00] It reminds me of how women love the
[01:51:02] movie Titanic.
[01:51:04] Great. Okay. Nice. Yeah. Right. Exactly.
[01:51:08] So, what I'm getting at here, guys, is
[01:51:10] see I I thought that was kind of a cool
[01:51:12] point where guys don't get it, right?
[01:51:13] It's about the energy and the vibe and
[01:51:14] and the women feel it and they live in
[01:51:16] it. Why? Because what's the point of
[01:51:19] life if it just [ __ ] all the time,
[01:51:22] right? So, women So, men build the
[01:51:25] structure, but women show us how to live
[01:51:27] in it and enjoy it.
[01:51:29] That's why many of the great what many
[01:51:30] of the greatest lessons I ever had were
[01:51:32] for my exes. Greatest lessons I had. my
[01:51:35] girlfriend leaving me for a guy with I I
[01:51:39] mean at this point probably less than 1%
[01:51:40] the amount of money I have but showing
[01:51:42] me it didn't matter because he will sing
[01:51:45] a song.
[01:51:46] I could be mad about that or I could
[01:51:48] take that as education.
[01:51:50] Okay. And that's my point is that that's
[01:51:53] what's valuable. Okay guys,
[01:51:56] so bring them
[01:51:57] the vibe.
[01:52:01] Thank you guys very much. I appreciate
[01:52:02] it. [applause]
[01:52:04] [cheering]
[01:52:09] [applause]